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Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so. |
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"We have many messages along those lines. We just delete them as they appear"
I'd be interested to know if this approach actually works. I personally feel messages along those lines completely misunderstand how and why couples enjoy this lifestyle.. |
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Helga gets all the attention in our messages, some can be really nice then you get the minority who are just vulgar.Were here to be sexual and chat about likes n dislikes, insults aren't naughty or acceptable Xxxx |
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over a year ago
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It's top priority that a message to a couple is directed at both. If I'm messaging I go to great lengths to ensure its balanced, as at the end of the day you are asking to get into their bed - not hers. It's really unacceptable to be firing off messages to the lady only - quite disrespectful really. |
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"Always get messages only talking to the female half! "Hey Darling" or "You're hot let's fuck" Are the usual ones. They get blocked instantly."
I think this is the route we will go down I think. We used to get this literally daily, "you around now, so horny" |
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"We have many messages along those lines. We just delete them as they appear
I'd be interested to know if this approach actually works. I personally feel messages along those lines completely misunderstand how and why couples enjoy this lifestyle.. "
It doesn't "work". People who send these messages can't or won't take feedback. |
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so. "
People often look at the avatar and see a picture of a lady (not look at your profile), then assume that the profile is just a single lass. Maybe putting a picture of the two of you there instead will prevent that type of message?
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so.
People often look at the avatar and see a picture of a lady (not look at your profile), then assume that the profile is just a single lass. Maybe putting a picture of the two of you there instead will prevent that type of message?
Cal"
I kind of understand that, but a quick read of the profile states who and what we are. We don't feel the need for my pictures to be on our profile because D (female) is the only one that plays. |
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"Get these all the time, not that annoying but time consuming so just delete and sometimes block if they were vulgar too. "
Hopefully a few of the culprits might see this thread and change their ways haha |
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"It's top priority that a message to a couple is directed at both. If I'm messaging I go to great lengths to ensure its balanced, as at the end of the day you are asking to get into their bed - not hers. It's really unacceptable to be firing off messages to the lady only - quite disrespectful really."
Some guys probably have egos bigger than they should but I think some just don't understand the couple dynamic. |
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Yeah it’s unfortunate that it happens. The only thing I will say is profiles sometimes have zero pictures of the guy. It can encourage a potential messenger to ignore them in this type of scenario. |
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Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages |
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages "
Great point which I can only answer for us, but we always state who's talking. I would never reply pretending I'm D. |
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages "
Our profile states that I (Mr) will be replying to all messages. It still doesn’t help. |
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"Yeah it’s unfortunate that it happens. The only thing I will say is profiles sometimes have zero pictures of the guy. It can encourage a potential messenger to ignore them in this type of scenario. "
Do we not have a description for this exact reason? No need for my pictures as my appearance shouldn't affect who we meet, we're not looking for couples only single guys  |
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By *lex.88Man
over a year ago
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Just don't bother to reply. If you're interested to know one of them try to open a conversation and see where is going. As so many couple don't bother to reply, single guys don't bother to think too much on what they text. |
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By *lex.88Man
over a year ago
Edgware |
I've been texting some couples and I tried to make a nice message, but none of them reply. Some time is too much to try and make a good introduction with 1% chance to get reply. That's why most of them is like "hy, you're hot", "hy how are you?" |
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages
Our profile states that I (Mr) will be replying to all messages. It still doesn’t help."
It's frustrating but luckily there are some brilliant guys on fab |
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so.
People often look at the avatar and see a picture of a lady (not look at your profile), then assume that the profile is just a single lass. Maybe putting a picture of the two of you there instead will prevent that type of message?
Cal
I kind of understand that, but a quick read of the profile states who and what we are. We don't feel the need for my pictures to be on our profile because D (female) is the only one that plays. "
It is a well known fact that most single guys don't bother reading profiles, but if it is only the female half of a couple that is playing then it seems almost obvious that blokes would direct their messages at her.
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"I've been texting some couples and I tried to make a nice message, but none of them reply. Some time is too much to try and make a good introduction with 1% chance to get reply. That's why most of them is like "hy, you're hot", "hy how are you?""
Totally agree, play the numbers game and get their profile out there. Must be tough to be a single guy on here. Some guys really flourish though. |
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over a year ago
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Yes. We get messages from so called verified cpls, saying,
"I have a fantasy to watch my husband to play with an Indian woman" wl
When asked about swap, we get " oh I am not into Asian guys"
Lol lol
We know that the message is from the man and not the woman.
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so.
People often look at the avatar and see a picture of a lady (not look at your profile), then assume that the profile is just a single lass. Maybe putting a picture of the two of you there instead will prevent that type of message?
Cal
I kind of understand that, but a quick read of the profile states who and what we are. We don't feel the need for my pictures to be on our profile because D (female) is the only one that plays.
It is a well known fact that most single guys don't bother reading profiles, but if it is only the female half of a couple that is playing then it seems almost obvious that blokes would direct their messages at her.
Cal"
Not sure I agree that most guys don't read a profile, whether they take it or not is a different question.
I wouldn't ever message a couple assuming it's just the female on the other end. I'd understand that the scenario is just as much about the male half. |
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"When we get messages like that on my couples profile I reply pretending to be my husband
Saying ahh thank you, so flattered but I'm really happy with my wife, hope you understand lol"
Responses like this have to be the way to go, they're brilliant haha |
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"Yes. We get messages from so called verified cpls, saying,
"I have a fantasy to watch my husband to play with an Indian woman" wl
When asked about swap, we get " oh I am not into Asian guys"
Lol lol
We know that the message is from the man and not the woman.
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How cheeky is that, must really frustrate you both. |
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over a year ago
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"This is annoying as is the “hubby is free to meet alone” message
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We've never had this. Maybe because excluding the description I'm a ghost on our profile. "
Maybe if you were a bit more visible on the profile it would help, I get that it's annoying but surely just delete them as they come in rather than getting pissed off about it? |
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"This is annoying as is the “hubby is free to meet alone” message
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We've never had this. Maybe because excluding the description I'm a ghost on our profile.
Maybe if you were a bit more visible on the profile it would help, I get that it's annoying but surely just delete them as they come in rather than getting pissed off about it?"
If we were a soft or full swap couple we would have my pictures on our profile, we're not so don't see anypoint. I wouldn't say I get pissed off and will usually just ignore but the odd one just makes me think what goes through your head sending that message. |
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"Our pet peeve has to be the unsolicited “I’m gonna cuck your husband” approach  "
Someone told me he was gonna fuck D like I couldn't haha. I asked him why he thought I couldn't satisfy her. He said because she has sex with other guys. |
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"Someone told me he was gonna fuck D like I couldn't haha. I asked him why he thought I couldn't satisfy her. He said because she has sex with other guys. "
Prime example of them not understanding why most (but probably not all) couples are here |
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"Someone told me he was gonna fuck D like I couldn't haha. I asked him why he thought I couldn't satisfy her. He said because she has sex with other guys.
Prime example of them not understanding why most (but probably not all) couples are here "
I get it must be tough to understand, I'm not sure I did until I realised how much of a turn on it is seeing D enjoy another man. She then gets turned on seeing me enjoying her enjoying him haha |
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"I'm not sure I did until I realised how much of a turn on it is seeing D enjoy another man. She then gets turned on seeing me enjoying her enjoying him haha "
It’s a feeding circle, both feeding off each other’s excitement, that’s why it is so intense and addictive. Would love to chat more but sadly you have couples blocked |
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"I'm not sure I did until I realised how much of a turn on it is seeing D enjoy another man. She then gets turned on seeing me enjoying her enjoying him haha
It’s a feeding circle, both feeding off each other’s excitement, that’s why it is so intense and addictive. Would love to chat more but sadly you have couples blocked "
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People often look at the avatar and see a picture of a lady (not look at your profile), then assume that the profile is just a single lass. Maybe putting a picture of the two of you there instead will prevent that type of message?
Cal"
It doesn't  |
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"" hey loved reading your profile and would love to meet for some fun ? " well they clearly haven't read our profile especially couples "
I think your profile pretty much makes it clear what you're after from fab haha. |
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over a year ago
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We very often get guys who address us as a couple until a few messages in and it's "do you meet alone" (aimed at the fem) We are on here as a couple so why would we meet alone, if we wanted that we would have singles profiles |
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so. "
Maybe it has something to do with 90% of couples profiles only show the female so why should the male be recognised when he's not in any pictures??? |
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"We very often get guys who address us as a couple until a few messages in and it's "do you meet alone" (aimed at the fem) We are on here as a couple so why would we meet alone, if we wanted that we would have singles profiles "
We don't have many rules but D doesn't want to meet alone. I wouldn't mind if we knew the guy well but it's her choice. We always get asked though. |
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages
Great point which I can only answer for us, but we always state who's talking. I would never reply pretending I'm D. "
That’s good, more couples should follow suit as it would create less confusion. A lot of the time I can usually tell by the tone of the message whether I’m speaking to the lady or the guy of the couple |
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so.
Maybe it has something to do with 90% of couples profiles only show the female so why should the male be recognised when he's not in any pictures??? "
Maybe because he is the females partner from a hotwife/stag vixen COUPLE so she isn't a single women. We are a couple who enjoy the female half having sex with other men. If I didn't care what she was upto it would be a single women profile. The guy doesn't need to see a picture of me or any part of my body. If a couple swapped you'd expect pictures of male and female but we don't so why should there be pictures of me? |
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over a year ago
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I find it funny when someone asks who it is they’re talking to. As soon as I tell them it’s the male half the word “mate” seems to pop up in every message  |
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
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Happens a lot with us...
Them: “Hey babe, you look so sexy”
Mr: “Thanks but I’m not that way inclined mate”
BLOCK
I like how they might want to protest their straightness but can’t lol.
Hopefully they learn for there future approaches to couples. |
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over a year ago
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I’m wondering why now but mostly our “dumb” messages seem to be along the lines of “she’s hot” or “your missus has a great ass/ tits etc”
Bypassing Dora completely.
Maybe it’s the way our profile is written?
Perhaps it comes across as a male writing? |
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From a single guys point of view.. I feel your frustration, I always address couple as a couple
I never Wade in with anything sexual always polite and stroke up civil conversation if there’s interest |
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"From a single guys point of view.. I feel your frustration, I always address couple as a couple
I never Wade in with anything sexual always polite and stroke up civil conversation if there’s interest "
Exactly this, I'm not looking for a bromance or a cuddle lol just to know the guy is decent. |
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"I’m wondering why now but mostly our “dumb” messages seem to be along the lines of “she’s hot” or “your missus has a great ass/ tits etc”
Bypassing Dora completely.
Maybe it’s the way our profile is written?
Perhaps it comes across as a male writing? "
Just had a look and you've probably got a point. Still I could clearly see you're a couple. I'd quite like it if someone wrote saying "you lucky bastard, you're wifes ass is cracking" haha |
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"Happens a lot with us...
Them: “Hey babe, you look so sexy”
Mr: “Thanks but I’m not that way inclined mate”
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I like how they might want to protest their straightness but can’t lol.
Hopefully they learn for there future approaches to couples. "
Haha
Yep hopefully this forum post helps too |
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over a year ago
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"I’m wondering why now but mostly our “dumb” messages seem to be along the lines of “she’s hot” or “your missus has a great ass/ tits etc”
Bypassing Dora completely.
Maybe it’s the way our profile is written?
Perhaps it comes across as a male writing?
Just had a look and you've probably got a point. Still I could clearly see you're a couple. I'd quite like it if someone wrote saying "you lucky bastard, you're wifes ass is cracking" haha"
Yes we don’t mind to be honest.
Dora appreciates the compliments generally. |
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"I’m wondering why now but mostly our “dumb” messages seem to be along the lines of “she’s hot” or “your missus has a great ass/ tits etc”
Bypassing Dora completely.
Maybe it’s the way our profile is written?
Perhaps it comes across as a male writing?
Just had a look and you've probably got a point. Still I could clearly see you're a couple. I'd quite like it if someone wrote saying "you lucky bastard, you're wifes ass is cracking" haha
Yes we don’t mind to be honest.
Dora appreciates the compliments generally. "
Compliments always go along way |
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Yes we have messages like this, I’ve tried to balance out our pictures a bit more so W is visible, we come as a pair so I’m not keen on the lack of acknowledgment of W, because if he’s not comfortable as well as me, we don’t meet …
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"Yes we have messages like this, I’ve tried to balance out our pictures a bit more so W is visible, we come as a pair so I’m not keen on the lack of acknowledgment of W, because if he’s not comfortable as well as me, we don’t meet …
Mrs x"
Your description on your profile is actually brilliant haha. |
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"Yes we have messages like this, I’ve tried to balance out our pictures a bit more so W is visible, we come as a pair so I’m not keen on the lack of acknowledgment of W, because if he’s not comfortable as well as me, we don’t meet …
Mrs x
Your description on your profile is actually brilliant haha. "
Thank you x 
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The worst message we have had from a single bloke.
Can I make you pregnant?
No hello how are you.
When we said no..in a polite way.
He responded it was just his fantasy..
So we asked why didn't he say that in the beginning...then he blocked us..
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"The worst message we have had from a single bloke.
Can I make you pregnant?
No hello how are you.
When we said no..in a polite way.
He responded it was just his fantasy..
So we asked why didn't he say that in the beginning...then he blocked us..
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Think someone watched too much porn haha |
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"your not only one it happens all the time single guys looking for women in our experience. weirdest ome are where they would pay us for various things"
We got asked for D's knickers in exchange for cash. |
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"The worst message we have had from a single bloke.
Can I make you pregnant?
No hello how are you.
When we said no..in a polite way.
He responded it was just his fantasy..
So we asked why didn't he say that in the beginning...then he blocked us..
Think someone watched too much porn haha"
Most likely yes.
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over a year ago
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"your not only one it happens all the time single guys looking for women in our experience. weirdest ome are where they would pay us for various things
We got asked for D's knickers in exchange for cash. "
had that as well they asked how much it would cost for her to hand them over there and then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a lot just addressed to Wet and as we are not looking for guys maybe we should have filters on , but saying that also get lots of respectfull guys who have read the profile and just giving compliments which is a nice little ego boost for Mrs W&W |
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so. "
Getting annoyed never helps even though it's often justified. Like every other couple we've had all kinds of odd messages which just get instantly deleted, or blocked if they continue pestering us.
Most of those types of messages are from trolls and fantasists and are best ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages
Our profile states that I (Mr) will be replying to all messages. It still doesn’t help."
Same text on our profile too.. the other problem is, they don't read profiles..they just instantly message on seeing a pic of her. |
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"We have a lot just addressed to Wet and as we are not looking for guys maybe we should have filters on , but saying that also get lots of respectfull guys who have read the profile and just giving compliments which is a nice little ego boost for Mrs W&W "
Exactly this, but Mrs S&S not W&W |
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"With you on this! Also when they aim the message at your partner like you don’t exist ‘Your Mrs is fit, I’d fuck her’ …erm hi  lol.
Nic.xx"
Yeah, we've had that too, often with something to the effect of "thank you for letting other men fuck her". D is her own person, she's not my property |
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Most couples have the female as the profile pic and pretty much all the pics are of only her so it's easy to see why messages are directed to who they can see.
Doesn't take much, granted, but I get confused on the forum when there's only a profile pic to go off |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"Our pet peeve has to be the unsolicited “I’m gonna cuck your husband” approach "
We had this yesterday, said he was going to tie me up and do this and that, he actually addressed it to Mrs N only. I told him it's Mr who runs the profile, I'm a Stag and a dominant one at that and if any tying up is going to be done it'll be by me to him and if he'd be interested? No reply forthcoming |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages "
But there's a flaw in your question. You mention the pics 'are of the lady and none of the man', but there's also, importantly text and alot of profiles state who will be replying to the messages in this text. Mrs here has zero interest in any online fab interaction and our profile says exactly this, just need to read a bit that's all. |
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Just see it as a filter - if they are that daft to message a couples profile profile and just address one of you then they’ll get no further.
We state in our profile that we are couple and want to be addressed as so…so they just get deleted if they don’t.
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
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The worst we've received is "wanna fuc" or "can I cum ovr n fuc u". With messages like that we sometimes go full grammer Nazi and tell them how off putting and appalling their message is.
We keep our profile open to single guys as we meet some realy great guys at clubs. But, Fab is full of wanking fantasists who seem barely able to string a coherent sentence together, let alone read our admittedly long profile.
Regrettably, we also inevitably end up also ignoring messages from many guys who seem perfectly decent and have sent us some well written opening messages. |
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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago
NOTTINGHAM |
Total lack of effort really grates on me.
"How's you?"
"W U up to?"
Had one a couple of days ago - "mmm"
My least favourite was a real whopper a year or so ago that was so egotistical he effectively cut me out of my marriage and addressed S as though she was single, and that it was a cert that she'd go and meet him and beg him to fuck her because he was "a proper man", etc.
S gave him a short sharp "no thank you" and blocked him, so he created a second account just to send a further abusive message.
Absolute strummer.
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We get this all the time, Id say easily 90% of the messages we receive are the same old crap. One sentence consisting of some really original openers… “hi what you up to?” “Nice tits, can I cum on them?” “She looks hot, wanna meet up tonight?” accompanied by a dick pic.
Surely this tactic NEVER works!
We recently had a guy message us, then as we didn’t reply fast enough he accused us of being a fake account, a guy pretending to be a couple.
One thing we do to make it easier when messaging though is to make sure we sign off at the bottom with which of us has sent it
Nookie (The Husband)
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over a year ago
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages "
When we're looking, our profile usually states that Mr is the one that messages.
We're still asked. |
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So..yes we had a guy message asking me (fem) would you like me and 4 of my mates come over for a good hard fuck...had had to rub my eyes and read it again....so my hubby answered and said yeah course...pop over about 8.30pm..she will be ready and waiting, and while you guys are hard at it I will be there to wipe your brow and then be on hand for bacon rolls and tea once your all finished....his response was better than the first message...he actually said...sounds fantastic..we will be there dead on 8.30pm and really looking forward to this...hubby's reply...are you fucking delusional..
Do you really think and believe that I'm going to allow 5 men we have never met come and take turns fucking my wife...now fuck off Needless to say he didn't message back! Hahaha |
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages
When we're looking, our profile usually states that Mr is the one that messages.
We're still asked. "
If said person has read our profile it says we both answer. I don't actually see why we should state who is talking because it shouldn't matter...if we get talking to someone for more that a few days to a week then we will. |
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"Question for you couples who get frustrated at those only directing messages to the female half, how many of you actually indicate which of you is actual replying?
A lot of your profiles are pictures of the lady and next to none of your boyfriend/hubby/male other half yet most of the time he’s the one who is replying to or sending the messages
When we're looking, our profile usually states that Mr is the one that messages.
We're still asked.
If said person has read our profile it says we both answer. I don't actually see why we should state who is talking because it shouldn't matter...if we get talking to someone for more that a few days to a week then we will."
You are correct, it really does not matter in the early stage of messaging.
A reply is sent with the blessing of both of us, therefore the one doing the admin work isn't important.
We find those that want to know, too often it's because they're hoping the lady and so they can get into the dirty talk, asking all kinds of personal questions, or to suggest meeting alone.
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Only couples can message us and most of them (whoever is admins their page) haven't read our profile first so have no clue as to the type of message to send that will get our attention.
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As a single male I couldn’t help looking at your profile ( stunning) but the pics are all of a gorgeous woman
Maybe a few pics of both of you would show that you are a devoted couple?
Btw I’m free all weekend lol |
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"As a single male I couldn’t help looking at your profile ( stunning) but the pics are all of a gorgeous woman
Maybe a few pics of both of you would show that you are a devoted couple?
Btw I’m free all weekend lol"
It's explained several times over the thread their dynamics and why there's no pictures of the gent.
But, a profile is far more than pictures, the bio is more important and a profile clearly states whether or not it belongs to a single or couple.
If someone goes no further than the pictures, it's likely they'll struggle to meet here at all. |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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"Do any other couples get annoyed when the first message is only directed at the female half of the couple or am I being a bit precious?
An example of a recent message went along the lines of, hey babe I'm looking for something longterm.
This is in no way a dig at single guys as we've been lucky to of met some great guys from fab and will continue to do so.
People often look at the avatar and see a picture of a lady (not look at your profile), then assume that the profile is just a single lass. Maybe putting a picture of the two of you there instead will prevent that type of message?
Cal"
Or perhaps it acts as a filter. Too lazy to actually check the profile then you ain’t going to be someone we want to meet. Minimal effort = minimal outcome |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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"Get these all the time, not that annoying but time consuming so just delete and sometimes block if they were vulgar too.
Hopefully a few of the culprits might see this thread and change their ways haha"
You are assuming they read...anything!
Horny - pics - hit message - wanna fuck? |
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Well the message just received kinda says it all….
“I’m going to smash your missus”
Well thanks for taking the time out of your day and for your input into our lifestyle but unfortunately we’re goi g to have to decline your request!
Like who on earth does that message work for! |
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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago
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There’s a few posts in this thread trying to find excuses or allowances for why single guys (sorry not having a dig but it is mostly single guys) write initial messages only to the female half.
It is REALLY SIMPLE. If it is a couples profile then address them as a couple. Ain’t that hard!
If the couple have a preferred approach thereafter then they will let you know. |
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We are on here as a couple for a reason. There is two of us and we play together.
The male half tends to get ignored in messages and like many others on here we get "You look wonderful in those stockings. I would love to fuck you". Actually that is too many words.
It is the same in the chat room when I am on (Mrs) "Is that Mr or Mrs". I got so fed up I now write Mr and they tend to disappear. |
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