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"I've never failed to make a guy cum, hand on heart xx
Hand on heart or hand on cock?! 
Using your hands as well as your mouth is vital xx"
Couldnt agree more, a good hand techinque is just as important as the mouth. As i am cut i love having my helmet rubbed and squeezed aswell |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
I see you OP. A nice attempt to get some ladies that would be up to the challenge!   |
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over a year ago
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"I've never failed to make a guy cum, hand on heart xx
Hand on heart or hand on cock?!
Using your hands as well as your mouth is vital xx"
As long as you put your heart into it…?  |
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"Hands, mouth, and all the way down the throat. All of these together from a variety of angles, speeds, and lots of tongue always do the trick xx"
A demonstration would be superb… |
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"Hands, mouth, and all the way down the throat. All of these together from a variety of angles, speeds, and lots of tongue always do the trick xx"
Living up to your username  |
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over a year ago
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"I used to have a gloryhole & lots of guys had mentioned prior to visiting they'd never cum from a blowjob, I'm pleased to say I changed that for each of them "
Can you reopen it so we can visit…?! X |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
You're not alone, it's a once in a blue moon occasion for me as well |
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"Hands, mouth, and all the way down the throat. All of these together from a variety of angles, speeds, and lots of tongue always do the trick xx
Living up to your username "
Yep xx |
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"Hands, mouth, and all the way down the throat. All of these together from a variety of angles, speeds, and lots of tongue always do the trick xx
Living up to your username
Yep xx"
If only you was closer haha |
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I'm the same. Only one woman could successfully make me cum this was, and do it every time she tried to. She actually made it look easy. But everyone else who tried, either came nowhere close, or was able to get me right up to the edge, but not quite enough to push me over.
It's my dream to find another who can succeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thought I was the only one, I have never cum from a blowjob before. I came from a hand job for the first time not so long ago and it was amazing, so intense so I can only imagine what coming from a bj would feel like. |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
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They’d be lucky if they could even keep me hard with a Blowjob.
A kiss and grope works wonders but oral puts baby to sleep.
I’ve cim to maybe two girls in my memory and they were both very special to me. |
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You’re not alone, I’ve never cum from oral either. I don’t know why and overthinking it only makes it worse. One day maybe but till then as they say, if at first you don’t succeed try try and try again |
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"I used to have a gloryhole & lots of guys had mentioned prior to visiting they'd never cum from a blowjob, I'm pleased to say I changed that for each of them "
I had my first gloryhole experience in Chams recently, and whilst it was a nice feeling, I didn't cum? Think it was because she was working two cocks, so just as she was getting me going, she would swap to the other cock, and the moment would pass...... |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
You're not alone, I rarely cum from a bj either. I generally say "I really need to fuck you now" to move things on, rather than go soft on her..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lovely way to cum as you don’t have the control - the person giving the bj has and can keep sucking to milk you and milk you
Often when I cum fucking or wank then once know I’m cumming I tend to stop but not when being sucked
Love it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s very common and didn’t happen to me until I met someone who could do it every time. It’s all about the technique and not you. Some women can and some can’t. It’s got to be a bit sloppy with a bit of spit, plenty of up and down on the shaft not just the tip, rolling the hands gently up and down the shaft, squeezing the balls, tongue busy all over the head whilst sucking and changing angle and speed at the same time as singing “She’ll be cumming round the mountain when he cums”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about a BJ and a butt plug / prostate massage or something similar at the same time?
Nope. My arse is virginal and is staying that way.  "
Noooooo don't knock it until you've tried it, I can make Mr P cum from just a finger in the bum  it's a game changer. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"What about a BJ and a butt plug / prostate massage or something similar at the same time?
Nope. My arse is virginal and is staying that way.
Noooooo don't knock it until you've tried it, I can make Mr P cum from just a finger in the bum it's a game changer."
Suck and lick my balls and you'll soon have me cumming.  |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
its not just you. and its a terrible shame if you ask me |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
You’re not alone. I’ve never cum from a BJ either.
Not from the lack of trying. I have often had it taken the wrong way when I have told people this and they think it’s a challenge. It truly isn’t, I’m just managing expectations. I never want anyone to feel disappointed. |
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"What about a BJ and a butt plug / prostate massage or something similar at the same time?"
Only heighten the pleasure and amount of cum. I’d highly recommend it…! |
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"They’d be lucky if they could even keep me hard with a Blowjob.
A kiss and grope works wonders but oral puts baby to sleep.
I’ve cim to maybe two girls in my memory and they were both very special to me."
Same here.
I enjoy the feeling, but they don't make me cum and if they go on too long it starts to get boring and I start to lose it.
I hate it when people fall back to the 'Oh, you haven't had a good bj then' argument. No. I have had some amazing ones, but not everyone is the same and enjoys the same things. Similar to how not every women likes oral or cums from it.
As with you, a good kiss will always get me going again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only cum a few times from a blow job and not for lack of attempts and various suckers. The old trick of a well lubed gentle finger up the arse will do the trick but that is cheating. Prostates are a sure fire trigger for ejaculating. |
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The only time I can remember when I couldn’t cum from a blowjob, was mainly due to the fact that I was holding in a big fart. Hard to relax enough to cum while trying to hold the fart in. Maybe if I did more yoga I could have the required levels of control. |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
Me too , I'm exactly the same , penetration yep but never by BJ
Mayby not had the right girl lol |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
Not just you m8, only one woman has managed to make me cum from a bj, and thats why i married her lol |
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I can safely say I’ve only ever cum maybes once or twice in nearly 40 years from a bj and even then it probably took a lot of vigorous jerking.
Given the choice between never giving or never receiving oral ever again I’d be giving up BJs for life… |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
Probably not been done right by someone who truly loves doing it ! |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
It is very difficult not to cum from a BJ! |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
Some men struggle to climax from oral. Sometimes it can be psychological, other tomes physiological.
Best thing is to not worry about it and just enjoy it. |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky!
Probably not been done right by someone who truly loves doing it !"
True, I’m made a few guys cum twice even tho they thought they couldn’t |
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I don't cum from a blowjob myself. Only a few times I have. And one of them was a very persistent submissive who would not give up and must have sucked me for an hour |
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"Need to be in the moment
Taking time..not going at it like the clappers"
Completely agree. Furious tugging and fast head-bobbing gets me nowhere. Slow and gentle gets there and leads to a real knee-trembling explosion.
The most remarkable bj I ever had was from a lady who just spent ages flicking the side of the helmet (just the lower end of the helmet), with her tongue. Initially I wondered what the hell she was at, then it started to feel good, and when I got close it felt absolutely amazing, just felt like I was going to completely explode ... and then I did ... legs twitching, the lot. |
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Never have. A pet hate is anyone who will claim to be “the best I’ll have. Because everyone else has said there’s are the best” well yes, no man is going to say you’re shocking with your lips around his length are they ?? |
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"Never have. A pet hate is anyone who will claim to be “the best I’ll have. Because everyone else has said there’s are the best” well yes, no man is going to say you’re shocking with your lips around his length are they ??"
True. Can’t really be one style that is “the best” for everyone, some people prefer different things.
And agreed, highly unlikely that a bloke is going to say “well that was shite” after a blowjob. |
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Me and my partner have been very busy the last few weeks, and we had covid. Its fair to say weve nit had any play for a couple of weeks. Last night we got into bed and she lifed the covers pulled my boxers down and gave me a BJ, it was so intense i literally lasted about 90 seconds but she enjoyed every last drop in her mouth. |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
Totally, never have, in fact, i quite often loose the hard during a BJ, meh |
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Longest blow job ive given is an hour and a half, like to take my time, then again I’m very choosy, so make he really enjoys, edging him til he just can’t hold back and explodes. Have left men weak, unable to move and slowly recover.
Love to start nice and slow on a flaccid member, using my lips firmly up and down the shaft, massaging the blood into the head |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
I have low sensitivity down there so it’s really difficult for me too. Only ever happened twice with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not a problem coming from a blow job
Quiet easy with the right woman
Proud to say I can always make a woman come with just my tongue
All to do with the effort you both put in
Helps if you ask if your doing things right in hitting the right spot |
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My partner is the first woman to make me cum in her mouth from a blowjob.
Men however, every one I've met have made me cum with their mouths.
Men know what men like, just like women having oral with other women know what they enjoy. |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
That is strange , I wonder why ?
Is it not pure pleasure for you ? |
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"Never have. A pet hate is anyone who will claim to be “the best I’ll have. Because everyone else has said there’s are the best” well yes, no man is going to say you’re shocking with your lips around his length are they ??
True. Can’t really be one style that is “the best” for everyone, some people prefer different things.
And agreed, highly unlikely that a bloke is going to say “well that was shite” after a blowjob. "
I’m very sensitive so when a woman started by yanking my foreskin back hard it was so arkward to stay hard after that awful experience but her husband said he had never cum from a BJ either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I suffer the same problem, there is not a guy hotwife hasn’t made cum from a bj!!!!
But I just can’t do it, many have tried in clubs and parties etc,
It’s our ultimate goal for me to cum from just oral lol |
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"My partner is the first woman to make me cum in her mouth from a blowjob.
Men however, every one I've met have made me cum with their mouths.
Men know what men like, just like women having oral with other women know what they enjoy."
Totally agree. I’ve taught ladies to give good oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
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While I haven’t cum from a blowjob, I have received some absolutely incredible oral from both men and women. I’ve got to the point where I just enjoy the experience and don’t worry about the orgasm. I’ll cum another way instead. |
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"I have never ever cum from a blowjob all by itself, not sure if it's just me or if anyone else thinks they're overrated or am I just unlucky! "
I only ever have from my wife. My other partners have found it very disappointing, but i prefer poking it somewhere else. Lol |
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I've cum from a bj a handful of times only..
Normally if i haven't had a release of been edged for a while
Otherwise i do tend to struggle with cumming solely from a bj |
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"I only have once. I always end up feeling guilty cos it takes so long so I stop them and move on to other things. "
'it takes too long' just wondering - do you get bored? |
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"Never cum from just a BJ and to be fair never had a sloppy deepthroat job either,life can be so cruel sometimes  "
That’s a shame !! I love edging a guy, bring in new things slowly, knowing when balls tighten and cock gets even harder it’s time to slow it down. Really like making a guy cum twice when they’ve said they can’t |
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"Never cum from just a BJ and to be fair never had a sloppy deepthroat job either,life can be so cruel sometimes
That’s a shame !! I love edging a guy, bring in new things slowly, knowing when balls tighten and cock gets even harder it’s time to slow it down. Really like making a guy cum twice when they’ve said they can’t "
Oooh! If only a woman had posted this…..  |
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"I only have once. I always end up feeling guilty cos it takes so long so I stop them and move on to other things.
'it takes too long' just wondering - do you get bored?"
I do.
Same as the replies most women give to the "I can give oral for hours" comments... Please don't!
It's not a competition, I'm not here as a challenge for someone to tick off. Let's just have fun. |
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"Seriously
How can a man not cum ? "
Quite easily, its not necessarily poor technique more the give not reading the receivers body.
Deepthroating does nothing for me for example, tip play sends me wild, just bobbing up and down does nothing at all, eye contact is important.
Only 2 women have ever made me cum via it and could time after time, ever other lover has gone like hell fo leather and made me either numb or bored.  |
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I have never cum from a blow job. If my partner wants me to cum on her face for example there is always a certain element of DIY involved so to speak.
I do love a good blow job and I have had some real toe curlers but I just dont orgasm. |
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