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How does anyone ever meet
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It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.
Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.
Couples mostly only want other couples.
And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.
Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
West Midlands |
If you can’t get success purely on here, then look in the forums for group non play socials.
Attend some of those and you will make some connections, whom you then keep in touch with on here.
Clubs are also a good way to meet genuine people, but take more initial bravery than socials. |
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"If you can’t get success purely on here, then look in the forums for group non play socials.
Attend some of those and you will make some connections, whom you then keep in touch with on here.
Clubs are also a good way to meet genuine people, but take more initial bravery than socials. "
I meant More as a sarcastic statement than anything else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The honest truth is that some men just don’t put any effort in and expect way too much.
That’s making the best profile you can, writing a captivating bio and adding decent pictures. Attending socials/events and visiting clubs. If you do send a message don’t copy and paste, respect who you are sending the message to regarding what you write in it…
Approaching it with the right attitude and respect for others. Having patience and understanding for what swinging is to you, and finding those on the same page is key to getting a meet on here.
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
We find a lot of the single guys posting in the forums have couples listed as whom they wish to meet, but completely ignore most couples comments in the forums, preferring to comment on just the (I say this loosely)Single ladies. For us those males don't bode well for meets with us.
Clubs are 100% way to have lots of kinky, hot fun with couples and singles of both sexes xxxxx  Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The internet is flooded with males and everyone using APPs on their mobiles .
Ask any female here and they are flooded with messages .
Try any App and you will find out . Tinder ect .
My advise is go to a club and show your face be nice and you might get an invite back to play .
Or try the Gangbang scene .
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OP you have a few good verifications so looks like you are managing to meet. Yes the site is flooded with single males and it might seem that couples are only interested in other couples, but this is not always the case. Everyone has their preferences. We, for instance, do not seek couples or single females from here. So that leaves single males for us. But whilst we enjoy meeting and playing with a good variety of new gents, we are still quite sceptical when we get one word or one line messages clearly indicating our profile was not read.
So for us, a well written, polite and respectful message, to both of us will always get a reply with a view to meeting. Provided of course we don’t get asked stupid questions where the answer is clearly stated in our profile. |
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"We find a lot of the single guys posting in the forums have couples listed as whom they wish to meet, but completely ignore most couples comments in the forums, preferring to comment on just the (I say this loosely)Single ladies. For us those males don't bode well for meets with us.
Clubs are 100% way to have lots of kinky, hot fun with couples and singles of both sexes xxxxx Suzi"
I tend not to respond directly to anyone on here unless they comment directly to me and 99% of messages I receive from couples are sent by the female half.
I always respond to them both but if the conversation continues for a period of time with no interaction from the male half at all I stop replying.
At the same time the only abusive messages I've ever received have been when the male of a couple has eventually decided to get involved in the conversation and is immediately aggressive and demanding. |
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"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.
Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.
Couples mostly only want other couples.
And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.
Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.
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Conventionally attractive people who attend clubs. |
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Plenty of people meet from here everyday the message ' your profile just has to stand out sbd be what the person you've messaged is actually looking for
Too many people send messages just because they like someone's pictures, say something like, 'I loved your profile' yet it's blatantly obvious they haven't even read the person bio because they might have said no body hair & the sender has a beard & chest hair, they dislike tattoos & the messengers covered etc
As with most good things it requires a lot of effort & a lot of patience |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.
Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.
Couples mostly only want other couples.
And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.
Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.
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Many people. Clubs are the way forward |
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"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.
Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.
Couples mostly only want other couples.
And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.
Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.
Many people. Clubs are the way forward"
Not always. It can depend on location.
Until last weekend there were only 2 clubs on the island of Ireland and one of those closed on Saturday night leaving just the one.
Those clubs are only open one or two nights a month for events and are by invitation only so no walk-ins allowed.
Therefore anyone looking to attend has to go through the whole process of messaging and meeting and getting verified before they will even get an invitation and single male tickets are always sold out before any event is advertised on fab. |
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We’re open to meeting couples and or single ladies, and normally will meet either at a club, private party or arrange a mutually convenient bar to ensure anyone who wants to back out doesn’t feel boxed in xx |
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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago
telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton |
I've found being myself works. Being patient, sending a well writen first message is a good impression and not being crude or to full on. And of course not to expect anything, if you get a message back its a bonus not a sure thing but it's better than not recieving a reply. |
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"It seems me and a lot of single guys can’t get meets because the market is flooded with single males.
Single females constantly saying to many messages can’t respond to all of them.
Couples mostly only want other couples.
And then you have the fake profiles and time wasters.
Question is with the above said who is actually getting laid.
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Clubs mate. I started as a single guy and had far more luck at clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not really sure... im pretty rusty when it comes to these things
I've got some WD40 if that would help?
sure,might do the trick
I just get my spray nozzle ready then and be right up "
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