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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Would you let someone dictate who you can and cant meet up with
If you were put in that position would you
1. Agree to it
2. Have a sneak peak at the profile fab a few photos but take it no further
3. Mail them straight away and see how the chat is
4. Mail them and arrange a meet straight away but keep it quiet no veri no drama or
5. Fuck it and just go for it drama and all
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I wouldnt say dictates but if hubby asked me specifically not to meet someone then I wouldnt.
I would however love it if he arranged for me to meet someone without me knowing and I'd have to go along with it without knowing anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The questions more for singles .in a couple i 100% agree with only meeting people you both agree on"
What do you mean more for singles, can you elaborate with the idea please? I'm not sure what you mean... are you talking about being close with a fuck buddy or friends with benefits thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean if you go to a 1st meet and that person says if you meet this person we will never meet again and il block you "
No why would I, she’d have to be filthy and I agree I’m hers now but …. What’s the chances |
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If it was some sort of Ds relationship, or the person was looking for an exclusive arrangement then maybe, but otherwise no. No one should dictate, what you can and cant do, especially if youve never even met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mean if you go to a 1st meet and that person says if you meet this person we will never meet again and il block you "
I would be pleased they showed what a cock they are before I had the misfortune to meet them again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends if I was in a relationship with them then off corse I would respect they wishes on that hopefully they do the same back
If it’s just a random one night fb or fbw sorry but no I would be meeting who I like when I like if they don’t like it they can find someone else I am single they don’t get to dictate who I meet
Same with I don’t get to say who they can |
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By *at me drink me OP Woman
over a year ago
lothians,scotland(wonderland.down the rabbit hole) lothian |
Id be the same i meet who i want when i want. Its my fab journey .ps its actually a woman mentioning me at her meets(shes that far down my block list i no longer see her.its been going on around 5 year)but i get mail fae guys telling me |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"The questions more for singles .in a couple i 100% agree with only meeting people you both agree on"
Do you mean singles on here with FB, FWB type relationships with others in here , where one person says you can’t sleep with that person? . That would never happen would it ?  |
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This is both a yes and bo answer.
We've been happily swinging together (married) for 25 years and together longer than that. We both do meet separately but me more so than my wife. I don't like to put labels on it but she's both bi and enjoys being a bit of a cuckqean on occasions and she's not averse to encouraging me to go meet other ladies or couples. Lucky me But we do play as a couple about 80% of the time but we both encourage each other to do seperate meets.
We've always had a rule where the other can veto a meet if they're not happy about it and thats pretty much it. Neither of us has ever played that card as we've never had to. Meets or clubs it's always been good with no issues or drama between us about anything. We have total trust in each other. Swinging adds to our lives and fun and putting drama into it isn't what we want.
So whilst we could dictate meets to the other if we wanted to, neither of us have in 25 years....
So mostly no on this one but we are a married couple rather than 2 singles.
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