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Humiliation-do you enjoy giving it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m interested in to hear the thoughts from both men and women that enjoy humiliating submissive people, what is it that you like about it? Or do you only do it because your respective partner enjoys it? Do you enjoy it because they do? |
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For me the dynamic has to be right, I only enjoy humiliating a partner when I know they are into it, it just doesn’t work if it isn’t something they are interested in.
On the other side, if I am meeting a solo guy I love it when they humiliate me, it is a huge turn on. |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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It's all about boundaries, discussion and trust. It must be discussed beforehand. I've had men say stuff to me that is completely wrong in the moment and been hurt by it. Alternately if hard limits are known etc it can be incredibly arousing. Humiliation without consent is abuse. |
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"It's all about boundaries, discussion and trust. It must be discussed beforehand. I've had men say stuff to me that is completely wrong in the moment and been hurt by it. Alternately if hard limits are known etc it can be incredibly arousing. Humiliation without consent is abuse."
I think I'm too much of an independent woman who was brought up to take no shit from anyone. It would take a lot for me to let someone do it without me wanting to punch them in the face! |
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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It's all about boundaries, discussion and trust. It must be discussed beforehand. I've had men say stuff to me that is completely wrong in the moment and been hurt by it. Alternately if hard limits are known etc it can be incredibly arousing. Humiliation without consent is abuse.
I think I'm too much of an independent woman who was brought up to take no shit from anyone. It would take a lot for me to let someone do it without me wanting to punch them in the face! "
Good for you. It's all about knowing what you want and being able to articulate those desires. |
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"No, and I don't understand anyone who gets off on this - to me this is just bullying."
You don’t need to understand anyones kinks or fetishes.
And it’s definitely not ‘bullying’. With the right partner and dynamic it’s a massive turn on. |
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