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Being collared

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How many women either single or part of couples have either worn collar on meet or like the thought of guys bringing collar for them

To wear on meet ?

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By *ady23Woman over a year ago

Coventry

"How many women either single or part of couples have either worn collar on meet or like the thought of guys bringing collar for them

To wear on meet ? "

Very interesting my partner own colours and I love to see how in a collar and on a lead on some occasions and actually depending on role-playing.

In a Mistress and sub relationship my successful sub would be expected to be wearing a collar and lead at all time he was serving me

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By *ehind closed curtainsCouple over a year ago

East Midlands

Nothing hotter than being told to go upstairs and put your collar on by the other half.

Also, worn one out along nipple clamps, hold ups and a very long coat.

The idea of someone bringing one to a meet for me to wear doesn't appeal at all.

As for wearing mine to a meet, not yet....xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So would you enjoy being told to Go upstairs and put on your collar then he comes to collect you bringing you downstairs to awaiting male?

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think if the scene boundaries are set, a collar being put round her neck is a stimulus for play.

Some dick turning up to a first meeting, wouldn’t be ethical or realistic.

Damn I hate BDSM porn.

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By *tirling DarkCouple over a year ago

Stirling

"Think if the scene boundaries are set, a collar being put round her neck is a stimulus for play.

Some dick turning up to a first meeting, wouldn’t be ethical or realistic.

Damn I hate BDSM porn."

This

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By *uicy and GymCouple over a year ago

Telford

Would only wear it for gym ... who would wear one for someone they don't know and trust ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’d only expect someone to wear if it was pre arranged or met previously

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I’d only expect someone to wear if it was pre arranged or met previously "

Sorry you have lost me a tad, not prearranged or met.

I had seven meets before I even coincided with a D/s relationship.

Drat I’m I old school.

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By *ensualMan over a year ago

Sutton

I think OP used unfortunate language. 'Being collared" has a specific meaning in the BDSM community, in distinction to "wearing a collar".

However there are some in the BDSM community that get excited by collars. Whereas collars have been a pop culture staple for ever. I have pictures of Diana Rigg as Ms Emma Peel on the Avengers (nothing to do with Marvel for those under 30) in a collar. To quote IMDB

”The 1966 episode "A Touch of Brimstone" was banned in the US because of Diana Rigg's Queen of Sin outfit (corset, spiked dog collar and thigh high boots), which Rigg designed herself. In addition original UK ITV transmissions heavily edited the final whipping scene between Mrs Peel and Cartney to one lash of the whip. All later video and DVD releases featured the full uncut print."

Collars may have a general meeting but not a carved in stone general meaning.

As a side snippet there are some who say Ms Emma Peel was a sly way of saying M S Appeal.

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I think OP used unfortunate language. 'Being collared" has a specific meaning in the BDSM community, in distinction to "wearing a collar".

Collars may have a general meeting but not a carved in stone general meaning.

As a side snippet there are some who say Ms Emma Peel was a sly way of saying M S Appeal.

And it could be just mutual fun?

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By *ensualMan over a year ago

Sutton

"I think OP used unfortunate language. 'Being collared" has a specific meaning in the BDSM community, in distinction to "wearing a collar".

Collars may have a general meeting but not a carved in stone general meaning.

As a side snippet there are some who say Ms Emma Peel was a sly way of saying M S Appeal.

And it could be just mutual fun?"

In my view one of the corner stones of kink is ,if it is not fun, why do it? That is course excluding those who feel "if it is bad for me it is doing me good". The no pain the no gain equivalents. Nor should I forget those who do it because it is part of them. But you get my drift

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

Love being collared!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple over a year ago

Darlington

"I’d only expect someone to wear if it was pre arranged or met previously

Sorry you have lost me a tad, not prearranged or met.

I had seven meets before I even coincided with a D/s relationship.

Drat I’m I old school."

Seven meets isn't unreasonable. If thats what it takes for the trust then thats fair enough.