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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone on here fine with being used as a object rather than a human? Lol I'm not sure I'd care as its mainly about having sex but alot also want to feel emotionally wanted and that's including males not just women |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone on here fine with being used as a object rather than a human? Lol I'm not sure I'd care as its mainly about having sex but alot also want to feel emotionally wanted and that's including males not just women "
I have used human foot stools and tables before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.
Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference. |
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"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.
Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference. "
I agree.
The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.
Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.
I agree.
The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised. "
Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted.  |
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"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.
Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.
I agree.
The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised.
Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted. "
I do think that there is a genuine misunderstanding on the part of some men who think that the "type of woman" who joins a site like this is somehow different, almost subhuman.
I have also seen couples openly refer to single men as accessories, stunt cocks and human dildos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I'd mind, in fact it would make for a bit if a kinky session - but that's as a bloke with no real group to be categorised in. I understand when you do fit a demographic, being chosen simply because of it would start to get to you down. |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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TS are often fetishised by men and sometimes it annoys and sometimes it's not. Best way is to ask and find out. I'm not always in the mood to be fetishised. Porn has a lot to do with that of course and men are pretty simple creatures. I have had meets where I want to be completely depersonalised and treated as a sexual commodity and, tbh, most of those meets have been the best I've had. Sometimes though you just really crave a little intimacy and care. Those meets are pretty difficult to find. Men often ask me "what do you want?" and the reply is either "use me as a set of holes as hard as you can with no thoughts or feelings" or !" just treat me like you would treat a woman". Which one do you think men find more difficult? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.
Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.
I agree.
The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised.
Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted.
I do think that there is a genuine misunderstanding on the part of some men who think that the "type of woman" who joins a site like this is somehow different, almost subhuman.
I have also seen couples openly refer to single men as accessories, stunt cocks and human dildos. "
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"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.
Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.
I agree.
The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised.
Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted.
I do think that there is a genuine misunderstanding on the part of some men who think that the "type of woman" who joins a site like this is somehow different, almost subhuman.
I have also seen couples openly refer to single men as accessories, stunt cocks and human dildos. "
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