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Persistent people

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Does persistence get the guy/lady/couple or do you get fed up and move on? Does it annoy you that a certain person doesn't give up or do you find it flattering?. I was persistent with someone from here, it paid off in the end but I often wonder of the shoe was on the other foot would I have been annoyed/flattered.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will give attention till it's clear they had enough/issue restraining order

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will give attention till it's clear they had enough/issue restraining order"

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on the situation. If it was someone telling me to get to the doctor to check a mole out it's fair.

If it's someone on here who I've said no to but they keep messaging trying to get me to chat then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fine line between persistant and then being seen as pushy/desperate more often than not on here leads to blocking especially for single male

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By *herryEatersCouple over a year ago

East Cheshire

If they tick the boxes then yes !. It's refreshing to find someone put some effort into meeting you, however long it takes. Chatting again with a local guy now who first messaged 7 months back, clearly interested and not just looking for an easy lay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Persistent as in they've been told no and won't accept it? They get a block for that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If their profile is almost empty and they keep sending one-liners or dick pics then I get annoyed pretty quick. I tend to allow 3 messages before I block in the hope that they will write something more interesting in the 2nd or 3rd attempt... so far, most people stop at 2 messages if I havent replied.

Persistance only works for me when someone i was interested in but lost in my inbox sends a polite follow up message a few days later, or when the second message contains additional information not on their profile/in previous messages.

Oh, for all those who think i should reply to everyone - that would be lovely, but I just dont have time to do that.

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By *iddlesticksMan over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Oops, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oops, sorry

Haha

I enjoy our conversations

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By *ndysmithMan over a year ago

north cyprus

my wife has given into persistance a few times just to get rid of a loser

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Persistent as in they've been told no and won't accept it? They get a block for that. "

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

If I've said no and yet they keep messaging then I block...Desperation is not attractive

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By *all me FlikWoman over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"If I've said no and yet they keep messaging then I block...Desperation is not attractive "

I really should do this more often.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Suppose it’s a fine line ... who dares wins ... so they say

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By *iberty RedWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

Persistent online & I block, scary to think what they'd be like in person

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By *rad670Man over a year ago

South Lakes

I always presume it will annoy rather than flatter, I never send a message more than once to the same person and even if we've been chatting I would maybe send a second after a day or two then stop, it' usually an indication they are not interested. I wouldn't like to get a meet just because I pestered someone into submission.

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