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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How often do you talk to your friends in your friends list? How long do you leave it before unfriending if you don't speak? Do you make an effort to remain friends? |
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"Not very often.
Just to arrange things if I see their status about going to a club or such. "
Yep, I message about that. Sometimes they're engrossed in their meets, don't respond quickly. That's cool x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hope that at some point, and as life improves, I’ll meet all on my friends list, whether it’s simply for a coffee, or to bump fun parts. I don’t mind if I don’t hear from them for a while. I imagine that I’m lower on the priority lists of people when compared to the tribulations of everyday life. |
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To be fair, if they’ve become friends that are that close that we chat to them regularly, they’ll have our numbers and be in a WhatsApp group and we’ll chat whenever we can or need to.
We’re lucky to have made some really good friends from Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you talk to your friends in your friends list? How long do you leave it before unfriending if you don't speak? Do you make an effort to remain friends?"
Some more often than others. Doesn't bother me if we haven't exchanged a message for a long time. If they've made it to my friends list - it's for a good reason. Doesn't matter how often we talk - I'm not booting them out. |
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If we've met them they stay indefinitely unless they leave the site or delete us.
Someone we've chatted with and mutually would like to meet but it actually fizzles out get cleared out periodically.
Random adds don't get accepted in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Usually when there is a thread like this i have a clear out... Its usually me reaching out .. I find there is often more chatting before you become friends than there is after 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some I try to chat when I can others not so much.
They tend to get rid of me first. Lol
We talk alot  "
Aye we do... 
But others on my list not as often as I should do but then again friendship is a two way thing don't you think? maybe they could message me once in a while..    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Usually when there is a thread like this i have a clear out... Its usually me reaching out .. I find there is often more chatting before you become friends than there is after
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I'm finding this at the moment, me making the effort. Less chat when added as friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've friends we chat to maybe once a month, some daily, some weekly and some we haven't for months, but they made it there for whatever reason, I rarely delete unless something has totally put me off.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tbh - some of my friends don't even read the messages I send.
I presume they get mixed up with the other hundreds of messages they get each say.  "
Chunky you're better than that |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Tbh - some of my friends don't even read the messages I send.
I presume they get mixed up with the other hundreds of messages they get each say.
Chunky you're better than that "
I know. I think my messages should be highlighted in gold instead of yellow.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you talk to your friends in your friends list? How long do you leave it before unfriending if you don't speak? Do you make an effort to remain friends?"
It depends. For me personally, I don't always know what to talk about, but that doesn't mean I'm dis-interested. Most of the time I'm in the mood to have a chit chat about whatever.
Well that is all dependant on the way 'they' or 'I' feel about the relationship connection. If there isn't chemistry going on, it tends to mean there's no interest on one part or both parts.
I will always make an effort to remain friends where there has been previous friendly interactions, but it will go the way it will go. If it doesn't go well, it's best to accept it and not force anything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tbh - some of my friends don't even read the messages I send.
I presume they get mixed up with the other hundreds of messages they get each say.
Chunky you're better than that
I know. I think my messages should be highlighted in gold instead of yellow. "
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have one couple on the list that I met on holiday last year. Chat from time to time. Otherwise it’s generally people I’m trying to meet, if it doesn’t happen after a week or so then I delete. |
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Some every day, some every few weeks and some I haven't chatted to in months. Just like irl I like friendships to be two way and I don't pester them if it's obvious they either aren't interested or are busy with others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've chatted to all of them I have round 30 friends but there are only 5 that a I chat to regularish
2 on a very regular basis and the other three every now and then
I tend to delete if the profile hasn't been used in over 3 months or so |
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