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over a year ago
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Hi all
Dean got me involved into swinging back in October 21 when we visited hellfire. We have been hosting meets since then. We've met couples, single guys and single women. I've had a different vibe / experience every time. We've met straight couple, a couple with a bi female, a very dom couple, sub single bi females and single bull males. Is it natural to get different vibes every time?
On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother? |
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"Hi all
Dean got me involved into swinging back in October 21 when we visited hellfire. We have been hosting meets since then. We've met couples, single guys and single women. I've had a different vibe / experience every time. We've met straight couple, a couple with a bi female, a very dom couple, sub single bi females and single bull males. Is it natural to get different vibes every time?
On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother? "
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"Hi all
Dean got me involved into swinging back in October 21 when we visited hellfire. We have been hosting meets since then. We've met couples, single guys and single women. I've had a different vibe / experience every time. We've met straight couple, a couple with a bi female, a very dom couple, sub single bi females and single bull males. Is it natural to get different vibes every time?
On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother? "
not had a meet yet can’t say about the vibes but guys pretending to be a couple is a problem. totally a waste of time ive spoke to a couple of couples and few questions in you get the feel there is no women lol. |
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not had a meet yet can’t say about the vibes but guys pretending to be a couple is a problem. totally a waste of time ive spoke to a couple of couples and few questions in you get the feel there is no women lol. "
It's pretty annoying and rather sad tbh. We don't usually meet single men and it says so on our profile and yet guys keep messaging. Just feels so desperate |
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not had a meet yet can’t say about the vibes but guys pretending to be a couple is a problem. totally a waste of time ive spoke to a couple of couples and few questions in you get the feel there is no women lol.
It's pretty annoying and rather sad tbh. We don't usually meet single men and it says so on our profile and yet guys keep messaging. Just feels so desperate"
Block single men in your message filters |
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Every single experience is different! Everyone is different with a different a personality.
Guys pretend to be couples because they get a kick out of it, often their wife is poorly but they're available! |
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Oh we can block single guys but it's the single men having a couples profile which irritates us. Just wastes a lot of time. The minute you ask to speak to them over the phone, they disappear. We prefer talking on phone for verification. Is that unreasonable ? |
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Speaking on the phone is a great idea and we have no objection to it and have done so in the past and our favoured route used to be going on cam in the our local chat room just to prove Mrs4 is very real !  |
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"Oh we can block single guys but it's the single men having a couples profile which irritates us. Just wastes a lot of time. The minute you ask to speak to them over the phone, they disappear. We prefer talking on phone for verification. Is that unreasonable ?"
Nope. Whatever you choose to do is reasonable if it's how you make your decision  |
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"That's good to hear. We were thinking we might have been a touch unreasonable."
Nothing unreasonable, we take a fairly similar approach. The glut of fakes who lurk on here, are ever increasing. Personally, I can't see the sense in it. Do they get some sort of kick?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all
Dean got me involved into swinging back in October 21 when we visited hellfire. We have been hosting meets since then. We've met couples, single guys and single women. I've had a different vibe / experience every time. We've met straight couple, a couple with a bi female, a very dom couple, sub single bi females and single bull males. Is it natural to get different vibes every time?
On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother? "
They are labelled here as pic collectors , w$nkers , time wasters etc .
Just block them and move on. |
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"Hi all
On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother? "
This happened to us and we wasted our journey and felt very unsafe and left straight away. Unfortunately he is still active on fab with couples profile.
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Ouchies. That sounds horrible. We always meet in public for a social first and never invite people to our home for first meets. Hotels are always safer option for that |
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"Oh we can block single guys but it's the single men having a couples profile which irritates us. Just wastes a lot of time. The minute you ask to speak to them over the phone, they disappear. We prefer talking on phone for verification. Is that unreasonable ?"
I'm part of a couple and I wouldn't give my number out to someone on here to speak on the phone prior to a meet, nor have I been asked to in the 6 years I've been here
But your perfectly within your rights to ask, and I would politely decline rather than ghost you
We swapped numbers when we started but without fail each time the person became a pest texting constantly so now we blanket refuse & we don't use things like kik etc but then we have several veris which I guess is maybe what stops people asking for telephone chats |
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On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother?
This happened to us and we wasted our journey and felt very unsafe and left straight away. Unfortunately he is still active on fab with couples profile.
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Report him, admin will swap it to a single guys profile if several people report it |
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On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother?
This happened to us and we wasted our journey and felt very unsafe and left straight away. Unfortunately he is still active on fab with couples profile.
Report him, admin will swap it to a single guys profile if several people report it "
They won't. If there's evidence that he is a single guy on a couples profile they will change it though. |
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"Hi all
On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother?
This happened to us and we wasted our journey and felt very unsafe and left straight away. Unfortunately he is still active on fab with couples profile.
Report him, admin will swap it to a single guys profile if several people report it
They won't. If there's evidence that he is a single guy on a couples profile they will change it though."
How could you provide evidence, surely if he's done it to a few people (not say he has but if they were to get a few reports all about the same account) action should be taken, maybe a 3 strike rule or something) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all
Dean got me involved into swinging back in October 21 when we visited hellfire. We have been hosting meets since then. We've met couples, single guys and single women. I've had a different vibe / experience every time. We've met straight couple, a couple with a bi female, a very dom couple, sub single bi females and single bull males. Is it natural to get different vibes every time?
On a separate note, what is with guys pretending to be a couple? I mean, surely, if we agree to meet and you turn up alone, we're not gonna let you in. Why bother? "
We need some tips from you. Where do you find the time?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all
We need some tips from you. Where do you find the time?!"
Oh there's plenty of couples out there with much more experience than us. We only started back in October when we went to hellfire. We are usually free on weekends and that's when we meet for swinging  |
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