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Advice for our first MMF
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We’ve decided to give it a go as next on the bucket list . Any advice on the best way to go forward with it . It’s important that it’s not just a MF with an extra M watching- we want everyone involved and it’s important that the two chaps get on - but not with each other lol . Keen to try a DP or DVP or both and a good old spit roast is a definite!!!
Juicy ( F ) loves some beefcake and if u look like Eddie Hall she’ll be dripping wet 
Any good experiences and bad ones so we know what to be aware of - thanks Fabbers xx |
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Getting the right M is important and to be clear what is and what is not on the table.
Obviously the other guy has to be OK being part of a threesome and there are plenty of polite and decent guys who are OK about that, who will no doubt contribute to what should be a fun occasion.
DP and DVP should be taken slowly to start with and lots of lube, but is always great fun.
Enjoy! |
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Based on our experience, there are plenty of guys who are genuine and will turn up and there are more that will talk the talk!
We have a filtering process as hotwife is quite particular and even with a filtering process, we have had a few no shows.
When you find the guy/s you want to play with, it can be a great experience. |
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We’ve decided to give it a go as next on the bucket list . Any advice on the best way to go forward with it . It’s important that it’s not just a MF with an extra M watching- we want everyone involved and it’s important that the two chaps get on - but not with each other lol . Keen to try a DP or DVP or both and a good old spit roast is a definite!!!
Juicy ( F ) loves some beefcake and if u look like Eddie Hall she’ll be dripping wet
Any good experiences and bad ones so we know what to be aware of - thanks Fabbers xx"
As mentioned by others, finding the right guy is important.
For your first time it’s important to discuss what boundaries you have both between yourselves as a couple and discuss them with the guy who will be joining you too.
It may seem like a bit of a buzz kill if you talk about do’s and don’ts but it’s much better if everyone knows where they stand when it comes to what may happen.
I’d also suggest possibly not going straight for DP or DVP on a first threesome, but obviously that’s completely up to you guys |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
As the female my key points are the guys have to get along as a minimum and ideally be quite comfortable around each other. My best experience was when the 2 men were really in sync with each other. They were best friends, totally comfortable seeing the other nude and could read nonverbal cues off each other.
Both totally straight so were wholly focused on me, be that getting me off or taking what they wanted from me.
Kinda miss that right now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the extra male in a MFM with a married couple for 2 years I know a bit about it. The most important thing for me was that we all became good friends. They would visit every 2/3 weeks and we’d start the night catching up and then the fun. We would meet down the pub for drinks sometimes, he would even drop off his wife for the night and pick her up the next day! Don’t rush into DP and DVP, that happened after several months with us and only after we all had a special bond. From there on absolutely everything was on limit and there were no boundaries  |
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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
Skegness |
"As the extra male in a MFM with a married couple for 2 years I know a bit about it. The most important thing for me was that we all became good friends. They would visit every 2/3 weeks and we’d start the night catching up and then the fun. We would meet down the pub for drinks sometimes, he would even drop off his wife for the night and pick her up the next day! Don’t rush into DP and DVP, that happened after several months with us and only after we all had a special bond. From there on absolutely everything was on limit and there were no boundaries "
we same the 3 sums we having just now him and hubby becoming best mates |
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Are you looking for a Bi male as many will read an MMF as one of the males being the main focus ie a male in the middle, whereas your post implies you want the female you get all the attention which is more often (although not always) referred to as MFM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both the guys have to be comfortable with each other...being bisexual myself i tend to prefer if the guy of the couple is bi themselves, makes for a much more enjoyable expereince.you yourself seem to want to be the inbetween woman, this is great if both the guys dont want to superseed each others ego's. I would suggest a social meet first...hope you find a good compatible guy and have lots of fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your Male does not have to be bi but does need to be tolerant of another dick in his space, mfm means that cocks are going to touch the males parts, just accept it. It can be fun and if barriers are broken it then becomes a whole new ball game |
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By *urio77Man
over a year ago
northampton |
I was invited to take part in a MFM threesome with a couple at their home. Naturally I was bricking it and full of nerves. The couple were fantastic at settling my nerves and the lady made clear and concise guidelines on what was acceptable during the meet. The guy was sound as well and told me that nerves were a good sign that I was a respectful person. I had a fantastic night. |
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But as you say has to be comfortable in the close nature of what a MMF entails- and sweet is fine with that
Ps Sweet is the male , Juicy the female xx"
You need to put MFM not MMF as this can been seen as the men will play together |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We’ve decided to give it a go as next on the bucket list . Any advice on the best way to go forward with it . It’s important that it’s not just a MF with an extra M watching- we want everyone involved and it’s important that the two chaps get on - but not with each other lol . Keen to try a DP or DVP or both and a good old spit roast is a definite!!!
Juicy ( F ) loves some beefcake and if u look like Eddie Hall she’ll be dripping wet
Any good experiences and bad ones so we know what to be aware of - thanks Fabbers xx"
Make sure any guy you meet knows your sexual turn-offs and things you will not do. Stress if he tries to do any of them the meet will end.
Talk to the guy about things you do want to do sexually and what turns you both on. |
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"Oops sorry we mean MFM not MMF - didn’t realise there was a difference ha ha"
Most people don’t actually use this… it’s more straightforward to just discuss whether any male on male activity is wanted or not |
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I’d suggest you all meeting once or twice to have a chat, about what you like, don’t like and just general life.
I once turned up for a threesome with a couple, only for him to suddenly become incredibly jealous and angry. Turns out it was more her idea and there was definitely some underlying problems in their relationship that she thought having an open relationship would solve. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Oops sorry we mean MFM not MMF - didn’t realise there was a difference ha ha"
Taxi to Nottingham please.
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Seriously though find a guy that both of you like. If you both are relaxed in his company then the fun will just flow.
Set boundaries - from both sides.
If he says he's 'going to give her the best fuck she's ever had' then ditch him. Nobody knows her better than you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you sure that you are wanting MMF as opposed to MFM? - This could be important to finding the right man!
Wishing you more luck than us, we haven't been able to find a long term buddy here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But as you say has to be comfortable in the close nature of what a MMF entails- and sweet is fine with that
Ps Sweet is the male , Juicy the female xx
You need to put MFM not MMF as this can been seen as the men will play together "
Oops.
We’ve had that on our profile for a while and didn’t know this!
It’s a Bloody minefield! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had arranged to meet with a couple, and he had made it clear that he didn't want any MM play. After a while of watching each other play with Mrs, he asked if he could put me in her. I'm happy to play and he guides my knob between her full lips. A few minutes later and I ask where she would like me to cum. Over my tits she said, so when ready I pulled out and knelt up. He then said let me help you with that, and got behind me, one hand circling the base of my shaft with his fingers, the other very lightly jacking my knob. His pace got faster, but was still very light, and the combination with the tightness on my shaft was so good! He got faster and faster until he made me blow a huge creamy load....not just over her tits, but face, pillow and even wall. No idea where he learned that, and he said he had never done it before, but was an excellent first (of several) meet! |
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Just be prepared DP and DVP can be fiddly getting it in and in what position haha. The guys don’t have to be into each other but they’ve definitely got to be comfortable with who slides what in where and if it’s okay to cum especially if it’s DVP. Don’t over think it though you’ll be too horny to care |
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A guy who will stick to boundries is top priority. Look for guys who have veries off couples for doing this sinario so you have a credible verification which shows he was a tidy and respectful man. |
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"Too many guys say that they are fully bi but often not. Hard to find guys that are fully bisexual"
This is our problem at the moment. All start of tidy and then it turns to its all about joanne. They asked for more and more pics of her. Now i think we will stick to bi cpls for thst sinario sex play. |
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My experience…
Hard cocks needed, especially 2nd entrant on the DVP. Trying to push a limp ‘rope’ in a nervous tight little arsehole whilst attempting DP is an exercise in futility. Just. Don’t. The situation needs a completely relaxed approach. Holes ready, toys used to stretch and relax. F having already had an orgasm is ideal. Man to man touching is gonna happen, if one or both recoil on male contact it’s not going to work. The dudes have to be completely cool with each other. Bi inclination makes it a more relaxed affair, nobody cares and it’s more enjoyable. Vigorous DVP is probably gonna result in MM ball sacks slapping together. Also DVP cock to cock friction is intense, note to you Bulls, if you’re in the way of gravity and hubby uncontrollably blows his load bareback, guess what’s going to be running down your dick and over your balls…
But as Bulls know, a husbands cum is the best lube.. ride it out studs!! |
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I hope you find a beefy one!
Having two men to play with is a real treat 
