How do you cope? The more we go out to “play” the less interested I am in the other life essentials like work , keeping house and staying in touch with friends … all I want to do is do it .how do you get back to reality. |
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We don't play very often, we'll go to a club once a month at most and not always play with others. We'll never be one of those couples out playing every Friday and Saturday, then looking for midweek meets too. Keeps it nice and exciting  |
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I think you need to keep everything in balance. Letting one thing get too strong usually leads to issues down the line.
If meets just make you want more and more then I would consider just dialling it down a bit. |
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"We don't play very often, we'll go to a club once a month at most and not always play with others. We'll never be one of those couples out playing every Friday and Saturday, then looking for midweek meets too. Keeps it nice and exciting "
To each their own but I couldn't agree with this more. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"How do you cope? The more we go out to “play” the less interested I am in the other life essentials like work , keeping house and staying in touch with friends … all I want to do is do it .how do you get back to reality. "
It's good that you are at least mindful there may be other priorities. Does your career come before sex for instance. On the other hand sex is a great stress reliever.
If you are aware things are slipping in respect of not seeing wider family and friends, then maybe not searching for people as often would bring things into focus, that's not saying go vanilla, more meet for pleasure rather than following your horn. |
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absolutely addicted, i cant get enough sex & dont know how to explain it. V has always had a very high sex drive but ive surpassed him even.
we work different hours so theres always someone doing the every day stuff, which leaves us plenty of time for this side of it. Very happy atm  |
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"How do you cope? The more we go out to “play” the less interested I am in the other life essentials like work , keeping house and staying in touch with friends … all I want to do is do it .how do you get back to reality. "
Lol with the sea of fakes and timewasters on here it's quite easy and naturally regulated down to almost zero . We tried a club Friday after being let down yet again by a couple, wasn't very busy so no play there either grrrr  . Move closer to us and we'll help you  x |
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"How do you cope? The more we go out to “play” the less interested I am in the other life essentials like work , keeping house and staying in touch with friends … all I want to do is do it .how do you get back to reality. "
Totally get the lifestyle can take over your world, we had to reign it in, had the same thing happening with family and not wanting to meet vanilla friends anymore. We now only book a hotel once a month for a weekend, then that's it until the next month, just have to set limits and separate it from our work, friends and family. |
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