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Advice please ladies about FWB

By *ustfun009 OP Man over a year ago

oxford

Hi I would love a fwb but seems impossible on here

So i have a female friend I have known since school...would it be inapropriate to ask her if she fancied a fwb? Do you think it would spoil our friendship or would she like to know i would love to fuck her

I am sure we both fancy each other.

Any advice or profile help would be appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on both your personalities, can you keep the physical seperate from emotional? Do you already have feeling for each other, even if not romantic?

I had the same dilemma, I have a childhood and school friend, I didn't allow things to turn sexual for a long while but eventually did. It is more tricky than FWB with someone you've met more recently. It can work, but be very careful. Any doubts then back out xx

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

In my experience in FWB situations someone always catches feelings, or has different expectations, and the potential for it to impact on your existing long term friendship is high.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi I would love a fwb but seems impossible on here

I am sure we both fancy each other.

Any advice or profile help would be appreciated xx"

Why are you so sure she fancies you? If you've known her so long, what makes you think she'd now want to have sex with you?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Has she ever given you any indication that she wants to ve more than mates? If not id leave it, don't ruin a friendship for sex.

Why not try a club op.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi I would love a fwb but seems impossible on here

I am sure we both fancy each other.

Any advice or profile help would be appreciated xx

Why are you so sure she fancies you? If you've known her so long, what makes you think she'd now want to have sex with you?"

Sounds creepy.

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By *uitednbooted2Man over a year ago

Berkshire

Your 49 , you have known her since school!!! Over the 30+ years has she given you any indication that she is sexually attracted to you?

I’m guessing the answer is no. Stay classy stay friends.

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By *ustfun009 OP Man over a year ago

oxford

Thanks for all yours advice...its not creepy just two friends that took different paths after school but stayed in same circles just both have had tricky families

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Nobody can tell you how she would react.

When you say you know you fancy each other, what gives you that impression?

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By *itzi999Woman over a year ago

Slough

"Hi I would love a fwb but seems impossible on here

I am sure we both fancy each other.

Any advice or profile help would be appreciated xx"

Have either of you made any advances/flirted with each other? If you ask her straight out, it may offend her and RIP friendship..