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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys, after advice really…
So I’m newly single and new to this world having spent 99.9% of my adult life in monogamous, vanilla relationships. I’m also somewhat of an all in kinda guy…
Having joined the site a few weeks ago it’s been pretty intense. The positives are I’ve met some incredibly beautiful people already, had some really rewarding conversations (not all dirty by any means in fact that’s scarcely a part) and given my confidence a boost and got to experience things I never thought I would.
The downside if there is one is I can feel a bit of risk of burn out. What do people here do to keep things in moderation? It sounds a bit arbitrary but should I consider putting a limit on number of meets or even interactions.
Anyone with experience or perspective on this particularly as a single man or woman please do let me know. Thanks and PS don’t think for a moment I am ungrateful or this is a humble brag, I’m truly grateful for what I’ve experienced and have met some wonderful, wonderful people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single female on here I've also meet some amazing people and made some great friends. I do burn myself out through meets and I go to clubs every week, so i take breaks to refresh myself and come back. I find it's important to keep your vanilla side there and mix with vanilla friends to bring you back down . Fab can become addictive very quickly take time out now and again of you feel you need to and as said above still do vanilla things. Glad it's going well for you OP  |
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