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over a year ago
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"We have a few meetings where some males just want to fuck without any kissing etc. C dislikes that. Seems very selfish ?"
We dont meet anyone who are not into kissing..I suggest you include that in your profile, so everyone is on same note..
sex without kissing is like milkshake without milk..
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I love kissing, its one of the things that really gets me going.
Either long slow sensual kissing, or hard rough raunchy kissing.
Each to their own and we are all different but i cant understand people that dont kiss. |
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"If there's mutual attraction then fine but some people can get carried away so sometimes a kiss is not always welcomed  "
Surely you wouldn't be kissing them if there wasn't a mutual attraction? |
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it happened to me a couple of times I didn't like it either, just made me feel used and abused. I check profiles very carefully now but even then that doesnt eliminate those you meet at parties, clubs etc |
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I don't like playing without kissing. Sometimes it's different in a club if there's some group activity going on - but in that case there's usually someone to kiss 
A good kiss is the ideal start, middle and end of it all, in my opinion. I'm not sure why kissing is considered more intimate by some than mouth to genitals contact?   |
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Ive never met a single that dont kiss, know a few couples who dont
I can understand why a couples wouldnt kiss as they have each other to kiss on the meet so i suppose to some so long as they getting everything it dont matter where its coming from
but singles not kissing?
i couldnt have sex where i had noone at all to kiss
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Some like not kissing I suppose because it limits involvement... perhaps as they imagine NSA to be. When you consider that snogging randoms in nightclubs in your formative years didn't lead to neccessarily any strings attached, then the non-kissing for NSA thing becomes a mewk point... ( ?)
Personally I'm going to want to be kissing em during the sex as well. Nothing like getting that kind of double penetration going to rev the engine
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"I don't like playing without kissing. Sometimes it's different in a club if there's some group activity going on - but in that case there's usually someone to kiss
A good kiss is the ideal start, middle and end of it all, in my opinion. I'm not sure why kissing is considered more intimate by some than mouth to genitals contact? "
totally agree...we have been told by few that kissing is a very intimate and personal thing, but i am not sure why it is any different from oral activities ?.. you will not engage in oral acts, if you dont fancy the person in first place, so whats the issue with kissing the person ?... anyway, each to themselves, as long as its made clear in their profile, so no surprises during the meets |
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The way I see it. You're very happy to have your genitalia connect, why not your lips? Having sex is a very intimate thing, NSA or not. Kissing is just another lovely addition to it all, in my opinion. |
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We think kissing shows you're not just using the other person for sex but have some sense of them as a person. We both love the long, slow kissing mixed with slow thrusting at the start, the quick passionate kisses when you're both very turned on, and the slow kisses when you've cum and are cuddling, before the next round. Kissing your other half when she/he is fucking someone else is pretty good too! |
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"We think kissing shows you're not just using the other person for sex but have some sense of them as a person. We both love the long, slow kissing mixed with slow thrusting at the start, the quick passionate kisses when you're both very turned on, and the slow kisses when you've cum and are cuddling, before the next round. Kissing your other half when she/he is fucking someone else is pretty good too!"
Bingo!
Couldn't agree more! |
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I find it is the intimacy that is the major turn on for me.
Sex without it is like doing the pots - mundane !
I have however lost count of the amount of men that won't kiss.
Kissing is gay, having another guys cock up your arse apparently isn't !  |
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"We think kissing shows you're not just using the other person for sex but have some sense of them as a person. We both love the long, slow kissing mixed with slow thrusting at the start, the quick passionate kisses when you're both very turned on, and the slow kisses when you've cum and are cuddling, before the next round. Kissing your other half when she/he is fucking someone else is pretty good too!"
See I agree with that with a partner but I'd never ever cuddle up and kiss after a meet. And I've compromised on occasionally kissing at start but I just make sure I can't be kissed during sex.
I do enjoy kissing a loved one while having sex with someone else. But then I have to have a connection to someone to kiss them.
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It very much depends on preferences and how you play. The form of play we engage in doesn't necessitate kissing - in a group situation, it's the 'act' that turns us on, not the individuals involved. |
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"We have a few meetings where some males just want to fuck without any kissing etc. C dislikes that. Seems very selfish ?"
Not just the males!
We dont kiss others and out of courtesy don't kiss each other during a meet. We're upfront about this on our profile so there are no misunderstandings. Neither of us find it necessary to kiss for good sex as we can separate the two. |
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"I rarely if ever kiss. Would rather not kiss at all. But sometimes I feel it hurries them along.
Cali"
why would you meet someone then want to hurry them along  |
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"To be honest kissing on a meet does nothing for me,if anything having a coffee or ashtray tasting tongue rammed down my throat is a real turn off "
This is why mints, aniseeds or cough sweets should be a standard part or anyones meeting kit |
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"I rarely if ever kiss. Would rather not kiss at all. But sometimes I feel it hurries them along.
Cali
why would you meet someone then want to hurry them along "
Because they may be taking ages. I don't want ages. Just a quick fuck or suck.
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We met a single guy once who didnt kiss ( we didnt know that before we started playin). We nick named him mr no emotion. Kissin really gets me goin so was a let dwn really |
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"To be honest kissing on a meet does nothing for me,if anything having a coffee or ashtray tasting tongue rammed down my throat is a real turn off "
see i dont mind kissing a bloke that smokes and trie to cover ti up with a mint...iquite like the taste, weird i know
kissing is essential for me, turns me on so much. plus its a great filler while they are getting round 2, 3, 4, 5......   |
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I'm just the opersite. I have met up with a number of couples at clubs where the woman doesn't want to kiss. For me it's so important to kiss. So important to make it good sex |
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"We have a few meetings where some males just want to fuck without any kissing etc. C dislikes that. Seems very selfish ?"
And many women wont kiss others than their hubbie. I don't see where fair comes into it myself I just see it as personal choice like condoms, anal and if you do bi or not. |
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