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Does your Bio really matter?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How much does your bio really matter and how much does your photos matter? I feel like cause most are not after a relationship your job, house, car are not taken into account. my view is looks plays a massive part on a site like this especially as sex for a woman on here is very easy to get.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Pics are very important because if they are not attracted to you, it's no point knowing what kind of person you are.

But the general opinion seems to be personality for most is also critical, and that showing through in your bio will be the difference.

There will be those that don't care at all about your bio, and only need a physical attraction.

Bottom line is how your profile is presented both in pics and text, will reflect you. An indication of if somebody will want to interact with you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always thought sex for a woman was easy to get regardless of this site.

You learn something new everyday!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How much does your bio really matter and how much does your photos matter? I feel like cause most are not after a relationship your job, house, car are not taken into account. my view is looks plays a massive part on a site like this especially as sex for a woman on here is very easy to get."

A bio and images on a profile is very important to me.

It's the nearest I'll get to a window of the person behind it. I can then make a decision on whether I'd be attracted to them (whole picture matters IMO) or not attracted to them.

Your assumption that women can obtain sex very easily is rather off putting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah women are the gatekeepers for sex because most men will fuck anything.

and men are the gatekeepers for a relationship. because when it comes to standards in a relationship men don't tend to drop standards.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't apparently!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't really care about the profile text or pics. I chat to them like they are a human being not an advert in a meat catalogue.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

I'd say it is THE most important thing. Most people check the profile before thinking about answering the message, the better the profile, the better the chances of them replying.

If you have a decent enough profile, not only will you increase the chances of getting a reply, but (and this part may come as a shock to some guys) some women will actually message you first.

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By *heonix_flamesWoman over a year ago

Midlands

Attraction is physical (your looks) and behavioural- how you treat someone, how you make them feel, do you stimulate their mind as well as their body? That’s what it is for me anyway. Your house, job, car, salary have no impact on any of those things so why would they change whether I was attracted to you or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I feel like they should affect your attraction levels cause it shows ambition.

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By *al kalMan over a year ago

london

It matters 1000% and think you know that already.

Ever day we see guys posting for help or complaining they are getting nowhere. Same post different users…. Lots of useful suggestions repeated and pep talks given. We are a nice bunch at times. Typically profiles with daft albums, mostly just cock… no substance.

And a profile with No substance. There are loads of example of here of good profile suggestions, just have to take a little time out and make the effort otherwise keep expectations v low. As I said on another post it’s a marathon not a sprint shagfest. Invest time in making people want to invest in knowing you.

All the best.

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By *itzi999Woman over a year ago

Slough

The face is the first point of attraction and then the rest. It’s a swingers site - it’s just for sex!!!!

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Think most (not all) men just look at the pictures and ignore the bio.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can guarantee women are way more selective though I know lots of good looking men who will fuck women they don't even find attractive and never would get in a relationship with. women tend to only get with guys they are attracted to very rare a women can fuck someone they ain't physically attracted to where as men can.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The profile bio is important because if he has the personality of a wet fish. I'm not gonna be interested.

If he lists a house and car, etc. It'll turn me off that he doesn't know himself well enough to describe not his possessions.

I like profiles with pictures. Doesn't have to be a face pic. But something interesting. If he has 14 dick pics I will pass because I don't want a dude who is fascinated with his junk.

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By *umslaveTV/TS over a year ago

Sheffield

I'll tell you right now that 98% of men do not read a single word I write on my bio/profile. They're just thinking with their down below brains after they see my pics.

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By *al kalMan over a year ago

london

"I can guarantee women are way more selective though I know lots of good looking men who will fuck women they don't even find attractive and never would get in a relationship with. women tend to only get with guys they are attracted to very rare a women can fuck someone they ain't physically attracted to where as men can."

A thing called standards……. Most woman can judge who doesn’t hopefully…. And keep theirs high.

Sound like perhaps you know a lot of these guys who don’t…. so can avoid the obvious lesson.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'll tell you right now that 98% of men do not read a single word I write on my bio/profile. They're just thinking with their down below brains after they see my pics.

A fair number of women don't either. Well they may read it, but they ignore things stated in it.

I had something in my profile and of all the handful of women that I knew viewed my profile, not one of them honoured the request (it was a respectful and reasonable request).

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Different for different people.

It's the first thing I consider. Tells me something about the person's thought process and/or how they wish to be seen.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

We would never meet someone based solely on photos.

The profile at least gives a bit of a clue as to their personality, intelligence, preferences, etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

I don't think your career is important, possibly home & car but only because they make meets more accessible for some

As you said photos are a big part of what will entice someone into responding, adding something about what the persons into, their sexual likes & dislikes so I can see if we'd be a good match is another thing I look for

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective."

I wish you luck with that comment. I shall now be taking cover in my bunker away from the fall out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes a decent profile matters. I like to see some effort has been put in. There are so many people on here that it's the eye catching profiles that get my attention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective."

Your forum comments read more like an incel to me. Winge about not getting laid. Put in the work. Be able to hold decent conversation. And perhaps treat women as individuals, which you haven't done in this thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely a decent profile matters. The bio means as much to us as do the pictures, we look at the whole package.

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

You can look beautiful but have an ugly attitude - bios are very important gives a snippet to what someone is like, there wants and preferences, it let’s you see if you could be remotely compatible with a person beyond just finding them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My bio matters as it tells people what I’m looking for and about me.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"Your forum comments read more like an incel to me. Winge about not getting laid. Put in the work. Be able to hold decent conversation. And perhaps treat women as individuals, which you haven't done in this thread. "

Nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective."

oh dear

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

You're correct. If women don't care about their own experiences and just want random cocks to fuck then yep, it's fairly easy although swathes of men don't turn up to anned meets (check out any gangbang thread).

Most of us don't want that though and finding someone to get naked with and have great sex with is hard work and rare.

The man you are is very important and your thread that was deleted told us who you are.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

We wouldn’t meet anyone who didn’t put any effort in their profile…we want to meet likeminded people so it’s important (to us) what people write. As are their pics.

Also what people write in their bio or pics they decide to put on their profile could easily detract and show that we wouldn’t be compatible.

So it’s very important to us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective."

A couple of your comments on this thread have been a bit prickly and I don't agree with your argument but I wish you continued success

NBVN x

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"45 meets in a year fuck me... looking at your profile i'd say looks matter a fuck ton on this site."

I'm assuming that's for TMontana. He makes effort and is a really nice dude with a cracking personality.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

A couple of your comments on this thread have been a bit prickly and I don't agree with your argument but I wish you continued success

NBVN x"

You should see what he wrote on his other thread, prickly doesn't cover it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Far too picky for my own good"

somes up most women on this site.

also I'm not an incel as I can get dates off tinder and also I don't do badly in real life too. I can talk to girls I have problem in that area.

Its just finding girls who are into the things I'm into and I'm on this site to try new things with like minded people.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"45 meets in a year fuck me... looking at your profile i'd say looks matter a fuck ton on this site."

I’ve got about 80. 78 of which aren’t sexual.

Means nothing

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

""Far too picky for my own good"

somes up most women on this site.

also I'm not an incel as I can get dates off tinder and also I don't do badly in real life too. I can talk to girls I have problem in that area.

Its just finding girls who are into the things I'm into and I'm on this site to try new things with like minded people."

How the fuck is there such a thing as "far too picky for my own good"?

I ain't had sex in 2 years and it's done me no harm. You trying to tell me I'd be a better human or happier if I shagged folk who weren't for me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Far too picky for my own good"

somes up most women on this site.

also I'm not an incel as I can get dates off tinder and also I don't do badly in real life too. I can talk to girls I have problem in that area.

Its just finding girls who are into the things I'm into and I'm on this site to try new things with like minded people."

Yeah I am picky. I am also picky about my coffee, I like coffee but I won't drink shit coffee.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

""Far too picky for my own good"

somes up most women on this site.

also I'm not an incel as I can get dates off tinder and also I don't do badly in real life too. I can talk to girls I have problem in that area.

Its just finding girls who are into the things I'm into and I'm on this site to try new things with like minded people."

But you said you were being rejected by women you wouldn't want to fuck but you sent them messages anyway.

You also said women (adult women are not girls) want relationships from Tinder and you didn't. Tinder is a primarily a dating site, what did you expect?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"45 meets in a year fuck me... looking at your profile i'd say looks matter a fuck ton on this site."

If that's aimed a TMontana then you have no idea OP. He's one of the nicest guys we've messaged and puts so much effort not only into his profile but in the forums and his messages too. He's so much more than just his pictures !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My point is your bio don't mean shit. if you're good looking with a amazing body you will get a fuck ton of meets like that guy from Sheffield who replied earlier if you are not its not worth being on this site.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

A decent bio shows effort and that applies to all profiles regardless of gender.

Copy and pasted messages are always a no no as are copy and pasted bios.

Throw in copy and pasted forum comments that are taken directly from another thread and that shows a complete lack of effort.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

""Far too picky for my own good"

somes up most women on this site.

also I'm not an incel as I can get dates off tinder and also I don't do badly in real life too. I can talk to girls I have problem in that area.

Its just finding girls who are into the things I'm into and I'm on this site to try new things with like minded people."

Oh dear

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

""Far too picky for my own good"

somes up most women on this site.

also I'm not an incel as I can get dates off tinder and also I don't do badly in real life too. I can talk to girls I have problem in that area.

Its just finding girls who are into the things I'm into and I'm on this site to try new things with like minded people.

But you said you were being rejected by women you wouldn't want to fuck but you sent them messages anyway.

You also said women (adult women are not girls) want relationships from Tinder and you didn't. Tinder is a primarily a dating site, what did you expect?

wtf!

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

It's about the whole package, photos as it helps if they find you attractive and a good bio that shows your personality. It's also important not to make assumptions as that will definitely hinder you

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

Not if you are a woman. I'd hazard a guess all a woman has to do on here is open an account, no photos and write feeling horny

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yeah course the fact he has an amazing body and probably a good looking face played absolutely no part in getting 45 meets in just over a year lol.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"My point is your bio don't mean shit. if you're good looking with a amazing body you will get a fuck ton of meets like that guy from Sheffield who replied earlier if you are not its not worth being on this site."

Ok, if that's what you believe then don't cause yourself stress, leave.

Alternatively you could stay, join in the forums and learn about swinging, women and change to improve yourself and your sex life.

When you understand what it's really about, you'll fly.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"yeah course the fact he has an amazing body and probably a good looking face played absolutely no part in getting 45 meets in just over a year lol."

Not all meets are sexual you know. There are lots of group socials around the country.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

So those meets just landed at his feet did they? Get over yourself and give the man the credit he deserves by taking responsibility for his own actions.

He meets at clubs. Goes to social events.

He is respectful, considerate. He doesn't act entitled and makes an effort. Don't be so fucking aggy coz he is a decent human being who is liked.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Far too picky for my own good"

somes up most women on this site.

also I'm not an incel as I can get dates off tinder and also I don't do badly in real life too. I can talk to girls I have problem in that area.

Its just finding girls who are into the things I'm into and I'm on this site to try new things with like minded people."

Everyone on this site has a right to be “picky”.

On your original question. Yes a bio matters. If

You can’t put effort into a bio what sort of effort would you put into messages or meets?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To men it doesn't

To women it doesn't

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

How are you an expert on a site you've only just joined?

And how are you failing to learn anything from the responses you're getting?

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"yeah course the fact he has an amazing body and probably a good looking face played absolutely no part in getting 45 meets in just over a year lol."

You cynic!

Plenty of men like you describe start threads about how difficult it is to meet and plenty of men who don’t fit that description meet often.

Read the verifications, lots are from socials that don't involve sex but they lead to sex.

Also, hit reply + quote then we don't have to guess who you are talking to.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

If taking 20-30 minutes out of your life to create a profile worth reading and pictures worth looking at is such hard work, what would the sex be like.

It’s massively important to me I take time to get ready so the ‘fill in later’ and endless cock pictures profiles can message someone else.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Speak up. Can't hear you over the sound of block buttons being hit.

Think of the olds

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm over here raging. Just raging.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I recently changed my bio and I’ve had an amazing response. People I’ve never been messaged by before who aren’t just looking at my pics. I’m getting closer to what I’ve asked for, and it’s really refreshing when people read it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd maybe quit now....

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"45 meets in a year fuck me... looking at your profile i'd say looks matter a fuck ton on this site."

Looking at his profile, even before I looked at his pictures, I am not surprised he's had some good meets.

If you compare it to yours, it could be quite helpful.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

you would think it should matter a lot, but it would seem it doesn't count for much for some???

it's clear on ours who/what we seek unyet the demands on us for what people expect from us are clearly against our wishes, hopes and dreams.

It makes us cringe and the block and delete functions are very busy.

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By *heron212Man over a year ago

London

As if people read these days...

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By *r SproutMan over a year ago

the middle

Not read the OP or replies but I’m going to say no

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Good luck, OP. I'm sure your performance in these forums will help get you lots of meets!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

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It was such a good post

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Good luck, OP. I'm sure your performance in these forums will help get you lots of meets!"

Really don't think to many of the people from my area even read these forums so I'm ok

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

"The profile bio is important because if he has the personality of a wet fish. I'm not gonna be interested.

If he lists a house and car, etc. It'll turn me off that he doesn't know himself well enough to describe not his possessions.

I like profiles with pictures. Doesn't have to be a face pic. But something interesting. If he has 14 dick pics I will pass because I don't want a dude who is fascinated with his junk.

This is spot on x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone for cake?

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Anyone for cake? "

What type?

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

I'm not competing against anyone but myself so if lots of other guys are getting shagged because of their looks that doesn't bother be in the slightest but I can assure you it's only a small percentage who get a shag based on looks alone.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face. "

ok fair enough thanks for the honesty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone for cake?

What type? "

Lemon drizzle for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad "

See this I 1000000000000000% agree with..

thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

Good grief! How many times can you slate people in one thread, so someone has 45 verifications, big deal there likely to have been from social events and conversations with people on here, I’d say a very high percentage of verifications are of this nature - also the person whom this comment was aimed at is a respectful, kind and handsome man. Being handsome or beautiful isn’t a card for people to flock to you like birds round shit, your personality and the way you interact with others counts for a lot on here!

Good looking or not, a shit personality can turn you from a 10 to a zero very quickly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm after a specific type of relationship and I've had to change the wording and length of it several times as it doesn't seem to spark any interest I did wonder if was down to validity of the specifics but my suggestion would be to persevere and be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended"

I'll have cake

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"I always thought sex for a woman was easy to get regardless of this site.

You learn something new everyday! "

You've learnt something new? If that's the case, you're in the wrong thread:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1260732

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By *he_Last_TitanMan over a year ago

Bristol

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

I have to agree here. I don't message women for the above reasons. However, I do receive the odd message from both women and couples, so my guess is that my profile does hit the spot for some.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended

I'll have cake"

Definitely talking about cake now. Love a lemon drizzle cake …

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

Let me grab some cream

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

I'm old and fat.

I'm a single male.

I'm not going to get meets on pictures alone. But I've got a well written bio, which has led to women messaging first, complimenting me on it.

I've got to stand out from the crowd of single males somehow.

Looks may cause someone to look at a profile, but personality gets you a message.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended

I'll have cake"

I'll have some too please,I don't match his requirements of a decent shape anyway,so why not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t want to take over the thread thanking everyone for the lovely comments - So thank you!

I went away, just came and back read through them all…

OP - I’ll have been on here coming up to 5 years soon. My meets are from clubs, socials and private meets. I’ve recently been to a big social where I got verified by quite a few that were there…

Going back to your original post, it’s more of a whole package. Everyone is attracted to different things believe me. I think personality is a major part, it is for me anyway - when I’m looking to meet others.

So if you have good pictures and a decent bio, that tells something about yourself - you have a good chance of finding others and others finding you…

You also have to have some kind of personality with respect and understanding for others so it’s like a whole package.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sorry that other people have preferences and ways of using the site that don't work for you, OP.

Unfortunately, that isn't going to change.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended

I'll have cake

I'll have some too please,I don't match his requirements of a decent shape anyway,so why not

Priorities, cake before men any day!!

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face.

ok fair enough thanks for the honesty"

Hold the fucking front door here.... women try to explain it and it's bollocks, you argue and practically call us liars.

A bloke tells you the same and whoosh... it's fair and honest!

Wtf dude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm old and fat.

I'm a single male.

I'm not going to get meets on pictures alone. But I've got a well written bio, which has led to women messaging first, complimenting me on it.

I've got to stand out from the crowd of single males somehow.

Looks may cause someone to look at a profile, but personality gets you a message."

Cant argue with that

Thank you.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I don’t want to take over the thread thanking everyone for the lovely comments - So thank you!

I went away, just came and back read through them all…

So if you have good pictures and a decent bio, that tells something about yourself - you have a good chance of finding others and others finding you…

You also have to have some kind of personality with respect and understanding for others so it’s like a whole package.

Mic fucking drop

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face.

ok fair enough thanks for the honesty

Hold the fucking front door here.... women try to explain it and it's bollocks, you argue and practically call us liars.

A bloke tells you the same and whoosh... it's fair and honest!

Wtf dude. "

Because women have no idea what its like on the other side of the coin that's why the bio stuff was directed at both genders but the looks stuff I brought up was for the men to answer because they experience sending private messages to women (who I'm interested in)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t want to take over the thread thanking everyone for the lovely comments - So thank you!

I went away, just came and back read through them all…

So if you have good pictures and a decent bio, that tells something about yourself - you have a good chance of finding others and others finding you…

You also have to have some kind of personality with respect and understanding for others so it’s like a whole package.

Mic fucking drop

Also you look like helena botham carter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face.

ok fair enough thanks for the honesty

Hold the fucking front door here.... women try to explain it and it's bollocks, you argue and practically call us liars.

A bloke tells you the same and whoosh... it's fair and honest!

Wtf dude. "

And that explains his dilemma (face meet palm)

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

See this I 1000000000000000% agree with..

thanks"

Don’t forget too that many people on here aren’t even here to meet

Many use it when bored, they like the attention / ego boost, they like posting pics for the top 10, they’re secretly advertising an OF or premium snap. Some just aren’t meeting

Everyone at a club/social is there for the same reason. To meet people

Get to a club and be respectful charming and funny and you’ll do well in no time

And maybe make a new account because you’ve ballsed this one up with this thread lol

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face.

ok fair enough thanks for the honesty

Hold the fucking front door here.... women try to explain it and it's bollocks, you argue and practically call us liars.

A bloke tells you the same and whoosh... it's fair and honest!

Wtf dude.

Women have no idea.

Really? OK.

None of us are friends with, or communicate with the men here. None of us listen and learn what it's like from the other side.

You keep telling yourself that. Suits your story.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face.

ok fair enough thanks for the honesty

Hold the fucking front door here.... women try to explain it and it's bollocks, you argue and practically call us liars.

A bloke tells you the same and whoosh... it's fair and honest!

Wtf dude.

But women will be able to tell you how they go about answering messages. Why they consider one thing or another.

But ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

I have to agree here. I don't message women for the above reasons. However, I do receive the odd message from both women and couples, so my guess is that my profile does hit the spot for some. "

maybe I'm just overestimating the level of success men are getting on here. cause you look like you'd be good looking and women love black guys all I see on here is looking for BBC.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I don’t want to take over the thread thanking everyone for the lovely comments - So thank you!

I went away, just came and back read through them all…

So if you have good pictures and a decent bio, that tells something about yourself - you have a good chance of finding others and others finding you…

You also have to have some kind of personality with respect and understanding for others so it’s like a whole package.

Mic fucking drop

Also you look like helena botham carter"

Good, coz I fancy the fuck outta her and think she's the coolest mofo in heels.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple over a year ago

Lincoln

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended

I'll have cake

I'll have some too please,I don't match his requirements of a decent shape anyway,so why not

Priorities, cake before men any day!!"

Exactly! Although my man likes me even though I like cake so he can stay

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By *annaBeStrongMan over a year ago

wokingham

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

I have to agree here. I don't message women for the above reasons. However, I do receive the odd message from both women and couples, so my guess is that my profile does hit the spot for some.

maybe I'm just overestimating the level of success men are getting on here. cause you look like you'd be good looking and women love black guys all I see on here is looking for BBC. "

99% of men on here get zero meets

Your seriously over estimating the amount of action the regular guy gets

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

See this I 1000000000000000% agree with..

thanks

Don’t forget too that many people on here aren’t even here to meet

Many use it when bored, they like the attention / ego boost, they like posting pics for the top 10, they’re secretly advertising an OF or premium snap. Some just aren’t meeting

Everyone at a club/social is there for the same reason. To meet people

Get to a club and be respectful charming and funny and you’ll do well in no time

And maybe make a new account because you’ve ballsed this one up with this thread lol "

yeah I will get down to a club and check it out cheers

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended

I'll have cake

I'll have some too please,I don't match his requirements of a decent shape anyway,so why not

Priorities, cake before men any day!!"

I'm changing my name to cake

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone for cake?

What type?

Lemon drizzle for me

can you not talk about cake on my post I find it disrespectful and in poor taste no pun intended

I'll have cake

I'll have some too please,I don't match his requirements of a decent shape anyway,so why not

Priorities, cake before men any day!!

Exactly! Although my man likes me even though I like cake so he can stay

Ah he's definitely a keeper then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

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By *he_Last_TitanMan over a year ago

Bristol

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

I have to agree here. I don't message women for the above reasons. However, I do receive the odd message from both women and couples, so my guess is that my profile does hit the spot for some.

maybe I'm just overestimating the level of success men are getting on here. cause you look like you'd be good looking and women love black guys all I see on here is looking for BBC. "

Been on and off here for circa 15 years buddy - it's always been this way. But yeah, I've had some success over the years - more than some - less than others no doubt. Key thing is, it doesn't bother me either way. I'm just here.

Try not to take it too seriously or believe that it is a reflection of reality - it is not.

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

What exactly did you expect from here? That you would make a profile and woman would just open there legs to you? There’s standards and quite rightly so that some people have, your attitude is like that of a petulant child - not getting enough attention in the way of messages so you come on here, practically slate every woman on the thread and expect to improve your chances? or was it more of a case of shit stirring to gain attention as that is exactly how you come over when you start name calling and judging - shows a vast level of immaturity and disrespect

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"Just to give you some perspective op.

I've been here 5 years and in all that time I've accumulated roughly about 60 verifications across 4 profiles.

40 of those were from 2 seperate social events, 13 from individual coffee meets and only 7 were play related.

I'm twice your age and don't fit into the categories you are describing but I made the effort with my pics and bio and use my time on here in a positive way.

If they can't hold a conversation or have a half decent personality they won't get repeat meets so they are cutting off their nose to spite their face.

ok fair enough thanks for the honesty

Hold the fucking front door here.... women try to explain it and it's bollocks, you argue and practically call us liars.

A bloke tells you the same and whoosh... it's fair and honest!

Wtf dude.

That's where you are wrong again.

I haven't sent a single first contact message in 2 years.

Every conversation I've had since the beginning of 2020 has been initiated by women and couples who have contacted me because of my bio, my pics and my forum interaction.

Most of those women have made an effort with their bios and pics as well and at first glance appear to be very attractive. If they haven't made the effort I won't chat to them but they have to be able to maintain a conversation as much as any man does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way off lad.

Best way to get meets in this site is go to a club or social

You could send 1000 perfectly crafted messages and none of them even get opened

You walk up to someone in a club, introduce yourself and be friendly, charming and interesting, you’ll go great

Personality matters less on here because it’s so hard to convey that through a message

If you want success, go to a club/social. Messaging on here is nearly pointless for single guys at the supply/demand ratio is so bad

I have to agree here. I don't message women for the above reasons. However, I do receive the odd message from both women and couples, so my guess is that my profile does hit the spot for some.

maybe I'm just overestimating the level of success men are getting on here. cause you look like you'd be good looking and women love black guys all I see on here is looking for BBC.

Try not to take it too seriously or believe that it is a reflection of reality - it is not. "

no its definitely not reality like I said I do actually pretty good in person and on online dating (you know the one) but on here is like a whole different kettle of fish like I feel insanely unattractive on here than I do meeting girls in nightclubs or in my social circle. just seems like girls on here have higher standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What exactly did you expect from here? That you would make a profile and woman would just open there legs to you? There’s standards and quite rightly so that some people have, your attitude is like that of a petulant child - not getting enough attention in the way of messages so you come on here, practically slate every woman on the thread and expect to improve your chances? or was it more of a case of shit stirring to gain attention as that is exactly how you come over when you start name calling and judging - shows a vast level of immaturity and disrespect

Like I've already said I get attention in person and OLD it not the case of I don't get any attention its a case of finding like-minded people to try stuff that girls I've met in person and online don't wanna try. I've just come out of a relationship so I'm guessing most people on here ain't looking for that hence coming on here.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most.."

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" especially as sex for a woman on here is very easy to get."

I wish

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts."

No but we are all on here for the same thing or why be on this kind of site might aswell be on a just chatting site. we use these things to sell ourselves like the man above said feels like a lot of people on here are here for the ego boost from 1000s of desperate men.

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

Read my bio. It's 3 sentences.

Then tell me we're all here for the same reason.

If I truly believed you'd be prepared to listen to understand instead of listen to reply I'd even tell you the whole story of why I am the way I am. But I reckon you may have some while to go yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought my pics were good, thought my bio was good too, maybe try turning down the pix and the bio see if that works

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

Sounds like sour grapes op and how do you know what people are on here for?

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

Wrong. We are not all on here for the same thing. Different strokes for different folks.

But bless you, you've only been on for 3 weeks and still so young.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

This would be a really boring place if we were all here for the same thing. It's the fact that the complete opposite is true that makes this site so successful.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

Oh man… The thing is we aren’t “all here for the same thing” That’s the beauty of the site.

- Hence why having a good bio and pictures will really help you connect with likeminded people…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my experience women read bios. So if you’re looking to meet someone, you’ve got to have a decently written one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

Wrong. We are not all on here for the same thing. Different strokes for different folks.

But bless you, you've only been on for 3 weeks and still so young."

Look after me then.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

You have no idea why every single person on this site is here.

And just because some may be here for the same thing as you, doesn't mean they want to do that with you. (As you might not to with them, etc)

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"In my experience women read bios. So if you’re looking to meet someone, you’ve got to have a decently written one.

do you get meets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

You have no idea why every single person on this site is here.

And just because some may be here for the same thing as you, doesn't mean they want to do that with you. (As you might not to with them, etc)"

the problem is most don't hence why I'm asking how important is your bio really.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I find the more attractive the woman the more selective that they are. many athletic, slim and average women on this site are much more selective.

but this site is a swinging site their are tits, arse and fanny everywhere most people on here are into some really kinky shit like I'm presuming the end goal is Sex here for most..

And here you are presuming again.

Your mum has tits, an arse and a fanny, but I'm sure there's more to her than that.

Do you really believe that once you join a swinging site you stop being human, stop being a parent, a child, a whole person and you're really just reduced to body parts.

Wrong. We are not all on here for the same thing. Different strokes for different folks.

But bless you, you've only been on for 3 weeks and still so young.

Look after me then."

I dont think even Jesus can save you now after this thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my experience women read bios. So if you’re looking to meet someone, you’ve got to have a decently written one.

do you get meets?"

On my old profile I had a few. One person who I met regularly came about from her messaging me first (unheard of) based on my profile.

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By *arker secrets 321Man over a year ago

West Bromwich

Op boi are v important a well written 1 draws people in ..

Uv only just joined the site u seem 2 av gotten off on the wrong foot .join in the forums this way u get noticed and its a good way of showing wot type of person u are .iv seen guys that av great bodies big cocks on here with shit attitude get slatted ..so my advise is relax learn from wots bien said 2 u .People on here are friendly and honest wen u ask 4 advise take it on board .I hope u find wot ur looking 4 m8 x

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

You'll find as you get older that it doesn't matter how big a dick you have or how big a dick you are, the most important thing is being able to make a woman laugh and if you can do that while having sex even better.

Therefore anything that gives a good reflection of your personality is a positive and that definitely includes your bio.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"Anyone for cake? "

I was going to suggest popcorn, but I wouldn't say no to some cake!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Oh my this thread is like the 101 of what not to say or do on fab, so many assumptions !

To your OP yes a bio is important.

I look at the bio before even bothering to open a message, it is your first point of contact irrespective of what you say in your message. If your bio doesn’t interest me I won’t bother reading the message.