There's not much I can say really, still not had my first meet... I'm 18, from st Helens, im straight. Not the arrogant type that'll ignore you though, so if you fancy a chat just message me! Looking for women and couples, maybe teach me a few things. Thanks for reading, dont be shy! X

Have you tried messaging a lady asking if she fancies a shag? I don't think you are being blunt enough.

If its lessons you're looking for, Google the meaning of sarcasm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I try not to be so blunt, but I think im quite looked down upon as another 'horny little shit' after a wank!

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I try not to be so blunt, but I think im quite looked down upon as another 'horny little shit' after a wank!"

Try and not be one and you will do fine. Have some patience, get to know people. NSA does not mean quick and dirty (well, not all the time

) to many of us. You are also young and lots of people just don't meet men (and women) the same ages as their children. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swinging is a very social scene, an adult scene which requires maturity and discretion. it is not adults on here having sex with anyone who messages them. You would have much more success in the town on a Saturday night than you will here.

Not much to say really - will that opening line have people rushing to contact you? Well clearly not. You need to expand on your profile and tell people about you, have something to say, can you really not think of anything to say about yourself, if you can't, then others' aren't going to be bothered to ask either.

You come across as an 18 year old kid who thinks swinging is an easy way to pick up women for sex - if that's not you then think of ways to ensure people don't get that impression

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I try not to be so blunt, but I think im quite looked down upon as another 'horny little shit' after a wank!"

So what exactly is it that you have to offer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well to be fair, I'm not like every other 18 year old lad, im not here for easy sex, im here to have a laugh, meet new people, and hopefully sex. I'm interested in everything about swinging, not just the sex.

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By *teve261970Man over a year ago

Gateshead

"Well to be fair, I'm not like every other 18 year old lad, im not here for easy sex, im here to have a laugh, meet new people, and hopefully sex. I'm interested in everything about swinging, not just the sex."

Try putting that in your profile then, rather than "not much to say really" not a good start mate. I Agree with others you may fin it hard getting started on here but I would advise start using forums and getting to know people a little, there are some younger couples and women on here though.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually, I meant sexually...

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

The above is not coming across in your profile.

"I try not to be so blunt, but I think im quite looked down upon as another 'horny little shit' after a wank!"

This is what is coming across in your profile.

Expand your profile, explain what you are looking for, what you would like to try. At the minute you sound like a horny 18 year old trying to get his dick wet.

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