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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Always been curious about having a threesome (if the offer ever came up!!).
But also nervous about the idea of 'performing' (or possible lack of) in front of others.
Anyone felt the same/been in the same situation, or any advice to give??
Much appreciated
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was quite nervous on my 1st 3some, if you get it into your head that is what you are going for and not gonna be the only nake done there helps... The guy started to play with his Mrs the i joined in... was well wort it and didn't feel intimidated either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always been curious about having a threesome (if the offer ever came up!!).
But also nervous about the idea of 'performing' (or possible lack of) in front of others.
Anyone felt the same/been in the same situation, or any advice to give??
Much appreciated
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I did think about the same...but I thought that when the opportunity will come. I will just go with the flow..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have a laugh and a flirt, decide beforehand at what point you will join in, will they play and you join in etc. turn up, dive in, enjoy!
We love them! "
Thanks everyone for all the good advice. Was wondering about the etiquette as obviously would not want to overstep the mark with what you should or shouldn't do
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a laugh and a flirt, decide beforehand at what point you will join in, will they play and you join in etc. turn up, dive in, enjoy!
We love them!
Thanks everyone for all the good advice. Was wondering about the etiquette as obviously would not want to overstep the mark with what you should or shouldn't do
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Boundaries are easily discussed beforehand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone mention a 3sum?
Find yourself a nice couple, meet them socially to make sure you all click and to discuss boundaries ect!! Then when the time comes just relax and go with the flow!! And enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone mention a 3sum?
Find yourself a nice couple, meet them socially to make sure you all click and to discuss boundaries ect!! Then when the time comes just relax and go with the flow!! And enjoy "
pile on!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone mention a 3sum?
Find yourself a nice couple, meet them socially to make sure you all click and to discuss boundaries ect!! Then when the time comes just relax and go with the flow!! And enjoy
pile on!!!!!"
Hello darling ! High five |
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By *picenicelyCouple
over a year ago
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there is no one way to do it, just decide beforehand who is going to start and if there is anything that everybody wants to do eg dp or anything that shouldn't be done. Then at the time you can relax and enjoy! |
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By *A5-1975Man
over a year ago
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"I was nervous the first time but as soon as she started playing with my cock ,I just enjoyed it ,go with an experienced couple first and they'll help break you in ! "
I guess that problem is that single mens get a bad rep, and couple see to want experience..... although I suppose I could just dive in and post a meet from a 'shy, inexperienced male looking for a caring couple to show him the way ' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best thing is not to over think it, as long as you all communicate it will all work out fine, my first time was with a couple who I was friends with and she asked if I'd be up for it I said yes, the rest is history, it was also the best way to lose ones virginity. And before you all say it, it was years ago |
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"Someone mention a 3sum?
Find yourself a nice couple, meet them socially to make sure you all click and to discuss boundaries ect!! Then when the time comes just relax and go with the flow!! And enjoy "
Couldn't agree more. Talking first is key, then you won't be worried that you're going to overstep the mark. Also if you do have a problem it's actually no big deal there are SO many other ways to keep a woman happy |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Someone mention a 3sum?
Find yourself a nice couple, meet them socially to make sure you all click and to discuss boundaries ect!! Then when the time comes just relax and go with the flow!! And enjoy
Couldn't agree more. Talking first is key, then you won't be worried that you're going to overstep the mark. Also if you do have a problem it's actually no big deal there are SO many other ways to keep a woman happy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Also if you do have a problem it's actually no big deal there are SO many other ways to keep a woman happy "
I find myself humming 'head, shoulders, knees and toes after reading this', but yes the whole repertoire is always good
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My advice is relax, have a bath just before youre guests arrive or as near to when you turn up, smell nice,look clean and make an effort in what you wear.
I love the long drawn out flirty nights, you all know you're going to play, but whose resolve breaks first can be as horny as anything.
My first 3some (married couple) was made easy, to say she was gagging is a understatement - but evrytime she had a chance i was flashed bare thigh and naked pussy - so i just got up to refil glasses and came back naked, as she took the glass, she took my cock in her mouth - and a great night was had by all.
Rules are relax,look good,treat with respect and be a good host - have fun mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would agree with the relaxing advice. My first meet only last weekend and to be fair the drive there I was nervous as hell! Chilled out when I got there ofcourse.
If you meet great people such as I did then you should feel at ease and comfortable once you get talking. I also felt I wouldn't be able to 'perform' but once I got going stage fright seemed far behind me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guy i meet from time to time once told me he can never perform with a couple but is fine in group situations and with single guys and girls
he said to me if its a couple he just gets dead nervous as he feels the fella is watching him and he feels like hes treading on egg shells incase he upsets the hubby so cant relax
But hes had 3sums with me with another guy and another woman and hes been fine, when i asked why he said its because he has noone to be careful of in front of with me as he knows he can do what he likes with me without the other guy kicking off as its got nothing to do with him what i do
I think its just a mental thing
If your work yourself up to something happening, like not being able to perform the chances are you wont |
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