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We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them. |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
I miss this so much. |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
Definitely. Sometimes a kiss,cuddle and spoon can relax you so well x |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
We're interested to know if anyone doesn't like being touched. We'd assume everyone likes being stroked and kissed. Even though we've been together forever we still hold hands when walking  |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them.
We're interested to know if anyone doesn't like being touched. We'd assume everyone likes being stroked and kissed. Even though we've been together forever we still hold hands when walking "
That's great. I love all that x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them.
We're interested to know if anyone doesn't like being touched. We'd assume everyone likes being stroked and kissed. Even though we've been together forever we still hold hands when walking
That's great. I love all that x"
Me too  |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them.
We're interested to know if anyone doesn't like being touched. We'd assume everyone likes being stroked and kissed. Even though we've been together forever we still hold hands when walking
That's great. I love all that x
Me too "
This plus a hot tub.....ah, I can wish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
I love it and miss being able to kiss, cuddle & feel someone lying next to me, haven't done it now since I lost my wife of 40 years just over 4 years ago, I just miss the feeling so much |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
Absolutely. Really miss it, said it on this site a few times, I could manage without the sex if I could just have that physical contact |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them.
Absolutely. Really miss it, said it on this site a few times, I could manage
without the sex if I could just have that physical contact "
I very much agree with you there, same here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since separated,really miss the feel of a hot body next to mine ."
Yes I totally get that, I am the same hopefully it won't last forever and we can find that connection again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love the touching & kissing side of play 
Its so underrated isn't it? I love a man touching me "
And if a man will kiss you after you’ve had his dick in your mouth even better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nearly everyone underestimates how powerful the touch of another person's hand can be. The need to be touched is something so primal, so fundamentally a part of our existence as human beings that its true impact upon us can be difficult to put into words. That power doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex, either. From the time we are infants, we learn to associate the touch of a human hand with safety, with comfort, with love. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nearly everyone underestimates how powerful the touch of another person's hand can be. The need to be touched is something so primal, so fundamentally a part of our existence as human beings that its true impact upon us can be difficult to put into words. That power doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex, either. From the time we are infants, we learn to associate the touch of a human hand with safety, with comfort, with love."
I love this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nearly everyone underestimates how powerful the touch of another person's hand can be. The need to be touched is something so primal, so fundamentally a part of our existence as human beings that its true impact upon us can be difficult to put into words. That power doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex, either. From the time we are infants, we learn to associate the touch of a human hand with safety, with comfort, with love.
I love this "
I wish I could say that I wrote it, but it is from a book called Dead Beat, part of The Dresden Files by Jim Butcher, but it is a beautiful quote. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nearly everyone underestimates how powerful the touch of another person's hand can be. The need to be touched is something so primal, so fundamentally a part of our existence as human beings that its true impact upon us can be difficult to put into words. That power doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex, either. From the time we are infants, we learn to associate the touch of a human hand with safety, with comfort, with love.
I love this
I wish I could say that I wrote it, but it is from a book called Dead Beat, part of The Dresden Files by Jim Butcher, but it is a beautiful quote."
It really is, thank you for sharing |
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"Nearly everyone underestimates how powerful the touch of another person's hand can be. The need to be touched is something so primal, so fundamentally a part of our existence as human beings that its true impact upon us can be difficult to put into words. That power doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex, either. From the time we are infants, we learn to associate the touch of a human hand with safety, with comfort, with love.
I love this
I wish I could say that I wrote it, but it is from a book called Dead Beat, part of The Dresden Files by Jim Butcher, but it is a beautiful quote.
It really is, thank you for sharing "
Echo that. Great words x |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
Hmmmmmmm we love kissing, caressing, stroking, cuddling, slowly exploring and loving every inch over and over. Something lacking in most meets, especially those that are rushed. We much prefer long meets, sleepovers and weekends away where we can get much closer to others, fall asleep with them, lots of intimate kissing and slow gentle oral (inbetween full playing lol) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them.
Hmmmmmmm we love kissing, caressing, stroking, cuddling, slowly exploring and loving every inch over and over. Something lacking in most meets, especially those that are rushed. We much prefer long meets, sleepovers and weekends away where we can get much closer to others, fall asleep with them, lots of intimate kissing and slow gentle oral (inbetween full playing lol)"
This is me completely, why rush? Explore each others bodies |
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"Nearly everyone underestimates how powerful the touch of another person's hand can be. The need to be touched is something so primal, so fundamentally a part of our existence as human beings that its true impact upon us can be difficult to put into words. That power doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sex, either. From the time we are infants, we learn to associate the touch of a human hand with safety, with comfort, with love."
Agree 100% |
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
Hmmmm I Tony could imagine a long meet where there is just kissing, caressing maybe oral and slow masturbation. Chatting while wrapped up in each others arms and legs while naked in front of a real fire or cozy under the covers, hopefully all night. There is so much tactile love to give and hopefully receive in return... We have found many simply don't have it in them, they seem cold inside, mechanical. On the other hand some crave it as they get none from their partners !. During one meet with a couple I sat by the lady on their settee for an hour or so. I sat close and chatted, very slowly testing the water, legs touching each others, my hand briefly on her arm, on top of her hand. Eventually after almost an hour I had progressed to very slowly and gently stroking her arm, leg and face, feather light touches. She froze like a stone for some time and I started to worry it was too much for her. I gazed into her eyes and she returned the eye contact in equal measure as I asked "is this too much, do you want me to stop ?".... She replied with a gasp "oh my god no, DON'T STOP". It soon became clear her partner was not loving or tactile at all, a few years later we discovered they had spilt up (that's another post altogether). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A touch can be and is electric when done right… "
It really can, guys message and say fancy a fuck well actually no I'd rather stand naked close my eyes or be blindfolded and feel you touch my body that's more of a turn on |
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"Hmmmmmmm we love kissing, caressing, stroking, cuddling, slowly exploring and loving every inch over and over. Something lacking in most meets, especially those that are rushed. We much prefer long meets, sleepovers and weekends away where we can get much closer to others, fall asleep with them, lots of intimate kissing and slow gentle oral (inbetween full playing lol)
This is me completely, why rush? Explore each others bodies "
If only I could even wink you.... two souls lost in a sea of fakes, timewasters, users and the walking dead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bit of a strange one this , if we are apart for a few days , then we like reconnecting by mr dragon putting his cock in mrs dragon , it’s not edging or full sex , it’s the way we can be closest together … or are we just weird ? |
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By *odd4funnMan
over a year ago
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Hi All
I find that the massages i give always have a great effect on the women i see you can get an instant reaction and have have more interaction as the massage continues and the woman becomes relaxed and excited and the contact is a good ice breaker in many situation's |
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"Bit of a strange one this , if we are apart for a few days , then we like reconnecting by mr dragon putting his cock in mrs dragon , it’s not edging or full sex , it’s the way we can be closest together … or are we just weird ? "
Or staying inside her for as long as possible after making love. Cuddling each other, caressing and French kissing as you fall asleep in each others arms. Safe in your own little world.... |
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"We're interested to know if anyone doesn't like being touched. We'd assume everyone likes being stroked and kissed. Even though we've been together forever we still hold hands when walking "
We/I have met a few !!  . Some seem unable to be affectionate or accept affection. We are all different to some extent or another... We have found some ladies of a couple appear to be afraid of too much affection, touching, caressing, gazing into their eyes. It seemed they were afraid of developing feelings or of returning such affection under their partners clearly disapproving gaze..... During one meet with a couple my bi partner and the lady became VERY affectionate with each other, it was a joy to watch. Yet he became insanely jealous and called off the meeting. The same happened with another couple when the ladies got carried away, again her partner stopped it and the lady was in real tears as we left. Unbelievable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We're interested to know if anyone doesn't like being touched. We'd assume everyone likes being stroked and kissed. Even though we've been together forever we still hold hands when walking
We/I have met a few !! . Some seem unable to be affectionate or accept affection. We are all different to some extent or another... We have found some ladies of a couple appear to be afraid of too much affection, touching, caressing, gazing into their eyes. It seemed they were afraid of developing feelings or of returning such affection under their partners clearly disapproving gaze..... During one meet with a couple my bi partner and the lady became VERY affectionate with each other, it was a joy to watch. Yet he became insanely jealous and called off the meeting. The same happened with another couple when the ladies got carried away, again her partner stopped it and the lady was in real tears as we left. Unbelievable."
I've met a guy a few times who doesn't kiss, that's a hard one for me but he's lovely |
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"I love spooning up to a lady when in bed ...a lazy Sunday morning just chatting
But alas it is something I seldom do  "
Hmmmmmm I love spooning up to Cherry every night. Holding and gently massaging her breast or my hand between her legs, long finger nestled inside or over her lips. My cock resting and twitching against her ass cheeks. Neither of us moving or talking.... hmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the thing I miss most about being single…I’m tactile by nature!
If only I could wink or message you....."
Lol I’m afraid my filters are on for a reason! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s the thing I miss most about being single…I’m tactile by nature!
If only I could wink or message you.....
Lol I’m afraid my filters are on for a reason! "
Totally agree - we all need some sort of protection - but having said that ...................  |
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It’s a huge important part of our lives, that kiss, cuddle or tickle when least expected can say a lot more than words. The caressing, stroking and light touches is our foreplay before the foreplay.
We love unhurried meets where this becomes part of the play. |
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I think lockdown made us miss a lot more than sex. Especially for singles. The power of touch and soft kisses, can be just as intense as having sex. Ive always enjoyed kissing with wandering hands, just enough to intensify the kiss or the feel of a Womans stockings brush against your cheek. I think sometimes we forget, the simple things, in our rush for sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We take for granted being touched, how someone's body feels on you, skin to skin contact, kissing, hands on you etc. Are you missing the feel of physical touch or don't you like being touched? I'm not talking sex here I'm talking about lying with someone, holding them, feeling them."
Love being touched... its the best feeling
Mrs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’m very tactile, I love holding hands, snuggling up or anything like that.
Come bed time, I love nothing more than being big spoon, and wrapping myself around my loved one, settling down and drifting off to sleep, these are the things I miss. I soft, gentle unspoken words, where two souls become one.
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"I’m very tactile, I love holding hands, snuggling up or anything like that.
Come bed time, I love nothing more than being big spoon, and wrapping myself around my loved one, settling down and drifting off to sleep, these are the things I miss. I soft, gentle unspoken words, where two souls become one.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, love a cuddle..been a while though 
Me too
Come round.....I'll make tea and I have cake xx
Oooooh lovely ??
Key lime pie.....it's my birthday after all xx"
Mmmmmmmmmmm, Happy birthday |
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Whe I'm on nights for a week or the husband works away... all the sex aside it's the skin on skin laid in bed spooning and fall asleep together that is just gorgeous  I know it's soppy and cliché but it is the little things that mean the most |
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"Whe I'm on nights for a week or the husband works away... all the sex aside it's the skin on skin laid in bed spooning and fall asleep together that is just gorgeous I know it's soppy and cliché but it is the little things that mean the most "
Yes exactly, I envy this so much |
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"Yes, love a cuddle..been a while though
Me too
Come round.....I'll make tea and I have cake xx
Oooooh lovely ??
Key lime pie.....it's my birthday after all xx
Mmmmmmmmmmm, Happy birthday "
Thanks x |
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