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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you were on a social meet for a coffee, and it all went well and you were planning on meeting for more, would you kiss the other person, would you move in for a kiss, expect them to make the move, or ask them if you could kiss them, or just shake hands and wait to meet again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you were on a social meet for a coffee, and it all went well and you were planning on meeting for more, would you kiss the other person, would you move in for a kiss, expect them to make the move, or ask them if you could kiss them, or just shake hands and wait to meet again?"
Now if you feel attraction, you might as well have a little kiss,just to make sure like  so next time you know whats coming kind of thing |
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We arranged a social meet over a pot of tea for our first meet. After a cold and slow start it ended up a whole afternoon thing and we left together holding hands. Here we are four years down the line and engaged. I would say my point just go with what feels right to you with that person. Every meet is different and no two people are the same. If you want a kiss and it feels right, have one. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"If you were on a social meet for a coffee, and it all went well and you were planning on meeting for more, would you kiss the other person, would you move in for a kiss, expect them to make the move, or ask them if you could kiss them, or just shake hands and wait to meet again?"
A quick hug and kiss no snogging |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I would say if the social has gone well, you like him and get the feeling he likes you to if you're feeling brave as if it's ok for a kiss. He will either be thrilled and go in for one, offer his cheek or say no thanks!
I like a kiss on a social, I think you can tell a lot from a kiss |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
shropshire |
"If you were on a social meet for a coffee, and it all went well and you were planning on meeting for more, would you kiss the other person, would you move in for a kiss, expect them to make the move, or ask them if you could kiss them, or just shake hands and wait to meet again?
A quick hug and kiss no snogging"
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I would say if the social has gone well, you like him and get the feeling he likes you to if you're feeling brave as if it's ok for a kiss. He will either be thrilled and go in for one, offer his cheek or say no thanks!
I like a kiss on a social, I think you can tell a lot from a kiss "
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"I would say if the social has gone well, you like him and get the feeling he likes you to if you're feeling brave as if it's ok for a kiss. He will either be thrilled and go in for one, offer his cheek or say no thanks!
I like a kiss on a social, I think you can tell a lot from a kiss "
Your right, you can tell a lot from a kiss.
It was a kiss that saved our social and why we are together today. She didn't like what I was wearing, things were feeling a little awkward and the tea being served was terrible (she chose the tea room). We were about to wrap it up and go our own separate ways after that pot of tea (probably forever). But then I went all in and kissed her. I felt I could come across better in a kiss. It was a hell of a good kiss she felt so good, it felt so right and there was suddenly chemistry. She totally warmed up to me and we ended up spending the whole afternoon together getting to know each other instead of going our own ways. You can tell a lot about a kiss, stuff that wasn't revealed over a cup of tea and first impressions. If it weren't for that kiss there would be no Missfits Behaving Badly, no years of great memories together and no love that is awesome beyond words.
Not saying things should turn out like us, we were incredibly lucky to find each other. Just that I agree a kiss is very telling and can reveal things about each other that maybe be not obvious in the awkwardness of a first meet. So a kiss hopefully will give you a good indication on if it's worth a second meet.
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"I would say if the social has gone well, you like him and get the feeling he likes you to if you're feeling brave as if it's ok for a kiss. He will either be thrilled and go in for one, offer his cheek or say no thanks!
I like a kiss on a social, I think you can tell a lot from a kiss
Your right, you can tell a lot from a kiss.
It was a kiss that saved our social and why we are together today. She didn't like what I was wearing, things were feeling a little awkward and the tea being served was terrible (she chose the tea room). We were about to wrap it up and go our own separate ways after that pot of tea (probably forever). But then I went all in and kissed her. I felt I could come across better in a kiss. It was a hell of a good kiss she felt so good, it felt so right and there was suddenly chemistry. She totally warmed up to me and we ended up spending the whole afternoon together getting to know each other instead of going our own ways. You can tell a lot about a kiss, stuff that wasn't revealed over a cup of tea and first impressions. If it weren't for that kiss there would be no Missfits Behaving Badly, no years of great memories together and no love that is awesome beyond words.
Not saying things should turn out like us, we were incredibly lucky to find each other. Just that I agree a kiss is very telling and can reveal things about each other that maybe be not obvious in the awkwardness of a first meet. So a kiss hopefully will give you a good indication on if it's worth a second meet.
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Never wait for someone else to make a move, worst that happens is there not into it and you move on.
If a social has gone well I’d at least give them a kiss on leaving, if that happens to turn into a passionate snog even better xx |
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I agree, you can tell so much from a kiss. You know if there’s a spark. I always try to have a little kiss on a first social to determine if it’ll be good going forward. I’ve gone in for the kiss before too, and asked when I wasn’t sure. It 2022 why wait for the man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were on a social meet for a coffee, and it all went well and you were planning on meeting for more, would you kiss the other person, would you move in for a kiss, expect them to make the move, or ask them if you could kiss them, or just shake hands and wait to meet again?"
Why not? Nobody minds a little tester session if all goes well .
We often do that . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My best social by far ended with a very steamy session in his car. We had gone for a drink and he offered me a lift back. I declined as I didn't live far. He insisted and as soon as we were in his car, he said "there's something I've been wanting to do" and leant in for a kiss which became this really long snogging session with very wandering hands.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We arranged a social meet over a pot of tea for our first meet. After a cold and slow start it ended up a whole afternoon thing and we left together holding hands. Here we are four years down the line and engaged. I would say my point just go with what feels right to you with that person. Every meet is different and no two people are the same. If you want a kiss and it feels right, have one."
^ this. Go with the flow. Give a signal. And if they don't take it up, be prepared to bash them over the head with the tea tray and say 'Kiss me, will ya!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My best social by far ended with a very steamy session in his car. We had gone for a drink and he offered me a lift back. I declined as I didn't live far. He insisted and as soon as we were in his car, he said "there's something I've been wanting to do" and leant in for a kiss which became this really long snogging session with very wandering hands. "
Been there. It's awesome |
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When meeting solo I do kiss if I want to meet the person again.
I didn’t once, was super excited for the second meet, and it was a disaster because we were not compatible kissing wise, and without that I can’t have sex.
When meeting with my other half it’s not quite as important as other stuff. |
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