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By *inyppMan
over a year ago
watertown |
My wife has been with a man for 6 years now - and we have become good friends. We are friends outside the bedroom - but when I’m there with my wife - I definitely know my place. But outside good buddies actually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that"
EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect. |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out.
On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out.
On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out.
On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking."
Great way of being introduced to someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a long relationship with my mate from work's Mrs. We were friends before I started with his wife, and still remain friends.
There was no chasity device involved, though he had other kinks |
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"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that
EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect."
As a bull this is just how it should be for a long term sexual relationship between all 3 whether cuck is physically involved or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out.
On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking."
Cool. We hope you knew he was going to say it. I might have been a bit put out if I didn’t |
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we dont call them bulls there guys who join us for sexy fun and games, and yes there is friendship there as we all have to get on, and to us its about having a good time laughter and sexy fun along the way , if there is no friendship there then the sex will be fucking crap , and who wants that |
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Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom!
That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives.
However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom.
It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked.
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"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom!
That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives.
However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom.
It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked.
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This is spot on. |
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"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom!
That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives.
However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom.
It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked.
This is spot on."
Yes hard to find |
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"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom!
That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives.
However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom.
It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked.
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That’s probably a really good description of how real cuckolding should work. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
Chinese Takeaway near you |
I'm good friends with 2 of the cuck couples I play with outside the bedroom . General chit chat all the time & hangout for movie night sometimes. But in the bedroom, those cucks know their place 'laying underneath in 69 watching my horse dick' plunge balls deep inside their hotwives sweet pussy! Best view in the house  |
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"I'm good friends with 2 of the cuck couples I play with outside the bedroom . General chit chat all the time & hangout for movie night sometimes. But in the bedroom, those cucks know their place 'laying underneath in 69 watching my horse dick' plunge balls deep inside their hotwives sweet pussy! Best view in the house "
Nothing wrong with that ! |
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Seconded! As others have said respect and obedience in the bedroom come I think naturally for us cucks. Beyond that , our experiences have varied tbh. Some bulls ( we’re okwith that term if the guy is) like to be more or less equal , others are always in charge. I’d always take my lead from him, and both can be good. |
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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago
Chester |
"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out.
On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking.
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As long as you are both comfortable with him saying that its ok, i personally wouldn't. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom!
That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives.
However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom.
It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked.
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A lot of people have agreed with this so I have to put mine in and say the exact opposite.
Their role in wider society has little to do with anything, more so how they view their wife, their own status, role in the marriage/relationship, how a dynamic has played out or a simple kink.
Each cuck I've met has wanted different things from verbal degradation to sl.avery to bi experience to more simple commands and voyeurism. All have been from regular backgrounds such as middle managers, tradesmen, shopwokers.
Respecting or getting along with them as a someone outside, has little to do with that connection in the bedroom, you could likely have a pint, but you're not likely to have them round for Christmas dinner.. same as any fwb really. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
^ just to clear things up as I've had a couple of messages. No I'm not bi.. any cuck play was that - torment for the guy. They were bi curious so male to male contact wasn't necessary but talk of the idea made things a little frothier for them. |
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By *lippy02Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
"Seconded! As others have said respect and obedience in the bedroom come I think naturally for us cucks. Beyond that , our experiences have varied tbh. Some bulls ( we’re okwith that term if the guy is) like to be more or less equal , others are always in charge. I’d always take my lead from him, and both can be good."
Yes well said also. |
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well im sure you would be friends with him, after all he is the guy fucking your wife and many like the husband to lick and swallow his spunk, and that spunk goes in many places and with a bull most like to cum in the wife so yes has to be friendly very  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m still good mates with my late wife’s lover now, we often go for a pint. It was a great set up we had, it wasn’t just down to the sexual side although obviously when they were together I knew my role. It was also about friendship and trust as well. |
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"well im sure you would be friends with him, after all he is the guy fucking your wife and many like the husband to lick and swallow his spunk, and that spunk goes in many places and with a bull most like to cum in the wife so yes has to be friendly very "
Yes, a lot of cucks love to clean up the bulls spunk from the hotwife or even clean up the bulls cock, so being friends with the bull is very important if say for the cuck. |
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"well im sure you would be friends with him, after all he is the guy fucking your wife and many like the husband to lick and swallow his spunk, and that spunk goes in many places and with a bull most like to cum in the wife so yes has to be friendly very
Yes, a lot of cucks love to clean up the bulls spunk from the hotwife or even clean up the bulls cock, so being friends with the bull is very important if say for the cuck."
but the best thing about becoming more friendly with the bull or just the guy is that there is more openness with him and that leads to more meets and hell of a lot more spunk and cock to clean up and not forgetting to clean his cum of or from your wife so that there is room for more of that lovely spunk, then he tells you that meeting us is like hitting the lottery, well win win for all 3, he gets what he wants and eager for more and couples like us riding high, and on the phone the next day arranging the next meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that
EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect.
As a bull this is just how it should be for a long term sexual relationship between all 3 whether cuck is physically involved or not "
Dont classify myself as bull but saw a couple for 4years...hubby would join in..more stag vixen..all great friends though. Often played golf with hubby and even got invited to her big birthday bash with all her friends....some of her friends guesses she was fucking me...best times ever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate the term bull and cuck were more hotwife terms I love to see the Mrs having fun and we've become great friends with a couple and the wife and guy play together every now and then the situation works brilliant |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
Uttoxeter |
"I hate the term bull and cuck were more hotwife terms I love to see the Mrs having fun and we've become great friends with a couple and the wife and guy play together every now and then the situation works brilliant "
Why do you hate the term cuck and bull? They're fitting terms to those in that particular area of the lifestyle, the words describe who they are and what they do. I've never seen anyone say they hate the term stag and vixen or hate the term hotwife, I honestly don't get why anyone would hate the term bull or cuck.  |
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Eventually if Jojo meets someone she clicks with I think it would be vital we all get on outside of the bedroom. But obviously when in role respecting the Alpha male would be natural if that’s what the dynamic was. |
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"I'm good friends with 2 of the cuck couples I play with outside the bedroom . General chit chat all the time & hangout for movie night sometimes. But in the bedroom, those cucks know their place 'laying underneath in 69 watching my horse dick' plunge balls deep inside their hotwives sweet pussy! Best view in the house "
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A bonus if Eastenders is on the background |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love this. We generally only play with a couple once, but it would be great if my wife had a regular lover I could talk to.
I'd love to come in from work and catch them shagging. |
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For me personally cuckold couples are my version of a unicorn. Relatively speaking I find it easier to meet single ladies than I do cuckold couples.
I'm no doubt biased but I think mutual respect and/or friendship when not "in character" is hands down the best way to ensure that the pleasure is at its deepest and most rewarding level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I ever had the opportunity to be the bill, then mutual respect it is.. knowing it’s only a role .. so if a friendship formed outside that role, then great "
Bills are not expensive at the min you definitely don’t wana be one of them |
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By *ansduo OP Couple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"We have been looking for this for a long time!
Someone who could be a friend to us both but in the bedroom he we are both in charge of Cuck,
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Perhaps the only way to engineer such a thing is to offer it to others. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
to add cuckolding is between the couple 90% a mental simulation, this is why you cannot be cuckolding unless in a serious relationship the 3rd person has to be part of that mental simulation for it to work not deep like between the couple but still part so its very important as a regular guy that you get on with both or it simply wont work .
also alot of cuckold couple do meet one offs for fun just like swinging couples these are often without the cuck involved that just a cuckold couple private thing
stag and vixen is not anything to do with cuckolding the clue is in the name stag and vixen is part of the hotwife couple scene not cuckold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My gf ex was fucking my gf and we used to hang out three of us or only two of us together without problems. It's adds extra simulation which we enjoyed, me feeling more as a third wheel whole they were teasing each other |
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"I hate the term bull and cuck were more hotwife terms I love to see the Mrs having fun and we've become great friends with a couple and the wife and guy play together every now and then the situation works brilliant
Why do you hate the term cuck and bull? They're fitting terms to those in that particular area of the lifestyle, the words describe who they are and what they do. I've never seen anyone say they hate the term stag and vixen or hate the term hotwife, I honestly don't get why anyone would hate the term bull or cuck. "
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Great thread! We are a couple curious about the dynamic but yet to dip our toes. As hubby I'd want to be mates with our guy, I'd enjoy having a beer and a game of pool and chatting about it all, what I like, what she likes and what he likes to really get down to some fun that fits everyone. |
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Why is it so hard to find this?
My last relationship with a cuck couple ended 3 years ago and I have not been able to find it since, they did set the bar extremely high, however there must be couples out there who are also looking for a genuine experienced guy? |
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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago
Wigan, Lancs. |
Well helloo
"Why is it so hard to find this?
My last relationship with a cuck couple ended 3 years ago and I have not been able to find it since, they did set the bar extremely high, however there must be couples out there who are also looking for a genuine experienced guy? "
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"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that
EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect."
Completely agree. We expect exactly the same. |
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"Why is it so hard to find this?
My last relationship with a cuck couple ended 3 years ago and I have not been able to find it since, they did set the bar extremely high, however there must be couples out there who are also looking for a genuine experienced guy? "
I'm in exactly the same position. Pre-covid things were looking pretty good but now it's a challenge. Distance logistics has been the biggest pain in the so and so. |
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I have had both. With one couple, he was a strong Dominant type in all other aspects of his life, we had very little contact outside of prearranged cuckolding sessions, and it was purely a turn up and play kind of situation.
Another couple I was friends with him first, and he told me over a pint about his wives fantasy and it lead to a great friendship between the three of us.
I guess it depends on the people really! |
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I very recently met with a Cpl (group play)
And we’re in the process of messaging about cuck situations..
been wanting this since joining so hopefully you get to hear a lot more of how it processes. |
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"This would be great but as previous comments say it's soo hard to find hell just finding genuine guy who knows about cuckolding is hard enough"
It’s a very wide spectrum and it’s all about the right dynamic for all who are involved!
Point taken about guys as a third to join understanding - but also suggest it’s something many if not most couples don’t understand either…
However when the dynamic ic is good it’s bloody awesome!  |
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I wouldn't say friend as such but I got on with all of my gfs bulls or they wouldn't have been bulls as it was included Cuckold contract I had to be present during visits. I have been in chastity since I was 19 years old |
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out.
On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking."
that is fantastic did your cock stiffen with the erotic excitement as they looked at you |
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By *omRachCouple 10 weeks ago
Wirral |
"One of my mates has joined us for MFM's in the past, I can't say that he's actually helped cuckold me though."
I posted this about a year ago, I have to say that there were one or two rare occasions where I actually did feel cuckolded by him |
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"One of my mates has joined us for MFM's in the past, I can't say that he's actually helped cuckold me though.
I posted this about a year ago, I have to say that there were one or two rare occasions where I actually did feel cuckolded by him"
how did you feel about it as the jealousy kicked in did you get that intense sexual excitement |
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