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What does a man have to do?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What does a man have to do to secure a meet? I’m polite, I reply to all messages and winks, I indulge in endless, non-offensive chat, I share nice pictures of myself (at least I have been told they are nice), I am flexible when I can meet, I am willing to travel 100 mile radius, I keep myself clean, fit, brush my teeth twice a day… but jeezo, I have only limited results in terms of meeting!!! I either have to change sex or maybe try the “fancy a shag” approach… or is there a third way???? Answers appreciated!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can be the nicest guy in the world and tick all the boxes but if they dont fancy you then it isnt going to happen you are 1 of hunderds of other single guys competing for the same peoples attention so they can pick and choose to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In this culture seems many of the women have choices who they want to meet... Alot of men on this site, even fewer couples and fewer single,women...
Basically don't give up...
Reading the profile of the person would help alot and not just looking at pics so you find you won't be wasting your time sending just polite emails that sound the same as every person is different.. You won't appeal,to everyone and,sometimes youcjust gotta dive in... I have a similar problem in that a lot of bi/gay women in the forums don't like hairy pussies as I have one... Whilst I wouldn't have sex with woman who is straight. Nor would I have sex with a couple who don't like bi men as my fb is bi too..
So you see everyone different.. You will find peeps you click with along the way..
. Hope this helps, Ebony  |
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"What does a man have to do to secure a meet? I’m polite, I reply to all messages and winks, I indulge in endless, non-offensive chat, I share nice pictures of myself (at least I have been told they are nice), I am flexible when I can meet, I am willing to travel 100 mile radius, I keep myself clean, fit, brush my teeth twice a day… but jeezo, I have only limited results in terms of meeting!!! I either have to change sex or maybe try the “fancy a shag” approach… or is there a third way???? Answers appreciated! "
see you should be brushing your teeth three times a day 
Seriously though it must get a bit disheartening but all we can say is keeep trying and good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have the same trouble,you appear to offer what the lady/couples want only to be deleted without even a polite no thanks.i know they get lots of mail from single guys but what about us having to mail them! and they all seem to want chapter and verse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As discussed yesterday evening, you need to forget all the rules and simply learn how to bake !"
A very sound proposition 
I can cook, but I usually refer to my cooking efforts as 'controlled burning'
Wolf
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What ever you do it will be wrong, send a one line message... not enough. Send a couple of well thought out paragraphs commenting on their profile and its deleted unread. Send a to the point sexually laden message and its too rude.
All you can do is be yourself and keep plugging away (no pun intended). Oh and even if you read all the profiles and only attempt to contact those that say or suggest they may be looking for someone like you... don't hold your breath waiting for a reply!
It is very difficult for a single guy over 50 to be taken seriously or even to be noticed. But it does work sometimes if you are patient. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"some guys would love to have had three meets in 11 months and consider you to be doing well.
sense of humour is quite particular to each person and hard to convey in a profile "
I do have a sense of humour... although when you write it out like that... it's not exactly side-splittingly funny!!!  Will review my patter to date to see how I can improve!! thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What does a man have to do to secure a meet? I’m polite, I reply to all messages and winks, I indulge in endless, non-offensive chat, I share nice pictures of myself (at least I have been told they are nice), I am flexible when I can meet, I am willing to travel 100 mile radius, I keep myself clean, fit, brush my teeth twice a day… but jeezo, I have only limited results in terms of meeting!!! I either have to change sex or maybe try the “fancy a shag” approach… or is there a third way???? Answers appreciated! "
make we say put some face pics on ya file babes does help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oscar Wilde advice. For single male profiles...
"when a man acts he is a puppet. When he describes he is a poet."
And one for the women....
"she will never love you unless you are always at her heels; women like to be bothered"
Ebony  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair I don't find it that bad. If your looking for something everyday then you have no chance but I can normally arrange something every 7 to 10 days. |
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