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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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We like to hear from guys who enjoy meeting couples, especially those that have experiences with long term arrangements. What was it about these menages a trois that appealed? We like to see if their experiences match ours. |
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Well from my personal arrangement I met them when I was part of a couple sadly my relationship at the time didn't work out and I became that "single male"
But we all still kept meeting be it for drinks at the pub or just even a catch up and one night we began to play as a 3 and did for a while
From there the couple I play with had a discussion between them self's and was looking for a single male that could be part of there life long term, that was respectable knew there boundaries was relaxed chilled and ticked all the right boxes quite frankly and to put it in there words "that person was right under there nose"
So yeah here I am 2 years later and have still going strong  |
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I had a regular couple some years ago but they moved away due to work. Would love to have such an arrangement again one day. Loved my evenings with them. Chat food drink then fuck Mrs sometimes Mr joined in other Rhône’s he watched |
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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago
Broxbourne |
Hi , I used to meet a couple .
The guy was older with a younger hot wife.
After a couple social meets we had a full meet.
He like to watch a guy fuck his wife hard by a guy with with a thick cock .
He watched fully clothed and only ever watched .
It was great ,she was so horny.
Over a few meets she asked if I minded her wearing different outfits .
It was hot seeing her in nurse uniform ect .
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
chigwell |
sound s like you all have a wonderful connection. Is it all 3 together?
"Well from my personal arrangement I met them when I was part of a couple sadly my relationship at the time didn't work out and I became that "single male"
But we all still kept meeting be it for drinks at the pub or just even a catch up and one night we began to play as a 3 and did for a while
From there the couple I play with had a discussion between them self's and was looking for a single male that could be part of there life long term, that was respectable knew there boundaries was relaxed chilled and ticked all the right boxes quite frankly and to put it in there words "that person was right under there nose"
So yeah here I am 2 years later and have still going strong "
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I've been meeting a couple for 7 years now even though I've moved to the UK I still meet them everytime I go back to Ireland and I talk to the wife pretty much everyday. Over the years we've become great friends i respect there relationship it comes first. When I do go over I either stay in there house or we stay in an hotel. It's a great relationship |
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over a year ago
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This is from my time back in NYC . I had a regular couple to to play with. I like to think that there was something for all of us in it. I love to take on another man’s wife together. I love DP and spit roasts absolutely!
I haven’t found any couple after moving to london but have been on the look out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just love sharing another man's gf/wife -- taking turns, making sure she's completely satisfied, it's my favourite thing."
Adding to it my favorite is when the hubby decides to go for sloppy seconds after she gets used |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just love sharing another man's gf/wife -- taking turns, making sure she's completely satisfied, it's my favourite thing.
Adding to it my favorite is when the hubby decides to go for sloppy seconds after she gets used"
Usually can't resist going for thirds in those instances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couples I've meet have become friends .
I like to get to know them and their likes and dis-likes and what makes them tick sexually .
Its all part of the Excitement .
I played as a couple for a few years the most thing I hated was Cockiness' and total disrespect for my partner just because she's on all fours . lol
No pun intended .  |
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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thats good that you found a route to common enjoyment
"This is from my time back in NYC . I had a regular couple to to play with. I like to think that there was something for all of us in it. I love to take on another man’s wife together. I love DP and spit roasts absolutely!
I haven’t found any couple after moving to london but have been on the look out"
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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Theres definately a dfference between cockiness and confidence
"Couples I've meet have become friends .
I like to get to know them and their likes and dis-likes and what makes them tick sexually .
Its all part of the Excitement .
I played as a couple for a few years the most thing I hated was Cockiness' and total disrespect for my partner just because she's on all fours . lol
No pun intended . "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A long time ago I used to meet a lovely couple and at the start the dynamic worked really well, it shifted though when he decided he didn’t want to be involved but wanted videos and pictures etc (I was fine with this) but then a bit of jealousy came into play and it just fizzled out. Up till that point though it was fantastic, and I enjoyed the social side |
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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago
Northern England |
"Any other guys wish to add their comments?"
Oh yes. Prior to meeting my ex girlfriend, I had a wonderful, long term (4 year) friendship with a lovely couple that I met through my work - of all places.
I actually told the story of how it went in here:
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1117225
I'd love to hear your comments...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love meeting couple's more than any other relationship and have been very fortunate over the years to have had a few good friends to develop with. Couples always more open about wants, meets are always longer and interesting in dynamics and I love being part of their fun |
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There does seem to be quite a demand on the part of couples to meet a solo male either for a MFM or a MMF.
Living currently at a seaside resort I am regularly, if not frequently contacted by couples who want an extra sexual dime soon on a trip away. The ones that I really enjoy are those where they are staying here in Bridlington long enough to meet more than once, allowing us to really get to know what turns each other on.
Another bonus is where they want an introduction to our local naturist beach,! |
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"Still not getting a feeling from you guys as to what appeals in joining a couple. I know what makes it special for us but why is it special for you?"
With couples that play together the kick fir me is seeing two people having fun together, and knowing just by being there I’ve improved their sex. And for the cuck type couples, knowing that you’re getting to have your way with someone that belongs to someone else.
It’s a bit sad to admit to it, but both are huge ego boosts. |
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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can see why, that confidence is what appeals to us
"Still not getting a feeling from you guys as to what appeals in joining a couple. I know what makes it special for us but why is it special for you?
With couples that play together the kick fir me is seeing two people having fun together, and knowing just by being there I’ve improved their sex. And for the cuck type couples, knowing that you’re getting to have your way with someone that belongs to someone else.
It’s a bit sad to admit to it, but both are huge ego boosts."
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By *iPythonMan
over a year ago
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"Still not getting a feeling from you guys as to what appeals in joining a couple. I know what makes it special for us but why is it special for you?"
Personally it’s being allowed to be apart of that very intimate situation. For a couple to trust me enough to do it. I personally love to please so to see their partners enjoying me playing with them is a big turn in |
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I have had a few relationships with couples with several meets over time. They are all different. I recommend it if possible. First it is getting to know each other as trusted friends and see if the chemistry is there. I only met couples I felt the woman wanted it. There has to be that buzz and excitement. There was never any bi involved. Keeping it going long term was always difficult for many reasons. Happy fabswinging. |
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By *lex.88Man
over a year ago
Edgware |
First of all need to get to know them otherwise I don't feel confortable. I met a couple before where she didn t like swing, but accepted because her partener like it. This thing didn.t make me feel comfortable. A social meet before is the best choice, after chilling with a glass of wine. |
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"There does seem to be quite a demand on the part of couples to meet a solo male either for a MFM or a MMF.
Living currently at a seaside resort I am regularly, if not frequently contacted by couples who want an extra sexual dime soon on a trip away. The ones that I really enjoy are those where they are staying here in Bridlington long enough to meet more than once, allowing us to really get to know what turns each other on.
Another bonus is where they want an introduction to our local naturist beach,!"
Naturist beach Bridlington very curious where that is |
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"We like to hear from guys who enjoy meeting couples, especially those that have experiences with long term arrangements. What was it about these menages a trois that appealed? We like to see if their experiences match ours."
Ii was in a very open relationship with a couple for 11years. I loved it, we would meet roughly once every 4/5weeks. Initially They would invite me round for dinner and dessert, we would go out for meals or we would occasionally go to there boat for the weekend..
eventually Brian the hubby relinquished more and more control to me and we ended up in the most fabulous hotwife/cuck relationship. He would go away for weekends and ask me to take care of her or in his words be her hubby for the weekend...
The feeling of sharing another mans wife is great but it’s amazing when you get to Control both of there pleasure.. it was great with them as sometimes I would arrange a surprise with Him for her. I made him take her for walk in a deserted country path where I was waiting for them. She knew nothing.
Another time I’d arrange with her a “nice” surprise for him... JUST SO EROTIC
Unfortunately he is unwell at the moment so if there are any couples interested in finding out more about me... Feel free to message. |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
Once I met a girl on Tinder. On the first date she told me she was married and asked if I am ok to be discreet. I said ok unless she wanted for him to join us. I also mentioned I am bi curious. After couple of meets I was told they talked about me and wanted mmf.
I was dating them for almost 6months but unfortunately they moved abroad.
That was a great experience, lots of experiments, joy and nice time overall. I think we were very close mentally that’s why it worked so well. |
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
chigwell |
sound slike you all got on well which is important . But also enjoyed the control transferrence. Adds t the dynamic and psycho sexual aspects
"We like to hear from guys who enjoy meeting couples, especially those that have experiences with long term arrangements. What was it about these menages a trois that appealed? We like to see if their experiences match ours.
Ii was in a very open relationship with a couple for 11years. I loved it, we would meet roughly once every 4/5weeks. Initially They would invite me round for dinner and dessert, we would go out for meals or we would occasionally go to there boat for the weekend..
eventually Brian the hubby relinquished more and more control to me and we ended up in the most fabulous hotwife/cuck relationship. He would go away for weekends and ask me to take care of her or in his words be her hubby for the weekend...
The feeling of sharing another mans wife is great but it’s amazing when you get to Control both of there pleasure.. it was great with them as sometimes I would arrange a surprise with Him for her. I made him take her for walk in a deserted country path where I was waiting for them. She knew nothing.
Another time I’d arrange with her a “nice” surprise for him... JUST SO EROTIC
Unfortunately he is unwell at the moment so if there are any couples interested in finding out more about me... Feel free to message. "
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We have enjoyed the company of singles as another or in groups. But always as an additional/s and never in a cuck way think it called stag and vixen?
There are some who have been invite more than once and others that are simply one offs. Not looking for relationships just additional pleasure for my wife it works well for us. |
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It's the sheer naughtiness of it that I like - for me, ideally, I offer and receive exclusivity and the arrangement is long term so we can all get to know each other's buttons! I enjoy having a good relationship with both her and him (though I am straight so this is not an "MM" element). I find the breaking of social taboos just irresistible - having another man's wife: frowned upon, having her with his knowledge: worse and shaming for him, him getting a buzz out of it: really not done, him watching and getting off: just incomprehensible! But such fun |
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yeah we really did get on well, I gave him some share tips. I told him that when it doubled he would buy me and her a weekend away in a posh hotel and I’d bring her back soaking. Great weekend that was..
How about you both, what do you like about it?
"sound slike you all got on well which is important . But also enjoyed the control transferrence. Adds t the dynamic and psycho sexual aspects
We like to hear from guys who enjoy meeting couples, especially those that have experiences with long term arrangements. What was it about these menages a trois that appealed? We like to see if their experiences match ours.
Ii was in a very open relationship with a couple for 11years. I loved it, we would meet roughly once every 4/5weeks. Initially They would invite me round for dinner and dessert, we would go out for meals or we would occasionally go to there boat for the weekend..
eventually Brian the hubby relinquished more and more control to me and we ended up in the most fabulous hotwife/cuck relationship. He would go away for weekends and ask me to take care of her or in his words be her hubby for the weekend...
The feeling of sharing another mans wife is great but it’s amazing when you get to Control both of there pleasure.. it was great with them as sometimes I would arrange a surprise with Him for her. I made him take her for walk in a deserted country path where I was waiting for them. She knew nothing.
Another time I’d arrange with her a “nice” surprise for him... JUST SO EROTIC
Unfortunately he is unwell at the moment so if there are any couples interested in finding out more about me... Feel free to message. "
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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yes, enjoy that phrase "social taboo"
"It's the sheer naughtiness of it that I like - for me, ideally, I offer and receive exclusivity and the arrangement is long term so we can all get to know each other's buttons! I enjoy having a good relationship with both her and him (though I am straight so this is not an "MM" element). I find the breaking of social taboos just irresistible - having another man's wife: frowned upon, having her with his knowledge: worse and shaming for him, him getting a buzz out of it: really not done, him watching and getting off: just incomprehensible! But such fun"
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
South Lakes |
Most of my friends and meets are couples, I have built a good and continually improving relationship with one couple so it works as the rapport grows. I find couples much more serious and mature to get on with and the dynamics of three work well. For me a big thing or challenge of you want to call it that is having to gain two peoples trust and be liked, no good the female half really liking you if the hubby doesnt click with you or trust you. If I had to make a choice between single females and couples it would be couples all the way. |
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over a year ago
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"We like to hear from guys who enjoy meeting couples, especially those that have experiences with long term arrangements. What was it about these menages a trois that appealed? We like to see if their experiences match ours."
Well for me there is the relaxed connection with two other people, who ideally are looking to enhance their own sexual pleasures but are deeply in love with each other. This goes way beyond the actual sexual acts, although these are often amazing. It’s about the hubby seeing and sharing his wife, both men ensuring she has experiences beyond the socially accepted norms. Hubby being so aroused by this that they then have an increased sexual chemistry at animalistic levels even when I’m gone. The wife gets to see this effect on her man starting as she behaves wantonly with another, she glances over repeatedly to get that look of pure lust filled desire and pride from her man as she willingly opens her mouth and/or spreads her legs. The most intimate example I can give if when a couple kiss as I lick the wife to her orgasm. They’re connected deeply and passionately whilst her forbidden fruits are both offered, given and savoured. Mmmmmm
Rick
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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nicely put
"We like to hear from guys who enjoy meeting couples, especially those that have experiences with long term arrangements. What was it about these menages a trois that appealed? We like to see if their experiences match ours.
Well for me there is the relaxed connection with two other people, who ideally are looking to enhance their own sexual pleasures but are deeply in love with each other. This goes way beyond the actual sexual acts, although these are often amazing. It’s about the hubby seeing and sharing his wife, both men ensuring she has experiences beyond the socially accepted norms. Hubby being so aroused by this that they then have an increased sexual chemistry at animalistic levels even when I’m gone. The wife gets to see this effect on her man starting as she behaves wantonly with another, she glances over repeatedly to get that look of pure lust filled desire and pride from her man as she willingly opens her mouth and/or spreads her legs. The most intimate example I can give if when a couple kiss as I lick the wife to her orgasm. They’re connected deeply and passionately whilst her forbidden fruits are both offered, given and savoured. Mmmmmm
Rick
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I was lucky enough to meet a brand new younger couple, they need an introduction to our fantastic lifestyle, I advised and gently guided them to the fun and excitement we all crave and the reason most of us meet, I still meet them both and singularly for drinks and fun, along with a few other couples, that don’t have such longevity but still chat. |
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I had a regular couple I use to meet I would spend time sat in front of the pair of them and made to dildo my hole while they both watched at first before taking it in turns to use the dildo on me I found it very erotic trusting them to play with me
The guy would quite often then kneel each side of my chest and make me suck his cock while his partner continued to dildo my hole I would get so turned on by him being hard in my mouth but then he would pullout and get back on the bed and proceed to fuck her While I watched I would not be allowed to get involved but have to admit it was very horny watching them they were the first couple I had met and it was really just a very sexy introduction to playing with couples |
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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago
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I'm going back a good few years. But had a long term cuck couple. They didn't live in the UK. But would be here for about 6 months of the year. Right from the off, they were awesome. I've never met anyone quite so compatible since. |
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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we tend to agree too
re your request on your status, we know of smeone who woudl fit the bill. PM us for details
"I just love sharing another man's gf/wife -- taking turns, making sure she's completely satisfied, it's my favourite thing.
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Greetings
One and all I have been involved with a couple for a good few years now it started with everybody involved
And was great no pressure everybody just enjoying
As the husband‘s health has deteriorated he now likes to watch us play it works for everyone and I see them about once a month everyone is happy sometimes They have another couple around we all played together and a husband watches and enjoys
Freedom with respect
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By *ougntina OP Couple
over a year ago
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sounds a good arrangement
"Greetings
One and all I have been involved with a couple for a good few years now it started with everybody involved
And was great no pressure everybody just enjoying
As the husband‘s health has deteriorated he now likes to watch us play it works for everyone and I see them about once a month everyone is happy sometimes They have another couple around we all played together and a husband watches and enjoys
Freedom with respect
Philfe"
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