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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When guys get abusive what do they hope to achieve, if anything we feel it’s them hoping for a ban, anyone understand the male mentality on here, not all single guys most are pretty cool just some are dicks unfortunately
S & K |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
well ANYONE that gets abusive online.
It makes them feel better and they hope it makes you feel worse so they can feel like they’ve won a little battle.
Generally they’re arseholes. It makes me laugh.
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"When guys get abusive what do they hope to achieve, if anything we feel it’s them hoping for a ban, anyone understand the male mentality on here, not all single guys most are pretty cool just some are dicks unfortunately
S & K"
Abuse isn't right in any context or place but these people seem to think it is their right to say and do what they want, eh no.
The probably think it makes them 'macho', give me a break, it makes them pathetic.
You won't get them reading the forums as they are semi literate at best and won't understand the discussions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When guys get abusive what do they hope to achieve, if anything we feel it’s them hoping for a ban, anyone understand the male mentality on here, not all single guys most are pretty cool just some are dicks unfortunately
S & K"
I've been absused on here for my size, it's terrible and dents confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bruised egos overall. They've probably never been rejected or get rejected so much they just hate that yet another woman has turned him down. It gets to me sometimes but I'd never abuse a woman on here or in person. What is there to gain? Everyone has their preferences. I seem to be nobodys on here but here I am. Still here not abusing people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When guys get abusive what do they hope to achieve, if anything we feel it’s them hoping for a ban, anyone understand the male mentality on here, not all single guys most are pretty cool just some are dicks unfortunately
S & K
Abuse isn't right in any context or place but these people seem to think it is their right to say and do what they want, eh no.
The probably think it makes them 'macho', give me a break, it makes them pathetic.
You won't get them reading the forums as they are semi literate at best and won't understand the discussions. "
Lmfao that is true he is one of them “fab straight” guys who’s veris are from men and tv/ts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't understand their thinking. It's just too childish it's having a tantrum and throwing their teddies out of the pram.
Absolutely no need for it.
Please don't think that all men are the same though as we're not and I for one would never give out abuse just for a rejection. Doing so is just pathetic |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"When guys get abusive what do they hope to achieve, if anything we feel it’s them hoping for a ban, anyone understand the male mentality on here, not all single guys most are pretty cool just some are dicks unfortunately
S & K
Abuse isn't right in any context or place but these people seem to think it is their right to say and do what they want, eh no.
The probably think it makes them 'macho', give me a break, it makes them pathetic.
You won't get them reading the forums as they are semi literate at best and won't understand the discussions.
Lmfao that is true he is one of them “fab straight” guys who’s veris are from men and tv/ts "
Neither is it cool to mock someone else for the very same reasons. Even if they’ve been a dick to you. What they do is up to them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bruised egos overall. They've probably never been rejected or get rejected so much they just hate that yet another woman has turned him down. It gets to me sometimes but I'd never abuse a woman on here or in person. What is there to gain? Everyone has their preferences. I seem to be nobodys on here but here I am. Still here not abusing people "
Everyone has that someone somewhere, wife and I met online believe it or not, don’t let the rejection get to you the right person/people will come along and good things come to those who wait |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We would say 99% of folk on here are great people and we never discriminate against anyone but sick of the odd ones who just get angry and rude when there is no need! We understand the frustration of guys getting rejected it’s just the whole experience gets ruined and puts us off single guys because one dick has gave us a sour taste in our mouths. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bruised egos overall. They've probably never been rejected or get rejected so much they just hate that yet another woman has turned him down. It gets to me sometimes but I'd never abuse a woman on here or in person. What is there to gain? Everyone has their preferences. I seem to be nobodys on here but here I am. Still here not abusing people
Everyone has that someone somewhere, wife and I met online believe it or not, don’t let the rejection get to you the right person/people will come along and good things come to those who wait"
I wouldn't say the rejection gets to me. It's just when you reach out to maybe 10 people in a day and not a single one actually responds.
I've been waiting for her to come along for a long time now haha. A fwbs would be amazing but that's more of a pipe dream than reality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We would say 99% of folk on here are great people and we never discriminate against anyone but sick of the odd ones who just get angry and rude when there is no need! We understand the frustration of guys getting rejected it’s just the whole experience gets ruined and puts us off single guys because one dick has gave us a sour taste in our mouths."
I have also heard that men that are big expect a meet no matter what cause they're big. Not saying all of them. But I have heard it too many times to not notice |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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It's not just men who give abuse on here women and couples give just as much unwarranted abuse a lot of times that seems to be forgotten tho.
Why they do,well who knows but it's unnecessary and childish behaviour. I just block and move on and forget about them at the beginning it bothered me now I don't care what some person I'll never meet says . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get abuse a lot mainly from couples and females"
same here but to be honnest i just reply with a love you too then laugh when they then go on a mega rant. Hahaha
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"We would say 99% of folk on here are great people and we never discriminate against anyone but sick of the odd ones who just get angry and rude when there is no need! We understand the frustration of guys getting rejected it’s just the whole experience gets ruined and puts us off single guys because one dick has gave us a sour taste in our mouths."
It sounds to me that you need to protect your wife a little better.
When you reject them, block them too.
And if it's initial messages that upset your wife, perhaps you should suggest that all messages are read by you first. Then you only show her the messages of interest. Your fab experience is easily controlled.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When guys get abusive what do they hope to achieve, if anything we feel it’s them hoping for a ban, anyone understand the male mentality on here, not all single guys most are pretty cool just some are dicks unfortunately
S & K"
I agree with you statements and spend the first time mins of each log in blocking people!! This site needs a lot more moderation, people need to report messages etc more as well as blocking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I OP - "block button rules"
But trust me us men get lots of abuse from women and couples as well
Us bi men get masses of abuse if we dare contact someone
Us Bi Married men - pretty well get strung up our balls on a daily basis lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When guys get abusive what do they hope to achieve, if anything we feel it’s them hoping for a ban, anyone understand the male mentality on here, not all single guys most are pretty cool just some are dicks unfortunately
S & K
Abuse isn't right in any context or place but these people seem to think it is their right to say and do what they want, eh no.
The probably think it makes them 'macho', give me a break, it makes them pathetic.
You won't get them reading the forums as they are semi literate at best and won't understand the discussions. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Publicly shame them! Share their profile name and quote their words in your status update...
Think of it as performing a public service for the community!"
It's against site rules to do that. |
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Before. I just blocked em. 