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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey there
I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??
And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world
But would like to hear from u and tips or advices
Is messages like : I would like to meet
Up to meet
Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad??? |
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"Hey there
I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??
And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world
But would like to hear from u and tips or advices
Is messages like : I would like to meet
Up to meet
Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad???"
That type of message to me is bad. Try paying someone a compliment or asking a question about their profile or photos. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read their profile and based on that ask them an interesting question. I hate the examples you have given and would never respond to messages like that.
If someone’s put some effort in they are more likely to get a response, even if it’s a no. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic 
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Aha
Seems like this is the right way tho as u all agreed and mentioned same point
Gonna try my best tho and hope get replied
Ur bio is???? And ur video there just next level |
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Most people are not compatible with most other people. Because of this, most messages will ultimately react a dead end. Poorer messages are likely to get there sooner, as they're not giving the sender much, if any, chances at all.
Read around the forum for other advice on this. Don't engage in chat that presumes anything.
Be yourself. Your message and profile need to sell you, not the you that the forum advise you to be. Recipients invariably view and read the profile of the sender before reading the message. Ensure it is top notch and sells you. |
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"Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd "
Avoid like the plague  |
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"Hey there
I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??
And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world
But would like to hear from u and tips or advices
Is messages like : I would like to meet
Up to meet
Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad???"
Skip all text speak  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd "
Is this some kind of wind up???
Gentlemanly messages written in proper English and honed to the profile will see you in good stead.
'U want fuk' would dry up the moistest of soakin' minges in a second.
(I might give the 'U r 2 hotty...'one a go though  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All individuals like compliments differently. It's like a game of Jenga. You play very tactfully and even that one brick that you thought was the golden one could knock it down. |
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First thing I’ll do when I get a message is check out their profile. If it’s weak and uninspired I’ll probably not go any further. The caveat would be if the message had everything the profile was lacking.
So my advice is create a profile worth reading and pictures worth salivating over. Then tailor your message to that person’s profile. Especially hint that something in your profile matches their interests or what they’re looking for in a meeting.
A ‘fancy a fuk’ message will maybe get one reply in a hundred and I doubt it’ll be pleasant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to isn’t so…
Just message someone like you would approach them in person |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd "
If that’s what your sending no wonder your not having much luck |
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"Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd
If that’s what your sending no wonder your not having much luck"
This^^^ if you cant naturally to a woman you have no chance. Sexual messages get you blocked instantly with most on here. Respect is key! |
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"It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to isn’t so…
Just message someone like you would approach them in person"
Now this guy talks sense. Even then you aint guaranteed a fuck. |
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"Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd "
Perfect to send to couples, don’t forget to ask them
If you can “fuck your slut wife hard up the ass”
You will soon be beating them off with a shitty stick  |
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")Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd
Is this some kind of wind up???
Gentlemanly messages written in proper English and honed to the profile will see you in good stead.
'U want fuk' would dry up the moistest of soakin' minges in a second.
(I might give the 'U r 2 hotty...'one a go though )"
Pussies will dry up like a prune in the sun with hid banter. |
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"Aha
Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?
Like
U look gorgeous in the last pic
U r too hotty with that cum in ur face
Are these gd
If that’s what your sending no wonder your not having much luck"
I’m leaving fab now, the rest of us men don’t stand a chance ! |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
This is what works OP. Read a woman's profile in full at least 3 times and be sure you meet everyone one of her stated essential requirements.Write your message with good grammar and spelling and no text speak.Attach a face photo. Write about things on her profile and don't write about sex.It won't work every time but worth you trying . Remember you are trying to get a reply in the first instance . |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?"
Well we'd ignore you simply because your profile picture appears on three other web sites. Now it *could* be that you're a model and they are legitimately using your photo. But it's far more likely that you've stolen it and are therefore NOT going to look like that.
(Bry) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I found it easier there as i can say like about drinks or vibes there and start chatting, there will sure get a reply either way if yh or nh but here just ignored ??
Like ur curves btw |
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"Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.
Just reverse serach his profile pic.
How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me.
Report him"
Already have, just making it public so others can too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.
Just reverse serach his profile pic.
How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me."
Yh hun sry this is not me there as I’m playing discreet
But I’m photo verified and just join this world
Sry for that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll do
Use "reply and quote" otherwise no-one knows who/what you're replying to.
(Bry)"
Yh sry they just told me
I’m sry don’t know that much here
Thank u |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.
Just reverse serach his profile pic.
How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me.
Report him"
Sry why ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?
Well we'd ignore you simply because your profile picture appears on three other web sites. Now it *could* be that you're a model and they are legitimately using your photo. But it's far more likely that you've stolen it and are therefore NOT going to look like that.
(Bry)"
Yh yh I’m so sorry i just mentioned that’s not me but I’m photo verified
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?
Well we'd ignore you simply because your profile picture appears on three other web sites. Now it *could* be that you're a model and they are legitimately using your photo. But it's far more likely that you've stolen it and are therefore NOT going to look like that.
(Bry)
Yh yh I’m so sorry i just mentioned that’s not me but I’m photo verified
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You are not allowed to use others photos pretending they are your own. Being photo verified means nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?
Well we'd ignore you simply because your profile picture appears on three other web sites. Now it *could* be that you're a model and they are legitimately using your photo. But it's far more likely that you've stolen it and are therefore NOT going to look like that.
(Bry)
I’m sry gonna delete it now
Yh yh I’m so sorry i just mentioned that’s not me but I’m photo verified
You are not allowed to use others photos pretending they are your own. Being photo verified means nothing"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fake account. Google shows this pic on liposuction site. "
I’m so sry yh that’s not me but I’ll delete it
Btw each time i chat with anyone i tell them and send my face pic
But not pretending this is me
So sry for that
Apologies |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So sry all of u
I’m not pretending to be anyone
I just delete that pic and I’m so sry for that
Excuse my lack of experience here
Thank you all for ur messages and advices u gave me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey there
I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??
And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world
But would like to hear from u and tips or advices
Is messages like : I would like to meet
Up to meet
Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad???"
Try writing in English and not text speak or whatever it is you're writing in. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"So sry all of u
I’m not pretending to be anyone
I just delete that pic and I’m so sry for that
Excuse my lack of experience here
Thank you all for ur messages and advices u gave me
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Credit for removing the picture and even for coming back to your thread and reading replies - far too many guys ask for advice then never acknowledge it.
It looks like English isn't your first language, so you're up against it a bit. But try and avoid "text speak" - in other words, type out your full words. Maybe say something on your profile about where you're from, and even start off your messages explaining that you're (whatever nationality) and excuse the mistakes.
That might even be a bonus - Char has a big thing for foreign accents and I'm sure others do, too.
(Bry) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey there
I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??
And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world
But would like to hear from u and tips or advices
Is messages like : I would like to meet
Up to meet
Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are
bad???
Aha
Thank you so much
I will try to write in better way
Try writing in English and not text speak or whatever it is you're writing in. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So sry all of u
I’m not pretending to be anyone
I just delete that pic and I’m so sry for that
Excuse my lack of experience here
Thank you all for ur messages and advices u gave me
Credit for removing the picture and even for coming back to your thread and reading replies - far too many guys ask for advice then never acknowledge it.
It looks like English isn't your first language, so you're up against it a bit. But try and avoid "text speak" - in other words, type out your full words. Maybe say something on your profile about where you're from, and even start off your messages explaining that you're (whatever nationality) and excuse the mistakes.
That might even be a bonus - Char has a big thing for foreign accents and I'm sure others do, too.
(Bry)"
Thank you so much
But yes you are right
English is not my first language and for the last year i was trying my hard to make it good
But yes i got what you mean I’ll try to update my bio with more details about me , and i will start write in English not to speak which is what i was doing actually
Appreciate your tips
Stay safe ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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advice from the forums just make your profile not you and like the 100s who ask every week all the same boring profiles that will still get you no where ... why cant you just be you learn as your going along as a woman i want to know from your profile if im interested or not from the real you not you pretending to be someone else from advice you've taken ...
your taking advice from the smallest crowd on fab ...half of whom never play ??? be yourself lets see the real you so people can make there minds up for themselves ....the real reason your getting nowhere is down to the fact there are 100s xx of men per women thats the real reason tour getting nowhere ... |
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