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Mrs and I have been chatting recently about when she’s away due to work inviting a guy to join her for the evening for drinks and back to her room for fun if there’s a attraction with me giving her the green light to play.
Has anyone heard of any nasty situations that have happened? |
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We met a guy who we know at a hotel for drinks and a meal and I let her go to his room for ten minutes by herself. They agreed to a strict 10 minutes and then come back to the bar where I was waiting for them. She phoned me and I sat and listened to what was going on....its amazing what you can do in 10 minutes |
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"Mrs and I have been chatting recently about when she’s away due to work inviting a guy to join her for the evening for drinks and back to her room for fun if there’s a attraction with me giving her the green light to play.
Has anyone heard of any nasty situations that have happened?"
Does she ever get to Leeds or Edinburgh ?  |
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over a year ago
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My other half will meet guys at hotels, but only ones close to where we live. Both of us want the security blanket of my being able to rescue her from any bad situation if the need arises. |
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over a year ago
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Ive done this a few times as i love hotel meets , ill often book and pay for the room .
I always get to know the folk im meeting first though and maybe have a chat on the phone to break the ice . |
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I've met many men in hotels and thankfully been fine safety wise. Make sure you know what room she's in, his personal details (name, phone number), and ask her to text you every so often so you have peace of mind she's okay. Use a hotel with CCTV (most have) and get him to sign in for the room as well if possible. If he's aware they're are multiple ways to identify his presence he'd be very stupid to try anything.
I always do this with a trusted friend if I'm meeting strange men and make sure they know my location. It's wise to be safe.
Also tell her not to do doggy unless she likes it bareback, men have been known to try it xx |
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When I go to hotel meets Damien is always aware of the room number and location. I always call him just before I'm about to enter so he knows I'm there and I'll always text him when I'm done.
I've been lucky enough that all my meets have been great and the men have been lovely xx |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"When I go to hotel meets Damien is always aware of the room number and location. I always call him just before I'm about to enter so he knows I'm there and I'll always text him when I'm done.
I've been lucky enough that all my meets have been great and the men have been lovely xx"
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Have done this with couples on many occasions and never had anything but a very good time. One guys insisted on watching via face time, was very horny when he shouted "oh my God, are you fucking my wife's arse" |
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Inviting a stranger to your hotel room is always a risk, for all concerned. You can only weigh up benefit v risk and mitigate that risk as far as possible. What has happened to other people is irrelevant. |
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"Mrs and I have been chatting recently about when she’s away due to work inviting a guy to join her for the evening for drinks and back to her room for fun if there’s a attraction with me giving her the green light to play.
Has anyone heard of any nasty situations that have happened?"
Not heard, but has happened to me. I was in hotel room alone. Well veri'd guy joined me. He was off his face! I had to do the deed and get him out quick. I didnt know how he'd of reacted if I'd just said leave from the start. Never again! I never play alone now. Never! |
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Mr N used to stay away a lot, I was telling him about this thread. He said the safest bet is to hook up with men who are away on business. Their company has often booked their room, the hotel will know who they work for so they're unlikely to behave badly.
He said he never got lucky though  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I've met many men in hotels and thankfully been fine safety wise. Make sure you know what room she's in, his personal details (name, phone number), and ask her to text you every so often so you have peace of mind she's okay. Use a hotel with CCTV (most have) and get him to sign in for the room as well if possible. If he's aware they're are multiple ways to identify his presence he'd be very stupid to try anything.
I always do this with a trusted friend if I'm meeting strange men and make sure they know my location. It's wise to be safe.
Also tell her not to do doggy unless she likes it bareback, men have been known to try it xx"
This info is excellent, op, it's identical to what we do, I also like the added security of a sent selfie of you two together and delivered before going to the room. If he's a safe bet he'll have no reason to object he's getting a great deal. Enjoy, op. |
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We have arranged for the mrs to meet a guy for drinks and if goes well back to her room.
What what a surprise!!! he isn’t replying on fab or WhatsApp
What’s wrong with these guys?
Very frustrating |
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"We have arranged for the mrs to meet a guy for drinks and if goes well back to her room.
What what a surprise!!! he isn’t replying on fab or WhatsApp
What’s wrong with these guys?
Very frustrating "
This seems to be how things go on here tbh...lots of let downs, no shows etc |
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over a year ago
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"We have been chatting with this guy for a couple of weeks and chatted on the phone but now we have arranged time and place for this evening it looks like he’s bottled it
Rant over…."
Where is the hotel maybe I can help |
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"Mrs and I have been chatting recently about when she’s away due to work inviting a guy to join her for the evening for drinks and back to her room for fun if there’s a attraction with me giving her the green light to play.
Has anyone heard of any nasty situations that have happened?"
Lol did this a few times with a previous fwb and I. You wouldn't believe the trouble we had finding a genuine guy who ticked all our boxes  . One arrived, late. His weener was like my middle finger and bent, he failed to get hard and hurt her with his fingers too !  .... Yes we'd be worried about your wife. My Mrs has had encounters alone with single guys but only those we'd already met together or in a club with me close by. You never know.... |
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"We have been chatting with this guy for a couple of weeks and chatted on the phone but now we have arranged time and place for this evening it looks like he’s bottled it
Rant over…."
Or has a Mrs at home... We've NEVER let anyone down in 8 years. |
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"We have arranged for the mrs to meet a guy for drinks and if goes well back to her room.
What what a surprise!!! he isn’t replying on fab or WhatsApp
What’s wrong with these guys?
Very frustrating "
Mrs at home, completely unaware. He was possibly just a fantasist too, gets off on arranging things but never follows through... |
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"I've met many men in hotels and thankfully been fine safety wise. Make sure you know what room she's in, his personal details (name, phone number), and ask her to text you every so often so you have peace of mind she's okay. Use a hotel with CCTV (most have) and get him to sign in for the room as well if possible. If he's aware they're are multiple ways to identify his presence he'd be very stupid to try anything.
I always do this with a trusted friend if I'm meeting strange men and make sure they know my location. It's wise to be safe.
Also tell her not to do doggy unless she likes it bareback, men have been known to try it xx
This info is excellent, op, it's identical to what we do, I also like the added security of a sent selfie of you two together and delivered before going to the room. If he's a safe bet he'll have no reason to object he's getting a great deal. Enjoy, op."
Great advice  . If he has nothing to worry about there should be nothing to worry about |
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"We have arranged for the mrs to meet a guy for drinks and if goes well back to her room.
What what a surprise!!! he isn’t replying on fab or WhatsApp
What’s wrong with these guys?
Very frustrating "
His loss, your wife looks lovely in the photos, very sexy. |
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