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Do women on here actually sleep with married men ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not this woman! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not this woman!"
It's abit sneaky isn't it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes i have many times"
Oooo naughty lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is plenty that do and plenty that dont and plenty that dont say they are married |
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
Probably and alot of single men on fab who sleep with married females. What others do does not bother me.
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Yes, just as they do in every other walk of life… |
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
You say mind your business in your profile to others because you’re here without your wife. So maybe other people want you to mind your business too? Regardless of what peoples opinions are I don’t think it’s fair to judge others and then complain about others judging you. But everyone’s different I guess. |
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Yes they but they either don't know it or don't want to find out. There are loads of 'single' men on the forums happy to swap photos of their wives. However many have loads of verifications from single women so I can only assume that they have either told those women they are single or no one has asked. Presumably what you don't know you can't feel guilty about. It seems honesty is the worst policy on here if you are a single male. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My moral compass may be broken beyond repair but I prefer to meet a woman who is married and doing it behind her husband's back, firstly as I find it a thrill being somebody's dirty little secret. And secondly because that is true no strings.
I also understand that relationships aren't as simple as if you're unhappy, then go, at times for other factors that play such as children, financial situations, I did extreme cases, domestic abuse so to judge somebody for doing what they do is not necessarily fair who am I to judge?
So any married ladies looking for some NSA entertainment In the Manchester region feel free to send a message. Discretion is assured |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
B has sex with married men but we don't pry into their private lives to see whether their wife knows her husband is having sex with others. Some men say they are married and in an open relationship, we simply accept that.
Do you expect us to contact their wife and confirm he is allowed to fuck other women?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll meet married men alone if their partner is unaware. Won't meet halves of swinging couples where they meet separately and discuss their meets. I won't be part of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Mrs does  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not me |
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool
Probably and alot of single men on fab who sleep with married females. What others do does not bother me.
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This! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the thought of contributing to another woman’s misery. I couldn’t knowingly do it, but that’s just me. |
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Yes
I mostly only meet single guys on here but how would I know for definite that those who claim to be single are single
I presume all on here are married, regardless of what they say
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I'll meet who I want to meet, irrespective of their circumstances. Granted, I prefer to meet single guys, but not because of any moral protestations. I just prefer long unhurried meets. |
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One of the reasons I started swinging. I enjoy the thrill of playing with attached ladies,but didn't want to be a git. So going to clubs and playing with ladies whose husband were there was perfect. I am sure down the years I have played unwittingly with married ladies,but I don't pry into people's backgrounds when chatting at a club or online. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done, but won’t now.
I know that it’s never as simple as it seems, but I don’t want to be part of potentially hurting someone else. |
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"I hate the thought of contributing to another woman’s misery. I couldn’t knowingly do it, but that’s just me."
There is many sexually mismatched married couples out there. I get it that just because one side (either man or woman) lost interest in sex, for whatever reason, their partner shouldn't need to become celibate just because they are married. I'd hate to be in a marriage like that. |
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"I hate the thought of contributing to another woman’s misery. I couldn’t knowingly do it, but that’s just me."
Do you say this to provoke? Or do you genuinely hold this true? I mean, if he's doing it behind her back there's no misery. That only happens if she finds out, surely?
Genuine question. Not having a go. |
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Of course they do.
There's just a difference if Married with their partner knowing and Married without them knowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on a lot of different things.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not our business |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate the thought of contributing to another woman’s misery. I couldn’t knowingly do it, but that’s just me.
Do you say this to provoke? Or do you genuinely hold this true? I mean, if he's doing it behind her back there's no misery. That only happens if she finds out, surely?
Genuine question. Not having a go. "
Who on earth would I be trying to provoke? Of course I hold it true. And if ever you had been cheated on, maybe you would too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate the thought of contributing to another woman’s misery. I couldn’t knowingly do it, but that’s just me.
Do you say this to provoke? Or do you genuinely hold this true? I mean, if he's doing it behind her back there's no misery. That only happens if she finds out, surely?
Genuine question. Not having a go. "
Why would she say this to provoke?
I hold the same opinion and I say that as a woman who has been cheated on
However I don't judge people who do sleep with married people behind their partners backs, to each their own |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
We play in clubs, and enjoy anonymous sex, so I don't know anything about the marital status of guys (or women) that I play with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope ! |
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Your lucky OP when I asked that question I just got abused lol but I’m used to it now. Atleast I cannnow see it does happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer not to, but I have and will sometimes xx |
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"My moral compass may be broken beyond repair but I prefer to meet a woman who is married and doing it behind her husband's back, firstly as I find it a thrill being somebody's dirty little secret. And secondly because that is true no strings.
I also understand that relationships aren't as simple as if you're unhappy, then go, at times for other factors that play such as children, financial situations, I did extreme cases, domestic abuse so to judge somebody for doing what they do is not necessarily fair who am I to judge?
So any married ladies looking for some NSA entertainment In the Manchester region feel free to send a message. Discretion is assured"
Saying meeting a married woman is true NSA isn't strictly true, of all the guys I've met on here (via my couples profile) the ones who message time & time again for repeat meets, trying to talk us into making it a regular thing, struggle to take no for an answer have admitted to us they are married
My guess is they trust us to be discreet so they want it to become a regular thing as it's easier for them, no hotels etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My moral compass may be broken beyond repair but I prefer to meet a woman who is married and doing it behind her husband's back, firstly as I find it a thrill being somebody's dirty little secret. And secondly because that is true no strings.
I also understand that relationships aren't as simple as if you're unhappy, then go, at times for other factors that play such as children, financial situations, I did extreme cases, domestic abuse so to judge somebody for doing what they do is not necessarily fair who am I to judge?
So any married ladies looking for some NSA entertainment In the Manchester region feel free to send a message. Discretion is assured
Saying meeting a married woman is true NSA isn't strictly true, of all the guys I've met on here (via my couples profile) the ones who message time & time again for repeat meets, trying to talk us into making it a regular thing, struggle to take no for an answer have admitted to us they are married
My guess is they trust us to be discreet so they want it to become a regular thing as it's easier for them, no hotels etc
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Possibly however, my situation is a single male is slightly different to yours as a couple you are actually in demand whereas I and battling against the odds, and I concede but you are correct. Meeting a married woman. Is it necessarily NSA yes I can admit when I'm wrong also. But my preference is for women who are attached and couples for me. It's the fact that the other half doesn't know which is a turn on and also when they do know which also does it |
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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago
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Married here we used to swing as a couple now my wife’s health as deteriorated so much I play alone!! She know she doesn’t mind and she encourages me to go n play!!
Sometimes we talk about what happened but that’s rare these days she’s just happy I’m getting my needs and if boot was on other foot I would be happy she was getting her needs!!
We did meet separately at times when swinging too
Not all situations are as simple as married and playing away sometimes as someone said above it’s a matter of loving each other but not compatible sexually no more and it helps keep people together as I’m not looking to leave her especially now her healths so bad she wouldn’t be able to cope on her own
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She only sleeps with me
All the others she just fucks |
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By *roop69Man
over a year ago
St Columb Major |
"Yes i have many times"
wish you was closer
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She only sleeps with me
All the others she just fucks "
Haha love this |
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Yes we do. What their personal circumstances are is completely their business. As stated we don't know everyone's situation. It could be helping someone out who can't or isn't interested in sex but they still love each. Each to your own people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Exclusively married men here"
Always good to hear. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have done, but won’t now.
I know that it’s never as simple as it seems, but I don’t want to be part of potentially hurting someone else."
Yeah that was kinda of my point I was trying to get across I find it bizarre but that's just me |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
Who does your wife play with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good sleeping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging by it’s very definition is wife swapping or it was when I was younger
Don’t people swap wives anymore |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool
Who does your wife play with? "
Nobody currently were not in this lifestyle at the mo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
There are also married men that secretly sleep with others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool
There are also married men that secretly sleep with others"
I know that's why I made the thread I was shocked |
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By *amrachCouple
over a year ago
Ruthin |
It’s not a question we ask. If Rach likes a guy she’ll fuck him regardless of whether he’s married or not |
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"Swinging by it’s very definition is wife swapping or it was when I was younger
Don’t people swap wives anymore "
I think that's a very keys in a fruit bowl / retro view of swinging
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Was married when I met mrs s on here, we’re now a happy couple 2 years on |
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We're here to meet with swingers. We're not here to have z's (sleep) with them. What others relationship status has no interest to us. |
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I used to meet a divorced guy, that was living with his parents cos saving up for a down-payment on a house...... or so I thought until I had a phone call from his wife, complete with the crying baby in the background. Point I'm making is that without 24hr surveillance how do we know what people's true marital status is on here? |
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It's a strange scenario really. The single swinger's on here are very conscious about being labelled the one's who destroyed a marriage but it that because they are single? The couples have no intentions of running off with the married guy and it is his decision to cheat on his wife, but because he's on swinging site, does that mean he's also not looking to run away with someone and leave his wife?
I think we've played with a single guy who told us that he was married but that is his issue to live with and manage his own relationship. Guess it's not down to us or anyone else to judge as we don't know the whole circumstances and why someone would choose a swinging site rather than a dating site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the wife is present and fully involved, then yes i’ll have sex with a married man - gotta love a good threesome.
If its a married man approaching me on his own or half of a couple who can meet separately then its a no thanks from me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a divorced guy, that was living with his parents cos saving up for a down-payment on a house...... or so I thought until I had a phone call from his wife, complete with the crying baby in the background. Point I'm making is that without 24hr surveillance how do we know what people's true marital status is on here? "
We don’t, but for me there’s a huge difference between willingly fucking an attached guy and not knowing and being deceived. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool
Who does your wife play with?
Nobody currently were not in this lifestyle at the mo"
Does she know that you are in the lifestyle?
She doesn't mind?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a divorced guy, that was living with his parents cos saving up for a down-payment on a house...... or so I thought until I had a phone call from his wife, complete with the crying baby in the background. Point I'm making is that without 24hr surveillance how do we know what people's true marital status is on here?
We don’t, but for me there’s a huge difference between willingly fucking an attached guy and not knowing and being deceived."
Precisely this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to meet a divorced guy, that was living with his parents cos saving up for a down-payment on a house...... or so I thought until I had a phone call from his wife, complete with the crying baby in the background. Point I'm making is that without 24hr surveillance how do we know what people's true marital status is on here?
We don’t, but for me there’s a huge difference between willingly fucking an attached guy and not knowing and being deceived."
I love seeing you pop up in the threads  considering you blocked me |
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
There certainly are but discretion to the fore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
Yes.
They "call it" or "excuse it" by "the need to have a little fun". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Naive old me just assumed single guys were infact single guys unless their profile stated that they were married and playing away. It blew my mind when I realised most the single men that I was chatting too had partners and it put me off fab for a while.
Personally I don't want to have sex with a married man but if they are i'd rather not know, if I don't know I can't feel guilty.
I've been cheated on repeatedly when I was in my 20s and it nearly finished me off, I couldn't knowingly do that to another woman. |
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I haven’t yet. But I can’t say I won’t and it’s not something I’d rule out. Like many have said, there jo way of knowing what anyone tells your in this site is true. The only real rule we have is don’t play close to home and that’s to protect our selves from situations which may put us in the middle of unwanted drama. I’ve had messages from guys in our town, no photos so no idea who they are but have openly told me they are married and their wife doesn’t know they are playing away. We won’t get involved in that. It’s a small town and the jungle drums beat loud. Chances are I’d probably know their wife and don’t want to be sworn to secrecy when it’s people I know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate the thought of contributing to another woman’s misery. I couldn’t knowingly do it, but that’s just me."
This.
You just don't know the damage caused to partner and family.
I won't. |
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I would say most of the men who approach me are married. I have slept with married men and almost certainly will again.
It’s not that I am inconsiderate to the other party involved but it’s not really my fault their partner wants to play away. Who knows what is going on in that relationship and for me it’s just fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty.
It's best not to comment on what other folk do sexually though. If it doesn't immediately involve me, then I'm a bit "Meh...."
Personally I'm pretty certain I couldn't even though I've gabbed to some bloody gorgeous married men on here. Just comes back to not doing something that I wouldn't want done to me. |
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Older married man here love meets with ladies married or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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many dont have a clue if they have or not they shout oh we would never meet married but sorry alot of you have people lie to get what they want ...
nevery in all the years we've been swinging have we ever seen a woman or couple as a guy in a club if hes married or not...
forums aside most dont care they are just here for fun and not to judge ...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging by it’s very definition is wife swapping or it was when I was younger
Don’t people swap wives anymore
I think that's a very keys in a fruit bowl / retro view of swinging
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Yes but keys in the bowl was the public face of swinging back in the day
Having swinging parties then were always referred to as wife swapping.
Not that I attended any
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"Swinging by it’s very definition is wife swapping or it was when I was younger
Don’t people swap wives anymore
I think that's a very keys in a fruit bowl / retro view of swinging
Yes but keys in the bowl was the public face of swinging back in the day
Having swinging parties then were always referred to as wife swapping.
Not that I attended any
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As with everything times have changed |
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If I meet with women I do with my wedding ring on. My wife does not mind though does not want to meet on her own. I don't lie about being married and if that is against a meets wishes we don't meet.
If anal or kissing or bondage or black underwear is against the meets wishes again it does not happen.
People can decide their limits and they are hard fast limits. Simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty.
It's best not to comment on what other folk do sexually though. If it doesn't immediately involve me, then I'm a bit "Meh...."
Personally I'm pretty certain I couldn't even though I've gabbed to some bloody gorgeous married men on here. Just comes back to not doing something that I wouldn't want done to me."
This
I believe in karma. I think you get out what you put in. I always hope the unknowing party is doing same. |
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I’m happily married but my wife had a stroke and has partial paralysis and no sex drive. She’s told me if I go elsewhere for it she doesn’t want to know and doesn’t want anything coming to the door. I’m not sure how she would take the swinging side of things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, it's not them that are cheating, so they shouldn't have to feel guilty, if it's not them, chances are, it will be someone else.
That said, the chances of being found out are pretty off putting if you are thinking of playing away, you only need to find out the person you just shared your pic with, just happens to know your partner, and you're fucked, and not in the way you were hoping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would yes.
If my partner cheated on me I would be upset with the woman but I wouldn't dare think she was at fault. It's not her responsibility to be loyal to me, it is my partners. I get girl code and whatever, but I'm not going to pretend I would say no to a ridiculously attractive guy I clicked with.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Some will yes, but I would never knowingly meet a married /attached man playing away.
I'm half a couple and as mentioned above, I'd hate it done to me.
If I'm even a bit suspicious that someone's hiding it, I'd stop contact. |
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I have a married man asleep next to me right now and I'll be asleep alongside him soon. |
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we did, wasn't great in the end, had to stop. Got too complicated.
Don't think we would now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some will, some won't, some will unintentionally.
There's a huge amount of people that don't openly talk about their status but if you're up front with people from the start they can then make an informed choice. |
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By *ite -meWoman
over a year ago
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As a cheated on wife i would never knowly meet an attached guy. The pain me and my kids suffered i wouldn't want to inflict on another. |
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"I used to meet a divorced guy, that was living with his parents cos saving up for a down-payment on a house...... or so I thought until I had a phone call from his wife, complete with the crying baby in the background. Point I'm making is that without 24hr surveillance how do we know what people's true marital status is on here?
We don’t, but for me there’s a huge difference between willingly fucking an attached guy and not knowing and being deceived.
Precisely this."
There's very little difference if you base your decision to have sex simply on his profile status when you know that some will lie on it. Saying there's no way to know for sure anyway a piss poor way to get you off hook for fucking a married man. If you have an issue and find married men that cheat 'going against your morals' is all you can say because you've done nothing to have courage of conviction status |
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Yes, I would only meet married men at first. I just like them being honest, if married that's fine I'll meet but it's straight up fucking I won't get to know them |
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*looks around* I kinda thought that on here of all places that would be the accepted norm. |
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"Not this woman!"
Serious question, what do you look for or ask etc that gives you confidence to say you've never slept with a married man? Or knowingly known |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would yes.
If my partner cheated on me I would be upset with the woman but I wouldn't dare think she was at fault. It's not her responsibility to be loyal to me, it is my partners. I get girl code and whatever, but I'm not going to pretend I would say no to a ridiculously attractive guy I clicked with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not this woman!
Serious question, what do you look for or ask etc that gives you confidence to say you've never slept with a married man? Or knowingly known "
I don’t meet guys who don’t accommodate for specifically this reason even though I know it’ll sweep up guys with legitimate reasons they can’t accommodate. I also don’t do spontaneous meets, I meet very rarely, speak to them on the phone beforehand and usually message for a while before we meet. I’m fairly confident I’ve not fucked any attached guys. |
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By *diboCouple
over a year ago
warwick |
Prefer married men…. |
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"Not this woman!
Serious question, what do you look for or ask etc that gives you confidence to say you've never slept with a married man? Or knowingly known
I don’t meet guys who don’t accommodate for specifically this reason even though I know it’ll sweep up guys with legitimate reasons they can’t accommodate. I also don’t do spontaneous meets, I meet very rarely, speak to them on the phone beforehand and usually message for a while before we meet. I’m fairly confident I’ve not fucked any attached guys. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not this woman!
Serious question, what do you look for or ask etc that gives you confidence to say you've never slept with a married man? Or knowingly known
I don’t meet guys who don’t accommodate for specifically this reason even though I know it’ll sweep up guys with legitimate reasons they can’t accommodate. I also don’t do spontaneous meets, I meet very rarely, speak to them on the phone beforehand and usually message for a while before we meet. I’m fairly confident I’ve not fucked any attached guys. "
Good on you |
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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago
Huddersfield |
Don’t sleep but do play !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife can’t have sex due to health issues she wants me to have sex so where’s the problem we’re open and honest about my meets |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
West Mids |
"My wife can’t have sex due to health issues she wants me to have sex so where’s the problem we’re open and honest about my meets "
If she confirms that to any prospective play partners then no problem whatsoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Brave topic OP .......
Whatever the combination there will always be those who will not approve - that's fine - but in my opinion, providing you are open about it and not hiding behind a false "singles" profile or worse "on as a couple but in fact your not" profile - then you are giving people and informed choice about if they want to engage in conversation with you
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
Do you work in the media doing some research for a newspaper? |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"My wife can’t have sex due to health issues she wants me to have sex so where’s the problem we’re open and honest about my meets "
And how can you prove that |
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In my experience...yes. Providing the wife is aware and happy with it, it's fine in my opinion. |
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"My wife can’t have sex due to health issues she wants me to have sex so where’s the problem we’re open and honest about my meets "
I had a hip replacement last year (I read your bio) is this why she can’t have sex? Just wondering if I should check with the manufacturer of my new joint  |
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"Your lucky OP when I asked that question I just got abused lol but I’m used to it now. Atleast I cannnow see it does happen"
The difference is, he hasn't said he's openly cheating or wanting to like you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool
Do you work in the media doing some research for a newspaper?"
I should shouldn't I.. |
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Whatever the combination there will always be those who will not approve - that's fine - but in my opinion, providing you are open about it and not hiding behind a false "singles" profile or worse "on as a couple but in fact your not" profile - then you are giving people and informed choice about if they want to engage in conversation with you
J xx"
Exactly this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes
I mostly only meet single guys on here but how would I know for definite that those who claim to be single are single
I presume all on here are married, regardless of what they say
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Yessss, that's the problem I'm genuinely single but when I get the shock of a reply I've then got to prove my marital status, blood type,what I had for tea might aswell add me on Facebook  it's difficult to prove amongst liars all part of the fun on Fab I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What also frustrates me is we dare open up and make comments in threads like these and the "keyborad" warriors start sending you nasty/snidey messages like
"you married cheats should know better"
"pervert bi tosser doesn't know what your talking about"
etc etc
It's no wonder we sometime just bite our tongues when we read topics like tease - so as to avoid crap messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had to confirm my Gf knows I can meet and others have just accepted the truth that I'm in an open relationship, some women get off on the fact I am with someone and want to know our dynamics but others don't and don't want to know any details About our relationship just that when I'm with them they have my attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What also frustrates me is we dare open up and make comments in threads like these and the "keyborad" warriors start sending you nasty/snidey messages like
"you married cheats should know better"
"pervert bi tosser doesn't know what your talking about"
etc etc
It's no wonder we sometime just bite our tongues when we read topics like tease - so as to avoid crap messages
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Couldn't agree more with this |
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"I've had to confirm my Gf knows I can meet and others have just accepted the truth that I'm in an open relationship, some women get off on the fact I am with someone and want to know our dynamics but others don't and don't want to know any details About our relationship just that when I'm with them they have my attention."
I'm in the same situation. We are open and both play around but share everything. Some people like that, some don't. I think some automatically think you are cheating if she's not in the room when you are texting. Even if she posted a letter or video in my profile nobody would believe it lol. |
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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago
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Pretty sure it’s a 50/50 split on here with men and lady’s |
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Hi I think it’s up to the people concern if they want to meet a married person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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However, I would never knowingly sleep with a married woman, unless her husband was aware. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to there own I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
There's millions of women in the UK. I'm not desperate...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh its none of our business, if we get along and want to meet we will.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My moral compass may be broken beyond repair but I prefer to meet a woman who is married and doing it behind her husband's back, firstly as I find it a thrill being somebody's dirty little secret. And secondly because that is true no strings.
I also understand that relationships aren't as simple as if you're unhappy, then go, at times for other factors that play such as children, financial situations, I did extreme cases, domestic abuse so to judge somebody for doing what they do is not necessarily fair who am I to judge?
So any married ladies looking for some NSA entertainment In the Manchester region feel free to send a message. Discretion is assured"
Shame you are not in the north east! I would love someone seducing my wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't sleep with attached men. It doesn't mean I am full of judgment and hatred for them. I just don't want it on my conscience. |
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Some do I'm sure! I never would knowingly! Had that shit done to me ! X |
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It's a swingers site of course there are but most of the couples here prefer to be involved I would assume |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
There's a fuck buddy couple on here who are both cheating on their partners, they're also meating individualy vouching as each others wife/hubby if challenged. Now that's messed up in our opinion, it was an interesting conversation at the house party we attended. We declined their offer to play. |
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool"
It’s a sex site, so it doesn’t matter if the other person is married or not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool
It’s a sex site, so it doesn’t matter if the other person is married or not! "
It matters to some of us. And some of us don't see it as a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people do and many people won't. And there are those who are adamant that they won't but then forget that rule when they step inside a club.
I tend not to get too involved in other people's lives as I'm here for fun only. |
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"Is there single females on here or couples who play with males who are married and you know but don't care they are doing it secretly ? This site is crazy looool
It’s a sex site, so it doesn’t matter if the other person is married or not! "
It certainly does matter to alot of people! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do, as they tend to be a lot more secretive.. guessing they’d do it anyway even if we did think it was wrong x |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
I’m married and I can definitely say yes!  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a fuck buddy couple on here who are both cheating on their partners, they're also meating individualy vouching as each others wife/hubby if challenged. Now that's messed up in our opinion, it was an interesting conversation at the house party we attended. We declined their offer to play."
There's load of 'couples' that do this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sleep with a married man every time he’s home from work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just going to put it out there that some women do yet don't know. When I was a Fab virgin and was way too trusting I got talking to a "couple" in one of the next towns to me who said they met separately as well as together. They had veris that it was in fact a couple, they'd been photo verified too. Even had up to date pictures. Thanks to lack of childcare I never actually got to meet "them" I deleted that account as it looked like I was getting into a relationship away from here but when I came back with different pictures and a different name "they" tried again, I managed to find out she had stopped swinging a couple of years ago, he'd kept the profile running and been uploading pictures she'd sent him in private to their profile.
Fact of the matter is if blokes are going to cheat they'll use anything to try and pretend they aren't. As bad as this sounds I have more respect for the ones who are open and honest about it in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just going to put it out there that some women do yet don't know. When I was a Fab virgin and was way too trusting I got talking to a "couple" in one of the next towns to me who said they met separately as well as together. They had veris that it was in fact a couple, they'd been photo verified too. Even had up to date pictures. Thanks to lack of childcare I never actually got to meet "them" I deleted that account as it looked like I was getting into a relationship away from here but when I came back with different pictures and a different name "they" tried again, I managed to find out she had stopped swinging a couple of years ago, he'd kept the profile running and been uploading pictures she'd sent him in private to their profile.
Fact of the matter is if blokes are going to cheat they'll use anything to try and pretend they aren't. As bad as this sounds I have more respect for the ones who are open and honest about it in the first place. "
Im open about it. Ive had threats over it too. Not nice. |
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Passst, I know this might come as a shock to everyone but let me let you all in on a little secret. There are cheating married women on here too. I know, unbelievable isn't it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Passst, I know this might come as a shock to everyone but let me let you all in on a little secret. There are cheating married women on here too. I know, unbelievable isn't it"
You mean like the one who verified me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just going to put it out there that some women do yet don't know. When I was a Fab virgin and was way too trusting I got talking to a "couple" in one of the next towns to me who said they met separately as well as together. They had veris that it was in fact a couple, they'd been photo verified too. Even had up to date pictures. Thanks to lack of childcare I never actually got to meet "them" I deleted that account as it looked like I was getting into a relationship away from here but when I came back with different pictures and a different name "they" tried again, I managed to find out she had stopped swinging a couple of years ago, he'd kept the profile running and been uploading pictures she'd sent him in private to their profile.
Fact of the matter is if blokes are going to cheat they'll use anything to try and pretend they aren't. As bad as this sounds I have more respect for the ones who are open and honest about it in the first place.
Im open about it. Ive had threats over it too. Not nice. "
I was messaged out of the blue last night from a couple account giving right grief over me being attached it's like they took all their frustration out on me. I wouldn't mind so much if I had messaged them but I hadn't it's almost like seeing my profile pissed them off and into a rage against me |
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"Just going to put it out there that some women do yet don't know. When I was a Fab virgin and was way too trusting I got talking to a "couple" in one of the next towns to me who said they met separately as well as together. They had veris that it was in fact a couple, they'd been photo verified too. Even had up to date pictures. Thanks to lack of childcare I never actually got to meet "them" I deleted that account as it looked like I was getting into a relationship away from here but when I came back with different pictures and a different name "they" tried again, I managed to find out she had stopped swinging a couple of years ago, he'd kept the profile running and been uploading pictures she'd sent him in private to their profile.
Fact of the matter is if blokes are going to cheat they'll use anything to try and pretend they aren't. As bad as this sounds I have more respect for the ones who are open and honest about it in the first place.
Im open about it. Ive had threats over it too. Not nice.
I was messaged out of the blue last night from a couple account giving right grief over me being attached it's like they took all their frustration out on me. I wouldn't mind so much if I had messaged them but I hadn't it's almost like seeing my profile pissed them off and into a rage against me "
Really? Christ! Folk need to mind their own business. X |
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over a year ago
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"Just going to put it out there that some women do yet don't know. When I was a Fab virgin and was way too trusting I got talking to a "couple" in one of the next towns to me who said they met separately as well as together. They had veris that it was in fact a couple, they'd been photo verified too. Even had up to date pictures. Thanks to lack of childcare I never actually got to meet "them" I deleted that account as it looked like I was getting into a relationship away from here but when I came back with different pictures and a different name "they" tried again, I managed to find out she had stopped swinging a couple of years ago, he'd kept the profile running and been uploading pictures she'd sent him in private to their profile.
Fact of the matter is if blokes are going to cheat they'll use anything to try and pretend they aren't. As bad as this sounds I have more respect for the ones who are open and honest about it in the first place.
Im open about it. Ive had threats over it too. Not nice.
I was messaged out of the blue last night from a couple account giving right grief over me being attached it's like they took all their frustration out on me. I wouldn't mind so much if I had messaged them but I hadn't it's almost like seeing my profile pissed them off and into a rage against me
Really? Christ! Folk need to mind their own business. X"
Yep really I don't hide the fact and to be fair I don't expect anyone to even contact me but I enjoy the forums and the banter and if I ever message anyone I always make sure I have fully read the bios to make sure I don't offend anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer not to. I think that they've shown that they're not trustworthy if they're having an affair. And I would rather have sex with people that I can trust.
Unless they're dead good looking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want to play with married men. But I do not agree with abusing people for it. I don't know the stories, I don't know the truth of a relationship. I went looking when I was in a LTR. Because I was so miserable. I'm not going to judge people when I'm so far from perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don't want to play with married men. But I do not agree with abusing people for it. I don't know the stories, I don't know the truth of a relationship. I went looking when I was in a LTR. Because I was so miserable. I'm not going to judge people when I'm so far from perfect. "
This is so true |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I do sleep with married men and love the passion they bring to the bedroom. I don't judge anyone. |
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Plenty of ladies have slept with me.
But my wife's in on it everytime. If shes not sending me out on my own, shes watching or joining in.
Not every every married guy is cheating and honestly, it never ceases to amaze me how many people on this site forget what swinging is. Swinging and running around behind your partners back are two different things. |
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By *ittyndCouple
over a year ago
Oldham/Birmingham |
Erm I’ve done by mistake  |
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By *rReyMan
over a year ago
Fleet |
"Erm I’ve done by mistake "
Do you have any regrets? |
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By *diboCouple
over a year ago
warwick |
Every man wants to release the pressure, Love married men fucking my hungry pussy…… no strings attached!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every man wants to release the pressure, Love married men fucking my hungry pussy…… no strings attached!!!
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Wow, that video of you being fucked and dripping!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do sleep with married men and love the passion they bring to the bedroom. I don't judge anyone."
Such a shame you are so far from where I live! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married and waiting for the invite lol |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
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Do women on here actually sleep with married men ?
Is the pope Catholic and do Bears Sh1t in the woods
Please I ask you! |
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I love married women very discreet and always meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my kind of girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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at last someone that fully gets it I am one of this . and my wife use to swing . we met thru a swinging site and have been to clubs etc. now just no sex at all |
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Every night I sleep with a married man, my husband xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am married and I have choose a swinging site to a dating site because I want to meet people for good times and sex not looking for a relationship I always mention the fact that I am married and if people don't like it then move on everyone has there views and taste and I am not on here to judge any . like if you say you are happy married so why do you need to bring or look for other in bed !? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cant beat a married woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am married and I have choose a swinging site to a dating site because I want to meet people for good times and sex not looking for a relationship I always mention the fact that I am married and if people don't like it then move on everyone has there views and taste and I am not on here to judge any .
*** like if you say you are happy married so why do you need to bring or look for other in bed !? ***"
Have you heard of "Swinging"? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find attached men who are upfront about it to be the most trustworthy as they are soooo discreet and honestly some of the best meets I’ve had in here as they need to release all that built up desire and I get ruined I am not one to judge anyone and we all have our own reasons and stories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are married men and women who meet in secret. Everyone has their reasons and it's their decision. Without being judgemental, I think anyone doing it should be prepared for the consequences if their partner found out. It can be very hurtful. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
Married men sleep with other women
Married women sleep with other men
It's just the way it is nothing new to see here
It's been happening forever & will continue too |
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By *onyjoCouple
over a year ago
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We will not knowingly play with married people we try to them out as best we can by asking the right questions, we have both been cheated on in past relationships and it really is not a nice feeling when you find out whats been going on is gut wrenching . The upset that it causes to any children involved is terrible. We see it as a very selfish act, if they have problems within the marrage then sort it or leave once left fine look elsewhere. This is just our opinion before anyone jumps down our throats |
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I've met married men and men in relationships, they're often less demanding than single guys but every situation is unique. We all have our own reasons for being here |
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