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Quality over Quantity?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone.
Wanted to gef people's _iews on whether they look for quality or quantity on here?
Neither is wrong but interested if there is a trend that blokes look to "put it about" or women prefer quality or maybe the women will come out more as "players" than the blokes! Lol
Personally, the idea of coming out of a long term relationship and having the freedom to play the field a bit was quite liberating but I'm finding I would now prefer to meet a handful of people for regular meets. The idea to get to know socially and to know what each other likes wants etc.
Look forward to hearing people's _iews!
Ianard
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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am personally not keen on the quality or quantity tag line in swinging....
but I understand your point, it reflects life.. some want lots of sex with lots of people, some want lots of sex with fewer people, some want lots of sex with one person.....
and some wank on their own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Lou F) tend to want to have loads of sex with loads of people 
There are a few we have met that we have met again but they are in the minority.
Personally I think thats when emotions (jealousy etc) can come into it. I would hate to be meeting the same folks all the time - I want different guys and girls and different scenarios each time.
variety is the spice of life after all :D xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a good quantity of good quality. Lol
Although as a very greedy girl I like to have lots of guys because I enjoy it. But also spend time with regular meets too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a liberating feeling when one embarks upon this scene !
So easy to get into the whole quantity over quality and lose yourself in the whole thrill
This applies to men and women alike - for some it remains as time goes by , and others settle into a more sobering scene enjoying fewer but better quality meets !
Whatever one does there is only one important thing to remember - enjoy it , embrace what you enjoy and take no notice of anyone who criticises your choice
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lots of different men is best, i think if i kept seeing the same ones too often it would be to much like being married and you would start to get on each others tits.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have one off's and I have a few regular meets and I enjoy both. I love the excitement of a new meet, but enjoy developing the fun with someone I get on with in a sexual and non-sexual way. Maybe I'm just greedy, but quantity can be just as good quality if you approach it right! |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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I like lots of sex with lots of people but also love having an fb I can explore more with in ways I would never do with a stranger. I also don't mind seeing some guys more than once if I really got a lot out of the meet.
That said - I do like experience and confidence in the bedroom. So quick wham bams do nothing for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi everyone.
Wanted to gef people's _iews on whether they look for quality or quantity on here?
Neither is wrong but interested if there is a trend that blokes look to "put it about" or women prefer quality or maybe the women will come out more as "players" than the blokes! Lol
Personally, the idea of coming out of a long term relationship and having the freedom to play the field a bit was quite liberating but I'm finding I would now prefer to meet a handful of people for regular meets. The idea to get to know socially and to know what each other likes wants etc.
Look forward to hearing people's _iews!
Ianard
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Quality every time, and yes we like repeat meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (Lou F) tend to want to have loads of sex with loads of people
There are a few we have met that we have met again but they are in the minority.
Personally I think thats when emotions (jealousy etc) can come into it. I would hate to be meeting the same folks all the time - I want different guys and girls and different scenarios each time.
variety is the spice of life after all :D xx "
Couldn't say it better ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I too wanted to have just a group of regulars to meet now and again but it just didn't happen hence I removed the comment from my profile.
Definitely quality over quantity  |
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Would love the op to define 'quality' in context, and for that matter ' quantity'...surely, both are subjective, and therefore personal to all of us.
I hope I'm mistaken, but like many similar threads, there is an implicit judgemental feel...Did the op honestly think there would many posts declaring they are not faintly interested in 'quality'.really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would love the op to define 'quality' in context, and for that matter ' quantity'...surely, both are subjective, and therefore personal to all of us.
I hope I'm mistaken, but like many similar threads, there is an implicit judgemental feel...Did the op honestly think there would many posts declaring they are not faintly interested in 'quality'.really!"
Yes there are it's what turns them on. I actually saw on one profile only looking for ugly guys!! They were verified and I wonder what the guys they met thought! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would love the op to define 'quality' in context, and for that matter ' quantity'...surely, both are subjective, and therefore personal to all of us.
I hope I'm mistaken, but like many similar threads, there is an implicit judgemental feel...Did the op honestly think there would many posts declaring they are not faintly interested in 'quality'.really!"
I don't mean it to be judgemental at all. I've left it quite vague because quality, as you said yourself, is such a personal thing. My opinion of what I like might be wildly different to yours. I've been on meets where it's quite social before and after playing and others where it's nothing more than, go in and do the business and leave.
I think some of the posts cover a good point though, meeting someone too many times could leave to problems with getting too attached. It also seems that a mixture of seeing new people mixed with some regular people seems very popular
Incidentally comments like that make, in my opinion new posters to the forum hesitant to post their _iew and opinions. My _iew, your _iew or an extremists _iew is neither right or wrong its just an expression of what my thoughts are. Everyone is free to agree or disagree but surely we should encourage people to post their thoughts and opinions? |
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"Would love the op to define 'quality' in context, and for that matter ' quantity'...surely, both are subjective, and therefore personal to all of us.
I hope I'm mistaken, but like many similar threads, there is an implicit judgemental feel...Did the op honestly think there would many posts declaring they are not faintly interested in 'quality'.really!
I don't mean it to be judgemental at all. I've left it quite vague because quality, as you said yourself, is such a personal thing. My opinion of what I like might be wildly different to yours. I've been on meets where it's quite social before and after playing and others where it's nothing more than, go in and do the business and leave.
I think some of the posts cover a good point though, meeting someone too many times could leave to problems with getting too attached. It also seems that a mixture of seeing new people mixed with some regular people seems very popular
Incidentally comments like that make, in my opinion new posters to the forum hesitant to post their _iew and opinions. My _iew, your _iew or an extremists _iew is neither right or wrong its just an expression of what my thoughts are. Everyone is free to agree or disagree but surely we should encourage people to post their thoughts and opinions? "
Think you have answered your own question..everyone is free to agree or disagree, so why would new posters be hesitant?..the last thing I would want or expect, if I were a new poster, would to be patronised.
Most of the time our opinions are seldom shared or challenged by people we don't know. That, I think, is one of the positive features about forums like this, because sometimes, we are made to confront and question our own prejudices.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would agree with you if the post was about race, the make female divide or a subject with some real social impact. The question of quality over quantity and to finish your reply with "really!" just seemed a little rude and unnecessary.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (Lou F) tend to want to have loads of sex with loads of people
There are a few we have met that we have met again but they are in the minority.
Personally I think thats when emotions (jealousy etc) can come into it. I would hate to be meeting the same folks all the time - I want different guys and girls and different scenarios each time.
variety is the spice of life after all :D xx
Couldn't say it better ourselves "
Just my luck your in Wales lol  xx |
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"I would agree with you if the post was about race, the make female divide or a subject with some real social impact. The question of quality over quantity and to finish your reply with "really!" just seemed a little rude and unnecessary.
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Oh dear..sorry I didn't answer your question as you would have liked, but that's forums for you.
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