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Hard to find a fwb
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No we're still looking  they either want just him or just me (women) but don't want to interact as a 3. we're going to clubs more often now as it's a friendlier,chilled atmosphere than on here. Good luck to you though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No we're still looking they either want just him or just me (women) but don't want to interact as a 3. we're going to clubs more often now as it's a friendlier,chilled atmosphere than on here. Good luck to you though"
Perhaps if you're interested tell me when you're going out to a club - definitely more relaxed atmosphere? |
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Sometimes feels like you have to audition. Like you trying for a part in the next big blockbuster.
I get that you need to get to know someone before meeting but a simple social/date would save a lot of time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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looking for a fwb is hard because there is alot more to want & trust and it can and often does cross the line with drama and clingyness and jealosy all the things you dont want with a fwb..
we found that fwb happen rather than look for we know a few fwb some having knon for 20+ years just good friends who we play with who have always stayed on the right side of the line ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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also for a guy its going to be super super hard .. its hard to find normal meets i think its nearly as hard as finding a relationship on here if its hard for women in there small numbers then its going to be nearly very impossiable for men |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
No it's not hard OP. Either you develop a casual relationship with singles you play with on here by recognising the level of repeat activity they want going forward and pitching yourself in at that level or you go to the organised swinger socials in your area and start meeting potential new friends that way.If you are not pushy and make every play date with the same woman varied from previous playdates then you will keep the interest going . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it's not hard OP. Either you develop a casual relationship with singles you play with on here by recognising the level of repeat activity they want going forward and pitching yourself in at that level or you go to the organised swinger socials in your area and start meeting potential new friends that way.If you are not pushy and make every play date with the same woman varied from previous playdates then you will keep the interest going . "
they were asking on here ...
but as you put it social meets and clubs are defo alot easier as its face to face its easy to meet normal let alone everything else |
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It's ot gona happen overnight
Not for me anyways .
Building a friendship trust and such are important factors for me to engage well with an fwb . The more we get.to know each other then the more fun to be had . Its working well for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're lucky as we're a friends with benefits couple. Met on here years ago and it developed.
I have a vanilla fwb before. It's just a case of meeting the right people.
I don't actually believe you can set out to find one, a fwb happens over time |
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For me it's the frequency as well as attraction that makes it difficult ... there are a couple of guys I see... but it's every now and then...
I want someone I can hit up weekly..cos Im always horny and greedy!  |
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I guess I'm lucky, I have a partner who I met through here and who I spend weekends with. However, we have an open relationship and we are both as good as single on weekdays. I would love a regular FB or FWB or two for the weekdays. I am greedy! Lol. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
I've been lucky to find a long term FWB through the site. We weren't looking for that but it just happened. Sadly I no longer see him, as he started a new vanilla relationship and I was no longer wanted  but I might have found a new FWB recently.
Don't go looking, make it known on your profile that a longer term FWB would be your ideal, but no pressure initially. Have repeat meets and be open with each other about what you would like if you click. Check out hobbies, common interests etc and include that in meets. |
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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago
Coventry, visiting Scotland |
"I guess I'm lucky, I have a partner who I met through here and who I spend weekends with. However, we have an open relationship and we are both as good as single on weekdays. I would love a regular FB or FWB or two for the weekdays. I am greedy! Lol. "
That’s my ideal as well!
Given that three guys have no showed this weekend alone I’m not remotely hopeful though! |
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I don't see the point of feb/fb shit tbh
If ur shaggin each other regularly surely there must b an attraction there thrn
So why not just get together then u can shag each other whenever u want
I find they are probably shaggin other people if ur not shaggin them which wud put mevoff meetin them if I liked them aswell
Mind u the kip of alot on here
Oops don't give a shit to their partners if ur hooked up with a fwb but not ur own fuckin partners
Pisses me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've previously had a FWB (ok more than one!) but not finding it very easy on this site because most men only seem to want sex on tap. I'd really like to have that dynamic again. |
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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago
Coventry, visiting Scotland |
"I don't see the point of feb/fb shit tbh
If ur shaggin each other regularly surely there must b an attraction there thrn
So why not just get together then u can shag each other whenever u want
I find they are probably shaggin other people if ur not shaggin them which wud put mevoff meetin them if I liked them aswell
Mind u the kip of alot on here
Oops don't give a shit to their partners if ur hooked up with a fwb but not ur own fuckin partners
Pisses me off "
Can’t speak for everyone, but I had a FWB after being widowed.
I didn’t want a relationship, and certainly wasn’t in the headspace for one.
But I missed sex and fun. So the choices were one night stands, which didn’t appeal, or regular fun with someone i could trust.
There are times where for some people FWB is a great option - all the fun bits with none of the hard or bad bits. |
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