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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone else look at height as a factor in meets? Obviously being short 5'3 (heels required haha) no guys tend to be shorter than me but plenty seem to hit the over 6ft mark. Does height make a difference to you? Is there a minimum or maximum you'd refuse to meet? |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"Yes has to be taller than me"
I am not tall but doesn’t really care about heigh. I am confident with taller ladies or shorter. Though I have to say according to my experience ladies do pay attention to heigh. Especially online. Seems this is the first things they are filtering on. Most prefer to look for tall guys online. Offline the situation is much better luckily. And luckily the size of other body parts needed for good fun doesn’t correlate with heigh   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No doesn’t bother me, just adds to the fun!
Can make certain positions harder to achieve though lol
I do prefer more petite women though!"
So you can pick me up and throw me around a little |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My fuck bud us about 5'6"and Im 6'4" but it does not hinder our sex. Women do seem to like my height though "
Really? I refused a meet because he was 6'5 and I'm 5'3 |
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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
Being 6ft 1 and my partner's being a lot smaller generally I've not had to many issues. Some sore necks after lots of kissing. People threaten to cut me off at the knees.
But then when you get to the bed it's all fine.
Now I've never actually been with a taller person. Just never actually entered my sphere. Not sure it would bother me in the slightest. But will cross that bridge when I come to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having dated women who are 5', 5'11 and 6' no it doesn't make any difference to me. But then at 5'8 am in the middle! Does mean different positions though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Charlotte sometimes tries to smack my arse during sex, but she can’t reach and smacks my lower back instead, which is more painful and less sexy."
Haha that made me laugh lol |
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By *egoMan
over a year ago
Preston |
Matters not to me.
It’s nice to mix it up abit and use different techniques.
Small can be manhandled a lot more, taller can make interesting shapes. Easier to do stood up, staring out the window etc. public quickies etc.
from my experience anyway. |
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"My fuck bud us about 5'6"and Im 6'4" but it does not hinder our sex. Women do seem to like my height though
Really? I refused a meet because he was 6'5 and I'm 5'3 "
Ah there are plenty of ways to get round the height difference but guess sometimes it might feel a little over powering |
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"Charlotte sometimes tries to smack my arse during sex, but she can’t reach and smacks my lower back instead, which is more painful and less sexy.
Haha that made me laugh lol "
When on the down escalator, I like to stand on the step below her, facing back. That way I can look her in the face and hug her. And pretend not to know that we’re nearly at the bottom and about to be thrown off. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Does anyone else look at height as a factor in meets? Obviously being short 5'3 (heels required haha) no guys tend to be shorter than me but plenty seem to hit the over 6ft mark. Does height make a difference to you? Is there a minimum or maximum you'd refuse to meet?"
Nope my tallest she was 5"8 and a great weekend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 6ft2 and Nicky is 5ft3 but we are the same height when horizontal. Her little legs do make doggy style a challenge but it's one that I'm always happy to accept! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 6ft2 and Nicky is 5ft3 but we are the same height when horizontal. Her little legs do make doggy style a challenge but it's one that I'm always happy to accept!"
Legs together doggy, it works much better for me as men are always taller xx |
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By *olfie26Man
over a year ago
Brierley Hill |
I was contacted by a woman from another site who was taller than myself. I wasca bit self conscious when we met as generally i prefer women who are shorter than me.
However once we got down to things ir made no difference. Got to say she had the loveliest and longest legs I've ever seen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer a woman smaller than me, much more fun being able pick them up and throw them around a little
I'll grab my coat "
You definitely won't need your coat |
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No surprise that it’s women who seem to care more about granular details like height (that one cannot change), more than men….
To me, it makes no difference a woman’s height I’m more concerned about attributes that one has control over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No surprise that it’s women who seem to care more about granular details like height (that one cannot change), more than men….
To me, it makes no difference a woman’s height I’m more concerned about attributes that one has control over. "
Such as age? |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"I generally prefer women shorter than me but definitely not a deal breaker just not found many over 6ft3 and it doesn't really matter in bed anyway"
We're all supposed to be the same height laying down......not with my belly!
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"No surprise that it’s women who seem to care more about granular details like height (that one cannot change), more than men….
To me, it makes no difference a woman’s height I’m more concerned about attributes that one has control over.
Such as age?"
Well one can’t change how old they are… was referring to an individual’s personality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve dated women taller than me and it never bothered me or them. It’s a confidence thing. However I know some women are uncomfortable about it and that’s to be respected "
I’m very confident, still wouldn’t date someone shorter than me though and that’s most guys lol to be taller they need to be 6 ft+ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. I'm just attracted to tall men, can't help it. I'm 5ft 8 myself so tall to me is 6ft2 and up.
Also helps with certain practicalities  "
I will meet guys 6ft+ but ideally 6ft4 plus! At 5ft11 barefoot really tall guys I love in heels I’m 6ft2 |
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"I generally prefer women shorter than me but definitely not a deal breaker just not found many over 6ft3 and it doesn't really matter in bed anyway
We're all supposed to be the same height laying down......not with my belly!
(Bry)"
Lol us chunky chaps still make it work  |
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I have had a crush on a work colleague for years which is centred on her petite stature- a smidge over 5’ I’d guess. She has a beautifully proportioned body and fabulous long blonde hair. Approaching 50 now, but still the source of many a fantasy.
I appreciate this may look to contradict my profile (this is only one facet of my desires and kinks)- to spend time worshipping and adoring a shorter lady is high on my bucket list! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
So glad I'm (he) not a single guy on here, bad enough with all the guys to compete with then there's height to consider too. 
Weird as I wasn't even aware it was an issue growing up, excuse the pun. |
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In general, men aren't bothered and women prefer men taller.
I'm 5'10" and I just feel awkward, gangly and overbearing when dating or meeting shorter men and that's an emotional lack of connection, we are NOT the same height laying down. |
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We aren’t too much different height wise and C will be taller in heels but our height works perfectly.
We can kiss without either of us having to stoop or tilt our head awkwardly. We can have stand up sex with no issues.
Height isn’t a big thing for either of us…it’s more about a connection.
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else look at height as a factor in meets? Obviously being short 5'3 (heels required haha) no guys tend to be shorter than me but plenty seem to hit the over 6ft mark. Does height make a difference to you? Is there a minimum or maximum you'd refuse to meet?"
I prefer women short in height. I find petite women incredibly sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im only 5ft so do check people height, some postion can we a bit awkward if they are over the 6ft mark but to be honest fab meets are generally doggy style and no issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Height doesn’t bother me but I don’t tend to approach super tall guys - as I’m clubs only I can physically see in person and being 5’2 I don’t tend to bother with guys over 6ft, tend to prefer 5’8 to 5’10 but there has always been exceptions to the rule. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At 6'2" I'm happy with any height.
That said, prolonged kissing with anyone under 5'2" leads to cricked necks unless lying down...."
Know your pain, all too well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At 6'2" I'm happy with any height.
That said, prolonged kissing with anyone under 5'2" leads to cricked necks unless lying down....
Know your pain, all too well"
Your pictures are fantastic! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, height doesn't make a difference to me in the slightest. This might sound weird but I wouldn't mind being an inch or two taller than a man in my heels. I think it can look quite good. Anyway, I don't really care about height. And don't quite get the love for tall men to be honest. |
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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Does anyone else look at height as a factor in meets? Obviously being short 5'3 (heels required haha) no guys tend to be shorter than me but plenty seem to hit the over 6ft mark. Does height make a difference to you? Is there a minimum or maximum you'd refuse to meet?"
Good question as the lady I could not be attracted to somebody physically who is shorter than me as I like to feel the alpha male is taller than me and it feels like so much nicer. Dating sorter guys never worked for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always look at a woman's stated height in her profile/description in case there are any 'height related' caveats. If they're looking for taller then I won't contact them.
I'm not tall."
But you have nice shoes  |
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"I always look at a woman's stated height in her profile/description in case there are any 'height related' caveats. If they're looking for taller then I won't contact them.
I'm not tall.
But you have nice shoes "
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Awww, thank you. x |
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Unlike most who have contributed to this thread in our case the female is much taller than the male. My wife of many years is 6' in her bare feet (much taller in heels) whilst I barely scrape 5'6".
Truthfully it has never been much of a consideration for either of us.
Others though seem to struggle to get their head around it. Friend's have confessed they thought it was weird seeing such a tall woman in heels beside such a short guy!
After knowing us for years they don't notice the difference any more.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unlike most who have contributed to this thread in our case the female is much taller than the male. My wife of many years is 6' in her bare feet (much taller in heels) whilst I barely scrape 5'6".
Truthfully it has never been much of a consideration for either of us.
Others though seem to struggle to get their head around it. Friend's have confessed they thought it was weird seeing such a tall woman in heels beside such a short guy!
After knowing us for years they don't notice the difference any more.
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Interesting to read your input, your wife has lovely legs |
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I'm 6' 8". I invariably tower over my partners.
I've been involved with a woman who is 4' 10", and I've been involved with a woman who is 6' 5". You make it work. Different things work with different people. All part of life's rich tapestry.
I know I've had partners who have been attracted to me because of my unusual height. If I've even been discounted because of it, they didn't tell me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm 6' 8". I invariably tower over my partners.
I've been involved with a woman who is 4' 10", and I've been involved with a woman who is 6' 5". You make it work. Different things work with different people. All part of life's rich tapestry.
I know I've had partners who have been attracted to me because of my unusual height. If I've even been discounted because of it, they didn't tell me."
Wow thats tall, it's interesting to hear its caused no issues, reading the feedback off people will certainly make me look at height differently.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes has to be taller than me"
same as my wife , any meet the guy has to be taller than her. This does narrow our choice as she is tall at 5ft 10 , and even taller in heels
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Do like tall guys and girls but ots not a deal breaker but there is something sexy about picking up a petite sexy women and lowering them onto me gives me an excuse to grab their bum...win ...win for me |
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"Unlike most who have contributed to this thread in our case the female is much taller than the male. My wife of many years is 6' in her bare feet (much taller in heels) whilst I barely scrape 5'6".
Truthfully it has never been much of a consideration for either of us.
Others though seem to struggle to get their head around it. Friend's have confessed they thought it was weird seeing such a tall woman in heels beside such a short guy!
After knowing us for years they don't notice the difference any more.
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How is it anyone elses business. If you are both happy with it then that's all that matters. |
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"I'm 6' 8". I invariably tower over my partners.
I've been involved with a woman who is 4' 10", and I've been involved with a woman who is 6' 5". You make it work. Different things work with different people. All part of life's rich tapestry.
I know I've had partners who have been attracted to me because of my unusual height. If I've even been discounted because of it, they didn't tell me.
Wow thats tall, it's interesting to hear its caused no issues, reading the feedback off people will certainly make me look at height differently.."
It just means you have to adapt what you do with each specific person. For example, with a partner who's a foot and a half shorter than me, it's a bit awkward to do standing doggy; on the other hand, it's rather easier to pick them up and do lift-and-carry missionary. All good fun, and an entertaining learning experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need to find a nice tall guy lol there aren’t many men taller than me in heels 
There are a few of us about "
Lol there aren’t many very tall single guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 5ft 3 ish and my ex fwb was 6ft + yes it was challenging but she said I was always tit height so it worked
I'm forever getting turned down due to my height |
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I'm 6'10", height doesn't bother me too much, as long as it's enjoyable.
The tallest woman I have been with was 5'9", I would like to meet a woman at the 6ft mark just to know how average height people feel with others at a similar height |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone’s taller than me lol I’m only 4ft 9….
Everyone’s smaller than me - I am 6’6
Everyone is smaller than ME, I'm 6'10 "
wow I'd come to your waist |
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"Everyone’s taller than me lol I’m only 4ft 9….
Everyone’s smaller than me - I am 6’6
Everyone is smaller than ME, I'm 6'10
First person I have ever “met” who is taller than me "
Also 6ft 6, and agreed, 6’10 is awesome |
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"Everyone’s taller than me lol I’m only 4ft 9….
Everyone’s smaller than me - I am 6’6
Everyone is smaller than ME, I'm 6'10
First person I have ever “met” who is taller than me
Also 6ft 6, and agreed, 6’10 is awesome "
There are downsides, believe me  |
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"Everyone’s taller than me lol I’m only 4ft 9….
Everyone’s smaller than me - I am 6’6
Everyone is smaller than ME, I'm 6'10
First person I have ever “met” who is taller than me
Also 6ft 6, and agreed, 6’10 is awesome "
I'm 6' 8", but I used to play basketball with a guy who was 7' 2". |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Everyone’s taller than me lol I’m only 4ft 9….
Everyone’s smaller than me - I am 6’6
Everyone is smaller than ME, I'm 6'10
First person I have ever “met” who is taller than me
Also 6ft 6, and agreed, 6’10 is awesome
I'm 6' 8", but I used to play basketball with a guy who was 7' 2". "
Do these heights help or hinder potential meets? |
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"Everyone’s taller than me lol I’m only 4ft 9….
Everyone’s smaller than me - I am 6’6
Everyone is smaller than ME, I'm 6'10
First person I have ever “met” who is taller than me
Also 6ft 6, and agreed, 6’10 is awesome
I'm 6' 8", but I used to play basketball with a guy who was 7' 2".
Do these heights help or hinder potential meets?"
I haven't had enough meets to get an idea if it does or not |
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"Everyone’s taller than me lol I’m only 4ft 9….
Everyone’s smaller than me - I am 6’6
Everyone is smaller than ME, I'm 6'10
First person I have ever “met” who is taller than me
Also 6ft 6, and agreed, 6’10 is awesome
I'm 6' 8", but I used to play basketball with a guy who was 7' 2".
Do these heights help or hinder potential meets?"
As I said earlier in the thread: There have definitely been women who were attracted to me because of my height. However, if anyone was ever put off because of it, they never said so. So, ultimately, I don't know.
However, it would make sense that it puts at least some people off. Spend a few moments browsing the Fab forums and you'll see people discounting potential partners for all sorts of reasons that seem strange to anyone who's not them. |
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