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Vent warning....
Had a meet planned today for my wifes first group bukakke meet.
Last week we had a list of 5/6 people that was going to turn up.
From that list,
1 hurt his back pushing a car,
1 got the cold,
1 had to take his wife to Devon,
1 decided to change his mind as he "wanted full sex or I am not going to turn up" even though we told him it will be soft swing and bukakke and he confirmed it was ok several times...and he said he wasn't pushy ..lol
1 said he was ok with pics and filming several times until the last moment then decided no pics.
So from 5/6 people we ended up with 1 person so had to cancel the meet for this morning.
Why dont people read the profile before agreeing to something and why waste peoples time?
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over a year ago
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We would have still let the one guy who didn't let us down to come have some fun anyway lol  
Unfortunately being let down seems to be a trend on here. Some of the excuses are funny though  |
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"We would have still let the one guy who didn't let us down to come have some fun anyway lol
Unfortunately being let down seems to be a trend on here. Some of the excuses are funny though "
Was tempted to invite that 1 guy down but we really wanted a bukakke meet.
That guy will be first on our list next time.
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"Vent warning....
Had a meet planned today for my wifes first group bukakke meet.
Last week we had a list of 5/6 people that was going to turn up.
From that list,
1 hurt his back pushing a car,
1 got the cold,
1 had to take his wife to Devon,
1 decided to change his mind as he "wanted full sex or I am not going to turn up" even though we told him it will be soft swing and bukakke and he confirmed it was ok several times...and he said he wasn't pushy ..lol
1 said he was ok with pics and filming several times until the last moment then decided no pics.
So from 5/6 people we ended up with 1 person so had to cancel the meet for this morning.
Why dont people read the profile before agreeing to something and why waste peoples time?
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You might expect to lose a couple out of that but 5 of the 6 is just getting crazy
I pity the poor guy who was ready to come and now thinks that this site is a waste of time, (or more of a waste than he thought it was)
Maybe you need to invite double that to get an attendance
Who knows, good luck if you try again |
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"If you go to a club there'll be loads of guys already there, especially on a Greedy Girls night. You can take your pick."
Yeah I thought this kind of stuff happens alot in clubs? (Not that i ever been, only heard about) as there's too many dreamers and non swinging types online. Even for single women on here, we get let down constantly by dreamers.  |
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I had something similar, many years ago. A couple arranged a gangbang, 5 guys, hubby and wife. Only me, hubby and wife. were there. We laughed at the failure of the penis half of the site and turned into a hot threesome instead. Don't lose hope, and remember, one guy was still up for it!  |
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over a year ago
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its very well know that any group meet need to be over invited ie if you want 5 guys invite 15 to 20 guys and stick to guys who have veris of these types of meets guys who atten these types of meets are normally mostly guys who attened these sorts of meets ...there are loads on here with group meeting veris |
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"wish id seen this meet, would have deff been there
good luck for next time, please remember not everyone is a time waster on here"
I hate this when I see this, or they message after saying, let me know for next time.
We normally give plenty of notice before hand. Take whats on offer when it's offered. No point offering after the fact. |
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Our latest excuse for someone not turning up was his car had an MOT in 3 days. Bare in mind he was already on his way then turned around. Site is full of people who talk the talk but can't walk the walk. |
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"If you go to a club there'll be loads of guys already there, especially on a Greedy Girls night. You can take your pick.
And she can have the “walk of shame” to round the club lol     "
Why would there ever be a 'walk of shame'
Do you think it's shameful? |
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"Vent warning....
Had a meet planned today for my wifes first group bukakke meet.
Last week we had a list of 5/6 people that was going to turn up.
From that list,
1 hurt his back pushing a car,
1 got the cold,
1 had to take his wife to Devon,
1 decided to change his mind as he "wanted full sex or I am not going to turn up" even though we told him it will be soft swing and bukakke and he confirmed it was ok several times...and he said he wasn't pushy ..lol
1 said he was ok with pics and filming several times until the last moment then decided no pics.
So from 5/6 people we ended up with 1 person so had to cancel the meet for this morning.
Why dont people read the profile before agreeing to something and why waste peoples time?
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Goes with the territory im afraid, arranged a ladies weekend couple years ago in beach house. Lots said they would, but close to the time, excuses started only 2 turned up with FBs in tow. But thats fine they all enjoyed but i dont get involved anymore with this kind of thing |
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"I wonder if the guy who was coming will start a thread about timewasting couples ?"
I was thinking the same, he's probably thinking you guys have messed him about too, I know it's not what was planned but I'd have definitely still met the one guy
I've been in i similar situation had some group fun arranged at a hotel only 2 out of 4 turned up
Arranged another a few weeks in advance, had 7 guys confirmed fully expecting a few to drop out by the day all 7 had cancelled not only leaving me distracted but out of pocket too as I had paid for a hotel that I no longer needed |
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Well Mr D went to a meet last week,very tired and with a slightly dodgy tummy but he went and performed adequately but not at his best (or so he said!). Tbh he wasnt up for it / up to it because it was an hour's drive in the dark (he hates driving in the dark). But I gather the couple were very keen to meet and he didn't want to let anyone down. He felt crying off with 'a belly ache' was a bit weak lol. Some guys will go through hell and high water to keep a date but maybe because we been let down before he knows how shit it feels |
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"So many single guys out there waste People’s time.
Gives us genuine guys a bad name.
If I say I am turning up, then I turn up.
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No they don’t give you a bad name, actually the opposite as you stand out more. I hate this line as it’s just an excuse and a way to blame others  |
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lol, our local club will help to arrange it with men they know will turn up and can proform 
