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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all!
So, simple question. Who likes kissing during a meet. I know some say its too intimate, but for me, kissing is an absolute must.
(Also, my first ever post  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolute must for us now.. even put it in our profile lol Kissing is part of the build up, its a massive turn on for us both. Definitely couldn't fuck someone without kissing now.. when we first started out it was one of our rules (no kissing) no idea why awful idea lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When we first joined fab some years ago we didn't kiss at meets, but just felt so wrong tbh, we have since changed this lol x"
Same as us lol felt mechanical almost |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely adore kissing and I wont/can't do sex without it.
I really struggle with those who say it's too intimate as isn't kissing something you did at school with people behind the bike shed? I respect peoples wishes but I just can see how it's more intimate than letting someone slide their dick in your foof. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolute must, otherwise it’s like starting a car in third gear lol
I don’t really under some that says it’s too intimate? When your gonna have sex - surely that’s more intimate? Each to their own I guess. Wouldn’t do us all to be the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I absolutely adore kissing and I wont/can't do sex without it.
I really struggle with those who say it's too intimate as isn't kissing something you did at school with people behind the bike shed? I respect peoples wishes but I just can see how it's more intimate than letting someone slide their dick in your foof."
100% agree! It’s a dealer breaker for us |
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"Hello all!
So, simple question. Who likes kissing during a meet. I know some say its too intimate, but for me, kissing is an absolute must.
(Also, my first ever post )"
With you 100%, mate. Kissing a very big deal for me...
(And welcome to the forum!) |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"Definitely a must at kissing. So much can be known from that first kiss
Absolutely, totally agree x "
I've been in a situation where kissing wasn't allowed. Obviously I understood the boundary but it just made it awkward a little |
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"I have to say, I'm one of the girls who doesn't like kissing. Kiss me anywhere other than the lips and I'm putty. It's not an intimacy thing, I just don't like it. "
I am pretty much the same and never been told I'm lacking in passion etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure how it works without?
The BDSM side probably doesn't go in for it but we aren't pain or dominance driven so of course sensuality is as important as sexuality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once had a meet with no kissing, wasn't great. Confusion cleared up, next meet with kissing was great! If it was even just a meet with kissing by itself I would be happy, wanting more can be a huge turn on. |
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"Absolute must here, I don’t get how kissing is any more intimate than having me lick your pussy or fuck you. "
its not about intimacy... it's about a sexual act being either something people like or don't.. I will avoid kissing on the mouth 99% of the time.... most people never seem to notice.
I guess if I did 121 meets it maybe harder to avoid but it's still down to personal preference not about being too intimate for me. It can actually make me feel really uncomfortable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all!
So, simple question. Who likes kissing during a meet. I know some say its too intimate, but for me, kissing is an absolute must.
(Also, my first ever post )"
No kissy, no meety!
I can never understand the "kissing is too intimate" thing, but full swap sex isn't???  |
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Kissing is an absolute must, it gets me so turned on!! Would not meet without kissing and feel like I’ve got the jackpot when someone says they’re into kissing! Also love a curly song at the end of a social as it’s a great way to get a feel for them (not literally!)  |
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Kissing is 100% a must!
We have had experiences with just watching Mrs Vindictive kissing and it was so good! Love the intimacy of it, makes it extra naughty.
I genuinely think sex is worse without it.
As we are pretty new to this we didnt realise how much we liked it! |
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"Hello all!
So, simple question. Who likes kissing during a meet. I know some say its too intimate, but for me, kissing is an absolute must.
(Also, my first ever post )"
We don’t meet unless couples do kiss, one of the first things we ask before arranging a meet lol |
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"Hello all!
So, simple question. Who likes kissing during a meet. I know some say its too intimate, but for me, kissing is an absolute must.
(Also, my first ever post )"
We LOVE kissing during meets, hopefully at least one on the social too. We couldn't imagine not kissing as we're quite passionate, tactile and affectionate . Sex would be too cold and mechanical without it... |
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"Absolute must here, I don’t get how kissing is any more intimate than having me lick your pussy or fuck you.
its not about intimacy... it's about a sexual act being either something people like or don't.. I will avoid kissing on the mouth 99% of the time.... most people never seem to notice.
I guess if I did 121 meets it maybe harder to avoid but it's still down to personal preference not about being too intimate for me. It can actually make me feel really uncomfortable "
I was referring to the people who say they don’t kiss on meets because it is too intimate. If it is something someone just doesn’t like I can understand and would respect that like any other like/dislike, I just don’t understand the logic of the intimacy argument. |
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Kidding is a great part of the sensuality of sex, it allows the bodies involved to unite other than with cocks and pussies. In a group it is even more so.
That said, I know some couples reserve kissing for their partner/spouse and of course respect that. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Welcome to forum OP 
I can’t imagine being intimate without kissing , It would feel wrong but I know some couples who don’t kiss others and can understand why, it’s so intimate isn’t it , great kissing is better than mediocre sex ! |
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"Absolute must here, I don’t get how kissing is any more intimate than having me lick your pussy or fuck you.
its not about intimacy... it's about a sexual act being either something people like or don't.. I will avoid kissing on the mouth 99% of the time.... most people never seem to notice.
I guess if I did 121 meets it maybe harder to avoid but it's still down to personal preference not about being too intimate for me. It can actually make me feel really uncomfortable
I was referring to the people who say they don’t kiss on meets because it is too intimate. If it is something someone just doesn’t like I can understand and would respect that like any other like/dislike, I just don’t understand the logic of the intimacy argument. "
yet If you read many of the arguments for kissing, many say it's the most intimate part of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if i dony fancy someone enough not to kiss then they most deffo dont get to fuck ...
so anyone say's no kissing then im not playing ...
whats more intimate kissing or fucking ?? id say fucking by a country mile .... |
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"Hello all!
So, simple question. Who likes kissing during a meet. I know some say its too intimate, but for me, kissing is an absolute must.
(Also, my first ever post )"
I would find it very hard not kissing - though my lips tend to be very busy all over the body, not just the face…. I always assume this means no kissing on the face/lips/mouth….? |
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"I think without kissing it would seem to robotic, there definitely has to be kissing
Agreed. Even better when you find the kiss to be a really good one too!"
Oh yes especially when they have a great set of lips and the kissing so good you can’t stop kissing them |
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"I think without kissing it would seem to robotic, there definitely has to be kissing
Agreed. Even better when you find the kiss to be a really good one too!
Oh yes especially when they have a great set of lips and the kissing so good you can’t stop kissing them "
And getting the suck/nibble ratio correct on the bottom lip to part with a lingering kiss …….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think without kissing it would seem to robotic, there definitely has to be kissing
Agree. A must
Deal breaker without
Lack passion otherwise
Absolutely "
Question is. Are you a good kisser? |
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"Hello all!
So, simple question. Who likes kissing during a meet. I know some say its too intimate, but for me, kissing is an absolute must.
(Also, my first ever post )"
I always tell her that when a cock slides in her she has to kiss them, makes it so fucking horny. |
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"I think without kissing it would seem to robotic, there definitely has to be kissing
Agreed. Even better when you find the kiss to be a really good one too!
Oh yes especially when they have a great set of lips and the kissing so good you can’t stop kissing them
And getting the suck/nibble ratio correct on the bottom lip to part with a lingering kiss ……. "
Oh yes |
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"I think without kissing it would seem to robotic, there definitely has to be kissing
Agree. A must
Deal breaker without
Lack passion otherwise
Absolutely
Question is. Are you a good kisser?"
You would have to ask the people I’ve kissed that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We keep male/female kissing for us, understand it’s not for everybody but that’s the way it is with us. Smoke will happily snog the face off women though lol. |
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would feel weird not too while exploring 