Yes. I'm very open about wanting a good amount of chat to see whether it's worth meeting up, whether we're looking for anything like the same thing.
I get that's not for everyone, but I won't be talked around just because someone else is horny right then, it just gets irritating. |
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It's not a total no, no that people are keen to add us as freinds before we are comfortable with them. We simply just don't add them (unless futher down to road they actually get to that base). But it does irk us a bit and a freinds request from people we've not even interacted with is not likely going to go anywhere. |
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over a year ago
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Yes, I don't accept friend invites that quickly and if someone asks to meet me that quickly, it makes me think they must be desperate and that they must be a 'any hole is a goal' type of person. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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Some get this site mixed up with the face thing book. If an invite is sent without speaking it mostly ends in a block, if it is during chat we point out we only accept if we are arranging to meet. Asking to meet after a few messages is not a problem but the time and date wouldn't be set till we had chatted and as someone above has said it's all about getting the feel if they are genuine. Far to many picture collectors on this crazy site. Such a shame all the crazies have put us genuine folk on the back foot   |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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I'm not meeting at min, but when I am,i make it clear I chat till I'm comfortable and then would meet socially.
It annoys me when people also send a friend invite and wink too. "
Haha, a friend invite AND a wink just shows us they haven't read our profile, so a definite block |
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"is anyone else put off when folk try to add you after two or three mesages or want to meet at that stage as well. "
I don’t like the instant friend invites I receive, particularly if there’s been no chatting at all beforehand, I do like to be asked first lol! Wanting to meet at any point is fine with me, but if they seem really keen I’ll ask for a phone chat, as that sorts the time wasters from the genuine people very quickly   |
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Random friends request with any messages just say picture collector to me.
It annoys me how some think it's a it a 'sex' site send a couple of messages and then expect to meet immediately! |
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"Random friends request with any messages just say picture collector to me.
It annoys me how some think it's a it a 'sex' site send a couple of messages and then expect to meet immediately!"
Very much agree. I can ignore friend requests mostly and when challenged about not accepting i have my reasons ready. ‘When are you free’ annoys me though….when that is said too early on i clam up. Suppose people just make assumptions as its a ‘sex site’ youre trawling for sex asap. |
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