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One offs or regular meets
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"What are you looking for from this site?
One offs or a regular FWB looking for a regular FWB, how about you?"
In an ideal world a bit of both a couple of guys that I meet once a month each, with the odd one off thrown into the mix
Sadly I find despite telling people from the start, I'm only really into one offs they seem to message non stop which has always prevented anything becoming regular, although saying that I've met two nice guys recently that definitely have FWB potential |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably the one offs.
Getting to know someone too well is taking away from the sex and making it more of a "Come dine with me" but sex instead of food.
And we have seen the bad meals on there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry had to delete as too many spelling mistakes - damn you predictive text!
We have had one off meets, but we are now looking for regular meets so we can build trust and push boundaries xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love a regular FWB I do see now and then couple of men friends but ones I like to far away and as ladys definitely got our needs weekly be perfect lol |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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One offs and if the meets are positive then a few more, maybe even another down the line but nothing to get too familiar tbh. We enjoy the nervous energy that goes with those we don't know which wains for us when familiarity kicks in.
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Ideally regular as I prefer to have an FWB for the social side too as I find the benefits become much better when you get to know each other more intimately.
I have both my dressing side and male side which can make things more varied which can be great if they're into that.
I do also like one offs too but these usually happen in clubs and I wouldn't say no to purely socials either if they came my way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are you looking for from this site?
One offs or a regular FWB"
Definitely regular fun as you can build up to better and better sex and more social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit of a mix for us.
A really enjoys some of the one off meets, but K prefers to know people a bit so she can relax around them.
Some of the repeat meets with the right people just keep getting better. |
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Regular meets with playmates we connect with which allows everyone to explore further. It’s usually a lot more relaxing when playing as you’re already acquainted whereas nerves can kick in at first.
We can host in our home in Derbyshire! |
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"What are you looking for from this site?
One offs or a regular FWB looking for a regular FWB, how about you?
In an ideal world a bit of both a couple of guys that I meet once a month each, with the odd one off thrown into the mix
Sadly I find despite telling people from the start, I'm only really into one offs they seem to message non stop which has always prevented anything becoming regular, although saying that I've met two nice guys recently that definitely have FWB potential "
OMG, why can't I find a fwb like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regular meets, more fb then fwb to start. The problem I’m having with this though (as someone else has mentioned) they constantly blow my phone up with messages and it’s off putting. Especially when you’re upfront and set boundaries from the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both have their benefits..
Regular meets give the ability to build a connection and understand each other and push boundaries
One offs allow you to indulge, just enjoy the moment and have fun |
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Really enjoy one offs where its not really practical to become fwbs due to distance but would really like to find some local fwbs we could have fun with when we don't fancy traveling to a club aor when we just fancy a filthy session  |
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It all starts with that first meet! Once you have had that your know if it can be a regular or a one off. If the instant attraction is there to meet. It can lead to more fun.
Totally agree the more it goes on the better the sex. But some times. You can blow each other’s minds on a one off also.
Drop me a message who knows where it goes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have done both do prefer regular meets as you can explore someone’s mind as well as there body more fully but you can’t beat the spontaneous one off meet |
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