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Do your workmates know you swing
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Every week, somebody in the team had to do a presentation on a non work subject. When it was my turn, I stood n front of the white board and announced ‘sex parties.’ It was astonishing how the Italian colleague changed from looking bored to instantly fixing me with a white-hot, grinning laser vision.
In fact, at that stage I didn’t have enough experience to make a great presentation, or answer all the questions. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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They might do if they looked over my shoulder!
Actually a couple of them do know as I only choose to share my lifestyle choices with those I trust and who can handle the information |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
Lancashire |
I told a couple of colleagues that I trust. Then one day one of them asked me if I'd been to a swingers club at the weekend, he didn't realise he was in earshot of the works biggest gossip, now everyone knows. |
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Nope! But it is quite funny being on Monday morning catch up calls and getting asked what I got up to at the weekend after visiting a club or going to a party haha
Usually have to make something up all whilst thinking to myself “if only they knew what I was really up to” lol |
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Back when I had a 'proper job' and some of the guys in the office used to jokingly suggest that I was "old and past it" and "probably couldn't get it up any more", it was sometimes very tempting to let slip what I got up to with other men's wives...
....on one occasion, while alone in the office while they were all on their mid-shift breaks, I actually logged in to one of my profiles and was all set to show them pics to shut them up - it was only the prospect of word getting back to my wife that stopped me!  |
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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago
sutton Coldfield |
No. This isn’t a ‘lifestyle’ for us it’s something we do for fun, and it’s our sex life so it’s private. I’d find it a bit odd if someone announced at work that they swing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some will suspect it after a conversation on the local swinging club and the stereotypical attitudes of what it was. I let them know that I'd been a few times and corrected them on what they thought.
My old boss is the one who is most intrigued and says he needs to sitbdown and found out more. |
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I have mentioned it. I am open about who and what I am. My mum knows and finds it amusing and is happy as long as I am happy.
I get why others don't tell colleagues but I talk in generalised terms and am always discreet. If I were a lady, things may be slightly different due to the male propensity to judge/name call etc.
Few are shocked, most ask questions and I have pointed a few this way.  |
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I Sean told a married female colleague, we where on a night out and staying at a hotel. Separate rooms of course. We ended up spending the night in my room and have had another night away since. Janine knows I am fucking my friend but her husband does not know anything about it |
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I’m quite an “open” swinger , most of my friends and family knows but it’s not something I discuss with colleagues apart from my boss.
I work with mostly late teens early 20’s youngsters in a very public environment fuelled by alcohol and I just don’t need the gossips between staff and/or customers whilst doing my job.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is a reason to why so many men join after guys bigging up whats going on by telling all there mates about this site and then they sit back and moan theres no action for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that I'm aware of, but did have someone message me saying I think I know you and we worked at same company and no I didn't have face pictures on my public profile. |
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Simply they don't need to. It's not a great secret. A fair few family and friends know I do and the My Girl does too. But it's hardly something I just drop into the general conversation at work. However I suspect it would be no surprise with anyone because my veiws are generally very liberal and sex positive. Plus I think it's generally out of the bag I'm a bit kinky anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try and keep this life separate from private life so no one knows what we do, I feel like it would give people the impression they've got a free pass to try it on  |
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Ideally I wouldn’t want anyone to know.
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