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Do verifications mean anything?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean if I was to seek on here realistically I'd be wanting to find someone who's been verified numerous times and recent but... does that mean anything? You had verified people not turn up before or just be shit in the sack even though there veris say different? Does it mean anything at all? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It normally means someone can actually confirm you're sex and you're not a bot"
I know the meaning of it .. I'm saying does it assure people that the person turns up or has people had a bad experience regardless of verification |
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I prefer to see that people have verification as it shows they are active on fab and that they are genuine.
Puts me off if there last verification was 5 years ago snd I don’t see webcam’s a a verification either .
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
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I takegraphic veris with a pinch of salt... but at least real life ones can almost assume they are the humsn advertised.
Recent is a sticky wicket as we're all moving on from covid.... I dont mind a veri that's before the world went to shit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes, it means that you're verified  "
Yes I know that but I'm asking has anyone still had bad experiences with a verified person! Also yes a verification from few years ago would put me off to and webcam |
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I find them useful but don't over rely upon them. To me, apart from confirming that they have turned up at least sometimes, one can to w as n extent read between the lines about them expanding sometimes sparsely or even I'll written profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience I don't think they do as I've met guys where people have left good verifications but then when I've met them it's a different story one guy thought I liked it rough & even spat on my face I felt violated another actually sat on my chest just so he could have a tit wank I couldn't breathe I could go on I know it's a chance you take on here but just because I am on here does not mean I don't deserve some respect! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In my experience I don't think they do as I've met guys where people have left good verifications but then when I've met them it's a different story one guy thought I liked it rough & even spat on my face I felt violated another actually sat on my chest just so he could have a tit wank I couldn't breathe I could go on I know it's a chance you take on here but just because I am on here does not mean I don't deserve some respect! "
Agreed |
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I suppose they show that a profile is real. We used to think that it showed that a guy was reliable and actually genuine, but that's doubtful sometimes. I have noticed that some guys hide some verifications depending on who they are interested in. If they think that it will put that couple off hide it and don't show a summary. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"I mean if I was to seek on here realistically I'd be wanting to find someone who's been verified numerous times and recent but... does that mean anything? You had verified people not turn up before or just be shit in the sack even though there veris say different? Does it mean anything at all? "
Never read them and don't show mine. But I do look if there are (or aren't) any just to know if the person is capable of "showing up" |
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"I mean if I was to seek on here realistically I'd be wanting to find someone who's been verified numerous times and recent but... does that mean anything? You had verified people not turn up before or just be shit in the sack even though there veris say different? Does it mean anything at all? "
When you go to verify a profile, the tab you click states ‘Verify genuine’…….this is what it’s all about; people being who they purport to be in their profile, the pics matching that person, and they actually met face to face.
So to answer your question; yes, verifications mean a lot  |
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"To some they do and to others they don't.
They mean something to me but given I've not received one in forever, maybe that makes me a hypocrite   "
It doesn’t make you a hypocrite, it just means we haven’t met yet  |
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Does it mean anything? Depends on your point of view and previous experience.
We wont entertain anyone who isn't at least photo verified and even then we are wary. Having a few veris means we know you are probably legit. Even then, had a few messages from couples that where not anymore.
Juat use common sense I guess.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Utterly meaningless. There's a real person behind every profile, no bots.
Verifications don't prove that a person will turn up to meet. Shit happens, they may have to cancel last minute.
Verifications don't prove the person is a good shag. Everyone likes different things. One person's great shag will be another's crap shag.
If people need baby sitting they shouldn't be on an adult site. |
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I just use them like another filter. If they are happy to display graphic veries we aren't compatible.
If they have written graphic veries we aren't compatible.
If they have a pattern of only meeting or verifying "popular" fabbers we aren't compatible because that has fomo written all over it.
If they have a history of slagging people off in private but are happy to meet and display veries from those people's fb's I'll give them a wide berth and avoid the games.
It's rare that a verification would encourage me to meet anyone. I prefer to make that decision based on PM's and their forum interaction.
They are excellent though for warning me about who not to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why bother with other peoples verification of a man?
We should be willing to believe that they only care about your pleasure, that they’ve been here before, that they will lick your pussy for hours, will respect you and your boundaries and will definitely turn up.
After all what man ever lied on Fab?
It’s another filter for wannabe’s and wank fantasists. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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It depends whether FAB is your bible and holy grail to swinging. If you go to clubs you will probably bump into some really hot, friendly gorgeous people who rally cannot stand FAB. So in that context veris have no significance to swinging whatsoever. And we never ask who we are meeting in clubs "" by the way, are you on FAB?"". That's an instant kill the moment situation xxxxx  Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sure they do. They show you somebody I’d real and give a window into the kind of meet they might be.
I don’t always ask for or give verifications myself though so am aware the number of meets somebody may have had through the site may be understated but that’s not especially something which concerns me. |
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Veris are important for some. As a man, I have had positive comments about mine and they seem to reassure.
For me, I always look at veris because I like to see who they have met, what has been said about and, more importantly, BY them.
You get a feel for how that person thinks and what their expectations are.
Men's veris for others I take with a bit of  because I suspect motivations.
I have never had an issue with a meet not going ahead. So, make of that what you will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why bother with other peoples verification of a man?
We should be willing to believe that they only care about your pleasure, that they’ve been here before, that they will lick your pussy for hours, will respect you and your boundaries and will definitely turn up.
After all what man ever lied on Fab?
It’s another filter for wannabe’s and wank fantasists. "
I like the veris that men leave for others but use it to big up themselves, not the person they met.
"I licked her pussy for 36 hours while she admired my six pack and full head of hair in the back of my £250,000 gold Porsche. I then gave her 3,500 orgasms and pounded her for 4 days with only a break for champagne. She swallowed my full bucketload of cum and then took more in her gaping arsehole stretched by my 14 inch cock." |
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We like the meet verification feature. Photo and webcam veris mean nothing to us but the meet ones give you a glimmer of hope that they will at least turn up. However, we have invited gents before, with many alleged meet verifications who still turned out to be complete timewasters. One, we even invited twice, despite him letting us down the first time, due to his good verifications. And guess what, he didn’t bother turning up the second time either! No more chances.
We also like to invite an unverified “newbie” or two to our meets, telling them all they have to do is turn up. If they are nervous, they don’t even have to join in, and they will get verified, thus hopefully making their experience here a little easier. And guess what, none have ever turned up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m finding this thread interesting.
I’ve met people off here but because they aren’t verified they can’t vouch for me or me them.
The only way to prove myself would be to meet someone I may not actually like just because they’ve met someone/people already.
Catch 22 lol |
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I look at both sides of the verification.
Alarm bells sound when one is missing.
But it tells you a lot. If as a couple and they are all men or all webcams.
But if a mix or other couples or men I know we have a chance. Lol.
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"Why bother with other peoples verification of a man?
We should be willing to believe that they only care about your pleasure, that they’ve been here before, that they will lick your pussy for hours, will respect you and your boundaries and will definitely turn up.
After all what man ever lied on Fab?
It’s another filter for wannabe’s and wank fantasists.
I like the veris that men leave for others but use it to big up themselves, not the person they met.
"I licked her pussy for 36 hours while she admired my six pack and full head of hair in the back of my £250,000 gold Porsche. I then gave her 3,500 orgasms and pounded her for 4 days with only a break for champagne. She swallowed my full bucketload of cum and then took more in her gaping arsehole stretched by my 14 inch cock." "
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"I mean if I was to seek on here realistically I'd be wanting to find someone who's been verified numerous times and recent but... does that mean anything? You had verified people not turn up before or just be shit in the sack even though there veris say different? Does it mean anything at all? "
We have had verified people not turn at all with no notice. We have also had verified people who had verifications that were just a blatant lie. The one that comes to mind there was it being described ‘as a dick to die for’ when the only thing that would kill you is laughter at it.
However veris do show, more often than not, that guys do turn up. Not always, agreed. But it is a far better measure.
We also prefer to read real veris whereas some just appear to tick boxes and are fairly mundane.
We will not meet unverified people. |
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Look at there verifications and look at the people who verified them it will give you a better picture of if there genuine. I suppose anyone could do a no show without notice hence why we prefer clubs |
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