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Is Wealth Sexy/Attractive?
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By *ansduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Simple question, so is someone with wealth sexier to you and more attractive, than someone without it? Not alluding to prostitution here, before I'm asked. |
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No, how would you even know they are wealthy unless they told you & that wouldn't be an attractive trait
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all. Couldnt care less if she was min wage payed or 120k a year dentistry consultant.
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Funny I was talking about this the other day.
I have a very good career and when I’m in an environment where people know me and what I do I get a lot of attention, and I have alot of issues with peoples jealousy. I’m an attractive guy, but I do feel that over time and experience that power, money and sex make the world go around. |
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No not at all if I'm attracted to a person its because of the person and not the bank account |
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I reckon it matters a lot more to women when considering long-term partners than it does men.
Not a popular opinion but I personally think it’s received wisdom that women seek to ‘marry up’ whereas the onus is on men to be breadwinners lessening the importance of a woman’s financial situation. |
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By *ansduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Yes, I can already sense that many either truly don't find it attractive or don't wish to say. Women definitely see that an attractive trait for the reasons stated earlier. |
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That said I think the bar is pretty low - just have some semblance of ambition and independence and it’s a non-issue.
It’s when people who could otherwise make the effort to pursue a career of sorts opt not to that it betrays them as frankly unreliable.
If you’re a decent person and are trying your best to do something to pay the bills and provide an acceptable lifestyle it becomes redundant.
Anyone seeking to somehow buy affection will find themselves naturally in the company of people who have a price.
Can’t be much fun. |
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
Bridgend |
I think wealth does attract women unfortunately I am skint |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I am not materialistic. However I would not be attracted to someone deliberately living on benefits through laziness alone, not for genuine reasons  |
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It can often be unattractive if they use it as their USP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not at all. Couldnt care less if she was min wage payed or 120k a year dentistry consultant.
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I couldn't care if she doesn't have income at all. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
It’s all relative isn’t it. If two people equally attractive to you in all other ways offer to accommodate you, if one is offering a night in a luxury hotel and one is offering a night in a damp hovel, most people will opt for the former.
It’s not the wealth making them attractive, it’s what it allows them to offer. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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No I'm not materialistic so someone's wealth would never influence me to meet them. I always have and always will pay my own way.
The only time it would influence me is when someone is using their wealth as a way to show off and act like it should be a reason I would want to meet them. It has had the complete opposite effect and in fact makes that person very unattractive in my eyes. Especially when they are snidey to others because they may not be so well off.It amazes me that people allow it to infulence them .
A nasty personality is a nasty personality no matter how much money they have and no amount of money will make up for that. |
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Sexiness comes from within, nowhere else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I think so... Where are all wealthy women?  |
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Much prefer a nice person over any amount of money on the bank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not materialistic so someone's wealth would never influence me to meet them. I always have and always will pay my own way.
The only time it would influence me is when someone is using their wealth as a way to show off and act like it should be a reason I would want to meet them. It has had the complete opposite effect and in fact makes that person very unattractive in my eyes. Especially when they are snidey to others because they may not be so well off.It amazes me that people allow it to infulence them .
A nasty personality is a nasty personality no matter how much money they have and no amount of money will make up for that. "
100% spot on everything you wrote |
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By *ansduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
But isn't wealth related to position and intelligence? Not always, but there is a strong correlation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God i hope not, im already punching above my weight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But isn't wealth related to position and intelligence? Not always, but there is a strong correlation. "
I imagine there is a strong correlation between intelligence and wealth.
I also never wanted to off Stephen Hawkins. I think its simply something that can make life easier. Id love my mrs regardless but I'd prefer she had billions in the bank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not ..I much prefer someone who is genuine..money doesn't make them any better than someone that earns less Money |
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try watching some of these
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"But isn't wealth related to position and intelligence? Not always, but there is a strong correlation. "
I really don’t believe this - most of the rich have inherited their wealth.
As much as we’re told we live in a meritocracy I refuse to believe there is equality of opportunity.
Merely being born and raised in London, for instance, offers far more opportunities than not.
Access to capital and resources is far more important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s all relative isn’t it. If two people equally attractive to you in all other ways offer to accommodate you, if one is offering a night in a luxury hotel and one is offering a night in a damp hovel, most people will opt for the former.
It’s not the wealth making them attractive, it’s what it allows them to offer."
Can I take them both on their offer?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not materialistic so someone's wealth would never influence me to meet them. I always have and always will pay my own way.
The only time it would influence me is when someone is using their wealth as a way to show off and act like it should be a reason I would want to meet them. It has had the complete opposite effect and in fact makes that person very unattractive in my eyes. Especially when they are snidey to others because they may not be so well off.It amazes me that people allow it to infulence them .
A nasty personality is a nasty personality no matter how much money they have and no amount of money will make up for that. "
Oooooft! Would you marry me?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not materialistic so someone's wealth would never influence me to meet them. I always have and always will pay my own way.
The only time it would influence me is when someone is using their wealth as a way to show off and act like it should be a reason I would want to meet them. It has had the complete opposite effect and in fact makes that person very unattractive in my eyes. Especially when they are snidey to others because they may not be so well off.It amazes me that people allow it to infulence them .
A nasty personality is a nasty personality no matter how much money they have and no amount of money will make up for that. "
Totally agree. |
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By *enitentsCouple
over a year ago
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Also wealth is usually related to success and with that confidence which is very attractive in both sexes |
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"Simple question, so is someone with wealth sexier to you and more attractive, than someone without it? Not alluding to prostitution here, before I'm asked. "
No in general, wealth often ruins their character and can make them somewhat snobbish... Last couple we met had an absolutely lovely place and clearly very well off !, yet he didn't want anyone in his jacuzzi as he liked it spotless PMSL (one of several deal breaking issues  ) |
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"But isn't wealth related to position and intelligence? Not always, but there is a strong correlation. "
Lol absolutely not !. I personally know of some lovely scientists yet many wealthy are far from intelligent and clearly think of themselves above most others around them. |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
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Girls don't like boys
Girls like cars and money. |
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"Girls don't like boys
Girls like cars and money. "
Good job most of us are women and men then  |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"It’s all relative isn’t it. If two people equally attractive to you in all other ways offer to accommodate you, if one is offering a night in a luxury hotel and one is offering a night in a damp hovel, most people will opt for the former.
It’s not the wealth making them attractive, it’s what it allows them to offer.
Can I take them both on their offer? "
No, both available only on the same night at the same time…so maybe suggest a threesome!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, how would you even know they are wealthy unless they told you & that wouldn't be an attractive trait
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Agree |
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I don't find wealth unattractive. It makes no difference to what I think of how the person looks or if I find them sexy. |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
A world all of his own |
If I find someone attractive, it's because I find *them* attractive, not because of their wealth or financial standing, whichever side of the coin it falls on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest |
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"Simple question, so is someone with wealth sexier to you and more attractive, than someone without it? Not alluding to prostitution here, before I'm asked. "
Hell yes it’s horrible being piss poor |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never thought of asking about their financial situation when meeting people. It matters not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, how would you even know they are wealthy unless they told you & that wouldn't be an attractive trait
Agree "
One of my biggest turn offs anyone mentioning money and how much they make / materialistic things they have |
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"Simple question, so is someone with wealth sexier to you and more attractive, than someone without it? Not alluding to prostitution here, before I'm asked.
Hell yes it’s horrible being piss poor "
Money won’t solve all of your problems but it’ll solve your money problems! |
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Whilst money in itself doesn't make a person more or less attractive, surely it's undeniable that the ability to dress nicely, look smart, buy sex toys and lingerie etc will attract people more at the first meeting?
Being unable to present themselves in an attractive way is yet another example of how less privileged people are at a disadvantage. |
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Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have .. |
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Nope not at all, I can provide for myself and my kids on my own wage. Rather be with someone that loved me than one who has material things. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A man who mentions wealth or status to me will be turning me off. It's not sexy in the least. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have .."
We drive his and her's very expensive cars.
We own a portfolio of property.
It means absolutely jack shit. |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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"A man who mentions wealth or status to me will be turning me off. It's not sexy in the least. "
Most people who have to talk about it haven't really got a lot.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst money in itself doesn't make a person more or less attractive, surely it's undeniable that the ability to dress nicely, look smart, buy sex toys and lingerie etc will attract people more at the first meeting?
Being unable to present themselves in an attractive way is yet another example of how less privileged people are at a disadvantage."
One can dress nicely and look smart with little money. Buying sex toys and lingerie - how is that relevant to attracting someone? I have a few cheap bits of lingerie I've bought over a couple of years and no sex toys. Does that really reduce my attractiveness? |
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"Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have ..
We drive his and her's very expensive cars.
We own a portfolio of property.
It means absolutely jack shit."
It wasn’t a my dick is bigger than your dick post ..
I’m saying how it gets attention ..
I was stating a fact..
You obviously read my post as a show off one and you couldn’t of been further from the truth !! |
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"Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have .."
I sympathised with his victims because they are the victims of a fraudulent con artist BUT they’d never have given him the time of day and been in a position to be defrauded were he to not present himself as a billionaire. |
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"Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have ..
I sympathised with his victims because they are the victims of a fraudulent con artist BUT they’d never have given him the time of day and been in a position to be defrauded were he to not present himself as a billionaire."
Exactly my point ..
Most people with flashy houses and cars own about 5% of both ..
But shallow people chase it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have ..
We drive his and her's very expensive cars.
We own a portfolio of property.
It means absolutely jack shit.
It wasn’t a my dick is bigger than your dick post ..
I’m saying how it gets attention ..
I was stating a fact..
You obviously read my post as a show off one and you couldn’t of been further from the truth !!"
Some women will pay attention to a display of wealth. Not all. Mentioning that you own an extremely expensive car does seem like showing off to be fair. |
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"Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have ..
We drive his and her's very expensive cars.
We own a portfolio of property.
It means absolutely jack shit.
It wasn’t a my dick is bigger than your dick post ..
I’m saying how it gets attention ..
I was stating a fact..
You obviously read my post as a show off one and you couldn’t of been further from the truth !!
Some women will pay attention to a display of wealth. Not all. Mentioning that you own an extremely expensive car does seem like showing off to be fair. "
I was merely saying my experiences..
The difference I’ve experienced..
And it’s a company car !! I’m penniless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely op ..
I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
You only have to watch tinder swindler ..
He got girls in every city because of the lifestyle he was pretending to have ..
We drive his and her's very expensive cars.
We own a portfolio of property.
It means absolutely jack shit.
It wasn’t a my dick is bigger than your dick post ..
I’m saying how it gets attention ..
I was stating a fact..
You obviously read my post as a show off one and you couldn’t of been further from the truth !!
Some women will pay attention to a display of wealth. Not all. Mentioning that you own an extremely expensive car does seem like showing off to be fair.
I was merely saying my experiences..
The difference I’ve experienced..
And it’s a company car !! I’m penniless "
I was merely saying my opinion |
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Money alone isn’t enough generally but there are definitely people that are drawn to people with money and status. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Means nothing to me. You can't buy someone's effection  |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH. |
Yeah I always ask has the guy got a big bank balance before deep throating xxxxx Suzi |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH. |
"Means nothing to me. You can't buy someone's effection "
Surely it's affection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no anyone who use money to get what they want sexually is in my eyes a turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had someone message
First line was along the lines of
So I've made my first million
Followed with
Fancy meeting up
It was a no from us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Means nothing to me. You can't buy someone's effection
Surely it's affection"
Damn my fat fingers....if only they were good for something! |
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"It can often be unattractive if they use it as their USP. "
It IS unattractive if they use it as their USP. There's a few who do this on the forums, here and there, and it makes me teeth stand on end, it's that cringe worthy.
Wealth is irrelevant to me. Well, it had better be, otherwise I got married for all the wrong reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had guys contact me on here, boasting about their wealth, offering to take me on holidays or on expensive shopping trips.
My response? An instant block.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn't care less, it holds no weight in how attractive I find someone. Rich, poor, if you're hit the you're hot.
However, the 'I'm considerably richer than you' flashiness is an instant turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care what you have, I care how you treat me.
I have an ex who is a millionaire, but he's still my ex, through my choice.
I've also repeatedly turned down someone else who was very very wealthy, and would have changed my life financially, because he was nice, but not for me. He's now very happy with another lady and I hope they have the best life together.
I'd rather be as I am than sell myself short just because someone has money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs Merton once asked Debbie McGee “So Debbie, what first attracted you to the millionaire, Paul Daniels?”
Wealth seems to be perceived as attractive by many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did .."
I've driven all sorts of cars over the years but when I drive either if my weekend cars, one's twenty years old and the other twenty four years old, they get more attention than newer much more expensive cars!
Wealth and cost is meaningless to most people. |
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By *akie32Man
over a year ago
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always reminds me of mrs merton interveing debbie magee, "so what attracted you to the multi millionare paul danuals" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's the drive and ambition I find attractive, not wealth. Sometimes wealth is a by product of that but sometimes it's not.
But to me having the confidence in knowing what you want and working for it is important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had guys contact me on here, boasting about their wealth, offering to take me on holidays or on expensive shopping trips.
My response? An instant block.
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The Michelin star restaurants too, Dieu. Think we are meant to drop our knickers at the mention.  |
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Not at all, just the idea of being attracted to wealth makes me cringe Miss pc |
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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago
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I drive an extremely expensive car nowadays..
And it gets me more attention than my BMW ever did ..
I've driven all sorts of cars over the years but when I drive either if my weekend cars, one's twenty years old and the other twenty four years old, they get more attention than newer much more expensive cars!
Wealth and cost is meaningless to most people. "
With you there!
One of our cars is a vintage 50 year old Jaguar. Stunning to us, but to others it is just a car. No new car even comes close to it in pure class.
Does it make people more attracted to either of us? Not at all.
New cars are so easily available to lease, is it a sign of wealth or a sign of vanity!
A guy used to slowly drive round our town, Black Bentley, personal plates. Giving it large.
It was leased, and it was the only thing he had in his life, which he didn't even own!
Fantastic to him we guess, but again means not a lot to others.
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"I’ve had guys contact me on here, boasting about their wealth, offering to take me on holidays or on expensive shopping trips.
My response? An instant block.
The Michelin star restaurants too, Dieu. Think we are meant to drop our knickers at the mention. "
They seem to serve teeny portions at Michelin starred restaurants. I'd not be satisfied  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had guys contact me on here, boasting about their wealth, offering to take me on holidays or on expensive shopping trips.
My response? An instant block.
The Michelin star restaurants too, Dieu. Think we are meant to drop our knickers at the mention.
They seem to serve teeny portions at Michelin starred restaurants. I'd not be satisfied "
I wouldn't know... |
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"I’ve had guys contact me on here, boasting about their wealth, offering to take me on holidays or on expensive shopping trips.
My response? An instant block.
The Michelin star restaurants too, Dieu. Think we are meant to drop our knickers at the mention.
They seem to serve teeny portions at Michelin starred restaurants. I'd not be satisfied
I wouldn't know... "
Oh, I've never actually been to one because I refuse to pay £££ for a whisp of asparagus on a pea sized blob of mash or whatever, but I saw it on the telly (so it must be true ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve had guys contact me on here, boasting about their wealth, offering to take me on holidays or on expensive shopping trips.
My response? An instant block.
The Michelin star restaurants too, Dieu. Think we are meant to drop our knickers at the mention.
They seem to serve teeny portions at Michelin starred restaurants. I'd not be satisfied
I wouldn't know...
Oh, I've never actually been to one because I refuse to pay £££ for a whisp of asparagus on a pea sized blob of mash or whatever, but I saw it on the telly (so it must be true )"
Oh! Well if it was on the telly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of our cars is a vintage 50 year old Jaguar. Stunning to us, but to others it is just a car. No new car even comes close to it in pure class."
That sounds lovely! May I ask what model it is?
I had a ten year old Alfa Romeo 159 (ten years old by the it went) and that got more attention than the neighbour's brand new Lexus - he could never understand it! It was as if because it was new, he should somehow earn everybody's respect and admiration!
Out where I live, there are landed families, with huge wealth - I know a few people like this well and you'd never know! One lady drives to the local shop in Y reg Vauxhall Corsa, not showing off in the slightest.
Her family could probably afford to buy most of the village! Just to add to the three or four they already own!
If someone wishes to appear wealthy, I think it's often a red flag! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I've had relationships with both ends of the scale I've got to say the one that wasn't wealthy is the one the one that made me feel a million dollars ."
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over a year ago
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I think younger men can be attracted to older women of higher wealth/status. |
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Wealth achieved by career success is an attractive trait for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, how would you even know they are wealthy unless they told you & that wouldn't be an attractive trait
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As soon as they mention money it's a turn off. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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Truth of it but no one will admit it.
On a site like this one specially for a lot of women an maybe some men too,wealth will always get attention and put a someone in a better position.
If I took my pic next to a ferrari outside a big house in the ba kground and a job description as CEO of a successful company.
Another standing by a 10 year micra with a run down terrace house and a blue collar job I KNOW which one will get the bigger response.
I am also pretty sure no one will admit it though.
I can't say anything for guys profiles cos I don't look at them but look how many women's profile make I clear they want looking after paid for and kept, judging by the sugar daddy requests on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Truth of it but no one will admit it.
On a site like this one specially for a lot of women an maybe some men too,wealth will always get attention and put a someone in a better position.
If I took my pic next to a ferrari outside a big house in the ba kground and a job description as CEO of a successful company.
Another standing by a 10 year micra with a run down terrace house and a blue collar job I KNOW which one will get the bigger response.
I am also pretty sure no one will admit it though.
I can't say anything for guys profiles cos I don't look at them but look how many women's profile make I clear they want looking after paid for and kept, judging by the sugar daddy requests on here."
The posh car would definitely get more interest. Likely a ton of spam messages hinting at meets for money. Or being 'spoiled'... because fancy meals and clothes as gifts aren't prostitution. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
It can be rewarding to enjoy the pleasures but never attractive money is just that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Truth of it but no one will admit it.
On a site like this one specially for a lot of women an maybe some men too,wealth will always get attention and put a someone in a better position.
If I took my pic next to a ferrari outside a big house in the ba kground and a job description as CEO of a successful company.
Another standing by a 10 year micra with a run down terrace house and a blue collar job I KNOW which one will get the bigger response.
I am also pretty sure no one will admit it though.
I can't say anything for guys profiles cos I don't look at them but look how many women's profile make I clear they want looking after paid for and kept, judging by the sugar daddy requests on here."
It's your truth. Not THE truth. |
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My very first fab meet was an absolute disaster because of the woman's attitude and thinking she could cross boundaries she had neglected to discuss. She boasted about her wealth and how many cars were in her driveway and I've often put her inappropriate behaviour down to a sense of entitlement and being able to get away with whatever she wanted.
I've seen another woman shedding crocodile tears over letting staff go as a result of covid while also boasting about having a dressing room filled with still labelled clothes valued at £1000s.
It's not a good look and is more unattractive. |
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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago
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People who are successful, if they have a nice personality, can be more attractive as they are generally intelligent, have money to look after themselves, are well travelled and can be interesting conversationalists. They are often very charming and funny as they have used this combination of skills to become successful in the first place.
It’s not the major attraction to be wealthy but it doesn’t do any harm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, money doesn't bother me, as long as we mutually find each other attractive and make me laugh, doesn't matter if you have a fiver or 5 million.
Danish x |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
On here someone's financial status doesn't bother me at all. If I was looking for a life partner, yes, it's different, something to take into consideration but not the be all and end all though! |
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Yes, hi to all the rich people out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d be attracted to someone in spite of their wealth, not because of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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50 Trillion in bank or 50p in your pocket ..... at end of the day your graves will all be the same size ..#FACT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally used to earn a fortune £60..£80 per year after tax and chase more .. house paid off at 25 .. new cars ..holidays ..100k watches diamonds for her .. were we happy ?? Was we fuck .. she left few times and I woke up .. today we plod on .. shes self employed .. I've not worked for 7 years only doing our own houses up .. lifes 1 million % happier ..
Money is the root to all evil .God bless you all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes money does increase attractiveness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me. It has no bearing on whether I want to spend time with a man. And on the occasions when men mention their wealth rather obviously - it's a turn off. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Not at all I think it can quite easily unattractive too. I think success and drive can be attractive sometimes and often leads to wealth but even that can be unattractive.
Generosity and kindness is very attractive and costs nothing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one."
Based on women I’ve met and likely attitudes I’d honestly take my chances with the 2nd one |
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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago
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With wealth comes power and this has always attracted people of both sexes. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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A good laugh, good sense of humour, nice smile, bit of confidence, pride in appearance doesn't need wealth. If you are talking about wealth this means disposable income to the hundreds of thousands - something which the majority don't have or ever mix with. A sense of humour, nice smile, decent style and confidence crosses boundaries though. |
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one."
None of those things are important ! I’ve been ‘fortunate’ (if you want to call it that) enough to have had a marriage with supercars, electric gates and superb holidays. It’s utter bull shit and superficial. I’m financially independent & have a good job & these were things we both worked hard for.
My 2nd marriage is different as his priorities are different and I’m blissfully happy.
I’m not impressed by stuff. I’m impressed by people who work hard for what they have though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But we're not talking marriages or relationships.
We're talking attraction.
Now dont conflate wealth and being a braggart, but every single fictional male romantic interest also happens to be rich as fuck living in a mansion. |
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"But we're not talking marriages or relationships.
We're talking attraction.
Now dont conflate wealth and being a braggart, but every single fictional male romantic interest also happens to be rich as fuck living in a mansion."
Yes that’s true it’s not helpful is it !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Simple question, so is someone with wealth sexier to you and more attractive, than someone without it? Not alluding to prostitution here, before I'm asked. "
Absolutely not. I particularly hate greedy materialistic attitudes. Having a drive in life and wanting security is a different matter. I would personally go for a working class lad that had worked hard in life and was modest over a millionaire or upper class any day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But we're not talking marriages or relationships.
We're talking attraction.
Now dont conflate wealth and being a braggart, but every single fictional male romantic interest also happens to be rich as fuck living in a mansion.
Yes that’s true it’s not helpful is it !! "
True, I've always wanted to be a sugar daddy but with my bank balance it's more Splenda Daddy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see a woman being swept off her feet with being taken out for meals and offered a weekend away to European city’s… and she says yes.
I dunno if wealth is attractive, I’ve never been offered anything like that.
But I do not what attracts me, and it’s not her money. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think so. Its clearly an individual choice but for me.the connection to the person is what's key. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a millionaire, you wouldn't think it if you saw me. |
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Would love to meet a rich woman,be her bit of rough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny I was talking about this the other day.
I have a very good career and when I’m in an environment where people know me and what I do I get a lot of attention, and I have alot of issues with peoples jealousy. I’m an attractive guy, but I do feel that over time and experience that power, money and sex make the world go around."
Im a attractive guy, certainly not hideous but get next to no attention from women yet if i was wealthy they would be like flies. Money makes girls/boys fake and its hard enough to meet genuine people nowadays as it is as no one seems to want to get to know genuine people. |
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Wealth in itself isn't attractive, but confidence, intelligence and a joie de vivre is. Often that goes hand in hand with a successful career. |
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I don't think it alters my perception of how attractive someone is, but it does affect whether I think we're compatible or not. I repeatedly turned down someone on here despite getting along very well, as I had connected with him on Instagram and could see that he lived a very comfortable lifestyle...I like to pay my own way, and there was no way that I could afford to split the costs of the hotels and restaurants that he enjoyed (turned out that he was also very arrogant because he wasn't used to being rejected, but that only became apparent later). |
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"But we're not talking marriages or relationships.
We're talking attraction.
Now dont conflate wealth and being a braggart, but every single fictional male romantic interest also happens to be rich as fuck living in a mansion.
Yes that’s true it’s not helpful is it !!
True, I've always wanted to be a sugar daddy but with my bank balance it's more Splenda Daddy. "
Have you seen the price of sweeteners |
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These days, anyone can make themselves appear to have money!!! Loads of people spend money they don’t have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And very coincidentally I was reminded of this news story this morning:
"Man pretends to be Messi to sleep with women"
https://amp.marca.com/en/football/barcelona/2019/06/25/5d12838eca4741fc518b4608.html
So either they thought he was a famous millionaire footballer, or they were big sports fans! |
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"And very coincidentally I was reminded of this news story this morning:
"Man pretends to be Messi to sleep with women"
https://amp.marca.com/en/football/barcelona/2019/06/25/5d12838eca4741fc518b4608.html
So either they thought he was a famous millionaire footballer, or they were big sports fans! "
Like the old Paul daniels & Debbie McGee scenario ! |
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By *artegnaMan
over a year ago
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"Wealth in itself isn't attractive, but confidence, intelligence and a joie de vivre is. Often that goes hand in hand with a successful career."
Best answer money per se is not attractive but the character traits that enabled the success that’s been rewarded may well be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one."
Second man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny I was talking about this the other day.
I have a very good career and when I’m in an environment where people know me and what I do I get a lot of attention, and I have alot of issues with peoples jealousy. I’m an attractive guy, but I do feel that over time and experience that power, money and sex make the world go around.
Im a attractive guy, certainly not hideous but get next to no attention from women yet if i was wealthy they would be like flies. Money makes girls/boys fake and its hard enough to meet genuine people nowadays as it is as no one seems to want to get to know genuine people."
How do you know that money would mean women would suddenly find you attractive? You've no way to prove that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one."
What do they look like? How old? What are they like as people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny I was talking about this the other day.
I have a very good career and when I’m in an environment where people know me and what I do I get a lot of attention, and I have alot of issues with peoples jealousy. I’m an attractive guy, but I do feel that over time and experience that power, money and sex make the world go around.
Im a attractive guy, certainly not hideous but get next to no attention from women yet if i was wealthy they would be like flies. Money makes girls/boys fake and its hard enough to meet genuine people nowadays as it is as no one seems to want to get to know genuine people.
How do you know that money would mean women would suddenly find you attractive? You've no way to prove that. "
I think the amount of less than average looking guys/girls who are rich and have very attractive partners proves my point. Same with really big age gaps between a rich person and a much younger parntner. Goldiggers that what they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm loaded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't find having money makes someone sexy or attractive, for me it's more about how they behave and carry themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I've progressed through my career, from a professional and personal perspective I have found jealousy most prominent.
I don't know if being (relatively) successful is more sexy. If it is, for normal people, that probably stems from the potential security it offers. For others it could obviously be the overt trappings of wealth. From a fab perspective, I don't think it matters too much as most people are guarded about where they work or what they do.
It is an obvious correlation but I definitely attracted far more female attention when I had a really toned gym bod. That attention has diminished since Covid and my body becoming more akin to that of a 1978 ford Granada ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny I was talking about this the other day.
I have a very good career and when I’m in an environment where people know me and what I do I get a lot of attention, and I have alot of issues with peoples jealousy. I’m an attractive guy, but I do feel that over time and experience that power, money and sex make the world go around.
Im a attractive guy, certainly not hideous but get next to no attention from women yet if i was wealthy they would be like flies. Money makes girls/boys fake and its hard enough to meet genuine people nowadays as it is as no one seems to want to get to know genuine people.
How do you know that money would mean women would suddenly find you attractive? You've no way to prove that.
I think the amount of less than average looking guys/girls who are rich and have very attractive partners proves my point. Same with really big age gaps between a rich person and a much younger parntner. Goldiggers that what they are."
I've no doubt there are some people who are only with their partner for the money. But you're making a lot of assumptions. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't think it alters my perception of how attractive someone is, but it does affect whether I think we're compatible or not. I repeatedly turned down someone on here despite getting along very well, as I had connected with him on Instagram and could see that he lived a very comfortable lifestyle...I like to pay my own way, and there was no way that I could afford to split the costs of the hotels and restaurants that he enjoyed (turned out that he was also very arrogant because he wasn't used to being rejected, but that only became apparent later). "
That's really interesting. I remember a film where the less financially stable partner agreed to contribute proportionally to their own income. The guy earned
something like 10x what the woman earned and therefore they paid for stuff on something like a 90/10 basis. I thought that was an elegant solution.
I get Uber wealth may make the 10% unsustainable but it seemed like a decent compromise |
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By *el13ABCMan
over a year ago
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Money don't make u attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These days, anyone can make themselves appear to have money!!! Loads of people spend money they don’t have. "
Yep. I have friends who have £100k cars on finance and don't have any kind of assets, always flashing the cash in the pub, forcibly paying for things and I'm the one who gets questioned because I run my car into the ground but am relatively asset positive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny how people say "It doesn't matter if the guy's wealthy". How many homeless people have you met lately? Ever taken one off the street and taken them out for a meal? Doubt it. Wealth means different things to people. It could be having money, earning money, having a loving family and circle of friends etc. |
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over a year ago
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"Funny how people say "It doesn't matter if the guy's wealthy". How many homeless people have you met lately? Ever taken one off the street and taken them out for a meal? Doubt it. Wealth means different things to people. It could be having money, earning money, having a loving family and circle of friends etc. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Funny how people say "It doesn't matter if the guy's wealthy". How many homeless people have you met lately? Ever taken one off the street and taken them out for a meal? Doubt it. Wealth means different things to people. It could be having money, earning money, having a loving family and circle of friends etc.
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over a year ago
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"Funny how people say "It doesn't matter if the guy's wealthy". How many homeless people have you met lately? Ever taken one off the street and taken them out for a meal? Doubt it. Wealth means different things to people. It could be having money, earning money, having a loving family and circle of friends etc.
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Not me, doesn't have much bearing on me either way how wealthy a woman is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one.
What do they look like? How old? What are they like as people?"
All these things are irrelevent to the question. They're identical. |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one.
What do they look like? How old? What are they like as people?
All these things are irrelevent to the question. They're identical. "
The question is irrelevant because people aren't identical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All meets should be based upon the connection of the person - if the look nice, dress and smell nice and make you smile, that's all - nothing to do with money
100% true storey - in Hull on Thursday this week and was offered what seemed like an awesome opportunity to meet a sex young couple - after many messages agreeing time she then said would I "contribute £59 towards room cost" and she would only do Bj on first meet - two and two together turns out is was just a money scam
Now that's not the same as the OP posted, but you get my drift
Personality every time
J xx |
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over a year ago
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"All meets should be based upon the connection of the person - if the look nice, dress and smell nice and make you smile, that's all - nothing to do with money
100% true storey - in Hull on Thursday this week and was offered what seemed like an awesome opportunity to meet a sex young couple - after many messages agreeing time she then said would I "contribute £59 towards room cost" and she would only do Bj on first meet - two and two together turns out is was just a money scam
Now that's not the same as the OP posted, but you get my drift
Personality every time
J xx "
Well that's what you get for venturing from genteel Olde Yorke (I live in Hull ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one.
What do they look like? How old? What are they like as people?
All these things are irrelevent to the question. They're identical. "
The one without the Porsche then. I don't have anything so they wouldn't want me. |
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No, just had someone telling me they were a multi millionaire... Definitely didn't make him more attractive as he'd lied about his age for a start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one.
What do they look like? How old? What are they like as people?
All these things are irrelevent to the question. They're identical.
The question is irrelevant because people aren't identical. "
You've just destroyed the very basis of psychology. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes.
You've got two people.
One drives a porsche, has a nice apartment, eats in nice restaurants, buys toys and sexy lingerie and dresses very well.
The other does not.
Pick one.
What do they look like? How old? What are they like as people?
All these things are irrelevent to the question. They're identical.
The question is irrelevant because people aren't identical.
You've just destroyed the very basis of psychology."
Ooh! I feel so special |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont bother me its about the spark altho saying that i dont often click with super rich folks im too direct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wealth is a determining factor in a multi dimensional structure of attraction, wether us are aware of it or not. to what level it is important is different from person to person but there are things that you notice about people that is related to wealth that you don’t directly see as wealth. The way someone grooms or dresses can make someone seem more attractive which can be to do with disposable income. The car that someone drives the aftershave they wear the place they eat all realates to wealth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not interested in the slightest. If anything I'm more attracted too people from humble beginnings like myself, they are usually more my kind of people. |
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With so many profiles looking for "sugar daddies" "pay pigs" "men who like to spoil women" I'd say that for some wealth is attractive. Sexy and attractive are different and there is clearly an attraction to wealth for some women. |
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It can bring confidence which is sexy to me |
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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago
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Yes it is. But then I’m used to that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wealth is a determining factor in a multi dimensional structure of attraction, wether us are aware of it or not. to what level it is important is different from person to person but there are things that you notice about people that is related to wealth that you don’t directly see as wealth. The way someone grooms or dresses can make someone seem more attractive which can be to do with disposable income. The car that someone drives the aftershave they wear the place they eat all realates to wealth. "
Amazingly enough people can spot when a car is expensive... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how they carry it off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wealth itself is not attractive but it makes things that increase attractiveness more accessible. For example nice clothes, hairstyles, perfume etc.
I think I would be intimidated if a man was very wealthy as it would make me feel inferior and insecure, but at the same time I am attracted to ambition, which wealth is often a byproduct of. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I'm a millionaire, you wouldn't think it if you saw me."
Tbh a lot people with 20 years half decent career behind them should he a millionaire , it’s not a o lot of money these days , most people houses alone in the south are probably 0.5 |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a millionaire, you wouldn't think it if you saw me.
Tbh a lot people with 20 years half decent career behind them should he a millionaire , it’s not a o lot of money these days , most people houses alone in the south are probably 0.5"
Do you ever re-read your comments before posting? I think you live in a different world to most people. |
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No. I've met some people with money and they are pure dickheads. Some people I've met with money are also lovely people, but money does not make you attractive in the slightest.
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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Poverty is not sexy: that's for sure.
Money has no moral compass. |
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"Wealth itself is not attractive but it makes things that increase attractiveness more accessible. For example nice clothes, hairstyles, perfume etc.
I think I would be intimidated if a man was very wealthy as it would make me feel inferior and insecure, but at the same time I am attracted to ambition, which wealth is often a byproduct of. "
Totally agree with you about ambition! Drive, determination and intelligence are incredibly attractive traits. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I'm a millionaire, you wouldn't think it if you saw me.
Tbh a lot people with 20 years half decent career behind them should he a millionaire , it’s not a o lot of money these days , most people houses alone in the south are probably 0.5
Do you ever re-read your comments before posting? I think you live in a different world to most people. "
I disagree , meet a lot of swingers on here that are millionaires it’s not uncommon at all, and average house price in SE Is £433k, many swinging couples live in the SE have 2 or more properties, some savings and a couple of decent cars… there £1m |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a millionaire, you wouldn't think it if you saw me.
Tbh a lot people with 20 years half decent career behind them should he a millionaire , it’s not a o lot of money these days , most people houses alone in the south are probably 0.5
Do you ever re-read your comments before posting? I think you live in a different world to most people.
I disagree , meet a lot of swingers on here that are millionaires it’s not uncommon at all, and average house price in SE Is £433k, many swinging couples live in the SE have 2 or more properties, some savings and a couple of decent cars… there £1m"
Really? As number of millionaires in the UK is less than five percent. |
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I've had a very affluent couple making overtures to me but I just don't think I'd feel comfortable as that's not the lifestyle for me. I feel bad even writing this as they seem to be lovely people but I just can't work out why on earth they would be interested in me when I don't mix in the circles they come from. Probably a bit of an inferiority complex on my behalf. |
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Depends where you set the bar.
Are successful men or women more interesting.
I've found that they generally are.
They tend to be confident and have a tale to tell.
Not all, but we tend to find they don't have a chip on their shoulder, are self depreciating and good fun.
Outgoing, see the good side and are not whiners.
Unfortunately, the portrait of them on TV is of pompous arses, but this is like any TV portrayal.
Just look at swinging on TV. Are those freaks you see on documentaries a fair reflection of you, what would most people in the swinging scene do if a TV company asked them to star in their show.
Run a fucking mile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends where you set the bar.
Are successful men or women more interesting.
I've found that they generally are.
They tend to be confident and have a tale to tell.
Not all, but we tend to find they don't have a chip on their shoulder, are self depreciating and good fun.
Outgoing, see the good side and are not whiners.
Unfortunately, the portrait of them on TV is of pompous arses, but this is like any TV portrayal.
Just look at swinging on TV. Are those freaks you see on documentaries a fair reflection of you, what would most people in the swinging scene do if a TV company asked them to star in their show.
Run a fucking mile.
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I ask myself how would I know someone is wealthy. Or successful. Mostly I know because they make sure I know. And that is supremely unattractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how you define wealth. We consider ourselves very wealthy. That is to say, we are in good health, a strong relationship, have a modest amount of disposable income once the bills are paid, enjoy simple things like walking the dog and sitting in the garden, and generally speaking, most of the time our kids don’t behave like asshats. That’s pretty attractive to me |
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"Simple question, so is someone with wealth sexier to you and more attractive, than someone without it? Not alluding to prostitution here, before I'm asked. "
Nope - not at all.
However - I can’t accommodate and as a single parent on a lowish income with kids to support - it makes it considerably easier to meet people (I’m only interested in regular) if they can accommodate or pay for the occasional hotel room. That’s the only way in which money has any influence at all. If a guy doesn’t accommodate either and can’t afford hotels either than with the best will in the world we couldn’t meet often.
If my finances were different I’d happily fork out for hotel rooms every time. |
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"Depends where you set the bar.
Are successful men or women more interesting.
I've found that they generally are.
They tend to be confident and have a tale to tell.
Not all, but we tend to find they don't have a chip on their shoulder, are self depreciating and good fun.
Outgoing, see the good side and are not whiners.
Unfortunately, the portrait of them on TV is of pompous arses, but this is like any TV portrayal.
Just look at swinging on TV. Are those freaks you see on documentaries a fair reflection of you, what would most people in the swinging scene do if a TV company asked them to star in their show.
Run a fucking mile.
I ask myself how would I know someone is wealthy. Or successful. Mostly I know because they make sure I know. And that is supremely unattractive. "
That's true.
I guess most people who say they are wealthy are probably not.
I would never take as gospel anything I read on social media or from anyone's mouth.
That's what we enjoy from the swinging scene, no idea what you do, what you have etc., don't care, not important.
Are you interesting, funny, engaging and someone I'd like to put their cock into me within the next hour.
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"Depends how you define wealth. We consider ourselves very wealthy. That is to say, we are in good health, a strong relationship, have a modest amount of disposable income once the bills are paid, enjoy simple things like walking the dog and sitting in the garden, and generally speaking, most of the time our kids don’t behave like asshats. That’s pretty attractive to me "
Sounds good to us. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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There are some attractive and very nice wealthy people who are also loveable. |
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Not to me, as most of the wealthy people I have come across are idiots. Bragging about how much they spent on their house, cars, holidays, etc. They just bore me to death. |
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"Not to me, as most of the wealthy people I have come across are idiots. Bragging about how much they spent on their house, cars, holidays, etc. They just bore me to death."
I would bet their not as wealthy as they make out.
It also all depends on what you call wealthy.
It's relative.
Most really wealthy people we know you wouldn't, at first, have a clue.
They are nice, kind, interesting and thoughtful people, they tend to keep their wealth under wraps as some folks would automatically take a dislike to them.
We take people as they come, don't like pushy, arrogant, rude, self opinionated people but we have been lucky and on the whole those we meet have been lovely. |
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No, not at all. Success and ambition are attractive to me, but not wealth in and of itself.
"Simple question, so is someone with wealth sexier to you and more attractive, than someone without it? Not alluding to prostitution here, before I'm asked. "
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As a person who is not materialistic in any way, looooves shopping in charity shops and will do anything for a bargain, hehe... I can honestly say that I couldn't care if the person has money or not.
If its a relationship or friendship with that person, what better way than to build each other up, cheer each other on.
Lots of people find themselves in situations where they have nothing but keep on going.
It's a struggle mentally for some of course and sadly for some people the struggle is long drawn out.
Be a friend, be a shoulder, show that person they are not alone.
It costs absolutely to be nothing to be amd we could all very easily find ourselves in that situation one day.
We have absolutely no clue what people have gone or are going through in the past, present or what will happen in the future.
Just be kind. Treat people as u wish to be treated.
Money is everything but also money is nothing. Xxxx
Definitely and absolutely could not give 2 hoots what you have or don't have as long as u are a decent human being.
Kitten x x x
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