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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how many of you also have a thing for black women. I personally find them so sexy and would love the chance to bring my fantasies to life, but hey who doesn't. Would be interested to hear others thoughts, and also more than happy to hear from black women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how many of you also have a thing for black women. I personally find them so sexy and would love the chance to bring my fantasies to life, but hey who doesn't. Would be interested to hear others thoughts, and also more than happy to hear from black women "
Talk to them no diffrent to any other women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"once had a thai g/f-did amazing things with her vagina-tought to her by her mother when she was young
WTF !! ?
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it wasn't firing ping pong balls out of the auntie annie was it? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say, and please don't get defensive, but I'll think you'll find that any of them reading this thread would find it rather offensive. They aren't some sort of kink that should be in your interests list between anal and cuckolding.
I met a lovely girl off here some years back, but I didn't meet her because of the colour of her skin, I met her because she was a nice girl I got on with and nothing more. One of my better meets I might add, but that was only because she was into a lot of things that I was into.
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It's not the mention of race that bothers me but the fact that some of the posters can't call a woman a woman.
As far as I am aware the forum rules do not allow discussions about underage sex.
So for fecks sake call us women not
girls be we black, white, yellow, blue or green!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not the mention of race that bothers me but the fact that some of the posters can't call a woman a woman.
As far as I am aware the forum rules do not allow discussions about underage sex.
So for fecks sake call us women not
girls be we black, white, yellow, blue or green!
Thank you. "
As far as I'm aware.... There's nothing about the word 'girl' that suggests anything underage specifically  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"It's not the mention of race that bothers me but the fact that some of the posters can't call a woman a woman.
As far as I am aware the forum rules do not allow discussions about underage sex.
So for fecks sake call us women not
girls be we black, white, yellow, blue or green!
Thank you.
As far as I'm aware.... There's nothing about the word 'girl' that suggests anything underage specifically "
It depends on your perspective, and the dictionary. I'll call men boys from now on. |
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Try Googling 'girl definition'.
Other than the references to children the other meanings are not exactly complimentary.
So since you don't think it means underage may I please restate that I do not like the use of girl in this type of thread.
It often gets used as an attempt to modify the word it is associated with, in this case black. My reading of various posts is that posters feel a little taboo stating their preference for/interest in women based solely on race.
Considering the site we are on and the fact that there are debates about women who prefer BBC (big black cock) men who prefer BBW (big beautiful women) people who state a race preference on their profile (black only, no Asians) then surely we can have a debate about people who would like to play with black women without having to soften the comment by referring to women as girls. |
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"Just wondering how many of you also have a thing for black women. I personally find them so sexy and would love the chance to bring my fantasies to life, but hey who doesn't. Would be interested to hear others thoughts, and also more than happy to hear from black women "
I know where you're coming from.
I've been with a couple of black women and they were both stunning, sexy, fun, exciting, adventurous... as are many women of other colours
I would absolutely love to go with another black woman.
These particular women were different from any white women I've met, not just because of their skin colour but their culture, the way they kiss (OMG - gorgeous), the way they spoke (accent - not British), their overall beauty, how they looked after themselves - I could go on...
It's not just skin colour - well it's not for me. There are many attributes in anyone to consider.
We all have likes and dislikes. This does not make us all prejudiced... it simply means we have likes and dislikes.
Anyone who gets on their high horse about race is missing missing the point.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not the mention of race that bothers me but the fact that some of the posters can't call a woman a woman.
As far as I am aware the forum rules do not allow discussions about underage sex.
So for fecks sake call us women not
girls be we black, white, yellow, blue or green!
Thank you.
As far as I'm aware.... There's nothing about the word 'girl' that suggests anything underage specifically
It depends on your perspective, and the dictionary. I'll call men boys from now on."
Go and look in a dictionary then, it will give you both answers. Sure there are plenty of women that aren't girls, you aren't one for example, nor was the poster who questioned me. However I see some younger women as girls, particularly from 18 to early twenties.
Think what you like but I won't be called up about speaking about underage people when it just isn't the case. Would you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And again, I make not comment or judgement on people with these preferences, we all have our own tastes. I just dislike the term girl being used on a sex site."
So, you've never had a 'girls night out' then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you the last two posters. My comment was based on that I know for a fact that some black women dislike being some sort of trophy meet, and I certainly wasn't trying to 'soften' anything. Its a legitimate word, nothing more. |
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"And again, I make not comment or judgement on people with these preferences, we all have our own tastes. I just dislike the term girl being used on a sex site.
So, you've never had a 'girls night out' then?"
Not on or from a sex site!
You are discussing sexual acts and possible sexual partners. So unless you wish to include the underage or you wish to be dismissive or derogatory or superior to those partners then call then what they are - women! Even the ones who are between 18 and 21! |
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"Thank you the last two posters. My comment was based on that I know for a fact that some black women dislike being some sort of trophy meet, and I certainly wasn't trying to 'soften' anything. Its a legitimate word, nothing more."
And as I keep saying I have no issue with any preference. But if you are discussing sexual preferences and the word girl keeps cropping up, no matter what your intention was, can you not see that it can be construed as inappropriate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And again, I make not comment or judgement on people with these preferences, we all have our own tastes. I just dislike the term girl being used on a sex site.
So, you've never had a 'girls night out' then?
Not on or from a sex site!
You are discussing sexual acts and possible sexual partners. So unless you wish to include the underage or you wish to be dismissive or derogatory or superior to those partners then call then what they are - women! Even the ones who are between 18 and 21!"
I met someone this week. She text me after saying "you're a nice guy" and I replied saying "you're a nice girl" (not just that obviously). She wasn't offended in the slightest. It is your OPINION, fine have it, dont attack me for mine, I was making a point, it wasn't about racism either for those of you who dubbed it that also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And again, I make not comment or judgement on people with these preferences, we all have our own tastes. I just dislike the term girl being used on a sex site.
So, you've never had a 'girls night out' then?
Not on or from a sex site!
You are discussing sexual acts and possible sexual partners. So unless you wish to include the underage or you wish to be dismissive or derogatory or superior to those partners then call then what they are - women! Even the ones who are between 18 and 21!"
So, according to you, if the word 'girl' is used in such a way as to intimate a possible relationship or sexual encounter it means the perpetrator of the word is hinting at a possible unlawful act??
Pish!! My gran used to ask me if i had 'got myself a nice girl yet' right up until she died 5 years ago! Was she a possible groomer then?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you the last two posters. My comment was based on that I know for a fact that some black women dislike being some sort of trophy meet, and I certainly wasn't trying to 'soften' anything. Its a legitimate word, nothing more.
And as I keep saying I have no issue with any preference. But if you are discussing sexual preferences and the word girl keeps cropping up, no matter what your intention was, can you not see that it can be construed as inappropriate?"
Sorry you feel that way, but no not in the slightest. Its not an inappropriate word, otherwise maybe it should be banned from the site from being used? |
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And we are back to the whole 'i didn't mean to be offensive and the individual words are not offensive so how dare you be offended' argument.
30 years ago the words used in a ddebate like this would have been very different and would have been considered by many as ok and people like me who complained would have. been shot down for it.
As one of the few females to post on this thread I am finding the attitude that is being shown towards a genuine attempt at expressing my opinion is in itself offensive!
I know that no offence is.meant, but that does not mean that the term is therefore totally acceptable. |
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"And we are back to the whole 'i didn't mean to be offensive and the individual words are not offensive so how dare you be offended' argument.
30 years ago the words used in a ddebate like this would have been very different and would have been considered by many as ok and people like me who complained would have. been shot down for it.
As one of the few females to post on this thread I am finding the attitude that is being shown towards a genuine attempt at expressing my opinion is in itself offensive!
I know that no offence is.meant, but that does not mean that the term is therefore totally acceptable. "
You may not know this but...
If anyone intends to offend on these forums they are blocked by admin.
Matters of opinion which are also intended to offend are therefore deliberately veiled.
Don't be surprised if they are worded to your disliking.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And we are back to the whole 'i didn't mean to be offensive and the individual words are not offensive so how dare you be offended' argument.
30 years ago the words used in a ddebate like this would have been very different and would have been considered by many as ok and people like me who complained would have. been shot down for it.
As one of the few females to post on this thread I am finding the attitude that is being shown towards a genuine attempt at expressing my opinion is in itself offensive!
I know that no offence is.meant, but that does not mean that the term is therefore totally acceptable. "
Sorry, I'm not having that. I've already said you are entitled to your opinion, but in your very first reply you tried to suggest I was talking about underage sex. So I am defending myself. Now you are turning it into 'poor me for having an opinion'. You have essentially ruined a valid point I made that was nothing to do with any of this, and will be lost in the wash. |
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As I had no intention of hijacking this thread I have started another.
Personally I was not attempting to upset anyone, just to draw it to their attention that it is not such a gentle word as originally thought.
But feel free to switch threads to state any strongly held convictions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And we are back to the whole 'i didn't mean to be offensive and the individual words are not offensive so how dare you be offended' argument.
30 years ago the words used in a ddebate like this would have been very different and would have been considered by many as ok and people like me who complained would have. been shot down for it.
As one of the few females to post on this thread I am finding the attitude that is being shown towards a genuine attempt at expressing my opinion is in itself offensive!
I know that no offence is.meant, but that does not mean that the term is therefore totally acceptable. "
So, its NOT offensive for you to express your opinion, but, it IS offensive if that opinion isn't agreed with? |
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So many women refer to themselves and others as girls that it is a bit far fetched to imagine that anyone using the term is specifically referring to children regardless of it being in the context of a sex site. I doubt Calvin Harris was confessing to being a peadophile when he revealed how he 'gets all the girls.' And the girl with the dragon tattoo was definitely above the age of consent. As were all of the golden girls. If we need to live by dictionary definitions then next time somebody has to get someone to look after the kids before they are able to meet, then they must keep young goats. For me, the criticism of the term defies common sense. |
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I don't need you to agree with me. But none of you appear to think that I may have a valid point worth considering.
Consideration doesn't mean you'll agree with me in the end.
But it does mean that you won't dismiss me as you have done all the way through this.
As you would a naughty child who keeps interrupting the grown up conversation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't need you to agree with me. But none of you appear to think that I may have a valid point worth considering.
Consideration doesn't mean you'll agree with me in the end.
But it does mean that you won't dismiss me as you have done all the way through this.
As you would a naughty child who keeps interrupting the grown up conversation..."
But i DO have consideration for what you said!
I considered it and don't agree with it! |
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I do not believe it is a valid point worth considering. I think it is quite nonsensical. If there is a clamour of agreement I will happily reconsider and chide myself for being so out of touch with current acceptable terms. |
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I personally don't respond to being called girl as I'm a 52 year old woman, not because I think the person using it has paedophilic tendercies.
There are many people that have a colour preference. You'll find for example, black men that actively promote their colour (BMFC), you'll also find black men that cringe at the thought.
I have white men only, which is academic really as I've never encountered a black man willing to let me play with him in my special way.
Op: as with all things, some black women may step forward to meet you, others will see your search as a kink and want no part of that: there's someone for everyone here.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow really didn't realise this would spark this kind of debate. Firstly the use of the word girl was in no way mean any underage connotations in any way. Also I think that people finding this offensive because it refers to a certain race of people is ridiculous. Shall we remove all options from the search then, why are we singling out bi people, straight people, men, women, tv's. Otherwise all posts would read anyone really into people? So as to not offend anyone. Ridiculous some of these comments
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say, and please don't get defensive, but I'll think you'll find that any of them reading this thread would find it rather offensive. They aren't some sort of kink that should be in your interests list between anal and cuckolding.
I met a lovely girl off here some years back, but I didn't meet her because of the colour of her skin, I met her because she was a nice girl I got on with and nothing more. One of my better meets I might add, but that was only because she was into a lot of things that I was into.
Show a little respect, as with any other woman, and you might find you'll get somewhere "
Totally agree the same goes for people with stereotypical views on "big black cock" |
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"I have to say, and please don't get defensive, but I'll think you'll find that any of them reading this thread would find it rather offensive. They aren't some sort of kink that should be in your interests list between anal and cuckolding.
I met a lovely girl off here some years back, but I didn't meet her because of the colour of her skin, I met her because she was a nice girl I got on with and nothing more. One of my better meets I might add, but that was only because she was into a lot of things that I was into.
Show a little respect, as with any other woman, and you might find you'll get somewhere
Totally agree the same goes for people with stereotypical views on "big black cock" "
Be fair, there are black guys that actively perpetuate the stereotype. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love mix raced girls, indeed my wife was half Jamaican. tbh though I tend to find women attractive regardless of colour, it's more about confidence and that spark |
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By *illdeeCouple
over a year ago
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Phew!!!! Lotsa women describe themselves as "girly" etc. I woulda thought it was a descriptive term to describe mebbe a super feminine attitude on the part of a woman and MUCH less to do with the physical age of a female.
Plus, if we're being really pedantic about Google's definition of words what does it say about the word guys? I'd always understood that to be a genderless term.  |
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"Wow really didn't realise this would spark this kind of debate. Firstly the use of the word girl was in no way mean any underage connotations in any way. Also I think that people finding this offensive because it refers to a certain race of people is ridiculous. Shall we remove all options from the search then, why are we singling out bi people, straight people, men, women, tv's. Otherwise all posts would read anyone really into people? So as to not offend anyone. Ridiculous some of these comments
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By (user no longer on site)
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ive been lucky been with white black an asian as a preference i do like asian but its only skin colour its the person thats important were all different i guess |
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I don't see how it's any different from people saying "Looking for BBC" or "Any white women for black cock?" ect, ect...
Open appreciation (so long as it's not seedy) is not the same as being derogatory, in my opinion. x |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx  "
Tee hee I see the sale of lollypops has shot up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx "
back o' the net mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been lucky enough to have fun with a lot of "ladies from an ethnic minority" simply because my wife finds them more attractive , not particularly because of there skin colour but because she thinks they are prettier , and trend to be curvier so I count myself very fortunate. And for the record we've always explained our liking for them and not a single 1 has ever been offended by being called black or a girl |
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx
back o' the net mate"
Cheers 
Pssst Top ip: Always keep a lollipop avatar handy in case this happens to you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx
back o' the net mate
Cheers
Pssst Top ip: Always keep a lollipop avatar handy in case this happens to you! "
I get it...Speak softly but carry a Swizzlestick  |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx
back o' the net mate
Cheers
Pssst Top ip: Always keep a lollipop avatar handy in case this happens to you! "
Tee hee |
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx
back o' the net mate
Cheers
Pssst Top ip: Always keep a lollipop avatar handy in case this happens to you! "
Where's our/my goatee? WTF are you doing to me/you? Will the abuses you put my/your body never end!!!
...cool line though. Glad I've/you've still got it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met a black women from here a few times for 1-2-1 meets and mmf meets. She always was horny and loved the sex Id happily meet her and other black women again |
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx
back o' the net mate
Cheers
Pssst Top ip: Always keep a lollipop avatar handy in case this happens to you!
Where's our/my goatee? WTF are you doing to me/you? Will the abuses you put my/your body never end!!!
...cool line though. Glad I've/you've still got it "
We lost the goatee in an unsavory cunnilingus based incident with an acid fanny on Trexil 7
But don't worry it's still alive, we keep it in a stasis box to show the girls. |
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx
back o' the net mate
Cheers
Pssst Top ip: Always keep a lollipop avatar handy in case this happens to you!
Where's our/my goatee? WTF are you doing to me/you? Will the abuses you put my/your body never end!!!
...cool line though. Glad I've/you've still got it
We lost the goatee in an unsavory cunnilingus based incident with an acid fanny on Trexil 7
But don't worry it's still alive, we keep it in a stasis box to show the girls."
I'm just glad you didn't redraw it with a glitter pen ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And again, I make not comment or judgement on people with these preferences, we all have our own tastes. I just dislike the term girl being used on a sex site.
So, you've never had a 'girls night out' then?
Not on or from a sex site!
You are discussing sexual acts and possible sexual partners. So unless you wish to include the underage or you wish to be dismissive or derogatory or superior to those partners then call then what they are - women! Even the ones who are between 18 and 21!
So, according to you, if the word 'girl' is used in such a way as to intimate a possible relationship or sexual encounter it means the perpetrator of the word is hinting at a possible unlawful act??
Pish!! My gran used to ask me if i had 'got myself a nice girl yet' right up until she died 5 years ago! Was she a possible groomer then? "
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"Well I'm Black and also colour blind
How do you know your black then? (just messin).
Tee hee you joker
Look look we are lollipop twins.
I'm not normally this forward but... I love you xxx
back o' the net mate
Cheers
Pssst Top ip: Always keep a lollipop avatar handy in case this happens to you!
Where's our/my goatee? WTF are you doing to me/you? Will the abuses you put my/your body never end!!!
...cool line though. Glad I've/you've still got it
We lost the goatee in an unsavory cunnilingus based incident with an acid fanny on Trexil 7
But don't worry it's still alive, we keep it in a stasis box to show the girls.
I'm just glad you didn't redraw it with a glitter pen ..."
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I have been very lucky in this respect.
I have always been open minded to enjoy different "flavors" of women (not lollipops again surely....LOL) but black is very wonderful indeed.
I have inhaled deeply and spent a lot of time in Africa with one of the loves of my life. That's over now but it was such a nourishing spell for us both that it is impossible to have any regrets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And again, I make not comment or judgement on people with these preferences, we all have our own tastes. I just dislike the term girl being used on a sex site."
bit odd. By that definition a girls nite out wud be a kids party? |
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