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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are peoples views on a relationship with three people?
It’s something we ve spoken about a lot.
Princess loves the idea of having a girlfriend as well That we are both involved with.
Has anyone done or doing this? Any females interested in giving it a go? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are peoples views on a relationship with three people?
It’s something we ve spoken about a lot.
Princess loves the idea of having a girlfriend as well That we are both involved with.
Has anyone done or doing this? Any females interested in giving it a go? "
Carlos has been to tobermory, is that the same?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have friends who did this but when the extra guy moved abroad my female friend of the couple took it hard and it ended up destroying the original couple relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would not always be plain sailing but with the right people it could be a wonderful thing,its something i'd like to do but got to find some like minded people first  |
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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago
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Love it, and prior to meeting my ex girlfriend; I had a wonderful long term friendship with a couple. I wrote about how it all started here in the forums.
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1117225 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love for wife to do this
The idea of it is horny as hell. Meeting together or solo. Live in would be even better"
Very interesting for us too, ultimately wanting to live together and even communal if others are interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're poly, but looking more for it to be a couple who join us. Obviously we'd have our primary partners, but feel it would work better for us if we're all involved. |
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Already posted in this thread but it was so long ago. My wife is certainly more into the idea of having a regular girlfriend lately which I would be fine with. And I dont mean for just meets. Someone she or we can spend quality time with as well and see what happens. We've decided we are ok with the romantic aspect of it.
Unfortunately, wouldn't even know where to start on that one. Have a hard enough time meeting single ladies on here (not all that many in our local-ish area) and so far, clubs and socials have been ok but the last few years have not been good for the area either. |
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I’ve always been drawn to the idea of a mff throuple. But I think you have to be pretty lucky to find a couple that are local and ready for it. There were very few options for me when I was single. |
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We have spoken about this for a while, ideally someone a little younger and is also interested in exploring the bdsm scene. The idea would be for a bi-fem to help us allow O to explore her bi side, and become a very close social and play partner, joining us for dinners, nights out, social events and becoming part of the us.
As part of it, there would be an acceptance that we all enjoyed each others company, and the social and sexual friendship was between the three of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FFM obviously more popular than MFM
We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other."
Yes and sure your right far more M would MFM OH if only I was younger LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FFM obviously more popular than MFM
We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other."
We're more interested in a mfmf (mmff etc) format so all are involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FFM obviously more popular than MFM
We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other.
Yes and sure your right far more M would MFM OH if only I was younger LOL"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FFM obviously more popular than MFM
We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other.
We're more interested in a mfmf (mmff etc) format so all are involved"
It's still a maybe for us but we're suspecting finding a real 4 way attraction (in a geographical realistic proximity) is proving challenging so kinda given up atm. Meeting in clubs though and who knows |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FFM obviously more popular than MFM
We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other.
We're more interested in a mfmf (mmff etc) format so all are involved
It's still a maybe for us but we're suspecting finding a real 4 way attraction (in a geographical realistic proximity) is proving challenging so kinda given up atm. Meeting in clubs though and who knows "
Yeah I think the geographical location of others open to this idea make it hard. Still we live in hope |
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"FFM obviously more popular than MFM
We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other."
Yeah I feel like mff is easier in theory, but I think it depends on the dynamic between you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would love to be the girlfriend of both. Go on dates , enjoy each other solely then come together when we all want to share.
Polyamory really appeals to me  |
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Although I wasn't aware of the term poly at the time once upon a time my goal was to have an emotionally exclusive poly type relationship with a cuckold couple. My desires are more pragmatic/realistic these days though. |
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"I would love to be the girlfriend of both. Go on dates , enjoy each other solely then come together when we all want to share.
Polyamory really appeals to me "
We would love to explore something like that and see how it goes.
Unfortunately, when ever we see a comment like this it's from someone as far away as humanly possible on fab 
But you may well find a couple near by who's down with that. Check the profiles of local couples and see who's poly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would love to be the girlfriend of both. Go on dates , enjoy each other solely then come together when we all want to share.
Polyamory really appeals to me "
This for me too! I had this once and I’d love it again! |
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"From my experience of it the reality is that it needs to happen naturally. It’s not really something that you can just ‘make’ happen as that’s where the problems creep in. "
So very very true that has a lot to do with why I am now officially poly it gives me the freedom of flexibility and allows relationships to develop organically without being forced or supressed. |
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What you're describing is called Unicorn Hunting and is generally frowned upon in Polyam spaces. But there are women who seek this type of dynamic.
A genuine three way, equal, relationship is difficult to navigate especially if there is an existing couple in the Triad.
Dating sites like OKC and Feeld are probably your best bet. |
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"What you're describing is called Unicorn Hunting and is generally frowned upon in Polyam spaces. But there are women who seek this type of dynamic.
A genuine three way, equal, relationship is difficult to navigate especially if there is an existing couple in the Triad.
Dating sites like OKC and Feeld are probably your best bet. "
As a single woman I sought this dynamic, but found it much harder than I had a expected |
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We have been talking about this recently mfm and either ffm or mffm , Lisa would love a poly relationship, there is a guy already, which we can do this scenario with if went with it.
Find it hard finding f or couple to explore it with, dating, nights out together & separately.
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"We have spoken about this for a while, ideally someone a little younger and is also interested in exploring the bdsm scene. The idea would be for a bi-fem to help us allow O to explore her bi side, and become a very close social and play partner, joining us for dinners, nights out, social events and becoming part of the us.
As part of it, there would be an acceptance that we all enjoyed each others company, and the social and sexual friendship was between the three of us."
Isn't this just a threesome that lasts longer than a few meetings?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First and foremost, polyamory is definitely not swinging and I WISH fabs would have a dedicated page solely for poly people. I've been incredibly lucky to of had 3 polyamory relationships, raging from 9 to 18 months between both swinging and my vanilla experiences and all I can add to this wonderful post is the word "trust" you have to fully trust each other to keep the exclusivity. I've always been their boyfriend, both socially and sexually, everything from shopping to holidays, cooking dinner to wild weekends away. Was I "in love" hmm, hard one, I miss them all individually, I loved what we had together, the freedom, the loyalty and would really like to find a suitable poly couple to share my life with again!
Poly isn't swinging!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree it isn't easy to find and needs to happen reasonably naturally "
We’re interested in finding someone, if you were open to the idea, we d love to talk to see if there was a click.
Princess xx |
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