FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Male toys (whip, butt plug, others?)

Male toys (whip, butt plug, others?)

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This is my first forum post ...

.. and being home alone, I have had some thoughts about what toys I like - either when alone, or playing with a partner.

First of all, lube is a nice thing - rubbing it on yourself, and warming it up - or having someone else doing it.

Also find a whip very pleasing .. either gentle strokes all over the body, or hits to the back-side.

But most of all, I have been very surprised to find out what wonders a butt plug can do to your orgasm.

Have anyone else had any experiences with butt plugs? And find they intensify your orgasms? The fantastic thing about using a butt plug is the diversity really .. it can be used when you are alone, but also when you're playing ..

.. there aren't many bigger turn ons than feeling another person playing with your bottom, applying lube .. teasing ..

.. then slowly letting the butt plug enter your tight hole, and playing with your balls, cock .. It makes me harder than hard .. and as previously mentioned enhances the orgasms massively.

Any other people who have experiences with butt plugs, dildos or other toys? As men?

Do women/men find male use of butt plugs odd/gross or perfectly acceptable?

In the earlier days (maybe still today) a person would be considered gay if they liked putting things up their behinds .. is that still the case, or has it become more mainstream?

I can only myself suggest that if you're open to the idea - I can most certainly promise you a fantastic orgasm ..

.. do make sure to take your time and use lube though - but it's worth it!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I think its horses for courses....just dont use eye liner cases.....butt plugs are great....although im not keen on lube...i like the pleasure pain thing....welcome to the forums xxxx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *upitersmileCouple over a year ago

Manchester

Chickens, ducks, geese and biros are all fair game though

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"welcome to the forums xxxx

Thank you very much

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Chickens, ducks, geese and biros are all fair game though

"
you forgot the cocks

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Putting chickens up your arse is just fowl....

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think its horses for courses....just dont use eye liner cases.....butt plugs are great....although im not keen on lube...i like the pleasure pain thing....welcome to the forums xxxx

Or a chicken wearing eyeliner

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I was hoping for more replies - in all fairness I doubt I am the only one playing with toys .. as a man

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *uby In StockingsTV/TS over a year ago

Cheadle

I am also surprised that you haven't had more men post about the benefits of using a butt plug, maybe they are all just shy, or worried they might be seen as "less of a man" if they like things shoved up their ass???

hugz anyway, xxx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think after 50 shades that most things have become more mainstream

I like my butt plug mainly because it tightens the vaginal passage but it does more for my fb than me!

He finds things up his arse a huge turn on but is a dinosaur and winces when I stick my finger up him

Just do whatever feels good and worry less about what people think

And read a previous post yesterday about the eyeliner up the arse - pmsl

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Most of the guys I have met (straight or bi) love having fingers, tongues and toys in their arse...of course, it's only polite to oblige

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *G LanaTV/TS over a year ago

Gosport

Personally I don't find standard butt plug make that much difference but love more shaped toys designed for prostate stimulation ardent great.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *i de BiCouple over a year ago

Leicester

The only male sex toy i can recommend is the flesh light .Since you appear to have the butt plug already.why not invest in one of those .

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have tried anal beads and it was fucking awesome lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr m does like his toys...just earlier today I popped on over for a quickie and the butt plug was a good play thing.

You don't have to be gay to enjoy these things in my opinion!!!

X welcome fellow newbie

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ah, nice to see it's not just me finding pleasure in "alternative" ways ..

.. and yes, I was considering getting a toy better for the g-spot than an ordinary butt plug,

might also have to give beads/fleshlight a try eventually.

All the best, and thank you for your posts

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *G LanaTV/TS over a year ago

Gosport

As someone who has experimented with E-Stim I did get an email with a tempting new product which consists of a silicone rubber prostate "massager" but incorporating conductive rubber contacts for additional prostate stimulation. If l wasnt skint like everyone else I would probably buy one.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *etitesaraTV/TS over a year ago

rochdale

I've just ordered a 'big boy' prostate massager from LoveHoney - i'll let you know how i get on

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *cinterMan over a year ago

Guildford

I have the naughty boy, a slightly slimmer variant and you are in for a good time

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have the naughty boy, a slightly slimmer variant and you are in for a good time

I also have this toy and we can use it on each other xx

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ick111Man over a year ago

Swindon

I have used toys before and have just bought a nice 9 inch vibrator for my mrs to use on me. Not to thick but touches the spot

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've just ordered a 'big boy' prostate massager from LoveHoney - i'll let you know how i get on

I bought the naughty boy too as I'm 'open' to this sort of thing, lol, but couldn't seem to find the spot to give myself the pleasure it promises

If anyone has any tips/ideas/thoughts that could help me release its, and my potential I'd be glad to hear them! (maybe I should start my own thread on this?)

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've just ordered a 'big boy' prostate massager from LoveHoney - i'll let you know how i get on

I bought the naughty boy too as I'm 'open' to this sort of thing, lol, but couldn't seem to find the spot to give myself the pleasure it promises

If anyone has any tips/ideas/thoughts that could help me release its, and my potential I'd be glad to hear them! (maybe I should start my own thread on this?)"
...iv got the best toy ever..MY WIFE

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"iv got the best toy ever..MY WIFE

Great reply, very useful

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My mrs uses toys snd strapon makes me cum loads more

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *G LanaTV/TS over a year ago

Gosport

Good luck with the Rocks Off toys. I have both the bad boy and the big boy and whilst their both well well made and fairly powerful I havent really gelled with either as I find I manage to expel them which kind off defeats my plans on hands free play.

Despite some of its reviews being quiet critical, especially regarded the thick base, I find the Nexus Revo far more enjoyable especially when use in rotation only mode.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually find a women inserting a finger at the right time or gently rubbing the hole whilst I'm fucking her incredibly arousing - I also think some of the most amazing orgasms I've had, have been whilst something was stuck up my ass ...they seem to last a lot longer and be more 'powerful' ...

Does that make me gay? I don't think so - I'm not sexually attracted to men, nor do I want romantic relationships with them, so how could I be? But it does make me open-minded to way in which I can enhance my sexual pleasure (and hers for that matter)

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a masturbater were it has a fake pussy in front an other side a slack arse hole i love it when some one else wanks me off with it but really makes it intresting than just haveing a lonly wank with ur hand cost me onli around 6 pound and was a great investment. They provided lube with it wich was awsome baby oil works the same but i found lube is much better as oil tends to dry out after a while.. I have a penis pump wich we all know only makes it bigger fr an hour or so but after being pumped then having sex makes me last longer an such a great feeling to it.. As for anal most iv had is a dildo put up there.. Wich was nice but seriously take ur time an dont just ram it in lol. Try a butt plug an a fake vagina

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

didnt like the rocks off stuff. I still havent found anything that good for prostate stimulation.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"didnt like the rocks off stuff. I still havent found anything that good for prostate stimulation."
quote me lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a masturbater were it has a fake pussy in front an other side a slack arse hole i love it when some one else wanks me off with it but really makes it intresting than just haveing a lonly wank with ur hand cost me onli around 6 pound and was a great investment. They provided lube with it wich was awsome baby oil works the same but i found lube is much better as oil tends to dry out after a while.. I have a penis pump wich we all know only makes it bigger fr an hour or so but after being pumped then having sex makes me last longer an such a great feeling to it.. As for anal most iv had is a dildo put up there.. Wich was nice but seriously take ur time an dont just ram it in lol. Try a butt plug an a fake vagina"
Sorry ment for this one. Quote me lol

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *G LanaTV/TS over a year ago

Gosport

"didnt like the rocks off stuff. I still havent found anything that good for prostate stimulation."

I had to try a lot to find something which worked reliably for me. Unfortunately others a lot of variation in human anatomy so not everything will work for everyone. I know a lot of people find Onerous products work well and some occasions they work well for me put they are a bit to intermittent for me. I had most success with the Vice (original) but find I lose sensitivity too quickly when the vibrator was running. I have subsequently tried the Revo from Nexus, which has a similar shape on the interest part to the Vice, and find its rotating motion works better for me.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A lot of interesting suggestions ..

.. I'd be poor before I have tried everything out, I think

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *arkstaffsMan over a year ago

Rugeley

Arse plugs do feel good when you find the right one. A hard spanking with a paddle stings nicely too!

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My oh has used a butt plug on me. She was controlling me at the time. I loved it and came like a trooper. Who knows we might make thestrap on one day.

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The strap on, was also my thought of the next step ..

.. as I, like you really enjoyed the plug

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think its horses for courses....just dont use eye liner cases.....butt plugs are great....although im not keen on lube...i like the pleasure pain thing

I love you lol"

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"My oh has used a butt plug on me. She was controlling me at the time. I loved it and came like a trooper. Who knows we might make thestrap on one day. "

No might about it sweetie x x

Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote or View forums list

» Add a new message to this topic