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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " I understand where you are coming from. But it’s their decision in the end of the day. Both stops you from using the same demands on your profile. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " Don't worry about it. Move on to the next person. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " Who is fake? | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Who is fake? " Those that don't give him what he wants, I assume | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " Why would you engage with and send a photo to a profile you don’t know if you’d fancy? Surely just move on to one that does have photos? | |||
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"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger "We don’t send face pics because mrs is a bloke. Honestly, the amount of guys that are a couples profile and don’t realise we’re both male astounds me. | |||
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"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger "Haa haa Dog house for you  | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile" Nope. "you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block" You do realise just how many messages single women get? If they don't fancy you, they're quite within their rights to block you and move on. And a face pic in a first message is a very easy, quick filter. "i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place" Exactly what they are thinking when asking for a face pic. Someone has to be the first to send, and let's be honest, women's pics are more likely to be asked for by collectors than blokes pics. "my pictures are hidden due to my job" So stop sending them to unknown people on the internet. You can't have it both ways - either stay hidden and never get a meet, or send your pics and risk your job. "rubbish your fake end of ha rant over" Ah....the final words of someone who's not getting instant free sex. (Bry) | |||
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"Totally agree to one sided "  you can do the same, hardly one sided. | |||
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"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger "This got me crying with laughter. Hahaha woooieee my belly hurts Lol | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " Aw it’s almost like having preferences in real life huh  sorry I’d quite like to fancy the person I’m fucking. Certainly wouldn’t fuck someone who I never saw their face! | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile Nope. you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block You do realise just how many messages single women get? If they don't fancy you, they're quite within their rights to block you and move on. And a face pic in a first message is a very easy, quick filter. i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place Exactly what they are thinking when asking for a face pic. Someone has to be the first to send, and let's be honest, women's pics are more likely to be asked for by collectors than blokes pics. my pictures are hidden due to my job So stop sending them to unknown people on the internet. You can't have it both ways - either stay hidden and never get a meet, or send your pics and risk your job. rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Ah....the final words of someone who's not getting instant free sex. (Bry)" No need for any further comments on this thread... brilliant summarised response | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " This post reminds me of why I don't allow men to message me | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " I agree with some of your comments, some women's expectations and demands on here are laughable, face pic issue, just avoid those profiles.. problem solved | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " Mate you’re not gonna get much sympathy here, even more so from the girls. Girls select, men don’t on and off fab, welcome to the world. Just decide what you are and what you aren’t willing to do and stick to that, other than that all I can say is don’t have any expectations. It’s shitty but true. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world | |||
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"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse. And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics. " You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya! | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world"  | |||
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"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse. And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics. You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya!" Respect lol -- she is very sexy | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world" This says more about some men than women! | |||
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"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse. And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics. You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya!"  | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world "Great comment x  | |||
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"Don’t like it! Pass those profiles by. I have strict criteria but still have 1100 unread messages, without the criteria my inbox would be worse. And I have public face pics so yes I expect guys to send face pics. You’re cute as fuck, can’t message ya due to age and just wanted to say that...anywayyyy cya! "Awww look she’s all embarrassed, bet she’s even cuter when she is. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world This says more about some men than women! " This  | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world This says more about some men than women! " What? It’s true | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world This says more about some men than women! What? It’s true "Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women! | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world This says more about some men than women! What? It’s true
Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women! "Yes some will. But the women who let them are encouraging that behaviour. They should ask themselves is this someone who would talk to me if we were out in a bar. If the answer is no, then don’t let that man get his way. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world This says more about some men than women! What? It’s true
Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women!
Yes some will. But the women who let them are encouraging that behaviour. They should ask themselves is this someone who would talk to me if we were out in a bar. If the answer is no, then don’t let that man get his way."So if you get approached by a woman you felt was more attractive than you you’d turn them down? Yeah right!  plus it’s not a woman’s responsibility to question it every time especially as many men on here like diff things. For example there are many gym fit guys who like BBWs so are you saying every woman who isn’t perfect looking should only reply if she deems the guy to be the same level of attractiveness. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world This says more about some men than women! What? It’s true
Because it shows that some men will fuck anything whether they find them attractive or not! So it says more about men than it does about women!
Yes some will. But the women who let them are encouraging that behaviour. They should ask themselves is this someone who would talk to me if we were out in a bar. If the answer is no, then don’t let that man get his way.
So if you get approached by a woman you felt was more attractive than you you’d turn them down? Yeah right! plus it’s not a woman’s responsibility to question it every time especially as many men on here like diff things. For example there are many gym fit guys who like BBWs so are you saying every woman who isn’t perfect looking should only reply if she deems the guy to be the same level of attractiveness."I don’t believe in giving false hope so yes. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " Have a snickers karen | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over Agreed the demands are unreasonable from a lot of women on here. But with the ratio of men to women they can make outrageous asks and often obtain interest from men they wouldn’t usually meet out in the real world
Great comment x "Unfortunately, some of us have met people from fab, in the real world and they were not as expected. You may see it as outrageous asks, I see it as keeping myself as safe as possible. I think the most unreasonable thing on fab is mens behaviour towards women. If you want a quick meet, there are sites for that. If you want to do well on fab, be a decent human being and respect the persons requests, if you want to engage. There are thousands of threads like this on fab. Search profile help. Learn how to communicate with people. Take responsibility and stop blaming women for your shortcomings | |||
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"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people " Absolute freaks these sort of people | |||
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"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people Absolute freaks these sort of people " Absolutely!!! Just timewasters but we have started to be able to spot them now | |||
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"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people Absolute freaks these sort of people Absolutely!!! Just timewasters but we have started to be able to spot them now " I'm new but what I've seen so far is there is loads on here | |||
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"We don't send face pics, because Mrs is a minger
We don’t send face pics because mrs is a bloke.
Honestly, the amount of guys that are a couples profile and don’t realise we’re both male astounds me. "
Honestly I can totally imagine that because lots of people just don't bother looking they just see couple. | |||
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"I think there are quite a few fake female accounts- of course everyone has the right to have what they want on a profile but I definitely think there are some men just getting off pretending to be single woman and teasing people " I agree but I have also found plenty of fake couples profiles where it's just the man who ever meets. | |||
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"The trouble single guys have is the amount on you on here,so your always going to get guys who will do anything to get a meet, Maybe if you all stuck to your guns and didnt message the demanding female profiles things might change , Lets face it a lot are wanting attention which they dont get in real life , but fab allows them to get that attention ... So really the ball is in your court guys "
If I change my profile to 'looking for men' I will get at least 50 messages in a day. Just with my shite profile.
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"Its keith if your gna try taking the piss silly boy " Use reply +quote so we know who you are replying to… | |||
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"Eeee you all make me laugh you got all the women here defending themselves likemthey do nothing wrong and then you got all the males agreeing with them as your frightend you dont get a fuck hahaha" You still moaning | |||
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There are plenty of profiles on FAB that aren't like that, and sometimes the tone can be off-putting... but tbh it sounds like your complaint is that woman you're attracted to have *the audacity* to have criteria that you probably won't meet and don't want to have sex with you lol | |||
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"Cake anyone "Me please | |||
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"Cake anyone "I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body | |||
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"Cake anyone "Lemon drizzle for me please  | |||
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"Cake anyone
I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body "Out of cake? | |||
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"Cake anyone
I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body
Out of cake? "I finished that one. It’s a life sized replica of the body I want if I could only stop eating cake. | |||
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"Cake anyone
I wish folk would stop offering bloody cake, I’m trying to sculpt a new body
Out of cake? "That’s Brexit for you | |||
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"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys. I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee. the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples. that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage. it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different. anyway I hope that helps " The numbers on here speak for themselves so there is an element of supply and demand but nobody holds the cards. If you see all women on here as a collective and speak to them as such of course you won't make any progress but if you speak to people as individuals and equals anything is possible. The only person you compete against on here is yourself and if you constantly see yourself as a doormat that's how others will treat you. It's more than possible to retain your self respect and have meaningful conversations on this site and at the same time ignore demands that you don't agree with. | |||
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"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys. I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee. the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples. that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage. it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different. anyway I hope that helps " there are alot of very successful men on the scene and on fab even a dew on the forums so if menm are thought of as pond life then how come they are getting things right ... clearly not all men are thought of in the same way ... you sound very bitter and with reply post like yours i feel thats why your not getting a look in... alot of men get nowhere because they dont want to swing they just want sex on a plate with no effort but the main reason is simply there are far far to many men to women and thats getting bigger daily .... | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " If you are feeling frustrated, maybe it’s time to have a short break from Fabs? | |||
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread " And any of the men who've commented on this thread have more of a chance of getting sex than you do. Some of that will be punctuation, of course. | |||
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"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys. I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee. the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples. that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage. it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different. anyway I hope that helps " I wouldn’t say call all single guys on here are pond life but if you saw our inbox, I’m sure you would agree that a huge percentage are. As a couples profile, on a day where we post new a photo or status update, we can get several hundred messages from single guys. I’d imagine the single girls get even more. So yes, women and couples really do get their choice of the bunch. However the vast majority of the guys on her make that choice very easy with their rude, disgusting, offensive messages, often with blatant disregard that we have a couples profile or boring unimaginative “hey” messages, generic copy and paste messages or messages that show their either didn’t read our profile or did and chose to ignore it. Then if it’s not their messages putting us off, it’s their profile. Often with no photos or just cock photos and very little information about them, what they are looking for or what they can offer. Usually unverified and not even photo verified. So honestly, it’s really not hard to stand out as a single guy, get replies and meets (we have met with mainly single guys since being on here). All you need to do is send a good opening message, have a good written profile with photos of you and not just your cock and if you don’t want face photos on your profile, be willing to send them. That’s it. Pretty simple. Follow that and I’m sure you will get your membership fee’s worth. And don’t be put off clubs. It’s a totally different game than online. I’m sure none of these guys would approach us in real life and try to start a conversation the way they do in a message on here. So clubs are more relaxed, less walls have to be put up. | |||
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread " I get you OP and I imagine it's incredibly frustrating, if you feel like you are being lied to, especially if it's dozens of people in a row, who you are sending your face pic to, expecting to get 1 returned. But being realistic, they will only return their pics, to those that they want to continue to mutually evaluate, where there is a definite possibility of attraction. Once any of us fail to sustain possible compatibility, we have to be prepared to not hear anything further. No repky, no thanks, nada. And definitely not a courtesy photo, because you had intelligently sent them some. No reply = no thanks | |||
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I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.
I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,
I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.
if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.
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"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way
I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.
I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,
I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.
if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.
"I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged. Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy? | |||
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"How to lose your Fab meetability in one post lol. Well done, OP, poor you for having to put up with demanding women! Shame on us we wouldn't fuck just anyone and need to see their face pic before deciding. " op hasn't mentioned fucking women has he? | |||
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"I had this other day asked for a pic then blocked lol not bothered but could have said not my cup of tea but nothing " I would say a good 80% of the time, when we’d reply with a “sorry, not our type but thanks” message after receiving a face pic, it would result in a barrage of abuse. It became simply easier to just not reply at all. I can’t speak for the other couples, single women or the people that didn’t reply to you but I would imagine it’s for a similar reason. Blame the huge percentage of single men on here that act like that rather than blaming the couples and single women. | |||
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"How to lose your Fab meetability in one post lol. Well done, OP, poor you for having to put up with demanding women! Shame on us we wouldn't fuck just anyone and need to see their face pic before deciding. op hasn't mentioned fucking women has he?" I think you missed the main point of my post. | |||
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"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way
I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.
I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,
I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.
if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.
I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged.
Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy? "thank you for being polite, many people ask for it but as seen on this thread the op is being slated for giving his experience. the pond life thread I read almost 7 months ago now, is a kind of explanation of how single guys are seen on fab wish I could find it to direct others to it, it was written by a male half of a couple so no bitterness more condescending really, which put me right off. I was chatting to a lovely couple once, and I was invited to meet up at a club, great I would have someone to sit with and get introductions meet new people have a new and openminded scene to become involved with. I rang the club to seek attendance as a single guy, then was told the cost to me for entry as a single guy, well I aint rich or desperate to pay such amounts of cash so I had to decline, and was blocked by the couple. higherarcy couples and females, tvs, another, then single men, as I say put single men into the forum search box and you can read away, the op or myself are not in the minority, but I know this is the way so have chosen how I will navagate it. | |||
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"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way
I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.
I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,
I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.
if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.
I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged.
Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy?
thank you for being polite, many people ask for it but as seen on this thread the op is being slated for giving his experience.
the pond life thread I read almost 7 months ago now, is a kind of explanation of how single guys are seen on fab wish I could find it to direct others to it, it was written by a male half of a couple so no bitterness more condescending really, which put me right off.
I was chatting to a lovely couple once, and I was invited to meet up at a club, great I would have someone to sit with and get introductions meet new people have a new and openminded scene to become involved with.
I rang the club to seek attendance as a single guy, then was told the cost to me for entry as a single guy, well I aint rich or desperate to pay such amounts of cash so I had to decline, and was blocked by the couple.
higherarcy couples and females, tvs, another, then single men, as I say put single men into the forum search box and you can read away, the op or myself are not in the minority, but I know this is the way so have chosen how I will navagate it.
"I think the cost of clubs for single men is a whole other discussion. Socials are generally very low cost alternative if you've looked into them. We are all people and there are some lovely people with whom you could have good chats and possibly fun with. Thinking about it all as a hierarchy isn't really a positive approach nor accurate in my opinion. Some people view some single men that way. Some people are racist. Some people are biphobic. Etc etc. | |||
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"I didn't write the post referring to single guys as pond life, another man did, I just read it and explained how it has made me felt and the actions I have taken to avoid feeling that way. the rest of your comments are your own, I wasn't asking for advice and I am certainly not bitter in any way
I have chosen how I will interact with others and at what type of event.
I will also say I put in to the fab search box single guys and saw that the op is not the only single guy to comment so there must be some sort of realisation by single guys,
I can get laid at anytime by a variety of means, im here for something different but stumbled in to something else a sort of hierarchy.
if you see my view as putting you down, I think its those critics who try and put me down instead of thinking is there something to this is there a solution and I know what that solution is.
I do think that view that all single guys are pond life - it comes from a very embittered experience of the site. All of us will view the site based on our own experiences. I find on the Lounge definitely any really bigoted views of single men or anyone else will be challenged.
Not sure what you mean when you refer to the hierarchy?
thank you for being polite, many people ask for it but as seen on this thread the op is being slated for giving his experience.
the pond life thread I read almost 7 months ago now, is a kind of explanation of how single guys are seen on fab wish I could find it to direct others to it, it was written by a male half of a couple so no bitterness more condescending really, which put me right off.
I was chatting to a lovely couple once, and I was invited to meet up at a club, great I would have someone to sit with and get introductions meet new people have a new and openminded scene to become involved with.
I rang the club to seek attendance as a single guy, then was told the cost to me for entry as a single guy, well I aint rich or desperate to pay such amounts of cash so I had to decline, and was blocked by the couple.
higherarcy couples and females, tvs, another, then single men, as I say put single men into the forum search box and you can read away, the op or myself are not in the minority, but I know this is the way so have chosen how I will navagate it.
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread " | |||
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread " Maybe spell check before calling others thick.
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread Maybe spell check before calling others thick.
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"If you dont like a woman's profile OP then don't send a message and you won't be troubled by non replies etc . If on the other hand you wish to go to the effort of messaging ,despite the obstacles, then think about why she is putting them up and respond positively. They are there for a reason and your chances improve if you follow them. " You said this so well. Some people are triggered | |||
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread Maybe spell check before calling others thick.
im dyslexic thanx for that "But quite happy to refer to others as thick. Spell check was invented for people with learning difficulties. If your profile wasn’t hidden, you’d have earned another block. | |||
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread Maybe spell check before calling others thick.
im dyslexic thanx for that
But quite happy to refer to others as thick. Spell check was invented for people with learning difficulties. If your profile wasn’t hidden, you’d have earned another block.
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"Not 1 of you lot have actualy understand so il rewrite it for the thick 1s 90% of womens profiles where im from demand a pic on first message or they wont speak but on there profile it states they will send 1 back but they dont and they just block so for all you judging me get a grip you are supporting liers that spoil the site im not the enemy cos im speaking my mind and the truth i just dont lick arse like the majority of the blokes that have commented on this thread Maybe spell check before calling others thick.
im dyslexic thanx for that
But quite happy to refer to others as thick. Spell check was invented for people with learning difficulties. If your profile wasn’t hidden, you’d have earned another block.
You can still block if hidden"Just checked again and found how to block so I’ve now done it. Thanks! New to the site so still navigating the settings and stuff! | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx " honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors" Being abusive to people is a low blow | |||
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"If you dont like a woman's profile OP then don't send a message and you won't be troubled by non replies etc . If on the other hand you wish to go to the effort of messaging ,despite the obstacles, then think about why she is putting them up and respond positively. They are there for a reason and your chances improve if you follow them. " | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors" But he can call people thick? | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors" I mentioned punctuation. Difficult to read a rant without it. I am repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys? Thanks for that. | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors But he can call people thick?" fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors I mentioned punctuation. Difficult to read a rant without it. I am repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys? Thanks for that. " I think it's against forum rules to try chat with someone that blocked you | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors I mentioned punctuation. Difficult to read a rant without it. I am repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys? Thanks for that. I think it's against forum rules to try chat with someone that blocked you "But it's ok for you to make side swipes at me? I didn't know you'd blocked me until now. Whatever. | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo "To use an old analogy I've used before on here, if any Op kicks in the saloon door and comes in shooting, he or she already knows that some will run for cover but others will start shooting back. | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo
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"as you probably know yourself, guys can and do get a raw deal on here, some deserved, others not.. I'm not surprised guys want to vent at times, but regardless it's always the same ones trying to bring them down..why can't people have an opinion on an open forum without getting attacked is my point..some very personal attacks too | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " It's not just womens. Let's be honest. I've come across more than I can remember that come across as the whole site has wronged them. You can tell fhe type of experiences they had on here by how a profile is constructed | |||
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"Quite pathetic arent you commenting on my thread but blocking me and you was included in the 2 so its still 2 thanx honestly don't let it get to you, the ones blocking you are the same ones repeatedly trolling threads to get abusive to guys.. concentrate on the ones you are a match with Having a dig at someone's spelling/grammar is a low blow... Keyboard warriors But he can call people thick? fair point but if folk didn't attack him like they did maybe he wouldn't have felt the need to get defensive, imo
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as you probably know yourself, guys can and do get a raw deal on here, some deserved, others not.. I'm not surprised guys want to vent at times, but regardless it's always the same ones trying to bring them down..why can't people have an opinion on an open forum without getting attacked is my point..some very personal attacks too "I agree that there are sometimes personal attacks but I've started dozens of threads and I've had a few rants about attitudes in general but I've never yet been attacked or had abusive messages because of anything I've said. Some people just like to trigger others and some are more subtle than others. | |||
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"Think you will find its 3 she was included in the 2 and your the third jesus if your going to try and be clever atleast get it right Listen hun, you lost your argument before it began with your opening post, that's not the cleverest move when starting a thread! I'm sure with hindsight you wouldn't have bothered but it's too late now, you have opened the stable door and your horse has bolted" listen ive ownwd my thread and i can say how i feel if i want nobody has to read it or comment on it but if your going to try and be funny to make yourself look good atleast get it right i dont care who blocks me i wouldnt of messaged them in the first place but doing this thread as helped me out greatly i must thank you all for commenting good or bad its been very pleasurable  | |||
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"If it helps, there is a post on here giving advice to single guys. I came across it when I first paid for membership, if I had read this post before I wouldn't have paid the membership fee. the post basically states that this is a women site and they hold all the cards, single men are pond life and should feel themselves lucky to be courted by a female or couples. that made me feel insecure really, to be thought of in such a way, or maybe single guys accept this and happly to engage. it has put me off going to clubs but not a social I feel socials are different. anyway I hope that helps " Why not experience things for yourself rather than take someone’s words for it and a post on a forum. The clubs and socials are great and cut out all the BS, meeting others face to face. Fab is more of a social tool for me. | |||
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"I just read a F profile that had 31 bullet point demands before you message ffs" You have a cock avatar which many women prefer not to see ffs. | |||
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"Who else is fed up of the demands on females profile you must send a face pic or no reply 90% dont even have any pictures of themselves or they refuse to send 1 back and block you i mean how do i even know if id fancy you in first place and then you get my pictures are hidden due to my job rubbish your fake end of ha rant over " I use this as a filter, says something similar on our profile. lol | |||
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"Think you will find its 3 she was included in the 2 and your the third jesus if your going to try and be clever atleast get it right Listen hun, you lost your argument before it began with your opening post, that's not the cleverest move when starting a thread! I'm sure with hindsight you wouldn't have bothered but it's too late now, you have opened the stable door and your horse has bolted listen ive ownwd my thread and i can say how i feel if i want nobody has to read it or comment on it but if your going to try and be funny to make yourself look good atleast get it right i dont care who blocks me i wouldnt of messaged them in the first place but doing this thread as helped me out greatly i must thank you all for commenting good or bad its been very pleasurable "Good for you op, I guess alienating your target audience was all part of the plan  | |||
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"I just read a F profile that had 31 bullet point demands before you message ffs" You counted them all? You must be really upset that you're not what she's looking for.  | |||
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"No point in being bitter, if you’re not compatible with that person , try someone else" | |||
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