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Is It Just Paranoia

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ever get the feeling when either new couples or couples that have been on the site for over six months and no veris / pics mails you that they are not actualy couples but just fellas trying to get a sly shag or is it just my lack of trust in people lol just wondering how other people view this or am I just rambling lmao

P.S sorry for any spelling / gramma mistakes useing my phone

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple  over a year ago

South of Bath

We get this feeling not necessarily with new voupkes but certainly ones that have been here over a year with no veris.

We do give them a chance but ask for early phone or cam which seems to out the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We are always happy to give numbers..can cam etc but we get very little interest from couples..cant force them to meet us and gets frustrating when you get blocked when showing them ur face pics! Lol

So is it them that get insecure or is it us cus we are just fuglies? Lol

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple  over a year ago

South of Bath


"We are always happy to give numbers..can cam etc but we get very little interest from couples..cant force them to meet us and gets frustrating when you get blocked when showing them ur face pics! Lol

So is it them that get insecure or is it us cus we are just fuglies? Lol

"

Well you guys look amazing on your profile we'd like to meet you xxx

Pm us xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Is there a rule that says people have to get verified? or even meet other users? or interact with anyone at all?

No?

Good.

Just pass em by.

How others use the site is really no one else's business

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It is when they want to meet, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We are always happy to give numbers..can cam etc but we get very little interest from couples..cant force them to meet us and gets frustrating when you get blocked when showing them ur face pics! Lol

So is it them that get insecure or is it us cus we are just fuglies? Lol

"

You can never account for the funnyosities of other peoples behaviour

...and OP - like the last posting - how they do it is up to them. Don't concern yourself with it, just concentrate on those you get positive contact from.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We were once contacted by a Scottish "couple" with no verifications and the only pics were of, wonder of wonders, the guy......Yeah, that's what we thought too!

XXXX

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS  over a year ago

Cheadle

The only people that I trust are real people are the ones I have met at socials and clubs, if you're making arrangements to meet from a simple picture and a few words on a screen that could have been put on by anyone then you are increasing your chances of a no show by a lot, at the very least i would urge people to speak on the phone to both parties (if there are two), and try and arrange a non swinging social meet first, that usually sorts out the genuine frome the fakes for me, although even than I have been caight out. good luck, xxx

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By *abtechMan  over a year ago

BASILDON

Dya know im so glad fabs has a forum giving people the xhance to air these questions as its a mind of information. Iv had the experience of sending face pic after being asked for one and had the same thing happen as yourself and it does make you wonder why. I think theres been some good advice given and i will be taking that advice myself. Thanks for putting it across on here and asking and i hope you have lots of fun. L. ;n)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Despite having a few verifications we still get accused of being fake. Some people just don't take rejection very well.......

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple  over a year ago

South of Bath


"Despite having a few verifications we still get accused of being fake. Some people just don't take rejection very well....... "

Lol so have we

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

We find that quite a few single guys have problems uploading pictures, for some reason they can't get the hang of it . There's also the couples where the lady is in the shower every time you chat or just had to nip out unexpectedly lol. We always insist on a neutral venue, social meeting first it's not 100% foolproof but it helps.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We do tend to avoiid profiles on the site who have been members a long time, but have no meet verifications.

However, if they contact us we do think everyone should be given a chance so if they are willing to have a female to female only phonechat early on and a social meet is arranged, then great!

We do find that interest in us diminishes greatly though once we've stated that to the couple! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We were once contacted by a Scottish "couple" with no verifications and the only pics were of, wonder of wonders, the guy......Yeah, that's what we thought too!

XXXX"

That sounds familiar. We were contacted recently by a new couple who wrote extensively insiting they wanted to meet a few weekends ago.

Being aware of the t*ssers who pretend to be a couple we insited on a phone call to speak to both before confirming the meet.

Surprise, surprise communication stopped immediately & we were blocked. The "couple" concerned are still members!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there a rule that says people have to get verified? or even meet other users? or interact with anyone at all?

No?

Good.

Just pass em by.

How others use the site is really no one else's business"

Quite agree, at the moment I'm just using it for the forums after a very active few years!

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