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People introducing there 19/20yr kids to swinging
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would you be talking about your sex life with your kids anyway? Boundaries? "
I’ve found what I’ve seen rather uncomfortable
It was like going down a rabbit hole.
Maybe best i forget what I have seen,
I used to be best buddy’s with the son in my rugby days.
We no longer talk and he is a little bit odd to say the least |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m going to give it till lunch time and hope the almighty jumps in but at the moment I think it will do more half that good to tell him bits a shit one
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
reminds me of being in the pool at a club and chatting with a lovely young lady one of our friends joined us bringing a large dildo with her which got the young girl very animated she then turned to an older lady the other side of the pool and shouted " mum mum come look at this " you could actualy here the collective intake of breath from around the room . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m going to give it till lunch time and hope the almighty jumps in but at the moment I think it will do more half that good to tell him bits a shit one
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Tell who what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our Fab life is separate than our personal.
Just like we ventured out together to explore swinging , to enhance our lifestyle, kids may do on their own , they don't need guidance from their parents .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On our first ever visit to a club over 15 years ago there was a couple that had taken there 21 year old son along with them.
Kept our distance and no idea how there night went |
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"What’s everyone’s thoughts on people introducing there kids to swinging so young? Me personally it’s a big red flag and a no go"
I'll be honest, the "so young" bit seems kind of redundant here. I'd say it was weird regardless of how old they were  |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Our Fab life is separate than our personal.
Just like we ventured out together to explore swinging , to enhance our lifestyle, kids may do on their own , they don't need guidance from their parents .
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Exactly this. Totally agree |
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I'm nearly 30 and I would find this weird. If my parents were into swinging then great for them but I'd hope we would all do our best to avoid each other as even being at the same club night would be weird. |
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At 18 my daughter turned up at a club I was working at. I'd not got her into it, but once she was in, I tried to inpart some of my years of advice.
I also made sure to block anyone she had met or make a note and avoided where she was attending. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This really is a mad place - parents introducing their bairns to swinging - Jesus wept, I've never heard the likes. When would you ever introduce them to your sexual preferences in any other walk of life?? Their sex life should have absolutely duck all to do with you and involving yourself to me seems pretty dodgy - and I'm very, very liberal. |
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"reminds me of being in the pool at a club and chatting with a lovely young lady one of our friends joined us bringing a large dildo with her which got the young girl very animated she then turned to an older lady the other side of the pool and shouted " mum mum come look at this " you could actualy here the collective intake of breath from around the room ."
Ha ha ha oh thank you so much, belly laugh of the day xXx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a difference between giving them some advice and pointers, telling them about fab and which clubs are good etc. And actually swinging with them! I don't think anyone is suggested the latter xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m going to give it till lunch time and hope the almighty jumps in but at the moment I think it will do more half that good to tell him bits a shit one
Did the almighty jump in ?"
Yes I did earlier with some advice, see above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I did earlier with some advice, see above
Thanks Almighty for the dark room/glory hole advice"
The almighty can see even into the darkest places of the earth |
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"What’s everyone’s thoughts on people introducing there kids to swinging so young? Me personally it’s a big red flag and a no go"
That is just the weirdest thing iv every heard. I don't understand how they could discuss their sex life with their kids to start with.
Is this something that you have whitnessed OP or is it just a general question? |
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By *age500Woman
over a year ago
ashton-under-lyne |
I honestly don’t find it weird at all, obviously I can see how people would but I think it all depends on how open you are with your kids/parents.
I’d tell my mum about my sex life as if I was talking to a friend |
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"Iv just noticed you used the term "so young" I think many people on here are quite taken back myself included to your question. Elaborate on what that means? "
Yeah I was perfectly capable of finding and attending clubs for myself when I was 19  . |
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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago
plymouth/chesterfield |
So you introduce your 19/20yr old son & daughter to swinging, maybe you take them to a club to show its not sleezy, your daughter's getting obviously lots of attention, hiw you feeling now? You split up so they can have a look round on there own, short time later you see a crowd of blokes, in the middle is your daughter getting gang banged, thoughts now? But if it was another woman but your son was part of the gang bang but he'd get a pat on the back.
No sorry not for me let them do what they want but you dont need to see or know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We were in a swinging club & chatting to a very young couple,somebody told them an old man was taking a lot of interest in them." Thats ok said the lad he is my dad "  "
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It’s the same as if you have used recreational drugs what age would you introduce them to your kids you wouldn’t !!!!
As far as swinging goes it’s a personal choice and if any of my kids chose to do it when there older it would be none of my business and wouldn’t want want to share their experience of it the same as I wouldn’t share mine. |
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We went to a club and the owners 18 year old son was having his birthday party in the front room of the club. No one seemed bothered.
We were also friends with a woman who’s daughter was also on here and they went to parties together . But they were from Holland. And it seemed quite normal for them to talk about sex and swinging |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"At 18 my daughter turned up at a club I was working at. I'd not got her into it, but once she was in, I tried to inpart some of my years of advice.
I also made sure to block anyone she had met or make a note and avoided where she was attending. "
I vaguely remember you posting about this in another thread a while ago. If you don't mind me asking how did you deal with it then and afterwards and even today? Always best to be prepared for the unexpected, thanks.
As to the op, we wouldn't be encouraging any of that. Our sex life is for us and private, vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On our first ever visit to a club over 15 years ago there was a couple that had taken there 21 year old son along with them.
Kept our distance and no idea how there night went "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it strange
Saw a father and son profile on here though that looked at me the other day, both stood bollock naked together. "
I saw a husband wife and young daughter bare barely legal just mad me feel sad and when I put it in the group they started to clean house and justify the situation but start to hide verifications and photos very sad |
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