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Fab is dead!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Has anyone had this issue. Appears that no one is interested in talking to you on fab. Fab has changed a lot over the years. People seem to have become more stuck up and contradicting themselves, eg. Its OK for some to plaster nude pics on their profile and then comment on their disgust on others nude profile, don't get it. Wondering what people are looking for on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find that Fab is exactly the same as it's always been.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We get exactly what we expect from it.

We didn’t respond to a message once within an hour once though and got told that we were stuck up.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I've been here for over ten years and it's always been the same.

Is this vitriol because nobody will meet you?

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Last thread I saw on this said the problem was that everyone was talking and nobody meeting.

Maybe you are in the wrong dept

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By *uckslut and MCouple over a year ago

Poole

"Has anyone had this issue. Appears that no one is interested in talking to you on fab. Fab has changed a lot over the years. People seem to have become more stuck up and contradicting themselves, eg. Its OK for some to plaster nude pics on their profile and then comment on their disgust on others nude profile, don't get it. Wondering what people are looking for on here? "

Fab is what you make it. We don't plaster nudes all over our profile. We're not into chatting. Our account says, "we're only looking to play if we have a meet up, no other offers in the mean time". So what's the point in just chatting, and going off the boil? And we have 6 new veris since New Year. Fab is not dead in our little corner of Fabs.

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By *illynillyCouple over a year ago

Wiltshire

Our first profile was 10+ years ago...not much has changed other than less cock next to a can of lynx pictures, oh and less sky remotes pictures too

Nilly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been here for over ten years and it's always been the same.

Is this vitriol because nobody will meet you?"

Firstly what is vitriol? Secondly its not about not meeting anyone. It seems most on here are on it just to browse and 80% messages are unread, fake profiles maybe?

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By *xydadbodMan over a year ago

Milton keynes

My view of fab is quite different then. I've enjoyed the social side of it.. getting to know people. It's amazing what you learn of the person behind their pics. Maybe that's just me

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Why not go to a large, organised social or a swingers club and meet people face to face. I have made many friends by doing this.

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By *anilla-sinCouple over a year ago

lancs

I talk to loads of people on fab… we meet some and others we don’t. I mean we get messages we don’t reply too, because it’s a one liner and I just think… no I have no energy for that… but if we get a nice message, I try to reply and it results in conversation…

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can’t be that dead, I’m talking to plenty, and meeting some of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I talk to loads of people on fab… we meet some and others we don’t. I mean we get messages we don’t reply too, because it’s a one liner and I just think… no I have no energy for that… but if we get a nice message, I try to reply and it results in conversation…

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx "

My messages have always been well written, I always avoided one liners as they are more likely to be avoided. My messaged always attempt to open up conversations but haven't had much replies. There must be something I'm doing wrong on here I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

Have you/are you asking for profile advice?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the problem is us ladies get to be very selective when it comes to swinging. If a profile doesn't capture the imagination then you reduce your chances of a response. I'm not here for the mundane or average. What does surprise me is the amount of guys who come across as just desperate for sex and moan about getting no interest. Why bother? It saddens me to think that the world has changed so much that people pin their hopes on finding someone to hook up with on the Internet and they get annoyed when it doesn't happen.

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By *anilla-sinCouple over a year ago

lancs

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

Well that’s a shame, i must say though, if I get a message I do look at the profile, yours is a bit empty, I’m sure it’s not a real reflection on who you are.

Also I would be put off by the 420 friendly part… just because I have no interest in that personally, and I’m not really too sure why I need to know it… but that’s just constructive feedback from me.

Best of luck Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

Have you/are you asking for profile advice?"

Never had feedback on profile, would be good to get some thoughts on what's not so good or what is..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

Well that’s a shame, i must say though, if I get a message I do look at the profile, yours is a bit empty, I’m sure it’s not a real reflection on who you are.

Best of luck Mrs x"

Appreciate your feedback

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By *renchFantasyCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Depends on the the effort you out in, one liners or even one word messages, no pictures or just "meet now" requests will never get a response, but a well structured and honest sounding message will get a response.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually agree with the OP, we used to find people who would chat a little and then meet on here. Recently it's a barrage of low quality messages from some quarters and lots of people who want to message until the heat death of the universe and can't organise themselves to actually meet.

We only really use the site now to keep in touch with those we meet in clubs, given our current experiences we are unlikely to renew our site support.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on the the effort you out in, one liners or even one word messages, no pictures or just "meet now" requests will never get a response, but a well structured and honest sounding message will get a response."

80% of the detailed messages I've send have been unread, why bother wasting time to make sure each message shows that you have made an effort to look through the person's profile. Even when people ask to put certain words in the message header to see if you read their profiles don't respond back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d wager that nearly all recipients of a message will go straight to the profile of the sender to ‘check them out’, before deciding whether to reply or not.

Ask yourself. Have I best represented myself with the profile I have? If you saw your own profile, would you consider meeting yourself _ased on what you see?

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By *anilla-sinCouple over a year ago

lancs

"I’d wager that nearly all recipients of a message will go straight to the profile of the sender to ‘check them out’, before deciding whether to reply or not.

Ask yourself. Have I best represented myself with the profile I have? If you saw your own profile, would you consider meeting yourself _ased on what you see? "

That’s a great reply… totally that… I mean would you shag you _ased on how you presented yourself?, because, let’s be honest, that’s all anybody is actually thinking

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It works for me very successfully. Maybe ask yourselves how you think you could improve things for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been on nearly 5 years and I haven’t seen much change. Get out there to clubs and socials

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By *ockosaurusMan over a year ago

Warwick

"It can’t be that dead, I’m talking to plenty, and meeting some of them. "

Zombies. It's the only explanation.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

In the vast majority of cases the only person on here you are competing against is yourself.

An "all men" or "all women"approach is dead in the water unless you are attempting to speak to them all as a whole.

Effort and patience will always win out.

A woe is me and pointy finger attitude never will.

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By *vening SongCouple over a year ago

diss

"Our first profile was 10+ years ago...not much has changed other than less cock next to a can of lynx pictures, oh and less sky remotes pictures too

Nilly

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stunning breasts mmmmmm ??

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"I’d wager that nearly all recipients of a message will go straight to the profile of the sender to ‘check them out’, before deciding whether to reply or not.

Ask yourself. Have I best represented myself with the profile I have? If you saw your own profile, would you consider meeting yourself _ased on what you see? "

This

If someone sends a great message then it opens the door.

But we will check a profile next.

Unfortunately in many cases that would prevent a response

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I've been here for over ten years and it's always been the same.

Is this vitriol because nobody will meet you?"

Probably

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe then it’s not the messages that put people off…

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By *ersey GirlCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

It’s more about pretension and bullshit than it’s ever been on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's best on a Tuesday. Clunge everywhere.

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By *ame-room-no-swapCouple over a year ago

Taunton

Works perfectly well for us

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By *illynillyCouple over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Our first profile was 10+ years ago...not much has changed other than less cock next to a can of lynx pictures, oh and less sky remotes pictures too

Nilly

stunning breasts mmmmmm ??"

gee thanks

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By *AYENCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Wondering what people are looking for on here? "

Just a normal guy, not a flasher or 420 reliant.

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

OP, you say fab has changed a lot "over the years" yet your profile is 8 months old?

We've been here 7 or 8 years and it's about the same as it always has been, just with more people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm only interested in talking to guys who are near'ish to me. Not miles away ...

If we have similar tastes in desires - I'll meet within a week.

Not here for the long drawn out of chatting.

I can do that in person....

What are you here for OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's best on a Tuesday. Clunge everywhere."

Titty Thursday also works!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple over a year ago

Cumbria

"Has anyone had this issue. Appears that no one is interested in talking to you on fab. Fab has changed a lot over the years. People seem to have become more stuck up and contradicting themselves, eg. It's OK for some to plaster nude pics on their profile and then comment on their disgust on others nude profiles, don't get it. Wondering what people are looking for on here? "

Sorry that you find it hard...

Fab is not a free sex site it's very much a social media more in Keeping with Facebook when you understand that you can start to enjoy.

It's very much a doorway to something very special of sex parties club's and private events no one can make you use it you need to push yourself to go and be involved.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go to a club and you'll meet lots of real people.

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By *ategoodbyeMan over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Go to a club and you'll meet lots of real people."

Well, /see/ lots of real people, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was a man looking for a man, I would be over whelmed. I get lots of views and unsolicited messages that I politely decline.

I rarely get them from couples or ladies, so have to send them myself. I always try and be different, be personal and don't message unless I am absolutely interested in them. I find response rate pretty high, even if it’s just a no thanks.

Women probably get a-lot of messages/spam so they can choose what they spend their time replying too. As you probably do with emails or what ever.

The other week I had hit it off with a lady, messaging etc etc. Then boom no reply. For the first time ever I did a double message, against my better judgement - but it had been a week. She apologised profusely even though was no need, seems I got lost in her 100’s of messages and she hadn't read it. Goad i messaged as normal service is resumed, but made me realise a singular man is probably a drop in the ocean on here.

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol

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By *gfbMan over a year ago

thorne

What if you not fancy club and just want to meet someone in private

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol"

So you think that they have to chat to the 30 men a day that ask to do so?

What is so difficult to understand about choice, preference, attraction, availability?

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

we haven't found it to be so

although the pandemic has caused its complications and repercussions

in the meantime its a way to keep irons in the fire but that takes patience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

Try reading the thread link at the bottom of my profile. You’re not verified by meeting in person so many won’t take the risk of chatting and meeting you. Once you’ve been to a no-pressure social and met people in person, who are all there, to meet new people - the veris will pour in and people will know you’re trustworthy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

Have you/are you asking for profile advice?

Never had feedback on profile, would be good to get some thoughts on what's not so good or what is.."

There’s nothing to make me want to reply, the torso pic is ok, but not particularly inspiring. The bio tells me nothing about you, so chances are I wouldn’t read your message, but if I did, unless your message was amazing, I’d be moving on.

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By *Ci LutherMan over a year ago

Cumalot

Swings and roundabouts a lot just delete and block for no apparent reason as I thing my intro is polite and just when your about to throw the towel in some nice people come along who are genuine chatty resulting in meets

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol

So you think that they have to chat to the 30 men a day that ask to do so?

What is so difficult to understand about choice, preference, attraction, availability?

As I said it's only chat ! Doesn't need to be an attraction if not meeting

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol

So you think that they have to chat to the 30 men a day that ask to do so?

What is so difficult to understand about choice, preference, attraction, availability?

As I said it's only chat ! Doesn't need to be an attraction if not meeting

As I said, why am I obliged to chat to everyone that asks? Why do you think you're entitled to expect anyone to engage in any way with you?

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By *evaquitCouple over a year ago

Catthorpe

It's as lively as when we got here, if anything It's better! More places to go and more people to meet, that's our experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get exactly what I want out of fab

I put the effort in and I get rewarded

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies will only chat to you if your cock is over 8 inches

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol

So you think that they have to chat to the 30 men a day that ask to do so?

What is so difficult to understand about choice, preference, attraction, availability?

As I said it's only chat ! Doesn't need to be an attraction if not meeting

As I said, why am I obliged to chat to everyone that asks? Why do you think you're entitled to expect anyone to engage in any way with you?"
Where did I say am entitled! It only takes seconds to hit block or delete if not interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ladies will only chat to you if your cock is over 8 inches

Not true

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol"

It's not a free chat service. Many men turn it to sex chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're not sure fab is dead, when we first signed up years ago everything was new, the forums were exciting as we were constantly learning about the lifestyle.

Now when you've been here for years the forums seem repetitive which is completely understandable.

Chatting to strangers(mainly single men as that was what we was looking for) was exciting as was social meets, all very new but the chatting to strangers became stale as it was pretty much the same conversations.

So we found we enjoyed clubs the best but fab was what really started us on this path.

So we don't really thing fab has changed a great deal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol

It's not a free chat service. Many men turn it to sex chat.

Yep. It’s why I won’t chat on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has anyone had this issue. Appears that no one is interested in talking to you on fab. Fab has changed a lot over the years. People seem to have become more stuck up and contradicting themselves, eg. It's OK for some to plaster nude pics on their profile and then comment on their disgust on others nude profiles, don't get it. Wondering what people are looking for on here?

Sorry that you find it hard...

Fab is not a free sex site it's very much a social media more in Keeping with Facebook when you understand that you can start to enjoy.

It's very much a doorway to something very special of sex parties club's and private events no one can make you use it you need to push yourself to go and be involved. "

Very well said. Too many join here and expect sex on tap yet won't make the effort to join in the lifestyle.

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS over a year ago

secret bunker

Has anyone had this issue. Appears that no one is interested in talking to you on fab. Fab has changed a lot over the years. People seem to have become more stuck up and contradicting themselves, eg. It's OK for some to plaster nude pics on their profile and then comment on their disgust on others nude profiles, don't get it. Wondering what people are looking for on here?

Sorry that you find it hard...

Fab is not a free sex site it's very much a social media more in Keeping with Facebook when you understand that you can start to enjoy.

It's very much a doorway to something very special of sex parties club's and private events no one can make you use it you need to push yourself to go and be involved.

Very well said. Too many join here and expect sex on tap yet won't make the effort to join in the lifestyle."

Couldn’t say it better myself

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I look at a profile before I answer any new message if the profile doesn't interest me then I won't answer the message 99 per cent of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just make it a paid members only ..and raise the membership up ..,its like bars raise the price and it keeps dickheads out ,

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol

It's not a free chat service. Many men turn it to sex chat.

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Then just block them..Simple

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By *atureGent58Man over a year ago

Glasgow

In my opinion FAB should be a subscription service, that way you raise the quality of the service and will help to eliminate fakes and time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my opinion FAB should be a subscription service, that way you raise the quality of the service and will help to eliminate fakes and time wasters "

Our thoughts too x

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By *obertjMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I think fab is fab!

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By *ategoodbyeMan over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"In my opinion FAB should be a subscription service, that way you raise the quality of the service and will help to eliminate fakes and time wasters

Our thoughts too x"

There are subscription services out there that you can join if you want to, but I think that FAB has overtaken them in participants precisely because you can use it without subscribing. If it went over to a complete subscription model, it might have the critical mass to maintain its lead, but it would likely attract fewer new subscribers in the future, leading to a downward curve over time.

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By *atureGent58Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"In my opinion FAB should be a subscription service, that way you raise the quality of the service and will help to eliminate fakes and time wasters

Our thoughts too x

I get your point, however how many of the participants are truly genuine

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

It seems a lot of folk I used to chat to are now linger around.

Unless they blocked me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my opinion FAB should be a subscription service, that way you raise the quality of the service and will help to eliminate fakes and time wasters

Our thoughts too x

So how do you think fab will survive,as you yourself arent even supporting them ...

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By *otsossieMan over a year ago

Chesterfield

I’m pleasantly surprised after subscribing. The mobile chat works a lot better than desktop does on a phone, and the videos are great.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lots of fakes , lots of time wasters and lots of needy women that think fab is a dating site rather then a sex site lol .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of fakes , lots of time wasters and lots of needy women that think fab is a dating site rather then a sex site lol . "

Fab can be anything you want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep seeing this time waster thing, and the ‘fake’ thing. Yet, I haven’t come across this problem.

Starting to think I’m missing out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep seeing this time waster thing, and the ‘fake’ thing. Yet, I haven’t come across this problem.

Starting to think I’m missing out. "

Take a look at p.1 to p.2 hotpics ...lol

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"Actually agree with the OP, we used to find people who would chat a little and then meet on here. Recently it's a barrage of low quality messages from some quarters and lots of people who want to message until the heat death of the universe and can't organise themselves to actually meet.

We only really use the site now to keep in touch with those we meet in clubs, given our current experiences we are unlikely to renew our site support."

Agree with these guys. We have seen and know lots of couples who have left fabs very recently. It has changed over the years, and not for the better. We still meet the couples who have left here at clubs, so we are just here to keep in touch with those who are still here too.

We are here to swing and clubs are our place to swing.

xxxxx Suzi

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By *isAdventure69Woman over a year ago

Hampshire

I’m an useless penpal , I therefore tend to only engage with profiles I’d like to meet, I have no interest in exchanging endless “how’s u, what u up 2” with people I have no intention in taking things further with, I rely on my friends and family for general chit chat.

For every message received I check the profile out, if nothing catches my attention … a “no thank you” ensues. I personally see no point in maintaining an online conversation with “strangers” I’m not attracted to.

But that’s me, I’m aware that we all use Fab for different reasons and in different ways.

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By *limeyoMan over a year ago

Oswestry

I certainly find myself drifting away from it more as where I live now, Fab appears full of time wasters and women just getting a kick from leading on.

Could also be that I am getting older and not as ‘marketable’ lol

I used to live in a part of the country where there are just more people too so I guess more odds of people actually wanting to meet.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I certainly find myself drifting away from it more as where I live now, Fab appears full of time wasters and women just getting a kick from leading on.

Could also be that I am getting older and not as ‘marketable’ lol

I used to live in a part of the country where there are just more people too so I guess more odds of people actually wanting to meet."

Leading on in what way?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my opinion FAB should be a subscription service, that way you raise the quality of the service and will help to eliminate fakes and time wasters "

It would also keep genuine people off the site. Some of us are genuine, but bloody skint.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"Lots of fakes , lots of time wasters and lots of needy women that think fab is a dating site rather then a sex site lol . "

It’s a swinging site and if people want dates then it’s up to them isn’t it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been a member of Fabswingers and Fabguys for circa 8 years or more off and on and I can't really sat that it has changed to much

Yes I would agree that it needs to re look at certain aspect within in - but "if it isn't broke, don't fix it"

J xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep seeing this time waster thing, and the ‘fake’ thing. Yet, I haven’t come across this problem.

Starting to think I’m missing out.

Take a look at p.1 to p.2 hotpics ...lol"

I see this comment on here a lot.

Pretty much all of page 1 have recent verifications, and appear to be genuine.

Even if some are OF/sex workers, that doesn’t mean they aren’t also a swinger.

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By *limeyoMan over a year ago

Oswestry

Suggesting they want to meet, agreeing dates, and then complete silence or even blocking.

I always like to speak to someone on the phone too before meeting at minimum, and that also has the same effect

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By *outhful73Man over a year ago

Glossop

Maybe share more photos and you'll get more interest.

Women are less likely to go for just a picture of a random knob. Gay men are less fussy, but depends what you are after really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of fakes , lots of time wasters and lots of needy women that think fab is a dating site rather then a sex site lol . "

Offt...are you sure you’re not the needy one? Fab is what you make of it and it’s up to the people chatting to decide what they want/ don’t want. Have a lovely day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of fakes , lots of time wasters and lots of needy women that think fab is a dating site rather then a sex site lol . "

Needy women

There’s nothing needy about wanting to date, it’s the ideal place to find a partner in crime.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

People have been pronouncing Fab to be dead for as long as we can remember…before we’d even had our first meet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The majority of fabbers are fine people. As someone who's not meeting these days it would be easy to be given short shrift by some but in fairness any rejections I've had when approaching people just for cam friendship have been courteous. Must add that those who've taken me up on the offer even more so !

I think a lot is to do with treat others as you would expect to be treated, it's my mantra and it obviously goes a long way

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By *odgerMooreMan over a year ago

Nowhere

If i had a penny for every time ive been told sorry you’re not my type - I’d buy a yacht and an island in the bahamas…

fab is a great place to chat with people and if you click on another level then great but if you come here with the attitude of Im going to have soooooo much sex - you’re lining yourself up for disappointment…. It has ebb and flow and sometimes you’ll click with a few and others you won’t click at all. Not a sprint… its a triathlon!

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Agree 100% , Ladies have on there status not meeting just here fir chat,But won't chat to you lol

So you think that they have to chat to the 30 men a day that ask to do so?

What is so difficult to understand about choice, preference, attraction, availability?

As I said it's only chat ! Doesn't need to be an attraction if not meeting

As I said, why am I obliged to chat to everyone that asks? Why do you think you're entitled to expect anyone to engage in any way with you? Where did I say am entitled! It only takes seconds to hit block or delete if not interested "

I refer you back to your original post.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

As others have said it's all about expectations and one persons dead is anothers norm.

It depends on your viewpoint and with a slight attitude adjustment you can raise the dead.

My penis often appears dead but with the right touch.......

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By *aughtyloversCouple over a year ago

Hull

Fab has always been the same. You get out what you put in. Our advice is to get out and about and meet people if you can. Plenty of socials, clubs and parties, easiest way to get verified too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People have been pronouncing Fab to be dead for as long as we can remember…before we’d even had our first meet!

You look awesome and I am surprised you are not meeting more WoW !!

J xx

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"People have been pronouncing Fab to be dead for as long as we can remember…before we’d even had our first meet!

You look awesome and I am surprised you are not meeting more WoW !!

J xx

Thanks - we’re only really interested in FFM, and those meets don’t happen every day.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

I wouldn't say it's dead, it's just over run with single guys wanting to chat to Women shen the ratios are so vast.

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By *harAndBryCouple over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I’m an useless penpal , I therefore tend to only engage with profiles I’d like to meet, I have no interest in exchanging endless “how’s u, what u up 2” with people I have no intention in taking things further with, I rely on my friends and family for general chit chat."

This exactly. Far too many people seem to forget the imbalance here between single guys and women/couples. The guys might get two "requests" to chat each week, we get ten each day. If we took them all up on it, by the end of the week we'd be answering "what you doing?" to seventy guys. Three hundred by the end of the month.

We chat to very few, only those we will meet.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do chat to two lady’s on hear in non sexual way about life in general and the way of the world but I think you’re right think the art of conversation is lost on hear

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By *ategoodbyeMan over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"In my opinion FAB should be a subscription service, that way you raise the quality of the service and will help to eliminate fakes and time wasters

Our thoughts too x

So how do you think fab will survive,as you yourself arent even supporting them ..."

Their business model has given them what seems to be the most active website in the sector. If they choose to change that, it’s their business, but it seems to work for them.

Whether I personally engage with that business model is irrelevant to its overall success. I don’t have a moral obligation to engage with a business model on their terms instead of my own. But I have given money to fabs in the past, and probably every other adult dating website too. Fabs is the only site I would consider paying again in the future, because the others didn’t have enough members.

As I said, you are free to sign up to one of those sites, and that might indeed work better for you. But if they don’t work better for you, you’re not in a good position to say that fabs should be more like those sites.

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By *aughtyloversCouple over a year ago

Hull

I do chat to two lady’s on hear in non sexual way about life in general and the way of the world but I think you’re right think the art of conversation is lost on hear

We think your profile says it all really. Not what fab is all about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is my 2nd profile just for chatting/forum these days but I found on my old profile around 2015/2016 is was so much friendlier and if done correctly, meeting was easier too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots of fakes , lots of time wasters and lots of needy women that think fab is a dating site rather then a sex site lol .

Needy women

There’s nothing needy about wanting to date, it’s the ideal place to find a partner in crime."

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By *ategoodbyeMan over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Lots of fakes , lots of time wasters and lots of needy women that think fab is a dating site rather then a sex site lol .

Needy women

There’s nothing needy about wanting to date, it’s the ideal place to find a partner in crime.

If it happens naturally, great. But when I was single on other sex-meet sites, there did seem to be ladies treating it as a traditional dating website. Asking about my salary. Specifying that I should meet them in an expensive restaurant. When I cottoned on that these were not people who were interested in NSA sex with me, it was quite a relief to disengage.

I wonder if they were not finding enough options on traditional dating sites, and were trying to leverage the surfeit of males on sex websites.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

I see a lot of men Moaning on fab then look at their profile and it’s rubbish. Put some effort in!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fab is not dead us couples and women who use it to meet do very well from it ...men however are a million to one so will find the site very hard not all tho but the majority will struggle .... unless there a huge influx of women and couples it wont get no better for men

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By *TK421-Man over a year ago

Cheltenham

Oh bloody hell... Dead!!!

I turn my back on fab for a month and it's up a died the day I come back...

It is what it is OP. Seems active enough.mostly....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is quite a challenge as a man, I've done okay over the years. It's like fishing, sometimes it's dead regardless of what you dangle in the water

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"fab is not dead us couples and women who use it to meet do very well from it ...men however are a million to one so will find the site very hard not all tho but the majority will struggle .... unless there a huge influx of women and couples it wont get no better for men"

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By *ithintemptationsCouple over a year ago

plymouth

We are on another subscription site now ,so much better,3 meets in 2 & half months compared to 0ne or two a year on here,just pop in to have a laugh at the forums now.

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By *ategoodbyeMan over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"We are on another subscription site now ,so much better,3 meets in 2 & half months compared to 0ne or two a year on here,just pop in to have a laugh at the forums now."

Great. I think they tend to have a smaller clientele than fabs though, so might be less useful for those with very specific requirements. For example, Charlotte is straight, and we couldn’t find any couples on other websites who wouldn’t only meet bi females.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

In 12 years, it's about the same, even if we change.

The interest from others will reflect their needs and nobody can guarantee that others will be interested in any of us.

What has changed is that people have more experience of how to make the site work for them and also how to pick more appropriately for their needs.

Have you used your experience here as wisely OP? If you haven't, then it's the thing that you do have control over - how you promote and communicate about yourself.

There are no guarantees, except that there are thousands of men who are doing their best.

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By *ams12345Man over a year ago

london

Welcome to the single lads club haha unless your a hot couple or a gym fit Centaur there’s 0.0000000000000001% chance of getting lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are on another subscription site now ,so much better,3 meets in 2 & half months compared to 0ne or two a year on here,just pop in to have a laugh at the forums now."

Can you please DM name?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to disagree fab is not dead by any means.

I’ve had some great chats both as a result of forum posts, stories posts and also been lucky to have a few meets. I even plucked up the courage to visit my first club

I always think, for me, respect is an important thing in any walk of life but as our first point of contact is virtual so to speak that first impression is key.

Not everyone likes you that you speak to and that’s absolutely fine but I certainly don’t think this site is dead.

Far from it and long May it continue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As others have rightly pointed out OP, the problem might not be with Fab……

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By *MCMan over a year ago

London/EA

"We get exactly what we expect from it.

We didn’t respond to a message once within an hour once though and got told that we were stuck up. "

The audacity of some people! Not replying to a message for an hour! You should be ashamed! Don’t you know Fab comes before everything, especially replying to horrendous message from single males.

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple over a year ago

northamptonshire

"I see a lot of men Moaning on fab then look at their profile and it’s rubbish. Put some effort in!"

Exactly this! You get out what you put in!

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By *panddaCouple over a year ago

West Mids

"I find that Fab is exactly the same as it's always been."

We agree with this totally.

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By *panddaCouple over a year ago

West Mids

Maybe you should put the same effort you put into a message into your profile.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Welcome to the single lads club haha unless your a hot couple or a gym fit Centaur there’s 0.0000000000000001% chance of getting lucky. "

So, so incorrect.

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By *panddaCouple over a year ago

West Mids

"I see a lot of men Moaning on fab then look at their profile and it’s rubbish. Put some effort in!

Exactly this! You get out what you put in!"

Pay attention OP.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

With that attitude I’m not surprised

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By * AND R 777Couple over a year ago

Teesside

It's just like life, no effort in, nothing out in return

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One vote here

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By *iceGuyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Definitely fab is dead! If only we all had a “RESTART” button

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Moan, moan, moaning, more moaning!

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By *iceGuyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Moan, moan, moaning, more moaning!"

Frustrated?

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By *he_Last_TitanMan over a year ago

Bristol

"I find that Fab is exactly the same as it's always been."

Same here - and I've been on and off here for 15 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely fab is dead! If only we all had a “RESTART” button "

It definitely isn’t.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see a lot of men Moaning on fab then look at their profile and it’s rubbish. Put some effort in!"

Definitely so many lack effort & expect far too much!

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"Moan, moan, moaning, more moaning!

Frustrated? "

Absolutely not.

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I see a lot of men Moaning on fab then look at their profile and it’s rubbish. Put some effort in!

Definitely so many lack effort & expect far too much!"

I know you should sell tips lol

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By *iceGuyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Definitely fab is dead! If only we all had a “RESTART” button

It definitely isn’t."

We all have the right to express our own opinion! Maybe you’re right ,maybe you are wrong or maybe its just me having a bad day , the op was asking if fab is dead so i only shared my thoughts.

‘It definitely isn’t “ thats your opinion and I don’t have to make any comments or disputing your comment!

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By *itygamesMan over a year ago

for example it says 35,000 people online now

you can probably halve this figure with fake profiles

i see in my area so n so joined fab ,i add them to my hotlist ..a month later theyve never been on line

then theres folk who'm i know have 3 , 4 even 5 accounts, i guess they do this to spy or stay active when they get a ban

so the true figure of real and genuine swingers/folk looking to meet is very low.

not hard to work out as chat rooms and forums and cams are pretty much the same people all the time month in month out year in year out.

so yes op, your about right

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By *iceGuyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Moan, moan, moaning, more moaning!

Frustrated?

Absolutely not. "

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By *implynaughty1Couple over a year ago

stockport

Yes it is getting worse on here hard work at time this year we are going to be doing the clubs a lot more see how it goes mrs m

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its what you want it to be, the demigraphic may have changed slightly. I enjoy sending messages, if I get a response, great if not there is always the forums.

Secret, don't take it too seriously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What you have to realise is women out number men 10-1.. let that sink in a minute, thats not including couples... so for every 1 message you send, the woman will recieve another 9-10.. What makes you stand out? Once you get the numbers put of the way and you get chatting unfortunatly not everyone clicks if you do and you arrange a meet that doesnt mean youll get on ... its a long drawn out process where the numbers are against you but every once in a while a meet will come along that makes it all worth while, you only get out what you put in

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By *assionatepoetsCouple over a year ago

Highbridge

It may be worth reading the dozens or even hundreds of offers of advice on creating an attractive profile.

If you saw somebody in a bar who had a reasonably attractive body but was wearing a bag on their head would you bother to speak to them.

No face pictures a massive turn off.

Scant information on who you are likes, dislikes or any hint of personality

If this was a school report I would be signing it at the bottom with

must try harder

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By *av3r1ckMan over a year ago

Northampton

Mine is just 7, but never had complains about that

So it must be something else

"Ladies will only chat to you if your cock is over 8 inches

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Fab is great for keeping up to date with what’s going on in the club scene and for socials.

We clearly state if we’re looking for a single outside of a club we will advertise it via a meet on our page but it don’t stop the you horny can meet now messages and hi how are you.

We tend not to reply to them but always have time for a well written message even if it’s to say no thanks.

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By *aughtycp1Couple over a year ago

Leicestershire

We find Fab great fun. We have lots of nude, naughty videos and photos on our profile. We ignore the negatives and enjoy the lifestyle. That's what it's all about. Freedom and FUN

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By *eediousMan over a year ago

Smallville

So my question to you OP is, does no one talk to you after a well written message, or are you king of the one liners?

Mrs xx

Or maybe it can be as simple as having no game. It happens, you know. It’s either you got it or you don’t. But there’s always someone who will think you are awesome, so keep at it.

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By *eediousMan over a year ago

Smallville

But that’s me, I’m aware that we all use Fab for different reasons and in different ways.

Exactly

Do people really come here to chat? I always wonder about that. I mean, don’t get me wrong they are free to, but with the myriad of chatting apps, which are probably more easy to access to chat, why go to the trouble to go to a swinging site just to chat.

I guess people are lonely and have time on their hands to kill, but I always wonder.

I do chat but with an end goal in mind, which is to do the damn deed if we get along. Site is for swinging and that’s exactly what I am here for.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

This thread was started two days ago…if Fab is dead, how has it kept going?!

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By *ilkchocolate87Man over a year ago

sw london

Ha some do use it for attention yes. Let them, they just aren’t for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely fab is dead! If only we all had a “RESTART” button

It definitely isn’t.

We all have the right to express our own opinion! Maybe you’re right ,maybe you are wrong or maybe its just me having a bad day , the op was asking if fab is dead so i only shared my thoughts.

‘It definitely isn’t “ thats your opinion and I don’t have to make any comments or disputing your comment!"

If you were stating your opinion then yes, but you’re stating it as a fact, and the fact is, for many of us Fab isn’t dead

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By *eediousMan over a year ago

Smallville

"Definitely fab is dead! If only we all had a “RESTART” button

It definitely isn’t.

We all have the right to express our own opinion! Maybe you’re right ,maybe you are wrong or maybe its just me having a bad day , the op was asking if fab is dead so i only shared my thoughts.

‘It definitely isn’t “ thats your opinion and I don’t have to make any comments or disputing your comment!

If you were stating your opinion then yes, but you’re stating it as a fact, and the fact is, for many of us Fab isn’t dead "

Opinion and fact seems to be confused a lot in life, isn’t it?

Interesting how people state their opinion as simple fact without even batting an eyelid or noting the difference when it is pointed out.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

But that’s me, I’m aware that we all use Fab for different reasons and in different ways.

Exactly

I guess people are lonely and have time on their hands to kill, but I always wonder.

I do chat but with an end goal in mind, which is to do the damn deed if we get along. Site is for swinging and that’s exactly what I am here for.

Yes I come here to chat as do the vast majority of those I've chatted to. All without an agenda or endgame in mind. Chatting doesn't always result in meeting and meeting doesn't always result in sex and that's how many people use the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely fab is dead! If only we all had a “RESTART” button

It definitely isn’t.

We all have the right to express our own opinion! Maybe you’re right ,maybe you are wrong or maybe its just me having a bad day , the op was asking if fab is dead so i only shared my thoughts.

‘It definitely isn’t “ thats your opinion and I don’t have to make any comments or disputing your comment!

If you were stating your opinion then yes, but you’re stating it as a fact, and the fact is, for many of us Fab isn’t dead

Opinion and fact seems to be confused a lot in life, isn’t it?

Interesting how people state their opinion as simple fact without even batting an eyelid or noting the difference when it is pointed out."

Well, I’ve probably done the same thing, but my brain isn’t functioning today.

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By *iceGuyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"Definitely fab is dead! If only we all had a “RESTART” button

It definitely isn’t.

We all have the right to express our own opinion! Maybe you’re right ,maybe you are wrong or maybe its just me having a bad day , the op was asking if fab is dead so i only shared my thoughts.

‘It definitely isn’t “ thats your opinion and I don’t have to make any comments or disputing your comment!

If you were stating your opinion then yes, but you’re stating it as a fact, and the fact is, for many of us Fab isn’t dead

Opinion and fact seems to be confused a lot in life, isn’t it?

Interesting how people state their opinion as simple fact without even batting an eyelid or noting the difference when it is pointed out.

Well, I’ve probably done the same thing, but my brain isn’t functioning today."

Yes you are totally right, but once again people may accept that i am right or either im wrong , same thing as someone sharing his/her opinion (pros and cons will always be)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Moan, moan, moaning, more moaning!"

If I see a moaning status = BLOCK.

It’s so unattractive.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS over a year ago

Bolton

I wish lol I have this sad pillock being protective if his post idea

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By *edonist79Man over a year ago

Trowbridge

Been on and off since roughly 2006. Used to use the heaven site too. I think as a single guy it's gotten harder to meet. That's because more people know about and use the sight and there is a lot more guys on here.

Where I could set up a good ten to twenty meets a year from fab is down to one or two on my single account.

Not dead though. Have a couple account and we've met a few guys and couples on here.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Definitely not dead for me

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I've been here for over ten years and it's always been the same.

Is this vitriol because nobody will meet you?"

I'd hazard a guess on that. It's all one needs to know

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By *aughty masonMan over a year ago

nowhere

"We get exactly what we expect from it.

We didn’t respond to a message once within an hour once though and got told that we were stuck up. "

Yes some people are way way too pushy to the point it’s a turn off!

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By *aughty masonMan over a year ago

nowhere

"I've been here for over ten years and it's always been the same.

Is this vitriol because nobody will meet you?

I'd hazard a guess on that. It's all one needs to know

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By *aughty masonMan over a year ago

nowhere

"We find Fab great fun. We have lots of nude, naughty videos and photos on our profile. We ignore the negatives and enjoy the lifestyle. That's what it's all about. Freedom and FUN"

Yes yes yes freedom and fun!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is my 2nd profile just for chatting/forum these days but I found on my old profile around 2015/2016 is was so much friendlier and if done correctly, meeting was easier too."

I remember too

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple over a year ago

Neath valley.

Its what you make it. Your attitude can put many people off. Also there are far more men than women and mf cpls and on here so as a single guy you have to stand out from the masses of other single men on here.

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By *aseMan over a year ago

Gourock

"Its what you make it. Your attitude can put many people off. Also there are far more men than women and mf cpls and on here so as a single guy you have to stand out from the masses of other single men on here. "
Or have a big cock lol

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By *aughty masonMan over a year ago

nowhere

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

I find fab is just more of a social tool really. Clubs are the best place to go

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By *ands solo 300Man over a year ago

Gibraltar

It is what is I just accept it.

I do find it frustrating though it's hard to even get noticed on this cock fest most of my messages go unread despite sending face photos not how are you fancy a fuck etc as requested and only message those who I think I would be compatible with. Just to then read their next status claiming everyone is time waster and so and so didn't turn up!

And there are a lot of double standards on here too.

I'm not moaning just frustrated notwithstanding that this site is worse than crack I just can't give it up.....

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By *icentiousCouple over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I suspect that fab is, as it was, and now a great number of new (mainly males) bring a new set of values.

Things like text talk, social values, an insistence of instance gratification culture that doesn’t align to “old” fab.

Darwin isn’t wrong however memetics take development to a different level.

Damn the luddites, praise technology.

Balance is an odd thing.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman over a year ago

Thurrock

We 2 years into a pandemic, life has changed for so many it's natural the site will change too

I think saying people are stuck up will do you no favours, it makes you sound bitter & angry which will be an instant turn off for many

These days people are time poor & mentally drained so are probably only on here to engage with friends or when they are genuinely looking to meet

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By *uenevereWoman over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would say that Fab is still very much alive and kicking but as said by others, Covid has had an impact.

Things are often quiet at this time of year though.

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You’ll get the purists saying it’s not like it was. You’ll get the guys that thinks it’s instashag and can’t believe they aren’t knee deep in women.

If you use FAB the way it’s intended and use all the avenues available to meet people then you’ll meet more people and increase your chances.

Or you can moan about how it’s not like it used to be and blame everyone else…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab is dead, long live Fab!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so what did we learn ?? fab is great for those couples and women who have no problems but dead to most guys ... nothing new then

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By *sm265Woman over a year ago

Shangri-la

But that’s me, I’m aware that we all use Fab for different reasons and in different ways.

100% agree with this.

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By *pertureTV/TS over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Fab seems pretty much the same as its always been, loads of new people joined during lock downs and are probably intimidated/terrified in equal measure so no surprise there courage fails them regarding meets, and many are scared of covid so don't want to meet.

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