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Same or seperate room fun?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We had our first seperate room fun on Saturday night usually we are all in a heap same room fun. What floats your boat and what are the pro's and cons?  |
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We have talked about this when meeting one particular couple as we seemed to have loads of chemistry but it never cam off they split up.
Not doing the whole evening in separate rooms but just starting off for say the first 20 mins or so. |
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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago
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"Same room fun when meeting couples. If your going to play in separate rooms you may as well play seperately in my opinion "
Totally agree.
We only ever play same room, half the fun is watching the other half enjoy himself, and we quite often all end up in a pile of bodies anyway 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had our first seperate room fun on Saturday night usually we are all in a heap same room fun. What floats your boat and what are the pro's and cons? "
How did you find it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's a couple we play as a group.
At parties we SOMETIMEs play separate but not often.
On the few times we have i've stood at the door watching hubby while he's playing.. love it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't full swap, and we will always stay in the same room together, for us that is what it about, a joint experience.
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Well we kinda only do same room.. but often fuck people at different times with the other not present.. but its normally on cam... so for us that counts as same room..
For me the biggest turn on is to be able to look at the man I love while I am fucking or sucking another guy... but as I dont really play with women.. we would rarely meet a couple anyway.. unless two guys.. 
I think it depends what you want.. for us we are secure enough to have totally seperate meets but its always about us... ( ie photos and videos and tell each other about it.) but if we are meeting together.. then we stay together.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have played separate rooms before and even separate houses (I drive to theirs and he drives to ours).
It's not for everyone.... Chemistry has to be right but we enjoyed it.
Ok, it's a turn on to see your partner with another guy but at least if your separate room, you can concentrate on the lady your with rather than been nosey on the other two.
Plus, you can lie in bed later with your partner and talk through what you both did.... That's a rather nice turn on too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have played separate rooms before and even separate houses (I drive to theirs and he drives to ours).
It's not for everyone.... Chemistry has to be right but we enjoyed it.
Ok, it's a turn on to see your partner with another guy but at least if your separate room, you can concentrate on the lady your with rather than been nosey on the other two.
Plus, you can lie in bed later with your partner and talk through what you both did.... That's a rather nice turn on too.
S "
totally agree!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that i have the choice now days as im single, but when i used to meet with my hubby we did both, to be honest i prefered seperate room as most people just relax more and get stuck into it better when they not in the same room as thir partner, i seemed to find they spent more time concentrating on what they was doing when they didnt always have one eye on their other half |
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We had our first full swap 4some in a club, and later that very same night had our first separate room swaps too. G finished first and went looking for R, it didn't take long as he could tell which small playroom she was in by her cumming shrieks!
We mostly do same room play but it's fun to go off one-on-one too. At home, we occasionally sleep swapped in separate rooms, it feels a bit like having an affair without the deceit, a bit naughty. It's fun to wake up in the night and hear your other half hard at it in the next room, and of course you then do the same with your sleeping partner. We always get back together in one bed before breakfast though. |
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"We have played separate rooms before and even separate houses (I drive to theirs and he drives to ours).
It's not for everyone.... Chemistry has to be right but we enjoyed it.
Ok, it's a turn on to see your partner with another guy but at least if your separate room, you can concentrate on the lady your with rather than been nosey on the other two.
Plus, you can lie in bed later with your partner and talk through what you both did.... That's a rather nice turn on too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both prefer same room as we both like to see and hear eachother. We did try seperate rooms a year or so ago. Started off the evening four of us together lots of flirting etc then we split into two rooms....it didnt work for neither Tony nor myself he just couldnt perform (and she is one sexy lady) and I couldnt relax.
Good thing is they are two of our best friends now though we havent played again (they live a fair way from us) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All depends on the chemistry.... It's not something u can do with everyone you meet......"
Also depends on what you class as 'separate' room. Do to space in my flat, we do use both the main bedroom and lounge area simultaneously, but the doors are always open and the distance between is just a few feet. Different ball game if you're in a hotel, with rooms on the 1st and 3rd floors (for example) and you pair-off. Then you've really got to be sure that not just the chemistry is right.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer seperate room fun. Neither of us are watchers, and after the first time we tried seperate rooms it was like we'd discovered a whole new game.
It doesn't work for everyone, but it works for us |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Same or seperate - depends on the people involved, the location and type of rooms. We dont ususally need much discussion as we instinctively know what the other wants/ thinks. Either can be fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wanna try seperate fun too we are happy to do either but there is a kinda thrill about hearing my missus with someone else without actually seeing, no all night tho just part of it! Its all about trust and chemistry i suppose! |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"We wanna try seperate fun too we are happy to do either but there is a kinda thrill about hearing my missus with someone else without actually seeing, no all night tho just part of it! Its all about trust and chemistry i suppose!"
All nite can be great fun too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I used to swing with my ex partner we did a mixture of both.
On one occasion we were in separate rooms that were next door to each other, I could still hear them & they could hear us. The best bit was when my ex walked into my room with her face covered in the guys jizz... I instantly shot my load!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've enjoyed both, that said, it doesn't mean we lock ourselves away in separate rooms to play.
To us though, there's nothing hornier than coming across your partner having sex with someone in the kitchen, bathroom, garden etc of whoever's home your playing at.
Mind you, we appreciate that the couples need to be very secure in their relationships, so it may not work for everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always play in the same room all together, we don't really pair off with another couple, we like to all be together in a group.
For me swinging is about experiencing a different kind of sex from the norm. I'm not looking for one on one sex.
Bur in saying that I can imagine it could be incredibly sexy to talk as a couple about it afterwards, what went on etc. But at this moment in time separate is not for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we started it was like no way would we ever do separate room fun....no way at all.
Then we met a particular couple who mainly do sep room fun and she took my hand and took me to a bedroom.... Not looked back since.
There was good chemistry between us though.
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as neither of us are voyeurs we prefer sep room playing, as then you can concentrate on the person you are with...
and Sarah especially gets quite annoyed when going down on a guy to look up and see he is getting more turned on by what his Mrs is up to than what she is doing to him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always play in the same room all together, we don't really pair off with another couple, we like to all be together in a group.
For me swinging is about experiencing a different kind of sex from the norm. I'm not looking for one on one sex.
Bur in saying that I can imagine it could be incredibly sexy to talk as a couple about it afterwards, what went on etc. But at this moment in time separate is not for me "
and we still talk about it anyway-can't notice everything that's going on when you're in mid throes...often have great sessions just looking back on the whole experience... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"as neither of us are voyeurs we prefer sep room playing, as then you can concentrate on the person you are with...
and Sarah especially gets quite annoyed when going down on a guy to look up and see he is getting more turned on by what his Mrs is up to than what she is doing to him "
See I don't understand why that would annoy someone. They are a couple. They want to enjoy each other. I'd expect him to always get more turned on by the experience than what I'm physically doing. I embrace that though. I love it when you see a guy look at his partner in that way people do when they have that special bond.
I rarely play with couples but when I do I like the woman there. Even if they are kissing and touching while I'm playing with him.
I would not expect to get a man's full attention when his partner is there. Same as a guy never gets mine. As if master is there I'm always in contact in some way. Even if it's just a little look between us.
Even when I fuck a guy and master is miles away and not even on cam. My mind is on my master.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had our first full swap 4some in a club, and later that very same night had our first separate room swaps too. G finished first and went looking for R, it didn't take long as he could tell which small playroom she was in by her cumming shrieks!
We mostly do same room play but it's fun to go off one-on-one too. At home, we occasionally sleep swapped in separate rooms, it feels a bit like having an affair without the deceit, a bit naughty. It's fun to wake up in the night and hear your other half hard at it in the next room, and of course you then do the same with your sleeping partner. We always get back together in one bed before breakfast though."
We have done this many of times and love it! Adds to the experience for us
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