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What's wrong with a bit of flirting?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I must admit that I do enjoy flirting with guys on here but why do the majority automatically think it will lead to sex? Isn't it just nice to compliment someone without them thinking you're leading them on?  L |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know 
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then? "
Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then?
Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?"
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then?
I dont need to flirt with anyone to get a meet  "
Right... |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then?
Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them? "
Maybe I have a different definition. You don't need to roll your eyes I'm not 10 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must admit that I do enjoy flirting with guys on here but why do the majority automatically think it will lead to sex? Isn't it just nice to compliment someone without them thinking you're leading them on? L"
Well I must admit it is a nice ass...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them?
Maybe I have a different definition. You don't need to roll your eyes I'm not 10"
If the eye rolling icon was only for 10 year olds there'd be no need for it on fab would there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I must admit that I do enjoy flirting with guys on here but why do the majority automatically think it will lead to sex? Isn't it just nice to compliment someone without them thinking you're leading them on? L
Well I must admit it is a nice ass... "
Ta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a terrible flirt, I always have been, I often do it without realising, I think that as long as people are aware that it isn't always a guarantee for anything more then its fine, flirting/banter its all good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must admit that I do enjoy flirting with guys on here but why do the majority automatically think it will lead to sex? Isn't it just nice to compliment someone without them thinking you're leading them on? L
Well I must admit it is a nice ass...
Ta"
welcome!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a terrible flirt, I always have been, I often do it without realising, I think that as long as people are aware that it isn't always a guarantee for anything more then its fine, flirting/banter its all good. "
That's what the problem is half the time, a bit of flirty banter can lead to crossed wires and being labelled a 'timewaster' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a terrible flirt, I always have been, I often do it without realising, I think that as long as people are aware that it isn't always a guarantee for anything more then its fine, flirting/banter its all good.
That's what the problem is half the time, a bit of flirty banter can lead to crossed wires and being labelled a 'timewaster'"
That's why I always make it clear from the start, to be honest I've not had a problem with it, so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then?
Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them?
Maybe I have a different definition. You don't need to roll your eyes I'm not 10"
Ryan I love your carpet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah you see that were we differ...
You couple....
Me single female...
IF i am interested, I simply reply to mail in positive manner (as opposed to NO THANX) 
Me too
No flirting required "
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That's what the problem is half the time, a bit of flirty banter can lead to crossed wires and being labelled a 'timewaster'"
dont think anyone i have banter with has crossed wires .. them i wanna shag .. know about it !!  |
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Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them?
Maybe I have a different definition. You don't need to roll your eyes I'm not 10
If the eye rolling icon was only for 10 year olds there'd be no need for it on fab would there "
is this your flirting technique in action?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ryan I love your carpet
Someone's got to I suppose 
Are you always so unpleasant or is it just one of those special times? "
You asked a dumbass question so I answered it accordingly. If I wanted a meet with someone of course I'm gonna flirt, what else am I going to discuss, the weather? I thought the old blokes on here were more laidback, wrong again it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ryan I love your carpet
Someone's got to I suppose
Are you always so unpleasant or is it just one of those special times?
You asked a dumbass question so I answered it accordingly. If I wanted a meet with someone of course I'm gonna flirt, what else am I going to discuss, the weather? I thought the old blokes on here were more laidback, wrong again it seems"
Oh dear
Just because someone doesn't agree with you, I don't think it is quite necessary to throw insults at someone.
You can flirt with whom you like, but you are not coming across in a very sultry or flirtatious manner right now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By asking why I can't flirt with someone without them getting the wrong idea? You started getting pissy because I used the eye rolling thing, perhaps log out and chill a bit |
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I don't flirt with people I want to meet... I talk about arranging to meet. It works well for me..... plus I don't find myself saying things I may later regret if they turn up and turn out to be a massive thundercunt of a twat. |
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"I don't flirt with people I want to meet... I talk about arranging to meet. It works well for me..... plus I don't find myself saying things I may later regret if they turn up and turn out to be a massive thundercunt of a twat."
thundercunt is my new favourite word!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't flirt with people I want to meet... I talk about arranging to meet. It works well for me..... plus I don't find myself saying things I may later regret if they turn up and turn out to be a massive thundercunt of a twat."
Love the use of 'thundercunt' there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm there's food for thought, do you think because on here sex is more readily available, the art of flirting and tease has died? Shame really if that's the case. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"By asking why I can't flirt with someone without them getting the wrong idea? You started getting pissy because I used the eye rolling thing, perhaps log out and chill a bit"
Think you need to read the thread again. It's not always clear with your head up your arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmm there's food for thought, do you think because on here sex is more readily available, the art of flirting and tease has died? Shame really if that's the case."
A new form of flirting now exists, chuck insults at each other, think that works well |
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"Hmm there's food for thought, do you think because on here sex is more readily available, the art of flirting and tease has died? Shame really if that's the case.
A new form of flirting now exists, chuck insults at each other, think that works well "
Is it at this stage the popcorn cums out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't flirt with people I want to meet... I talk about arranging to meet. It works well for me..... plus I don't find myself saying things I may later regret if they turn up and turn out to be a massive thundercunt of a twat.
thundercunt is my new favourite word!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"By asking why I can't flirt with someone without them getting the wrong idea? You started getting pissy because I used the eye rolling thing, perhaps log out and chill a bit
Think you need to read the thread again. It's not always clear with your head up your arse"
Head up my arse? Far from it mate |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I must admit that I do enjoy flirting with guys on here but why do the majority automatically think it will lead to sex? Isn't it just nice to compliment someone without them thinking you're leading them on? L"
I dont think the majority do, most take it for what it is, only a small minority will take it as a green light in my experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then?
Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them? "
Er, rather than just telling them and asking they'd like to meet you?
Why prat about and risk sending confusing signals?
Flirting can be fun, certainly, but I don't see it as necessary to get meets. Good thing really, as I'm a rubbish flirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then?
Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them?
Er, rather than just telling them and asking they'd like to meet you?
Why prat about and risk sending confusing signals?
Flirting can be fun, certainly, but I don't see it as necessary to get meets. Good thing really, as I'm a rubbish flirt."
I read that as rubber flirt. 
Love your profile pic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never flirt on here...
He could be a complete wanker for all I know
Eh?? How do you ever get meets without a bit of flirting then?
Just curious but why would you need to flirt to arrange a meet?
Erm to let them know I'm attracted to them?
Er, rather than just telling them and asking they'd like to meet you?
Why prat about and risk sending confusing signals?
Flirting can be fun, certainly, but I don't see it as necessary to get meets. Good thing really, as I'm a rubbish flirt.
I read that as rubber flirt.
Love your profile pic! "
Thank you.
It might have said rubber flirt the way my autocorrect is behaving... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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A new form of flirting now exists, chuck insults at each other, think that works well "
It's the old form of flirting... push you in the queue at dinner time, then you pull pigtails in return. Hit you on the head with a wooly mammoth tusk, you throw a rock back in return... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm happy to flirt with both those I'm interested in meeting and those for whatever reason (geography, age, not looking for the same thing) I'm not!
It's harmless fun! I've never yet come across anyone that takes offence or jumps to the conclusion it means more than just harmless flanter!
And whilst the straightforward approach may work for some, and be their chosen technique - I prefer a different method of interaction.
Doesn't mean I'm right and they're wrong - or vice versa - just that we're different! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I must admit that I do enjoy flirting with guys on here but why do the majority automatically think it will lead to sex? Isn't it just nice to compliment someone without them thinking you're leading them on? L"
Think that there is a big difference between paying someone a compliment and full on flirting.
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