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While looking on here today we can see socials being organised in other parts of the country but yet to see a Kent Social. We may have just missed it but are there any semi-regular socials in Kent?
We know there are clubs but we are more asking in reference to socials outside of a club setting.
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"Owww eyes on this..
We organised one years back and about 25 locals turned up at the pub in Chatham...
Turn into a crazy house party at the end was a really funny night..."
Oh that does sound fun lol
Why was another one not organised?
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"Owww eyes on this..
We organised one years back and about 25 locals turned up at the pub in Chatham...
Turn into a crazy house party at the end was a really funny night...
Oh that does sound fun lol
Why was another one not organised?
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Sound mental wish I was there let me know when the next one is please buddy  |
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"While looking on here today we can see socials being organised in other parts of the country but yet to see a Kent Social. We may have just missed it but are there any semi-regular socials in Kent?
We know there are clubs but we are more asking in reference to socials outside of a club setting.
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Would love a kent social. |
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"While looking on here today we can see socials being organised in other parts of the country but yet to see a Kent Social. We may have just missed it but are there any semi-regular socials in Kent?
We know there are clubs but we are more asking in reference to socials outside of a club setting.
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We have the same problem here in Essex. I don't think we even have a club now  |
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"We would come to that.
Rumour has it you would be leading roles in setting one up…. ??
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We would certainly help out..!
Being Surrey swingers we might be frowned upon.. 
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"Owww eyes on this..
We organised one years back and about 25 locals turned up at the pub in Chatham...
Turn into a crazy house party at the end was a really funny night...
Oh that does sound fun lol
Why was another one not organised?
xx
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Really was a brilliant night...
I guess it kind of was but we all became friends and went out alot after... the army lads have been posted some where els now though |
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"I did try putting the feelers out end of last year regarding one there were lots of single men interested and 2 couples but no single women x"
It’s been talked about a few times in the past but never got off the ground for some reason. |
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"I did try putting the feelers out end of last year regarding one there were lots of single men interested and 2 couples but no single women x
It’s been talked about a few times in the past but never got off the ground for some reason. "
Would b good to get one together x |
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Might be hard to get a hall booked for a load of swingers but if everyone knows a quiet pub where you can book a section off might be better??? And near a premier inn or travelodge where the fun can continue?? |
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We'd be up for this too. There used to be one a Eureka I think, but we never went. We've been to a couple of fetish munches in pubs so it's definitely possible to book an area.
Kent's a big patch of land though, so it's going to be tough to pick a venue that all interested people could attend. |
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"We'd be up for this too. There used to be one a Eureka I think, but we never went. We've been to a couple of fetish munches in pubs so it's definitely possible to book an area.
Kent's a big patch of land though, so it's going to be tough to pick a venue that all interested people could attend. "
Maybe look at a map of Kent and do it in the middle so it’s far on everyone??? |
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"We would be interested, from a venue point of view clubs are more likely to assist.
We dont go to them often but we doubt pubs would been keen as private rooms arnt that private."
I know what you’re saying but the Heathrow and Croydon socials are held in pubs but with a club someone is going to have to lay out the money to book and to hire a club for the night is not going to be cheap and definitely not knowing who will actually turn up?
My thinking was to get an idea on numbers maybe try and limit it for the first couple of times and book a few tables or section of a pub and tell them we are just a social club and do it where there are hotels near if people want to play after??? |
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My thinking was to get an idea on numbers maybe try and limit it for the first couple of times and book a few tables or section of a pub and tell them we are just a social club and do it where there are hotels near if people want to play after???"
Exactly how it's done. |
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I've done loads in the past and currently run a regular one.
All of you that want to go to one, start one! Find a pub with a private area, decide on how many you want for the space, set up a profile and away you go.
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"We would be interested, from a venue point of view clubs are more likely to assist.
We dont go to them often but we doubt pubs would been keen as private rooms arnt that private.
I know what you’re saying but the Heathrow and Croydon socials are held in pubs but with a club someone is going to have to lay out the money to book and to hire a club for the night is not going to be cheap and definitely not knowing who will actually turn up?
My thinking was to get an idea on numbers maybe try and limit it for the first couple of times and book a few tables or section of a pub and tell them we are just a social club and do it where there are hotels near if people want to play after???"
Don't bother with trying to gauge interest first, just advertise it. They will come.
Most of the single men who say they will come, won't or will want to meet outside the pub as they are scared to go in though.
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"I've done loads in the past and currently run a regular one.
All of you that want to go to one, start one! Find a pub with a private area, decide on how many you want for the space, set up a profile and away you go.
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Thanks for your advice
We didn’t start this thread but happy to try and sort something out?
Next thing is where? We are from Gravesend but thinking do it in the middle of Kent? |
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We will look into if we can get a section in a pub and let everyone know but I think we are going to have to limit numbers as I don’t think we will get a massive area in a pub. |
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There’s also the possibility of a small hotel with a social area not sure how feasible it would be but would mean people would have the option of staying over if they wanted a drink didn’t want to drive ....
Could also go alfresco bbq in a country park or a beach day few nudist beaches in Kent |
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"The Potting Shed in Maidstone has a huge garden marquee seating area for when inside gets really busy. That may be worth considering as there’s generally plenty of space "
Thanks definitely worth a look. |
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I am looking a few pubs that we could book a few tables in but I think we will have to limit numbers??? Or just say a pub and anyone go but no one will know who each other are? |
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"I am looking a few pubs that we could book a few tables in but I think we will have to limit numbers??? Or just say a pub and anyone go but no one will know who each other are? "
Could all say wear a certain flower or something less conspicuous can't think what? X |
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"I am looking a few pubs that we could book a few tables in but I think we will have to limit numbers??? Or just say a pub and anyone go but no one will know who each other are?
Could all say wear a certain flower or something less conspicuous can't think what? X"
Lol or just ask random people if they know where the swingers are meeting?
I’m going to look at a couple of places hopefully over the weekend. |
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"I am looking a few pubs that we could book a few tables in but I think we will have to limit numbers??? Or just say a pub and anyone go but no one will know who each other are?
Could all say wear a certain flower or something less conspicuous can't think what? X"
You usually just have a munch mascot on your table. Something like a teddy should do it.
Happy to wear a t-shirt saying "I'm a swinger and I want to see your penis" though. |
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"I am looking a few pubs that we could book a few tables in but I think we will have to limit numbers??? Or just say a pub and anyone go but no one will know who each other are?
Could all say wear a certain flower or something less conspicuous can't think what? X
You usually just have a munch mascot on your table. Something like a teddy should do it.
Happy to wear a t-shirt saying "I'm a swinger and I want to see your penis" though. "
Lol that should do it |
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Thought we’d jump back and see how this thread was going lol.
So an idea (and it could be an awful idea was a cricket club bar. Lots of them are a nice size with plenty of green space outside should anyone want to chat Al fresco but also they are normally glad of business this time of year and don’t have other customers? Just an idea xx |
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There are quite a few places in Kent to hold one.
As said earlier, The Potting Shed is a great shout. It's far enough outside of Maidstone that you don't get the young rowdy crowds.
Or the George Vaults in Rochester has a good covered garden that can easily be blocked off. Does get busy though. |
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"Thought we’d jump back and see how this thread was going lol.
So an idea (and it could be an awful idea was a cricket club bar. Lots of them are a nice size with plenty of green space outside should anyone want to chat Al fresco but also they are normally glad of business this time of year and don’t have other customers? Just an idea xx"
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A lady tried setting one up a couple of years ago, but she was so worried about anyone local finding out she was a swinger it never really took off.
I would def be interested.
I would suggest limit it to maybe 30, first come first served basis, only message them the details a day or so before hand, if they do not respond then the next person gets the details if that makes sense. |
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"A lady tried setting one up a couple of years ago, but she was so worried about anyone local finding out she was a swinger it never really took off.
I would def be interested.
I would suggest limit it to maybe 30, first come first served basis, only message them the details a day or so before hand, if they do not respond then the next person gets the details if that makes sense. "
Yes this is what the mid Sussex one did that I want to couple weeks back messaged the venue a week b 4 x |
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"Might be hard to get a hall booked for a load of swingers but if everyone knows a quiet pub where you can book a section off might be better??? And near a premier inn or travelodge where the fun can continue?? "
Nice place near us, the woolpack in hothfield, next to a hotel. |
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I would be I interested along with the 1000 other singles guys lol Will keep an eye on this thread to see if anything pops up  Maybe an invite only list, you can ask to go and someone makes sure it is not biased |
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"So is there anything coming this or next month?"
I really thought it was getting some traction this time... but it just kind of fizzled out. We're still keeping an eye on this thread in case anything gets arranged. |
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Where the best place to go meet some of you lovely people Tunbridge wells I am and everywhere seem to be dead or block flats or closed down due to boy racers |
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As there doesn’t seem to be anyone forthcoming about arranging one, I’m going to start looking into arranging something. What’s the general consensus as to location? I’m West Kent! |
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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago
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"As there doesn’t seem to be anyone forthcoming about arranging one, I’m going to start looking into arranging something. What’s the general consensus as to location? I’m West Kent! "
I'm east, on the marsh, nothing here /no one is really here so I'm always happy to travel haha |
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"I'm sure there is one in Tunbridge Wells but I don't know who organises it "
Would really like to know more about the one in Tunbridge Wells if it's still happening. |
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"As there doesn’t seem to be anyone forthcoming about arranging one, I’m going to start looking into arranging something. What’s the general consensus as to location? I’m West Kent! "
If you need a hand with anything just ask, happy to help. |
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"As there doesn’t seem to be anyone forthcoming about arranging one, I’m going to start looking into arranging something. What’s the general consensus as to location? I’m West Kent!
If you need a hand with anything just ask, happy to help."
Thank you. I’ve made some enquiries and just waiting to hear back from a few venues. But if you have any ideas on locations, they would be welcome! |
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"Anyone here going to the Kent social in Ramsgate on the 4th May ?
Is this happening daytime or evening as we work daytimes "
Evening think it might actually be the 5th not the 4th |
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Checkout user - Thanet Social
They are arranging a group social meet in Ramsgate they already help one this is the second event so venue and everything is already sorted |
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"As there doesn’t seem to be anyone forthcoming about arranging one, I’m going to start looking into arranging something. What’s the general consensus as to location? I’m West Kent!
If you need a hand with anything just ask, happy to help.
Thank you. I’ve made some enquiries and just waiting to hear back from a few venues. But if you have any ideas on locations, they would be welcome! "
Hi, which area are you looking at venues? We are in Ashford, so anywhere close to us would be great. |
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"Anyone here going to the Kent social in Ramsgate on the 4th May ?
Is this happening daytime or evening as we work daytimes
Evening think it might actually be the 5th not the 4th "
Ok but is it a daytime meet up or evening meet up? |
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"As there doesn’t seem to be anyone forthcoming about arranging one, I’m going to start looking into arranging something. What’s the general consensus as to location? I’m West Kent!
If you need a hand with anything just ask, happy to help.
Thank you. I’ve made some enquiries and just waiting to hear back from a few venues. But if you have any ideas on locations, they would be welcome! "
I think anywhere with good public transport access, local hotels. Some jightlife in case people want to carry on afterwards. My first thought would be say Maidstone |
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Deffo interested in a kent one.. I go to the West London one (nr heathrow) and while its a good night out, its not so useful for making future connections, I dont always want to be travelling 1-2 hrs to meet someone, with hotel costs etc, if ya want to have a drink etc |
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Hi Guys
We’re The Pineapple Club, a group of friends who run socials and events.
We are going to hold a social in the Maidstone area in June/July. If you are interested please either add us to your hotlist or keep checking the forum for details.
Happy Fabbing
The Pineapple Club |
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"Hi Guys
We’re The Pineapple Club, a group of friends who run socials and events.
We are going to hold a social in the Maidstone area in June/July. If you are interested please either add us to your hotlist or keep checking the forum for details.
Happy Fabbing
The Pineapple Club"
Cool will keep an eye out x |
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"Hi Guys
We’re The Pineapple Club, a group of friends who run socials and events.
We are going to hold a social in the Maidstone area in June/July. If you are interested please either add us to your hotlist or keep checking the forum for details.
Happy Fabbing
The Pineapple Club"
Oooo ...noted  |
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