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ladies .. how many of your meets dissapoints you ...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ladies .. how many of your meets dissapoints you ... so say youve had 10 meets how many of those last 10 have left you feeling dissapointed ....
same question to the guys too how many of your meets have left you feeling not fulfilled ??
not everymeet is going to be fantastic as we all know and most of us wont say anything to just keep things drama free ..
so come on do you have alot of meets that dont meet expections ? have you been led up the garden path to not be given what was said ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of 6 play meets 4 have been less than perfect.
As a man we obviously see porn etc and may imagine that our performance is lacking despite the reassurance of our partner.
Having now seen some other “real” guys doing their best I now know that I’m pretty fucking good!
Unexpected result for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 out of my last 10 people I’ve met have been brilliant.
3 out of my last 4 meets have been the best I’ve ever had. the most recent being the absolute best. |
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Many of my socials don't go any further. It's not that they were disappointing (I've had very few truly bad socials), there just wasn't enough attraction there for us to want more. Sometimes I've felt more than they have, but when they let the conversation die away after meeting up and it suddenly feels like hard work I get the message!
In terms of sexual encounters on here I can think of two that were disappointing. Both were due at least in part to poor screening on my part. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair, I usually sift well.
There's been a few quickies which aren't really my thing and one wasn't a fan of oral and that is my thing.
I'd say just one of the last ten. But my average meet is one a month X |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"None of them because I pick the guys very very carefully x"
Same here. If I get to that point of actually meeting in person, the screening process before that was quite strict.
A few weeks ago I met someone socially who looked quite older and heavier/bigger than his profile photos but it didn’t go beyond a polite chat in person.  |
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This will sound shallow but a girl likes what a girl likes
The only things that disappoints me in a meet is the guys cock size when he's told you he's large sent photos that seem to confirm that, you've explained the reason you like a larger cock (husband is blessed so I like something the same or slightly bigger) then they turn up & it's not even average size & you don't get that same full feeling that you enjoy
I won't say how often it happens but I'm beginning to realise those annoying dick pics against the old sky remotes had their uses |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This will sound shallow but a girl likes what a girl likes
The only things that disappoints me in a meet is the guys cock size when he's told you he's large sent photos that seem to confirm that, you've explained the reason you like a larger cock (husband is blessed so I like something the same or slightly bigger) then they turn up & it's not even average size & you don't get that same full feeling that you enjoy
I won't say how often it happens but I'm beginning to realise those annoying dick pics against the old sky remotes had their uses "
not shallow at all if a guy brags hes a certian size then you dont expect a lie see that to me is a go no further yep still could have been fun but its a blatant lie bullshit just to pick him cant be done with them types and to me this is what im saying by dissapointment mainly the lies the trapping ...sorry but i would not and will not reward that in any way .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"None of them because I pick the guys very very carefully x"
we pick very carefully i wont play with anyone i dont want .. we even get it to a point where we cant remember the last no show but no one can get around others lying wrong age wrong body size old pics the only reason i asked the question was because it seems more n more in 2022 so far where before is was nowhere near as bad ... thankfully our last meet was arranged to meet in a club he was so different from his pics that we just did not reconise until he came up to us we were honest with him and said hes lied to us just to get a meet he left the club in a huff ...we will be doing alot more merets in clubs from now on then when let down at least we can carry on with a nice evening |
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So far I've had 11 "meets" from here.
3 where no sex actually happened for various reasons.
2 with one guy, but no real chemistry, second time was more disappointing.
1 that really wasn't compatible with what I wanted.
1 amazing afternoon in a hotel with a newbie.
3 repeats with an old flame, excellent.
1 catch up session with an old friend.
So less than half were great? And only 1 newbie that was a good experience.
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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I've had 1 meet with a female,(drinks only),very disappointed at how she was. All talk on here but when I met her she didn't say anything. It was very awkward, but when i got back, came on fab and she was on line saying she would have played.bit late afterwards. The 4 or 5 meets I've had with guys from fab swingers, only 2 have I been disappointed with, the others have been fantastic. |
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"This will sound shallow but a girl likes what a girl likes
The only things that disappoints me in a meet is the guys cock size when he's told you he's large sent photos that seem to confirm that, you've explained the reason you like a larger cock (husband is blessed so I like something the same or slightly bigger) then they turn up & it's not even average size & you don't get that same full feeling that you enjoy
I won't say how often it happens but I'm beginning to realise those annoying dick pics against the old sky remotes had their uses
not shallow at all if a guy brags hes a certian size then you dont expect a lie see that to me is a go no further yep still could have been fun but its a blatant lie bullshit just to pick him cant be done with them types and to me this is what im saying by dissapointment mainly the lies the trapping ...sorry but i would not and will not reward that in any way .... "
I must admit it's why we enjoy spa type places, I get to see exactly what's on offer |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Can’t say I’ve had any disappointing meets from here, I spend time getting to know the person, chatting about anything and everything before hand so I feel like I have a grasp on who the person is not just how attracted I am to them.
I’ve had some great socials and some incredible play dates, I meet my fwb from here on an old profile too, maybe I’ve just been lucky xx |
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"Alot
The ones that let you down last minute with change of heart after we move heaven and earth to meet. "
Disappointing to hear that. And surprised that clearly so many pull out (so to speak) - I guess they'll never find out what they missed. And mist be so frustrating for you given the effort you've gone to.  |
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"ladies .. how many of your meets dissapoints you ... so say youve had 10 meets how many of those last 10 have left you feeling dissapointed ....
same question to the guys too how many of your meets have left you feeling not fulfilled ??
not everymeet is going to be fantastic as we all know and most of us wont say anything to just keep things drama free ..
so come on do you have alot of meets that dont meet expections ? have you been led up the garden path to not be given what was said ??
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Hmmmm good one. Last meet was a joke (couple), waste of TWO socials and lots of travelling too. The woman of the couple wasn't playing the game but her partner was  . Left Tony feeling used to get to Cherry grrr.
Another put UTTERLY misleading photos on their profile, must have been 25 year old photos. Of course we told them no, yet they still pestered to carry on with the meet !.
There are those claiming to be bi or bicurious too.... reality showed us otherwise in many cases. One woman clearly pressurised by her husband  .
On average we'd say out of ten (discounting repeat meets with friends).... 8-9 left us feeling dissapointed, used, lied to. Yet 1 or two hmmmmmmm |
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