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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I don't want to seem like a bit of a moaner. I don't meet many people at all on here, but my last two meets have been with really lovely ladies...I mean just gorgeous. We seemed to hit it off really well, even a little bit of amazing car fun within an hour or so! Then because I don't text or message every couple of hours I am shown the block button! The thing is I do message and text, at least a few times in the day if I am not away working; I try to be considerate, kind, honest about my wanting to meet again, always replying to messages. Is it just me or do others feel like they are on a dating site not a swingers site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, never felt that way.
Then again, I tend not to go 'chasing' meets with any regularity from day 1 so anyone I communicate with knows not to expect too much from the off.
That means that those that do seek the attention tend to fuck me off before the meet not after it  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Just you mate. 
To be fair, I would be incredibly uncomfortable if a guy I'd met started texting me all the time. I don't even like giving out my mobile to potential meets to far in advance. Maybe explain to future meets that you are a busy man and contact will be sporadic. |
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"Just you mate.
To be fair, I would be incredibly uncomfortable if a guy I'd met started texting me all the time. I don't even like giving out my mobile to potential meets to far in advance. Maybe explain to future meets that you are a busy man and contact will be sporadic. "
What? Like 18 months or more? |
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By *ixiWoman
over a year ago
Melrose, Scottish Borders |
I would agree it is a swinging site not dating..Some people I have met keep in touch now and again but generally I would only get a text if they are looking for another meet and to me thats what its all about. If I was looking for more I'd be on Match.com not here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, I don't want to seem like a bit of a moaner. I don't meet many people at all on here, but my last two meets have been with really lovely ladies...I mean just gorgeous. We seemed to hit it off really well, even a little bit of amazing car fun within an hour or so! Then because I don't text or message every couple of hours I am shown the block button! The thing is I do message and text, at least a few times in the day if I am not away working; I try to be considerate, kind, honest about my wanting to meet again, always replying to messages. Is it just me or do others feel like they are on a dating site not a swingers site? "
They were probably sick of you pestering them if your're texting them a few times a day mate. |
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"Hi, I don't want to seem like a bit of a moaner. I don't meet many people at all on here, but my last two meets have been with really lovely ladies...I mean just gorgeous. We seemed to hit it off really well, even a little bit of amazing car fun within an hour or so! Then because I don't text or message every couple of hours I am shown the block button! The thing is I do message and text, at least a few times in the day if I am not away working; I try to be considerate, kind, honest about my wanting to meet again, always replying to messages. Is it just me or do others feel like they are on a dating site not a swingers site?
They were probably sick of you pestering them if your're texting them a few times a day mate."
You need to read it again, he gets blocked because he DOESN'T text them.
Sounds like they are looking for a little more than just a good time, ok friendship even fuck buddy is good
We only have contact when meeting some one, then after that it is normally just the odd email to catch up but then not even that at times, it depends on the other people. |
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