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Ladies, are you really Bi?
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There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man? |
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Men were the biggest turn on for me until we joined fab, I had never thought about women in a sexual way, but going through my fab journey I like women just as much now, its the whole package, even though I still enjoy DP and DVP and everything about men its just not the same without a woman being involved. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mu first ever relationship from a 17 year old to my mid 20s was with another woman.
I have found love and sex in equal measures with either sex, so yes I am genuinely bisexual. |
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I've fancied women as long as I have men, from an early teenage age I knew that I was not straight, I'm sure I was never bi-curious either. I have met a bi-curious female that was clearly pretending for her fellas enjoyment. Not a good experience  I won't meet bi-curious women now for this reason x |
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Being bi is about being predominantly interested in the opposite sex with some interest in same sex, as most bi couples are MF.
It seems women are more likely to be bi or are open about it. As men have lots of hang ups about same sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bisexuality is simply a romantic AND/OR sexual interest. What sexual activities you'd pursue or whether you'd have a relationship doesn't make you any more or less bi. "
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"I do consider myself as fully bi even though I still prefer men. Probably because it's much easier to find a man to play with than a woman. I very much enjoy how sensual sex between two women is. "
Exactly how jo explains it. Its far more sensual and gentle sex with another female. |
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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago
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In the many years we have been on Fab a lot of so called Bi women might enjoy a lady touching them,however the thought of returning the same horrifies them.
And yes Mrs P really loves to play with the ladies as much as the men  |
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"Being bi is about being predominantly interested in the opposite sex with some interest in same sex, as most bi couples are MF.
It seems women are more likely to be bi or are open about it. As men have lots of hang ups about same sex."
Men would get judged and treated harsher coming out as bi compared to women where it is more accepted by men and women. Far harder for man to come out as bi. Sad but true |
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It would be interesting to find out how many men and women are truly bi. It appears to be women are more so, or is it because of the social stigma attached to men being bi that they choose not to disclose it? |
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My first ever sexual experience was with a woman and I've been intrigued ever since, I love a woman's body, it's softer more gentle than a mans
That said my preference is men, purely because I love cocks (I think because I don't have one) I couldn't give cocks up
In an ideal world I'd love a female FWB so I have the best if both worlds |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"That's a rather strange question, it almost sounds like women need to 'rate' their bisexualness on a scale to prove they are 'really bi'  "
Yes, the gatekeeping of bisexuality is odd.
Let's be honest, there are undoubtedly women who say they're bisexual to please their man. That happens. On the same token, it's not a performative thing, you don't need to have a list of credentials to showcase how bi you are. On a site like this, of course there are women are bi(sexual) and hetero(romantic). There's nothing wrong with that - you don't have to be bi(romantic) to enjoy being with a woman sexually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Yep Mrs4 is deffo Bi but prefers the term Pan sexual now and she has enjoyed playing with Females alot and on her bucket list is to have a F/F/F !"
It's on my bucket list too! I've been in an orgy with two other women but there was far too much sausage flying about the place  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's a rather strange question, it almost sounds like women need to 'rate' their bisexualness on a scale to prove they are 'really bi'
Yes, the gatekeeping of bisexuality is odd.
Let's be honest, there are undoubtedly women who say they're bisexual to please their man. That happens. On the same token, it's not a performative thing, you don't need to have a list of credentials to showcase how bi you are. On a site like this, of course there are women are bi(sexual) and hetero(romantic). There's nothing wrong with that - you don't have to be bi(romantic) to enjoy being with a woman sexually."
It is very odd and not something I'd actually come across until I joined fab.
Brilliant explanation |
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"There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man?"
I prefer the touch of a women we know what turns us on and when you got an understanding boy friend it makes it better.
He come to mine and I Ave a lady with me he stays in spare room.how many men on here round do thst |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started a thread in simlar lines the other day about that we like to play with ladies but i dont give oral.
I love the feel of a lady kissing and playing and touching with each other it feels so different to a guy, i LOVE boobs and the feel of another ladies bits but im affraid i dont go down on a lady and the ladies we have played with knew this before we played.
Hence i class myself a bi curious and never bi  
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have listed bi-curious due to the fact, I wouldn’t be in a relationship with another F but I do enjoy playing, feel of another women!
So if asked, I say bi-play
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Labels. Cables and fables is that what recreational sex is all about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mrs is not bi ,but don't mind but of touching and do not wish to pursue it further for sure , prefer a man than a woman ."
Is that the chap speaking on behalf of the chapess? |
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I had always fantasised about other women from my teenage years when I developed a crush on Suzi Quatro but was in my early 30s before my first experience with a woman. As I have got older I have enjoyed it more to the stage now where I enjoy a woman as much as a man. I'm not sure but maybe my evolution has been down to it being more socially acceptable now whereas back then it was quite taboo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs is not bi ,but don't mind but of touching and do not wish to pursue it further for sure , prefer a man than a woman .
Is that the chap speaking on behalf of the chapess?"
No, the chap is conveying on behalf of the chapess, for other chaos to know who enjoy watching two chapess play |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man?"
Yes. Next question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I consider myself bi curious, I've always been attracted to women however haven't had the experience fully, yes in a mff and throughly enjoyed it, but in general I've never dated or met a woman alone.
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"There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man?"
I love both sexes,equally..
im just too greedy I suppose.
But as I get older I notice I start craving more lady's touch. |
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"I (mrs) will play with another sexy lady and I enjoy it although I could never or want a relationship with them on a more personal level. "
That is jo also. She loves sex with women. But only a relationship with a man. |
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"There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man?"
I’m actually a lesbian and I will tolerate being with a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer men, but I enjoy being with women, and have had 1 on 1 experiences.
I’m happy with describing myself as bi, but not sure it needs to be labelled so specifically. I like what I like |
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I guess if a lady likes sexy times with another lady then she is bi. I don’t think we need to get bogged down with working out a percentage of preference. Oh I like men 96% but only like women 4% have I crossed the preference threshold to be able to accurately class myself as bi.
Bi means you like both, I like burgers and I like steak. I’d rather have steak but either way I’m not a vegetarian |
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I'm bi, but that term is very broad to describe possibly the widest category in the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Someone can be considered or identify as bi even if 99% of the time they are attracted to the opposite sex, the 1% still counts. Likewise, you can still be considered bi if the opposite is true, and 99% of the time find yourself attracted to the same sex. I sometimes find myself swaying in my interests, so I'll go through periods of time where I'm mostly attracted to women, and then times were I'm mostly attracted to men. A person can be bi sexually, but not bi romantically, and vice versa. There is an insane amount of bi erasure that goes on in both gay and straight communities, and a lot of misunderstanding and assumptions, things I experienced when I was growing up and in young adulthood made me not come out until I was almost 30 (except to my husband), and still now, I'm not fully 'out' persay. Like, my in laws don't know, niether do most of my extended family members. I fell in love with a man and married young and so I pass through life without really ever having to explain (though I have had people say things like, 'so you used to be bi but your straight now' as if marrying someone stops you having any kind of sexual attraction toward any one else lol). I think there is a lack of conversation about definitions to cover everyone that comes under the umbrella of bisexual, possibly because the love and hate relationship to labels, which can make understanding it and communicating difficult. Say a woman loves having sex with women, is attracted physically to women and prefers lesbian porn but has never and would never have a romantic relationship with a woman - you could ask 100 people what they'd liable her as and the answers would vary wildly.
Anyway, tangent over lol. What I came to say was, yes I'm listed as bi and I'm actually bi. |
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The defintion of bi is one that seems to be open to interpretation. We dont like labels but here we are using them.
The subject of "coming out" we find strange in its self. Unless you want to play with someone sexually why would you want to devulge your sexual preferences? Who cares or why would it matter unless you are interested??
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By *andSCouple
over a year ago
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Never knew I had any bisexual tendencies until we got into swinging. I leave bi-curious as it certainly isn't a given and when we look for and chat with a lady there is no intention for me to play with her. Mostly it just happens in the moment.
Then again, I've had my fair share of moments  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm definitely bi I love the touch and to play. Do find it annoying when someone is bi curious and u get in a room and you get a peck then they are straight on your husband tho |
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"There seems a lot of profiles say the Lady is bi-sexual or bi-curious. Are you really bi? Do you love the touch of a Woman as much if not more than a Man? Or do you just have a little fun but much prefer the touch of a Man?"
Lol the Mrs is VERY bi and absolutely adores kissing, touching and oral with girls. It's a joy to watch. We've met several so called 'bi' couples, most were either forced by their partners or gave Cherry just a token bit of pathetic affection, bi my arse.... |
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